Gottman Method Therapists in Kitchener, ON

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Melissa Lowe
Registered Social Worker, MSW RSW
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2M
I have training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), The Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT) and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT).
I'm a registered social worker that provides evidence-based therapy for individuals and couples. Perhaps you are struggling with feelings of anxiety and depression or you are unhappy in your relationship. You might be avoiding difficult situations or finding ways to escape from how you are feeling. As a couple, you might be feeling stuck. Your conversations or arguments go in circles and never feel resolved. It's become difficult to communicate and you feel disconnected from each other.
I have training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), The Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT) and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT).
I'm a registered social worker that provides evidence-based therapy for individuals and couples. Perhaps you are struggling with feelings of anxiety and depression or you are unhappy in your relationship. You might be avoiding difficult situations or finding ways to escape from how you are feeling. As a couple, you might be feeling stuck. Your conversations or arguments go in circles and never feel resolved. It's become difficult to communicate and you feel disconnected from each other.
(226) 243-1574 View (226) 243-1574
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Sodaba Surush
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2H
I use the Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotion Focused Family Therapy in my work with couples.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario. I take a client-centered and compassionate approach to my work and uphold the values of dignity and respect for all. I specialize in working with individuals and couples coping with anxiety, depression, addictions, ADHD, trauma, life transitions (including immigration), and identity related issues. My practice is influenced by evidence-based modalities of Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, and incorporates both mindfulness and meditation practices.
I use the Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotion Focused Family Therapy in my work with couples.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario. I take a client-centered and compassionate approach to my work and uphold the values of dignity and respect for all. I specialize in working with individuals and couples coping with anxiety, depression, addictions, ADHD, trauma, life transitions (including immigration), and identity related issues. My practice is influenced by evidence-based modalities of Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, Gottman Method, and incorporates both mindfulness and meditation practices.
(548) 488-4207 View (548) 488-4207
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Rhonda Kane
Registered Psychotherapist, RNBScN, MTS, (PCC), RMFT, RP
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2E
I use the Gottman Method and Emotion Focused techniques to improve couple connectedness, attachment and satisfaction.
I have a passion for supporting clients through difficult times, while helping them to achieve optimal psychological and emotional well being. I have extensive clinical training experience with a broad range of issues and treatment approaches and am comfortable with people of all cultures and orientations. Certified by the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario in the area of clinical counselling, I provide assessment, counselling and therapy using an integrative approach, weaving together various methods to suit your unique needs. I also supervise other therapists who are seeking accreditation with their professional bodies. I am an AAMFT Clinical Fellow and Supervisor IT.
I use the Gottman Method and Emotion Focused techniques to improve couple connectedness, attachment and satisfaction.
I have a passion for supporting clients through difficult times, while helping them to achieve optimal psychological and emotional well being. I have extensive clinical training experience with a broad range of issues and treatment approaches and am comfortable with people of all cultures and orientations. Certified by the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario in the area of clinical counselling, I provide assessment, counselling and therapy using an integrative approach, weaving together various methods to suit your unique needs. I also supervise other therapists who are seeking accreditation with their professional bodies. I am an AAMFT Clinical Fellow and Supervisor IT.
(226) 639-5626 View (226) 639-5626
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Gillian Flynn
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, CCC, MSc
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2H
In therapy, I use an eclectic approach, drawing from a broad range of interventions including Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Hi! I'm Gillian (she/her) and I am a Registered Psychotherapist and a Canadian Certified Counsellor. I have studied mental health across the lifespan and have over 15 years of experience working in healthcare. I believe that at the heart of being human is the desire for connection with others and our world. But sometimes it can feel like we are stuck and disconnected. As a therapist, I set out to build strong connections with my clients, making them feel seen, heard and cared for. Together we set goals and make a treatment plan, taking into account each individual’s unique experiences, culture, and beliefs.
In therapy, I use an eclectic approach, drawing from a broad range of interventions including Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Hi! I'm Gillian (she/her) and I am a Registered Psychotherapist and a Canadian Certified Counsellor. I have studied mental health across the lifespan and have over 15 years of experience working in healthcare. I believe that at the heart of being human is the desire for connection with others and our world. But sometimes it can feel like we are stuck and disconnected. As a therapist, I set out to build strong connections with my clients, making them feel seen, heard and cared for. Together we set goals and make a treatment plan, taking into account each individual’s unique experiences, culture, and beliefs.
