Gottman Method Therapists in Listowel, ON

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The Couples Clinic®
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Listowel, ON N4W
Are you afraid of breaking up? Do you find that the two of you can’t communicate, or hear each other anymore? Our goal at The Couples Clinic is to help couples find their way back to each other. Topics such as trust, intimacy, extended family, money and infidelity can cause huge struggles in relationships. Even when couples have been together for years, they can still have difficulty navigating these issues. Anger, mistrust, contempt and resentment can pull the two of you apart and make it that much harder to heal and build the future you both deserve.
Are you afraid of breaking up? Do you find that the two of you can’t communicate, or hear each other anymore? Our goal at The Couples Clinic is to help couples find their way back to each other. Topics such as trust, intimacy, extended family, money and infidelity can cause huge struggles in relationships. Even when couples have been together for years, they can still have difficulty navigating these issues. Anger, mistrust, contempt and resentment can pull the two of you apart and make it that much harder to heal and build the future you both deserve.
(226) 773-7528 View (226) 773-7528
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Marisa Ottens
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Listowel, ON N4W
If you’re feeling stuck and in need of guidance, I can help. Through therapy, we can work together to identify changes you can make to improve your life and increase your strength, endurance, and resilience. My approach is collaborative, person-centered, and at your pace.
If you’re feeling stuck and in need of guidance, I can help. Through therapy, we can work together to identify changes you can make to improve your life and increase your strength, endurance, and resilience. My approach is collaborative, person-centered, and at your pace.
(226) 240-1623 View (226) 240-1623
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Elliot Keane Fraser
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Listowel, ON N4W
Are you feeling lost or confused about who you are? Do you feel defined by your past and can’t move forward? Are you feeling worried about the future, unsure of what to do next? Does your stress feel overwhelming and inescapable? These thoughts and emotions can seem impossible to navigate or overcome. I am here to help so that you don’t have to face these challenges alone. Think of me as a guide, empowering you to take control of your journey going forward. I offer a space where you can be fully witnessed as you are, free from judgment, and explore new possibilities for what your life can be
Are you feeling lost or confused about who you are? Do you feel defined by your past and can’t move forward? Are you feeling worried about the future, unsure of what to do next? Does your stress feel overwhelming and inescapable? These thoughts and emotions can seem impossible to navigate or overcome. I am here to help so that you don’t have to face these challenges alone. Think of me as a guide, empowering you to take control of your journey going forward. I offer a space where you can be fully witnessed as you are, free from judgment, and explore new possibilities for what your life can be
(226) 705-1046 View (226) 705-1046
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Jason Carrasco
Registered Psychotherapist, MSc, RP, RMFT-SQ
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Listowel, ON N4W  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Many individuals in Ontario, especially in the Cambridge, Kitchener, and Waterloo areas, face challenges such as relationship issues, anxiety, or depression. You may be seeking online therapy to find a safe space to explore these difficulties, whether you identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community or are navigating a non-traditional relationship. Your goal is likely to improve your mental health, strengthen your connections, and heal from past experiences. The convenience and privacy of online counselling can help you take this important step toward achieving balance and personal growth.
Many individuals in Ontario, especially in the Cambridge, Kitchener, and Waterloo areas, face challenges such as relationship issues, anxiety, or depression. You may be seeking online therapy to find a safe space to explore these difficulties, whether you identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community or are navigating a non-traditional relationship. Your goal is likely to improve your mental health, strengthen your connections, and heal from past experiences. The convenience and privacy of online counselling can help you take this important step toward achieving balance and personal growth.
(226) 894-3627 View (226) 894-3627
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Brian Littlewood
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Listowel, ON N4W  (Online Only)
Online Counselling & Currently Accepting Clients. Hi, my name is Brian and I am a Registered Social Worker. 18 years ago, I quit my job in a factory, and went back to school to get my Master degree in Social Work. Since then, I have been helping support adults, teens and kids who struggle with mental health, addictions, and parenting challenges. Most people know me for my humor, and my ability to get to the “nuts and bolts” of the situation. My job is to then give people the “tools,” on how handle the problem so they feel back in control again.
