Couples Counselling Therapists in Alliston, ON

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Jessica Aelick
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MDiv
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R  (Online Only)
As a certified grief specialist, I walk with clients through grief in its many different forms. Grief can arise from various experiences, including the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, career changes, health challenges, or significant life transitions. It can also stem from ambiguous losses, such as the loss of a dream, unmet expectations, or the impact of collective trauma. Understanding the different types of grief allows us to address and process these emotions more effectively.
As a certified grief specialist, I walk with clients through grief in its many different forms. Grief can arise from various experiences, including the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, career changes, health challenges, or significant life transitions. It can also stem from ambiguous losses, such as the loss of a dream, unmet expectations, or the impact of collective trauma. Understanding the different types of grief allows us to address and process these emotions more effectively.
(249) 496-1994 View (249) 496-1994
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Boudreau Wellness Counselling & Psychotherapy
Registered Social Worker, RSSW, RSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R
I will do my best to connect with you to build a therapeutic relationship.
I started in the helping field in 1993, specializing in youth and mental health. I became a full-time Professor in 2007 within the Child and Youth Care Program at Seneca College. I’ve spent my career as a Social Worker and Professor researching and teaching best practices in the helping field. I work with children, youth, adults, and couples, and provide a trusted and competent approach to help. I am a member of the Ontario Association of Child and Youth Care, a member of Ontario Association of Social Workers, and registered with the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers.
I will do my best to connect with you to build a therapeutic relationship.
I started in the helping field in 1993, specializing in youth and mental health. I became a full-time Professor in 2007 within the Child and Youth Care Program at Seneca College. I’ve spent my career as a Social Worker and Professor researching and teaching best practices in the helping field. I work with children, youth, adults, and couples, and provide a trusted and competent approach to help. I am a member of the Ontario Association of Child and Youth Care, a member of Ontario Association of Social Workers, and registered with the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers.
(249) 801-0313 View (249) 801-0313
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Rev. Rick Grundy
Registered Psychotherapist, MDiv, RP
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Alliston, ON L9R  (Online Only)
I provide personalized Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for individuals, offering empathetic support to navigate challenges like anxiety, depression, stress, loneliness, trauma, negative thoughts, anger, and grief. In couples therapy, I utilize the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for improved communication and to address issues such as infidelity, trust-building, premarital preparation, conflict resolution, parenting concerns, and guiding couples away from divorce with empathy and understanding.
I provide personalized Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for individuals, offering empathetic support to navigate challenges like anxiety, depression, stress, loneliness, trauma, negative thoughts, anger, and grief. In couples therapy, I utilize the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for improved communication and to address issues such as infidelity, trust-building, premarital preparation, conflict resolution, parenting concerns, and guiding couples away from divorce with empathy and understanding.
(249) 503-3578 View (249) 503-3578
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Living Hope Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MDiv
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R  (Online Only)
Many couples wait too long to reach out.
I have nearly 40 years experience in counselling. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, marital/relational issues, or struggling with parenting issues, I can help. I have been married for over 39 years and have raised six children to adulthood. My life experience as well as my training means I have many life skills and tools that I would love to share with you.
Many couples wait too long to reach out.
I have nearly 40 years experience in counselling. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, marital/relational issues, or struggling with parenting issues, I can help. I have been married for over 39 years and have raised six children to adulthood. My life experience as well as my training means I have many life skills and tools that I would love to share with you.
(705) 805-6086 View (705) 805-6086
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New Tecumseth Counselling Service
Registered Social Worker, RSW, BSW, BA
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R  (Online Only)
We can build an early trust relationship and move forward towards feeling better about yourself and the issues you struggle with.
Hi. You are feeling alone, dissatisfied and unhappy with your life. You aren't sure where to turn because life feels overwhelming. You need someone to talk to and you are hoping that someone will listen and understand what you are going through. Your goal is to have some better strategies to deal with your frustrations and worry and to talk through how you're feeling. You want to feel relieved and resolved about your journey moving forward
We can build an early trust relationship and move forward towards feeling better about yourself and the issues you struggle with.
Hi. You are feeling alone, dissatisfied and unhappy with your life. You aren't sure where to turn because life feels overwhelming. You need someone to talk to and you are hoping that someone will listen and understand what you are going through. Your goal is to have some better strategies to deal with your frustrations and worry and to talk through how you're feeling. You want to feel relieved and resolved about your journey moving forward
(249) 488-4073 View (249) 488-4073
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Katerina Yaroslavsky
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, BA, MACP
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Alliston, ON L9R
A main focus of mine in therapy is to identify existing strengths and cultivate new resources for individuals and couples to overcome negative patterns and feelings of disconnection.