(548) 490-1499 View (548) 490-1499
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Christopher Mertz
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MTA
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2G
My approaches include evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and the Gottman Method.
Hello my name is Chris, I am a registered psychotherapist (RP) and accredited music therapist (MTA). I feel passionate about mental health, community, and connecting with people. My background in front-line mental healthcare including palliative, addictions, and homelessness work has shown me the important role that relationships play in healing. I have experience working with a broad population, including teens and adults in areas of addiction, grief, anxiety, depression, OCD, ADHD/ASD, relationship breakdown, life transitions, and sexuality.
My approaches include evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and the Gottman Method.
Hello my name is Chris, I am a registered psychotherapist (RP) and accredited music therapist (MTA). I feel passionate about mental health, community, and connecting with people. My background in front-line mental healthcare including palliative, addictions, and homelessness work has shown me the important role that relationships play in healing. I have experience working with a broad population, including teens and adults in areas of addiction, grief, anxiety, depression, OCD, ADHD/ASD, relationship breakdown, life transitions, and sexuality.
(226) 270-6944 View (226) 270-6944
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Sylvia Sikakane and Associates
Registered Social Worker, MA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2N  (Online Only)
Research-informed approaches include CBT, Solution Focused Therapy, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, The Gottman Method to couple therapy, and Mindfulness.
MA, MSW, RSW with specialization in health and mental health from U of T. For over 28 years I have supported individuals, families in organizational settings and in private practice. I have helped individuals, couples, and families facing issues including situational stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relational difficulties, grief, parenting, and marital conflict. My areas of expertise include Autism Spectrum Disorders and related learning differences. I treat individuals with or without a formal diagnosis who share features associated with ASD and struggle with isolation, interpersonal difficulties, anxiety and depressed mood and employment challenges. Services are tailored to address individuals' specific needs.
Research-informed approaches include CBT, Solution Focused Therapy, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, The Gottman Method to couple therapy, and Mindfulness.
MA, MSW, RSW with specialization in health and mental health from U of T. For over 28 years I have supported individuals, families in organizational settings and in private practice. I have helped individuals, couples, and families facing issues including situational stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relational difficulties, grief, parenting, and marital conflict. My areas of expertise include Autism Spectrum Disorders and related learning differences. I treat individuals with or without a formal diagnosis who share features associated with ASD and struggle with isolation, interpersonal difficulties, anxiety and depressed mood and employment challenges. Services are tailored to address individuals' specific needs.
(855) 528-5087 View (855) 528-5087
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Brianna Stewart
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2G
I will work with you in developing a strategy which may include various therapeutic modalities such as CBT, Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Emotionally Focused therapy (EFT), Gottman Method for couples, mindfulness practices and spiritually integrated psychotherapy.
Welcome to Therapy Heals! Specializing in working with teenagers, adolescents, and adults, I am eager to support you in your wellness journey. I am well-versed in guiding individuals through a spectrum of mental health challenges, including depression, anxiety, grief, trauma, interpersonal challenges, life transitions, and more. My approach is rooted in empathy, with a genuine commitment to understanding the unique needs of each client.
I will work with you in developing a strategy which may include various therapeutic modalities such as CBT, Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Emotionally Focused therapy (EFT), Gottman Method for couples, mindfulness practices and spiritually integrated psychotherapy.
Welcome to Therapy Heals! Specializing in working with teenagers, adolescents, and adults, I am eager to support you in your wellness journey. I am well-versed in guiding individuals through a spectrum of mental health challenges, including depression, anxiety, grief, trauma, interpersonal challenges, life transitions, and more. My approach is rooted in empathy, with a genuine commitment to understanding the unique needs of each client.
(888) 340-4325 View (888) 340-4325
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Tammie K Ross
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2N
By being Level 3 trained in the Gottman Method for Couples, CBT and EMDR certified, and a life coach, you will learn how to effectively manage your stress and triggers.
At certain times in our lives, we may feel like we are stuck. We struggle with maintaining our relationships at home or work, have difficulty meeting deadlines, or are unable to discuss difficult topics with loved ones. Counselling is a way to work through these issues. Here are a few other reasons why individuals and couples may seek counselling: reduced emotional and physical connection due to strained communication and increased conflict, infidelity, workplace conflict/bullying, recent separation or divorce, and an inability to find a suitable partner. These situations can cause immense pain.