Online Counselling & Currently Accepting Clients. Hi, my name is Brian and I am a Registered Social Worker. 18 years ago, I quit my job in a factory, and went back to school to get my Master degree in Social Work. Since then, I have been helping support adults, teens and kids who struggle with mental health, addictions, and parenting challenges. Most people know me for my humor, and my ability to get to the “nuts and bolts” of the situation. My job is to then give people the “tools,” on how handle the problem so they feel back in control again.
(226) 210-9690 View (226) 210-9690

More Therapists Nearby

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Emily Kaye
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Palmerston, ON N0G
Using a collaborative, compassionate, and interactive approach, I work with older teens (16 years +) and adults to find more effective ways of dealing with the stressors they are facing. I have extensive experience and interest in helping those recovering from trauma, anxiety disorders, depression (including postpartum), relationship challenges, parenting concerns and life stressors.
Using a collaborative, compassionate, and interactive approach, I work with older teens (16 years +) and adults to find more effective ways of dealing with the stressors they are facing. I have extensive experience and interest in helping those recovering from trauma, anxiety disorders, depression (including postpartum), relationship challenges, parenting concerns and life stressors.
(226) 908-0440 View (226) 908-0440
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By Peaceful Waters
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, 422601
Verified Verified
Palmerston, ON N0G
Life is difficult. Complex circumstances hit us all, often resulting in a diminished ability for us to live life to its fullest. Unresolved emotional pain and trauma can give rise to depression, anger, anxiety, low self-esteem, and abuse of self and others. By Peaceful Waters therapists combine our professional training and our Christian faith to bring healing and restoration to spiritual, emotional, cognitive, behavioral, and relational hurts. We offer a safe, non-judgmental and empathetic environment, nourishing hope and healing, in which the whole person is valued, affirmed and empowered, not just to survive but to thrive.
Life is difficult. Complex circumstances hit us all, often resulting in a diminished ability for us to live life to its fullest. Unresolved emotional pain and trauma can give rise to depression, anger, anxiety, low self-esteem, and abuse of self and others. By Peaceful Waters therapists combine our professional training and our Christian faith to bring healing and restoration to spiritual, emotional, cognitive, behavioral, and relational hurts. We offer a safe, non-judgmental and empathetic environment, nourishing hope and healing, in which the whole person is valued, affirmed and empowered, not just to survive but to thrive.
(226) 910-0979 View (226) 910-0979

Online Therapists

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Melissa Lowe
Registered Social Worker, MSW RSW
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2M
I have training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), The Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT) and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT).
I'm a registered social worker that provides evidence-based therapy for individuals and couples. Perhaps you are struggling with feelings of anxiety and depression or you are unhappy in your relationship. You might be avoiding difficult situations or finding ways to escape from how you are feeling. As a couple, you might be feeling stuck. Your conversations or arguments go in circles and never feel resolved. It's become difficult to communicate and you feel disconnected from each other.
I have training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), The Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT) and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT).
I'm a registered social worker that provides evidence-based therapy for individuals and couples. Perhaps you are struggling with feelings of anxiety and depression or you are unhappy in your relationship. You might be avoiding difficult situations or finding ways to escape from how you are feeling. As a couple, you might be feeling stuck. Your conversations or arguments go in circles and never feel resolved. It's become difficult to communicate and you feel disconnected from each other.
(226) 243-1574 View (226) 243-1574
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Alivia Solutions Psychotherapy and Wellness
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, MA, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orangeville, ON L9W
Child Play Therapy, Gottman Method (couples therapy); Mindfulness & Sound Therapy.
We're Alivia Solutions, a passionate & dedicated team of professionals help toddlers, children, youth, adults, families and couples deal with life issues. We believe that therapy is for everyone not just when you are in crisis. Therapy is a way to get unstuck from old patterns that no longer serve you. Life is uncertain & full of twists and turns. Parenting is hard. Relationships take work. Families can be dysfunctional. And sometimes love hurts. When we are confronted with feelings, events, or issues that make our life challenging - it’s ok to ask for help. We provide a safe in person and virtual space to be able to HEAL!
Child Play Therapy, Gottman Method (couples therapy); Mindfulness & Sound Therapy.
