Codependency Therapists in London, ON

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The Psychotherapy Spot
Registered Psychotherapist, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6B  (Online Only)
My area of expertise include life transitions, early childhood abandonment anxiety, codependency, autism, BPD, ADHD, perfectionism, self esteem and boundary issues, that result from a difficult childhood.
Do you struggle with chronic feelings of emptiness, the fear of abandonment, unstable relationships, a lack of knowing who you are at your core due to a distorted sense of self image and identity, emotional mood swings, social isolation, perfectionistic tendencies, procrastination, social anxiety and the effects of complex post traumatic stress? The effects of these struggles can result in anxiety, issues in relationships with yourself and others, job insecurity, and/or low self-worth. If you answered yes to any of the questions above, please know that you are not alone, and that I am trained to offer you support as a therapist.
My area of expertise include life transitions, early childhood abandonment anxiety, codependency, autism, BPD, ADHD, perfectionism, self esteem and boundary issues, that result from a difficult childhood.
Do you struggle with chronic feelings of emptiness, the fear of abandonment, unstable relationships, a lack of knowing who you are at your core due to a distorted sense of self image and identity, emotional mood swings, social isolation, perfectionistic tendencies, procrastination, social anxiety and the effects of complex post traumatic stress? The effects of these struggles can result in anxiety, issues in relationships with yourself and others, job insecurity, and/or low self-worth. If you answered yes to any of the questions above, please know that you are not alone, and that I am trained to offer you support as a therapist.
(548) 800-1671 View (548) 800-1671
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Shelby Hope
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
London, ON N6G
My person-centered approach aims to help you understand yourself on a deeper level, shift perspectives, set healthy boundaries, work through past trauma, increase confidence & trust in yourself and break unhealthy patterns. I work with individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress, low self-esteem, perfectionism, people pleasing, codependency, childhood trauma, grief and relationship concerns. I provide a comfortable, approachable and safe space for you to open up and feel heard.
My person-centered approach aims to help you understand yourself on a deeper level, shift perspectives, set healthy boundaries, work through past trauma, increase confidence & trust in yourself and break unhealthy patterns. I work with individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress, low self-esteem, perfectionism, people pleasing, codependency, childhood trauma, grief and relationship concerns. I provide a comfortable, approachable and safe space for you to open up and feel heard.
(548) 483-5551 View (548) 483-5551
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Ian Sommer
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, CCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
London, ON N5V  (Online Only)
Many people who seek my services come with issues of: depression and anxiety, addiction, grief and loss, issues with partners, family members and friends, codependency and boundaries, anger management, men's issues, trauma, suicidal thoughts, court mandated counselling and other issues which can make life difficult to manage.
My main role as your counsellor is to support you through difficult times and challenges, while helping you achieve optimal psychological and emotional health. I am comfortable with people of all cultures, orientations and spiritual and/or religious backgrounds. Certified by the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario, I provide services using a client-centred, integrative approach, weaving together various methods to suit your unique needs. I enjoy working collaboratively with you in a non-judgmental way, embracing your strengths, unique characteristics, values, and insights.
Many people who seek my services come with issues of: depression and anxiety, addiction, grief and loss, issues with partners, family members and friends, codependency and boundaries, anger management, men's issues, trauma, suicidal thoughts, court mandated counselling and other issues which can make life difficult to manage.
My main role as your counsellor is to support you through difficult times and challenges, while helping you achieve optimal psychological and emotional health. I am comfortable with people of all cultures, orientations and spiritual and/or religious backgrounds. Certified by the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario, I provide services using a client-centred, integrative approach, weaving together various methods to suit your unique needs. I enjoy working collaboratively with you in a non-judgmental way, embracing your strengths, unique characteristics, values, and insights.
(226) 212-7567 View (226) 212-7567
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Chelsea Gay
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, BA, TITC-CT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
I love supporting individuals experiencing symptoms from trauma, mood disorders, anxiety disorders, codependency, and low self-worth/self-esteem. We will explore how the previous experiences you've encountered and the relationships you have had in your life impact the way we view ourselves and interact with the world around us. I like to use a variety of tools to aid in symptom management while also working with the root cause. My practice is trauma-informed and attachment-focused.