By being Level 3 trained in the Gottman Method for Couples, CBT and EMDR certified, and a life coach, you will learn how to effectively manage your stress and triggers.
At certain times in our lives, we may feel like we are stuck. We struggle with maintaining our relationships at home or work, have difficulty meeting deadlines, or are unable to discuss difficult topics with loved ones. Counselling is a way to work through these issues. Here are a few other reasons why individuals and couples may seek counselling: reduced emotional and physical connection due to strained communication and increased conflict, infidelity, workplace conflict/bullying, recent separation or divorce, and an inability to find a suitable partner. These situations can cause immense pain.
(844) 496-3409 View (844) 496-3409
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Jen Doyle
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW, DSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2A
Mood regulation, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationships, grief, life transitions are all things that weigh on us. As a private clinician, I make it my goal to help my clients find their inner strength to overcome those challenges that life throws at them and offer them hope in living their life the way they see fit. Adopting approaches such as CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS and the Gottman Method I hope to assist clients in breaking down barriers and delve into the challenges that are preventing them from moving forward.
Mood regulation, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationships, grief, life transitions are all things that weigh on us. As a private clinician, I make it my goal to help my clients find their inner strength to overcome those challenges that life throws at them and offer them hope in living their life the way they see fit. Adopting approaches such as CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS and the Gottman Method I hope to assist clients in breaking down barriers and delve into the challenges that are preventing them from moving forward.
(226) 786-0434 View (226) 786-0434
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Lauren Marshall
Registered Social Worker, BA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2A  (Online Only)
I have post graduate training in EMDR, CBT, Narrative Therapy, Gottman Method Therapy, ACT, and Motivational Interviewing.
Sometimes life can have us feeling bogged down in the same negative patterns, feeling blocked or disconnected from our own sense of contentment, strength and joy. Often we walk the path of life, thinking we are making progress, only to find we have circled back to the same struggles. When we find ourselves in this place it can be wise to reach out for help. I see therapy as a place to uncover the roots of what is feeding our present concerns and to heal these roots in order to make positive lasting changes.
I have post graduate training in EMDR, CBT, Narrative Therapy, Gottman Method Therapy, ACT, and Motivational Interviewing.
Sometimes life can have us feeling bogged down in the same negative patterns, feeling blocked or disconnected from our own sense of contentment, strength and joy. Often we walk the path of life, thinking we are making progress, only to find we have circled back to the same struggles. When we find ourselves in this place it can be wise to reach out for help. I see therapy as a place to uncover the roots of what is feeding our present concerns and to heal these roots in order to make positive lasting changes.
(548) 457-0336 View (548) 457-0336
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Tania Rivers
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, CCC
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2H
I have committed myself to being trained and knowledgeable in EMDR therapy, Gottman Method couples counselling, EFT, IFS, and perinatal mental health.
Are you in need of more insight into your personal or relational struggles? Maybe you feel like you're stuck in a loop of destructive behaviors, and don't know how to get out. Maybe you notice distance or tension in your relationship, and need to make sense of it all, and become connected again. Maybe you are ready to unpack and process unresolved trauma, and need the support of a professional in a safe and trusting environment.
I have committed myself to being trained and knowledgeable in EMDR therapy, Gottman Method couples counselling, EFT, IFS, and perinatal mental health.
Are you in need of more insight into your personal or relational struggles? Maybe you feel like you're stuck in a loop of destructive behaviors, and don't know how to get out. Maybe you notice distance or tension in your relationship, and need to make sense of it all, and become connected again. Maybe you are ready to unpack and process unresolved trauma, and need the support of a professional in a safe and trusting environment.
(548) 900-5653 View (548) 900-5653
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Eden Martin
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW (S)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2H
As a psychotherapist and Registered Social Worker with the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers, my passion is for empowering individuals to access their own innate healing abilities. My utmost goal is to provide a warm, safe, and non-judgemental space within which you can share your concerns and hopes while working towards a happier and more fulfilled future. I use a range of modalities including CBT, DBT, Narrative Therapy, relational approaches, mindfulness, and solution focused approaches. In my work with couples, I use Emotionally Focused and Gottman Method Couples Therapy modalities.