We're Alivia Solutions, a passionate & dedicated team of professionals help toddlers, children, youth, adults, families and couples deal with life issues. We believe that therapy is for everyone not just when you are in crisis. Therapy is a way to get unstuck from old patterns that no longer serve you. Life is uncertain & full of twists and turns. Parenting is hard. Relationships take work. Families can be dysfunctional. And sometimes love hurts. When we are confronted with feelings, events, or issues that make our life challenging - it’s ok to ask for help. We provide a safe in person and virtual space to be able to HEAL!
(548) 800-1728 View (548) 800-1728
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Jessica Pacheco
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Waterloo, ON N2J
In my sessions, I pull from my education and trainings rooted in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, as well as solution focused therapy.
Hi there, I want to start off by thanking you for coming to my page and considering me to aid in your mental health. I’m a therapist for you if you are looking for skills, coping tools, and symptom management for mental health concerns. If you would like to process trauma, and the many different areas that trauma impacts. Or maybe you are struggling with strengthening or setting boundaries with relationships currently in your life. Blending a range of evidence based practices into your sessions, allows me to provide you with the space, tools and skills to fit your needs. All while holding space for you to be human and comfortable.
In my sessions, I pull from my education and trainings rooted in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, as well as solution focused therapy.
Hi there, I want to start off by thanking you for coming to my page and considering me to aid in your mental health. I’m a therapist for you if you are looking for skills, coping tools, and symptom management for mental health concerns. If you would like to process trauma, and the many different areas that trauma impacts. Or maybe you are struggling with strengthening or setting boundaries with relationships currently in your life. Blending a range of evidence based practices into your sessions, allows me to provide you with the space, tools and skills to fit your needs. All while holding space for you to be human and comfortable.
(226) 705-0527 View (226) 705-0527
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Jeff White - Life And Relationship Coach
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Toronto, ON M4R
My background in psychology and corporate training, accreditation in Imago & Gottman Method Couples therapy, personal involvement in Cognitive-Behavioural therapy, and especially my own relationships have all helped me become an effective coach.
We can’t be on top of everything - so that’s why reaching out and asking for help is healthy and necessary. In business, love or life, it’s hard to show up well if you aren’t aware of your unconscious habits. I’ll help you get a better understanding of yourself and the people around you so you can create the life you want to live. I also work with couples to figure out what’s getting in the way of your connection.
My background in psychology and corporate training, accreditation in Imago & Gottman Method Couples therapy, personal involvement in Cognitive-Behavioural therapy, and especially my own relationships have all helped me become an effective coach.
We can’t be on top of everything - so that’s why reaching out and asking for help is healthy and necessary. In business, love or life, it’s hard to show up well if you aren’t aware of your unconscious habits. I’ll help you get a better understanding of yourself and the people around you so you can create the life you want to live. I also work with couples to figure out what’s getting in the way of your connection.
(647) 697-4185 View (647) 697-4185
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Sylvia Sikakane and Associates
Registered Social Worker, MA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Markham, ON L3P  (Online Only)
Research-informed approaches include CBT, Solution Focused Therapy, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, The Gottman Method to couple therapy, and Mindfulness.
MA, MSW, RSW with specialization in health and mental health from U of T. For over 28 years I have supported individuals, families in organizational settings and in private practice. I have helped individuals, couples, and families facing issues including situational stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relational difficulties, grief, parenting, and marital conflict. My areas of expertise include Autism Spectrum Disorders and related learning differences. I treat individuals with or without a formal diagnosis who share features associated with ASD and struggle with isolation, interpersonal difficulties, anxiety and depressed mood and employment challenges. Services are tailored to address individuals' specific needs.
Research-informed approaches include CBT, Solution Focused Therapy, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, The Gottman Method to couple therapy, and Mindfulness.
MA, MSW, RSW with specialization in health and mental health from U of T. For over 28 years I have supported individuals, families in organizational settings and in private practice. I have helped individuals, couples, and families facing issues including situational stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relational difficulties, grief, parenting, and marital conflict. My areas of expertise include Autism Spectrum Disorders and related learning differences. I treat individuals with or without a formal diagnosis who share features associated with ASD and struggle with isolation, interpersonal difficulties, anxiety and depressed mood and employment challenges. Services are tailored to address individuals' specific needs.
(855) 528-5087 View (855) 528-5087
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Kiren Sandhu
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Toronto, ON M4K  (Online Only)
As a couples therapist, I use the Gottman Method to support couples through relationship challenges.