I love supporting individuals experiencing symptoms from trauma, mood disorders, anxiety disorders, codependency, and low self-worth/self-esteem. We will explore how the previous experiences you've encountered and the relationships you have had in your life impact the way we view ourselves and interact with the world around us. I like to use a variety of tools to aid in symptom management while also working with the root cause. My practice is trauma-informed and attachment-focused.
(548) 457-2074 View (548) 457-2074
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Molly Heffernan
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
Hi there, I'm Molly! I help all kinds of humans (18+) navigate the ups and downs of life. Often, my clients are struggling with depression, anxiety, difficulties within relationships (like conflict, codependency, and people pleasing), and difficulties measuring up to the rigid and unrealistic expectations of the world we live in (leaving them with a deep sense of shame and unworthiness). Simply existing as a human can be really hard somedays, let alone doing all of the things that come with human-ing.
Hi there, I'm Molly! I help all kinds of humans (18+) navigate the ups and downs of life. Often, my clients are struggling with depression, anxiety, difficulties within relationships (like conflict, codependency, and people pleasing), and difficulties measuring up to the rigid and unrealistic expectations of the world we live in (leaving them with a deep sense of shame and unworthiness). Simply existing as a human can be really hard somedays, let alone doing all of the things that come with human-ing.
(226) 779-4493 View (226) 779-4493
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Sarah B Montes
Drug & Alcohol Counsellor, CCAC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London, ON N6B  (Online Only)
As an Addiction/Recovery Counsellor and in active recovery, Sarah utilizes her personal and professional experiences to guide clients. Sarah’s varied background in youth, family, and addiction programming, provides the perfect foundation for Recovery Counselling. Sarah also offers family & friends coaching to provide support to those impacted by a loved ones addiction. Sarah understands addiction impacts the whole family and will provide a wholistic approach including psycho education and tools for communication, boundaries and self connection.
As an Addiction/Recovery Counsellor and in active recovery, Sarah utilizes her personal and professional experiences to guide clients. Sarah’s varied background in youth, family, and addiction programming, provides the perfect foundation for Recovery Counselling. Sarah also offers family & friends coaching to provide support to those impacted by a loved ones addiction. Sarah understands addiction impacts the whole family and will provide a wholistic approach including psycho education and tools for communication, boundaries and self connection.
(226) 210-0467 View (226) 210-0467
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Sheila Dawn Larocque
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
Do you ever notice feelings of unhappiness, insecurity, or resentment in your relationships? Do you feel overwhelmed with responsibilities? And underwhelmed with life? You want to feel grateful for what you have. You want to make yourself a priority, but somehow what you want is overlooked. You are not alone. Managing self-care, the dynamics of relationships, parenting, and a professional life can easily feel out of balance. Add medical stress, a child with special needs, co-parenting challenges, and/or workplace stress. Perhaps you notice feelings of anxiety, fear, perfectionism, or repetitive patterns that you long to change.
Do you ever notice feelings of unhappiness, insecurity, or resentment in your relationships? Do you feel overwhelmed with responsibilities? And underwhelmed with life? You want to feel grateful for what you have. You want to make yourself a priority, but somehow what you want is overlooked. You are not alone. Managing self-care, the dynamics of relationships, parenting, and a professional life can easily feel out of balance. Add medical stress, a child with special needs, co-parenting challenges, and/or workplace stress. Perhaps you notice feelings of anxiety, fear, perfectionism, or repetitive patterns that you long to change.
(226) 829-5447 View (226) 829-5447
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Rachel Koetsier
RP, MDiv
Verified Verified
London, ON N5V
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome to my virtual space, I'm glad you stopped by. I know it can be daunting to consider going to therapy. Maybe you're feeling stuck, scared, or lonely. Or, you're wanting freedom and relief from symptoms of anxiety or depression. Maybe an important relationship has broken down and you aren't sure how to trust anymore. Perhaps you're grieving the loss of a special person, or season in your life. I'm here to help. It is my mission to create a safe place for all clients. I am excited to be able to offer online counselling, which gives you the freedom to be able to have a counselling session from the comfort of your own home.