Have you ever felt utterly alone, anxious, and disconnected? I too felt unsure, overwhelmed, and had trouble coping with life’s curve balls. My journey involved learning to lean into discomfort, to be open and vulnerable, and that one wrong turn does not mean the end. By opening up my authentic self to others and to myself, I learned that I am enough. I believe success in therapy is achieved by using an individualized approach that celebrates the qualities that bring us together as well as those that make us unique. We all face our own battles, but we do not have to go it alone.
A main focus of mine in therapy is to identify existing strengths and cultivate new resources for individuals and couples to overcome negative patterns and feelings of disconnection.
Have you ever felt utterly alone, anxious, and disconnected? I too felt unsure, overwhelmed, and had trouble coping with life’s curve balls. My journey involved learning to lean into discomfort, to be open and vulnerable, and that one wrong turn does not mean the end. By opening up my authentic self to others and to myself, I learned that I am enough. I believe success in therapy is achieved by using an individualized approach that celebrates the qualities that bring us together as well as those that make us unique. We all face our own battles, but we do not have to go it alone.
(249) 700-5486 View (249) 700-5486
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Shauna Johnson
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R
I have experience in helping individuals who struggle with self-esteem, body confidence, burnout, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, direction in life and interpersonal difficulties.
Welcome to Therapy Heals! I work through a person-centered, eclectic approach where I help you to better understand your feelings and emotions and get you on the right track to self-awareness, healing and a more positive outlook on life. As the client, you are the driver and I am in the passenger seat, cheering you on throughout your journey, as well as giving you the coping mechanisms, support and guidance to help you achieve your goals and be the best version of yourself.
I have experience in helping individuals who struggle with self-esteem, body confidence, burnout, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, direction in life and interpersonal difficulties.
Welcome to Therapy Heals! I work through a person-centered, eclectic approach where I help you to better understand your feelings and emotions and get you on the right track to self-awareness, healing and a more positive outlook on life. As the client, you are the driver and I am in the passenger seat, cheering you on throughout your journey, as well as giving you the coping mechanisms, support and guidance to help you achieve your goals and be the best version of yourself.
(888) 340-4325 View (888) 340-4325
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Naomi Bennett
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R
I see people who are struggling with depression, anxiety, addictions, adjustment to change in their lives, relationship or family conflict, or the residual pain left from difficult childhoods or painful life events. My way of working as a therapist is to get to know you: your hopes, your talents, your problems and your unique way of thinking and expressing yourself. We then proceed with treatment based on who you are and what you need. The aim is to allow coping with your weaknesses to help you uncover your strengths, and your way forward.
I see people who are struggling with depression, anxiety, addictions, adjustment to change in their lives, relationship or family conflict, or the residual pain left from difficult childhoods or painful life events. My way of working as a therapist is to get to know you: your hopes, your talents, your problems and your unique way of thinking and expressing yourself. We then proceed with treatment based on who you are and what you need. The aim is to allow coping with your weaknesses to help you uncover your strengths, and your way forward.
(855) 977-0103 View (855) 977-0103
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Pantea Ahmadian
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R
Are you feeling stuck in the same patterns? Overwhelmed by depression, anxiety, or major life changes? You’re not alone—life can be incredibly challenging. I specialize in helping with anxiety, self-esteem, coping skills, and family and relationship issues. Whether you’re a student, a working professional, or dealing with career stress, I’m here to support you in reclaiming your authentic self and putting your needs first.
Are you feeling stuck in the same patterns? Overwhelmed by depression, anxiety, or major life changes? You’re not alone—life can be incredibly challenging. I specialize in helping with anxiety, self-esteem, coping skills, and family and relationship issues. Whether you’re a student, a working professional, or dealing with career stress, I’m here to support you in reclaiming your authentic self and putting your needs first.
(249) 529-0442 View (249) 529-0442
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Robyn Cottrell
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MACP
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R
ADHD, BPD, Emotions, Relationships/ Couples, Anxiety/Stress- You're having a hard time concentrating and getting things done. You struggle to find motivation to complete your daily tasks and then feel down about yourself. You struggle with shifting moods and don't know how to cope. When anxiety and overwhelm take over, it can be hard to function because your concentration and motivation start to slip. And, if you struggle with low mood and negative self-talk, it can be hard to get out of that "funk" and shift to a more productive mindset.
ADHD, BPD, Emotions, Relationships/ Couples, Anxiety/Stress- You're having a hard time concentrating and getting things done. You struggle to find motivation to complete your daily tasks and then feel down about yourself. You struggle with shifting moods and don't know how to cope. When anxiety and overwhelm take over, it can be hard to function because your concentration and motivation start to slip. And, if you struggle with low mood and negative self-talk, it can be hard to get out of that "funk" and shift to a more productive mindset.