I am registered to provide virtual counselling to individuals and couples residing in Ontario, British Columbia, Alberta and Nova Scotia. Life can present us with various challenges that can be difficult to work through on our own. We don’t often take the time to sit with our emotions and thoughts. I will encourage you to slow down and reflect while offering a curious and compassionate perspective and a safe and non-judgmental space where you feel heard and supported. We will work together to make sense of your experiences and move towards the change you are hoping for in your life.
As a couples therapist, I use the Gottman Method to support couples through relationship challenges.
I am registered to provide virtual counselling to individuals and couples residing in Ontario, British Columbia, Alberta and Nova Scotia. Life can present us with various challenges that can be difficult to work through on our own. We don’t often take the time to sit with our emotions and thoughts. I will encourage you to slow down and reflect while offering a curious and compassionate perspective and a safe and non-judgmental space where you feel heard and supported. We will work together to make sense of your experiences and move towards the change you are hoping for in your life.
(437) 747-3988 View (437) 747-3988
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Rucha Patel 🌻 Feel-Good Therapy
Registered Psychotherapist, MSc, RP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3X
Using tools from evidence-based therapy modalities - including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) for individual growth and the Gottman method for couples work - we will strive to overcome the barriers that are keeping you from living the life that you want.
Hello! I aim to create a safe and comfortable space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and challenges. I am here to listen and to help you access your inner resources and hidden strengths - as well as to provide tools and practical strategies that you can start using right now.
Using tools from evidence-based therapy modalities - including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) for individual growth and the Gottman method for couples work - we will strive to overcome the barriers that are keeping you from living the life that you want.
Hello! I aim to create a safe and comfortable space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and challenges. I am here to listen and to help you access your inner resources and hidden strengths - as well as to provide tools and practical strategies that you can start using right now.
(289) 207-7769 View (289) 207-7769
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Mike Wiebe
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MDiv
Verified Verified
Waterloo, ON N2L
He uses a combination of modalities to help you which include: Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Narrative Therapy, Family Systems Therapy (FST), and the Gottman Method.
The journey of life can be hard. Sometimes the bumps in the road are just minor annoyances we can absorb and keep moving forward. Other times they are more severe, even life-altering, and we need help. That’s where Mike comes in. He views counseling as a life-on-life collaborative journey of hope and solidarity. Together you will work together to discover what healing, health, and wholeness can look like for you. From general mental health concerns to trauma and PTSD, Mike would be honored to come alongside you.
He uses a combination of modalities to help you which include: Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Narrative Therapy, Family Systems Therapy (FST), and the Gottman Method.
The journey of life can be hard. Sometimes the bumps in the road are just minor annoyances we can absorb and keep moving forward. Other times they are more severe, even life-altering, and we need help. That’s where Mike comes in. He views counseling as a life-on-life collaborative journey of hope and solidarity. Together you will work together to discover what healing, health, and wholeness can look like for you. From general mental health concerns to trauma and PTSD, Mike would be honored to come alongside you.
(226) 756-2189 View (226) 756-2189
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Blake Anderson
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, BA
Verified Verified
Toronto, ON M4M
Blake is a Registered Social Worker with over 13 years of clinical practice, including 5 years as a Therapist/Coach and 8+ years as a Child Protection Worker. With a Master of Social Work (MSW) degree, a Bachelor of Social Work (BSW), and a BA in Philosophy, Blake brings a unique blend of academic and practical expertise to his practice. Blake specializes in 1) supporting individuals navigating the complexities of dysfunctional family dynamics and narcissistic abuse, 2) enhancing relationships through the evidence-based Gottman Method and 3) guiding high-functioning professionals toward personal and relational growth.
Blake is a Registered Social Worker with over 13 years of clinical practice, including 5 years as a Therapist/Coach and 8+ years as a Child Protection Worker. With a Master of Social Work (MSW) degree, a Bachelor of Social Work (BSW), and a BA in Philosophy, Blake brings a unique blend of academic and practical expertise to his practice. Blake specializes in 1) supporting individuals navigating the complexities of dysfunctional family dynamics and narcissistic abuse, 2) enhancing relationships through the evidence-based Gottman Method and 3) guiding high-functioning professionals toward personal and relational growth.