Welcome to my virtual space, I'm glad you stopped by. I know it can be daunting to consider going to therapy. Maybe you're feeling stuck, scared, or lonely. Or, you're wanting freedom and relief from symptoms of anxiety or depression. Maybe an important relationship has broken down and you aren't sure how to trust anymore. Perhaps you're grieving the loss of a special person, or season in your life. I'm here to help. It is my mission to create a safe place for all clients. I am excited to be able to offer online counselling, which gives you the freedom to be able to have a counselling session from the comfort of your own home.
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Sheree Henry - DeLeigh Services Inc
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP, RP (Q)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6G  (Online Only)
Do you feel disconnected from yourself or others, or lack the energy to manage your daily tasks? Does the idea of facing new challenges cause anxiety, making it difficult to set or pursue new goals? If past trauma is making it feel impossible to move forward, you're not alone. Whether you're dealing with trauma, anxiety, stress, depression, or feelings of shame and low self-esteem, you don’t have to remain in this pattern. We can work together to quiet the negative inner voice, helping you manage your emotions and take back control of your life. I am a warm, compassionate, culturally responsive Registered Psychotherapist whose goal
Do you feel disconnected from yourself or others, or lack the energy to manage your daily tasks? Does the idea of facing new challenges cause anxiety, making it difficult to set or pursue new goals? If past trauma is making it feel impossible to move forward, you're not alone. Whether you're dealing with trauma, anxiety, stress, depression, or feelings of shame and low self-esteem, you don’t have to remain in this pattern. We can work together to quiet the negative inner voice, helping you manage your emotions and take back control of your life. I am a warm, compassionate, culturally responsive Registered Psychotherapist whose goal
(226) 605-0539 View (226) 605-0539
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Ashley Glassco
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
Hello! I'm Ashley, a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)! My passion lies in providing support and guidance to help individuals and couples navigate the various challenges and transitions life throws our way. I specialize in working with clients dealing with a wide range of issues, including but not limited to anxiety, worry, panic attacks, and social anxiety. I'm here to offer assistance to those who feel overwhelmed by the demands of their daily lives. Life is full of transitions, and I am dedicated to aiding individuals in successfully adapting to these significant changes. I currently work with individuals, aged 18 and up.
Hello! I'm Ashley, a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)! My passion lies in providing support and guidance to help individuals and couples navigate the various challenges and transitions life throws our way. I specialize in working with clients dealing with a wide range of issues, including but not limited to anxiety, worry, panic attacks, and social anxiety. I'm here to offer assistance to those who feel overwhelmed by the demands of their daily lives. Life is full of transitions, and I am dedicated to aiding individuals in successfully adapting to these significant changes. I currently work with individuals, aged 18 and up.
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April Jendrosch
Registered Psychotherapist, MEd, RP, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
I am a Registered Psychotherapist with 11 years of experience providing counselling, training, and group therapy to a diverse adult population. During this time I have witnessed how difficult, and yet relieving, it can be to take those first steps to seek help. I've seen the suffering that comes from unexpected and challenging situations life presents us and how holding onto hope makes it possible to foster change. As your therapist I will provide a warm, authentic, and encouraging space to be curious about what is causing you to suffer and work to find ways to help you live a more meaningful and rich life.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist with 11 years of experience providing counselling, training, and group therapy to a diverse adult population. During this time I have witnessed how difficult, and yet relieving, it can be to take those first steps to seek help. I've seen the suffering that comes from unexpected and challenging situations life presents us and how holding onto hope makes it possible to foster change. As your therapist I will provide a warm, authentic, and encouraging space to be curious about what is causing you to suffer and work to find ways to help you live a more meaningful and rich life.