As a psychotherapist and Registered Social Worker with the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers, my passion is for empowering individuals to access their own innate healing abilities. My utmost goal is to provide a warm, safe, and non-judgemental space within which you can share your concerns and hopes while working towards a happier and more fulfilled future. I use a range of modalities including CBT, DBT, Narrative Therapy, relational approaches, mindfulness, and solution focused approaches. In my work with couples, I use Emotionally Focused and Gottman Method Couples Therapy modalities.
(226) 271-1371 View (226) 271-1371
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Devon Jorge
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2N
Training and experience in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (lvl 1,2,3).
Life can be downright difficult, disappointing, stressful and unfair at times at times. But there is no reason to struggle through life’s challenges alone, or give up because the feeling of being stuck can make you feel powerless. If you are seeking help individually, as a couple, or a family, I strive to make you feel understood in a supportive, warm and sensitive manner as we discuss, explore and develop deeper insights into your current challenges. I encourage you to visit my website to learn more. Individual sessions are 50 minutes in duration, couples are 80 minutes.
Training and experience in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (lvl 1,2,3).
Life can be downright difficult, disappointing, stressful and unfair at times at times. But there is no reason to struggle through life’s challenges alone, or give up because the feeling of being stuck can make you feel powerless. If you are seeking help individually, as a couple, or a family, I strive to make you feel understood in a supportive, warm and sensitive manner as we discuss, explore and develop deeper insights into your current challenges. I encourage you to visit my website to learn more. Individual sessions are 50 minutes in duration, couples are 80 minutes.
(226) 458-5567 View (226) 458-5567
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Varsha Narwani
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2M  (Online Only)
I predominantly work from a systemic perspective while also integrating different modalities such as CBT, Narrative Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and Gottman Method Couples Therapy to meet your unique needs.
Do you find yourself overwhelmed by anxiety, unsure of its origin, and constantly doubting your choices and abilities? Let's embark on a journey of self-discovery, growth, and healing together. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, stress, or relationship challenges, I'm here to walk alongside you every step of the way. Together, we honor every aspect of your identity and experiences as we navigate this mental health journey.
I predominantly work from a systemic perspective while also integrating different modalities such as CBT, Narrative Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and Gottman Method Couples Therapy to meet your unique needs.
Do you find yourself overwhelmed by anxiety, unsure of its origin, and constantly doubting your choices and abilities? Let's embark on a journey of self-discovery, growth, and healing together. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, stress, or relationship challenges, I'm here to walk alongside you every step of the way. Together, we honor every aspect of your identity and experiences as we navigate this mental health journey.
(289) 274-4763 View (289) 274-4763
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Springs Christian Counselling
Registered Social Worker, BA(Hon), MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2C
As Christians we have the promise of a joy-filled life but sometimes, life can feel like a struggle. Between balancing work, relationships, and that inner critic, finding moments of peace and joy can seem like a distant dream. But here's the truth: you're not alone! I am passionate about guiding you through life's complexities with evidence-based tools, guidance from the scripture and a heaping dose of empathy. I believe in your strength, resilience, and capacity for change, and I’m here to walk alongside you as you build a fulfilling life, one step at a time. So, take a deep breath, unclench your fists, and let's journey together.
As Christians we have the promise of a joy-filled life but sometimes, life can feel like a struggle. Between balancing work, relationships, and that inner critic, finding moments of peace and joy can seem like a distant dream. But here's the truth: you're not alone! I am passionate about guiding you through life's complexities with evidence-based tools, guidance from the scripture and a heaping dose of empathy. I believe in your strength, resilience, and capacity for change, and I’m here to walk alongside you as you build a fulfilling life, one step at a time. So, take a deep breath, unclench your fists, and let's journey together.
(226) 455-6931 View (226) 455-6931
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Orsolya Kis
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2H
Accepting New Clients - Individuals & Couples. Are you facing a life transition that leaves you feeling uncertain, overwhelmed, or searching for deeper meaning? I'm here to help you navigate those uncharted waters and uncover the meaning behind your journey. I believe that life transitions, whether they involve career changes, relationship shifts, loss, or personal growth, are opportunities for profound self-discovery. My approach to therapy is deeply rooted in providing a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your inner world, uncover your values, and create meaning from your experiences.