(437) 747-7417 View (437) 747-7417
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Rachelle Smith
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Owen Sound, ON N4K
As a trained Gottman Method couples therapist, I aim to create a supportive space where couples can begin to learn how to communicate more effectively and rebuild their connection.
My name is Rachelle and I am a clinical therapist located in Owen Sound. One of my many passions is helping clients understand their emotions, reactions, and discovering strategies for better coping. I work with individuals who are struggling with self esteem, trauma, grief, relationship conflict, anxiety and depression.
As a trained Gottman Method couples therapist, I aim to create a supportive space where couples can begin to learn how to communicate more effectively and rebuild their connection.
My name is Rachelle and I am a clinical therapist located in Owen Sound. One of my many passions is helping clients understand their emotions, reactions, and discovering strategies for better coping. I work with individuals who are struggling with self esteem, trauma, grief, relationship conflict, anxiety and depression.
(548) 457-1007 View (548) 457-1007
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Cheyanne D'Souza
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Verified Verified
Toronto, ON M5L
I have experience using cognitive behavioral therapy, emotionally focused therapy, the Gottman method, acceptance and commitment therapy, mindfulness-based approaches, and dialectical behavioral therapy.
I am an individual and couple’s therapist who utilizes a person-centered approach to provide warm and empathetic counselling services. I work collaboratively with my clients to develops goals and create a therapeutic plan that is uniquely catered to the individual’s lifestyle. I have completed my Master of Counselling Psychology at Yorkville University.
I have experience using cognitive behavioral therapy, emotionally focused therapy, the Gottman method, acceptance and commitment therapy, mindfulness-based approaches, and dialectical behavioral therapy.
I am an individual and couple’s therapist who utilizes a person-centered approach to provide warm and empathetic counselling services. I work collaboratively with my clients to develops goals and create a therapeutic plan that is uniquely catered to the individual’s lifestyle. I have completed my Master of Counselling Psychology at Yorkville University.
(437) 372-5484 View (437) 372-5484
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Amber Dalsin
Psychologist, MSc, CPsych
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6H  (Online Only)
Gottman Method and CBT are the main modes.
I help couples overcome conflict to create strong and harmonious relationships. As a Certified Gottman Therapist, I help couples quiet the conflict in their relationship. What were once heart-breaking conversations the couple did not know how to fix, turn into dialogue around making the relationship better, repairing old hurts, and deepening emotional connection. Whether the conflict stems from poor communication and emotional distance, to trauma, affairs, infertility, or substance use problems, the evidence based treatments can help couples communicate openly and find solutions, or decide it is time to move on.
Gottman Method and CBT are the main modes.
I help couples overcome conflict to create strong and harmonious relationships. As a Certified Gottman Therapist, I help couples quiet the conflict in their relationship. What were once heart-breaking conversations the couple did not know how to fix, turn into dialogue around making the relationship better, repairing old hurts, and deepening emotional connection. Whether the conflict stems from poor communication and emotional distance, to trauma, affairs, infertility, or substance use problems, the evidence based treatments can help couples communicate openly and find solutions, or decide it is time to move on.
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Rev. Rick Grundy
Registered Psychotherapist, MDiv, RP
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Alliston, ON L9R  (Online Only)
Drawing from techniques such as EFT, Family Systems, CBT, SFT, Gottman Method, MBTI, and communication skills building, I provide comprehensive support.
I provide personalized Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for individuals, offering empathetic support to navigate challenges like anxiety, depression, stress, loneliness, trauma, negative thoughts, anger, and grief. In couples therapy, I utilize the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for improved communication and to address issues such as infidelity, trust-building, premarital preparation, conflict resolution, parenting concerns, and guiding couples away from divorce with empathy and understanding.
Drawing from techniques such as EFT, Family Systems, CBT, SFT, Gottman Method, MBTI, and communication skills building, I provide comprehensive support.
I provide personalized Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for individuals, offering empathetic support to navigate challenges like anxiety, depression, stress, loneliness, trauma, negative thoughts, anger, and grief. In couples therapy, I utilize the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for improved communication and to address issues such as infidelity, trust-building, premarital preparation, conflict resolution, parenting concerns, and guiding couples away from divorce with empathy and understanding.
(249) 503-3578 View (249) 503-3578

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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.