(226) 582-0758 View (226) 582-0758
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Martha Elliott
Registered Social Worker, MA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6B  (Online Only)
am a Registered Social Worker through the Ontario College of Social Work offering online psychotherapy services to adolescents and adults 13 years and older. I am experienced in working with youth and young adults struggling with emotional dysregulation, self-harm and suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety, self-criticism, grief and loss, and relationship difficulties. My therapeutic approach includes Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Mindful Self-Compassion, Polyvagal Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and is informed by a feminist, anti-oppressive, and LGBTQA+ affirming theories.
am a Registered Social Worker through the Ontario College of Social Work offering online psychotherapy services to adolescents and adults 13 years and older. I am experienced in working with youth and young adults struggling with emotional dysregulation, self-harm and suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety, self-criticism, grief and loss, and relationship difficulties. My therapeutic approach includes Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Mindful Self-Compassion, Polyvagal Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and is informed by a feminist, anti-oppressive, and LGBTQA+ affirming theories.
(226) 242-0752 View (226) 242-0752
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Christina deBoer Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, MDiv, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London, ON N6E  (Online Only)
I am honoured to work with you on your journey to find healing, resolution, and strength in those places we get stuck sometimes. I specialize in helping individuals, with past trauma (abuse, PTSD), relationship issues (parenting, couples), mental health (stress, anxiety, depression, etc), and life transitions. I specialize in tailoring counselling to meet you where you're at.
I am honoured to work with you on your journey to find healing, resolution, and strength in those places we get stuck sometimes. I specialize in helping individuals, with past trauma (abuse, PTSD), relationship issues (parenting, couples), mental health (stress, anxiety, depression, etc), and life transitions. I specialize in tailoring counselling to meet you where you're at.
(226) 605-6550 View (226) 605-6550
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Cailin O'Rourke
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, BA, MA
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
London, ON N6E  (Online Only)
I know it can sometimes feel like life is too overwhelming and that your thoughts, feelings, or symptoms just feel like they are taking over your life. I understand the negative impact these challenges can have and am here to help you learn to manage these difficulties by helping you gain insight into yourself and your experiences, and help you to develop new ways of coping so you can live a happy and fulfilling life. I believe that you are the expert in your own life and that therapy should be a collaborative process. I utilize an eclectic approach drawing from many evidence-based therapies to tailor treatment to your unique needs.
I know it can sometimes feel like life is too overwhelming and that your thoughts, feelings, or symptoms just feel like they are taking over your life. I understand the negative impact these challenges can have and am here to help you learn to manage these difficulties by helping you gain insight into yourself and your experiences, and help you to develop new ways of coping so you can live a happy and fulfilling life. I believe that you are the expert in your own life and that therapy should be a collaborative process. I utilize an eclectic approach drawing from many evidence-based therapies to tailor treatment to your unique needs.
(226) 778-3253 View (226) 778-3253
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Jennifer Schofield
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
London, ON N6J  (Online Only)
Talking about it is not always easy. Counselling can help to make sense of what you are going through and how to move forward towards realizing your own potential. I provide counselling for individuals and couples as they deal with issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, anger management, interpersonal relationships, and stress. In every crisis there is opportunity for growth and I am here to help you find it.
Talking about it is not always easy. Counselling can help to make sense of what you are going through and how to move forward towards realizing your own potential. I provide counselling for individuals and couples as they deal with issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, anger management, interpersonal relationships, and stress. In every crisis there is opportunity for growth and I am here to help you find it.
(647) 694-4173 View (647) 694-4173
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Dr. Jo-Ann Leavey TelePsychology Virtual Clinic
Psychologist, NP, EdD, C Psych, LLD hc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6H  (Online Only)
Focusing on the person, mental health, and wellness, Leavey TelePsychology Clinic provides psychological counselling services for preteens to seniors. Specialties include emerging mental health problems, adult ADHD assessments, general life challenges, stressful school, home, community, relationship, workplace, and traumatic circumstances; and behavioural problems interfering with life function. Services are provided through 1:1, couples, family, and group therapy. Patients are seen through the Ontario TeleMedicine Network (OTN), a virtual platform.
Focusing on the person, mental health, and wellness, Leavey TelePsychology Clinic provides psychological counselling services for preteens to seniors. Specialties include emerging mental health problems, adult ADHD assessments, general life challenges, stressful school, home, community, relationship, workplace, and traumatic circumstances; and behavioural problems interfering with life function. Services are provided through 1:1, couples, family, and group therapy. Patients are seen through the Ontario TeleMedicine Network (OTN), a virtual platform.