Accepting New Clients - Individuals & Couples. Are you facing a life transition that leaves you feeling uncertain, overwhelmed, or searching for deeper meaning? I'm here to help you navigate those uncharted waters and uncover the meaning behind your journey. I believe that life transitions, whether they involve career changes, relationship shifts, loss, or personal growth, are opportunities for profound self-discovery. My approach to therapy is deeply rooted in providing a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your inner world, uncover your values, and create meaning from your experiences.
(548) 900-5868 View (548) 900-5868
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Kaleigh Russell
Registered Social Worker, BA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2H
I am a dedicated Registered Social Worker (RSW) with a Master of Social Work who practices clinical psychotherapy and supportive counselling. I have a passion for delivering therapeutic interventions that address the social, emotional, relational, behavioural, and psychological needs of individuals and couples in order to address presenting problems in a holistic way. I have experience working with adults, adolescents (13+) and couples. My areas of specialty include attachment & relational trauma, self worth/esteem, self sabotage, unhelpful thinking patterns, addiction & substance abuse, relationship issues, depression & anxiety
I am a dedicated Registered Social Worker (RSW) with a Master of Social Work who practices clinical psychotherapy and supportive counselling. I have a passion for delivering therapeutic interventions that address the social, emotional, relational, behavioural, and psychological needs of individuals and couples in order to address presenting problems in a holistic way. I have experience working with adults, adolescents (13+) and couples. My areas of specialty include attachment & relational trauma, self worth/esteem, self sabotage, unhelpful thinking patterns, addiction & substance abuse, relationship issues, depression & anxiety
(226) 780-3166 View (226) 780-3166
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Shambhvi Sharma
Registered Psychotherapist, RSSW, ExAT, MA, BA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2G
Are you struggling with things around being a lot to handle lately? May be it is finding your identity, your roots, challenges in your relationships with your loved ones or difficulties at workplace which is making you feel overwhelmed, hopeless, anxious and frustrated. It may feel like no one listens, no one understands, no one cares which can give a sense of feeling depressed, stuck, alone and lost. It might be affecting your quality of life, your motivation, your happiness and you are looking for some guidance or a safe place to reflect and work on your mental well being and to feel like yourself again!
Are you struggling with things around being a lot to handle lately? May be it is finding your identity, your roots, challenges in your relationships with your loved ones or difficulties at workplace which is making you feel overwhelmed, hopeless, anxious and frustrated. It may feel like no one listens, no one understands, no one cares which can give a sense of feeling depressed, stuck, alone and lost. It might be affecting your quality of life, your motivation, your happiness and you are looking for some guidance or a safe place to reflect and work on your mental well being and to feel like yourself again!
(437) 747-4919 View (437) 747-4919
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Alyson Mckay
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2R
Hi! My name is Alyson McKay! As a therapist who is passionate about helping individuals navigate life's challenges, I am dedicated to creating a safe and nurturing space where clients can explore their innermost thoughts and feelings. I believe in the transformative power of therapy and am honoured to walk alongside my clients on their journey toward healing and self-discovery. I work with individuals and couples who are dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship struggles, life transitions, grief, and trauma.
Hi! My name is Alyson McKay! As a therapist who is passionate about helping individuals navigate life's challenges, I am dedicated to creating a safe and nurturing space where clients can explore their innermost thoughts and feelings. I believe in the transformative power of therapy and am honoured to walk alongside my clients on their journey toward healing and self-discovery. I work with individuals and couples who are dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship struggles, life transitions, grief, and trauma.
(548) 490-7872 View (548) 490-7872
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Rosemary Victor
Registered Social Worker, MA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kitchener, ON N2E  (Online Only)
My experience enables me to offer effective individualized, mental health support for individuals, and couples. I provide supports around relationship issues, coping with mood disorders, depression, anxiety disorders, grief & loss, managing life transitions, trauma, and addictions.
My experience enables me to offer effective individualized, mental health support for individuals, and couples. I provide supports around relationship issues, coping with mood disorders, depression, anxiety disorders, grief & loss, managing life transitions, trauma, and addictions.
(226) 286-0952 View (226) 286-0952
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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.