(226) 799-1417 View (226) 799-1417
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Rey T. Singh
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RCS, CHyp, RSW
Verified Verified
London, ON N6K
Finding someone you can trust to open up to and begin your healing journey and receive support is an exercise of trust. It is important to trust who will be working with to receive support. I provide evidence-based, specialized approaches to supporting people experiencing complex PTSD, anxiety, depression and other integrative challenges. It will be my privilege to provide you with expertise and support to connect to your body, stabilize and provide ongoing treatment. My services are geared to assist the general public, as well as First Nations, and culturally diverse communities seeking support for healing, recovery and wellness.
Finding someone you can trust to open up to and begin your healing journey and receive support is an exercise of trust. It is important to trust who will be working with to receive support. I provide evidence-based, specialized approaches to supporting people experiencing complex PTSD, anxiety, depression and other integrative challenges. It will be my privilege to provide you with expertise and support to connect to your body, stabilize and provide ongoing treatment. My services are geared to assist the general public, as well as First Nations, and culturally diverse communities seeking support for healing, recovery and wellness.
(226) 236-6485 View (226) 236-6485
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Nathalie Beeler
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N5Y
Hey there! I know how overwhelming searching for the right support can be. I truly believe genuine and supportive connections are foundational to our overall well-being. When we experience feelings of connection, we are better able to explore, heal, and adapt. I will always show you and your loved ones warmth and compassion as we work together to overcome the obstacles that brought you here. In providing a warm, nonjudgmental, and safe space, I aim to ensure clients feel heard and supported as we work together towards healing, wellness, and personal growth.
Hey there! I know how overwhelming searching for the right support can be. I truly believe genuine and supportive connections are foundational to our overall well-being. When we experience feelings of connection, we are better able to explore, heal, and adapt. I will always show you and your loved ones warmth and compassion as we work together to overcome the obstacles that brought you here. In providing a warm, nonjudgmental, and safe space, I aim to ensure clients feel heard and supported as we work together towards healing, wellness, and personal growth.
(548) 798-0336 View (548) 798-0336
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Soulscape Services: Psychotherapy & Wellness Hub
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, BAHons, RP
Verified Verified
London, ON N6E
Therapy shouldn't feel like a chore. While it might sometimes be hard to hear what is discussed in therapy, overall you should leave feeling like you've gained something useful or even transformative. Over time, you should feel you are getting stronger, more resilient and have shed layers of fear and anxiety. Of course this process can be overwhelming at times and you might not always progress on the timeframe that you thought you would, but when therapy goes well, you should feel more settled and more clear about your life. You should gain understanding about yourself and others and have a renewed sense of purpose and passion
Therapy shouldn't feel like a chore. While it might sometimes be hard to hear what is discussed in therapy, overall you should leave feeling like you've gained something useful or even transformative. Over time, you should feel you are getting stronger, more resilient and have shed layers of fear and anxiety. Of course this process can be overwhelming at times and you might not always progress on the timeframe that you thought you would, but when therapy goes well, you should feel more settled and more clear about your life. You should gain understanding about yourself and others and have a renewed sense of purpose and passion
(226) 212-3592 View (226) 212-3592
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Susan Scott
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London, ON N6G  (Online Only)
Self-reflection is the gateway to inner peace. I believe everyone possesses the capacity to heal, grow, and achieve inner peace. Having the space to explore your experience with a skilled clinician will help you to develop the insight and skills you need to enhance your well-being. I am passionate about using a mind-body approach to therapy and incorporate modalities including; Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), CBT-E for Eating Disorders, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), and Mindfulness. I have an interest in empowering people with High Sensitivity (HSP).
Self-reflection is the gateway to inner peace. I believe everyone possesses the capacity to heal, grow, and achieve inner peace. Having the space to explore your experience with a skilled clinician will help you to develop the insight and skills you need to enhance your well-being. I am passionate about using a mind-body approach to therapy and incorporate modalities including; Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), CBT-E for Eating Disorders, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), and Mindfulness. I have an interest in empowering people with High Sensitivity (HSP).
(548) 482-5013 View (548) 482-5013
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Codependency Counsellors

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.