(249) 523-5275 View (249) 523-5275
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Sylwia Domanski
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alliston, ON L9R
Support for children, individuals, couple's, and families, in these areas: first responders, marriage breakdown, infidelity, anxiety, stress, depression, low mood, low motivation, boundaries, relationship/family struggles, burnout .
I am a Registered Psychotherapist, and I am currently offering in-person therapy, and online services for Ontario residents. I provide an eclectic, client-centered approach to counselling, using best-practices and various treatment methods on a highly individualized basis. I am trained in Working with First Responders, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Gottman Method Couples-Therapy, Complex Trauma Certificate, Mindfulness Based practices, Solution Focused, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Somatic Modality. I work with First Responders and Workplace Mental Health, Couples who want to communicate better or have experienced Infidelity
Support for children, individuals, couple's, and families, in these areas: first responders, marriage breakdown, infidelity, anxiety, stress, depression, low mood, low motivation, boundaries, relationship/family struggles, burnout .
I am a Registered Psychotherapist, and I am currently offering in-person therapy, and online services for Ontario residents. I provide an eclectic, client-centered approach to counselling, using best-practices and various treatment methods on a highly individualized basis. I am trained in Working with First Responders, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Gottman Method Couples-Therapy, Complex Trauma Certificate, Mindfulness Based practices, Solution Focused, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Somatic Modality. I work with First Responders and Workplace Mental Health, Couples who want to communicate better or have experienced Infidelity
(548) 800-1822 View (548) 800-1822
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Sharon Obiye
Registered Social Worker, Bsc, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Alliston, ON L9R  (Online Only)
Life is filed with some ups and downs, we pride ourselves in navigating different challenges we face but there are moment when we need a shoulder to lean on. Yiléa therapy services can be that shoulder not only to lean on but to offer assistance in navigating day to day challenges. Are you feeling overwhelmed? Are you struggling with combative or fearful thoughts? Are you anxious about day to day life decisions? Are you struggling with balancing societal expectations, personal needs and family expectations? Are you feeling unmotivated to do things you used to love? Are you struggling with your relationship with your partner?
Life is filed with some ups and downs, we pride ourselves in navigating different challenges we face but there are moment when we need a shoulder to lean on. Yiléa therapy services can be that shoulder not only to lean on but to offer assistance in navigating day to day challenges. Are you feeling overwhelmed? Are you struggling with combative or fearful thoughts? Are you anxious about day to day life decisions? Are you struggling with balancing societal expectations, personal needs and family expectations? Are you feeling unmotivated to do things you used to love? Are you struggling with your relationship with your partner?
(289) 513-3653 View (289) 513-3653
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Crystal Pacheco
Registered Social Worker, HBA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R
Within the past 10 years, I have trained and developed the following skill set in the these areas: anxiety, depression, social anxiety, OCD, substance use, relationship issues, self-esteem, family systems and trauma work including CPT (Cognitive Processing Therapy) and PE (Prolonged Exposure).
Welcome to my page! I am extremely happy that you have made the first step to look for support. Within the counselling that I provide for clients, I use a soft welcoming approach where my ethics are valued with my clients by developing a working alliance that feels safe and trusting. I offer both virtual and in-person sessions. I embrace working with clients with different age groups such as Children, Youth, and Adults. I also offer Individual, Couples or Family counselling based on your needs and goals. I am also passionate about working with clients with Autism and Social Needs.
Within the past 10 years, I have trained and developed the following skill set in the these areas: anxiety, depression, social anxiety, OCD, substance use, relationship issues, self-esteem, family systems and trauma work including CPT (Cognitive Processing Therapy) and PE (Prolonged Exposure).
Welcome to my page! I am extremely happy that you have made the first step to look for support. Within the counselling that I provide for clients, I use a soft welcoming approach where my ethics are valued with my clients by developing a working alliance that feels safe and trusting. I offer both virtual and in-person sessions. I embrace working with clients with different age groups such as Children, Youth, and Adults. I also offer Individual, Couples or Family counselling based on your needs and goals. I am also passionate about working with clients with Autism and Social Needs.
(289) 763-9898 View (289) 763-9898
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Michelle Straka
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, BA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alliston, ON L9R
I provide services to individuals (including children 7+), couples, and families.
My approach to therapy is deeply rooted in the core belief that the therapeutic relationship is essential for facilitating change, healing, and growth towards successful treatment outcomes. I believe in a holistic integrated approach, utilizing a client-centered approach combining a variety of therapeutic interventions such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Somatic experiencing, and Mindfulness to fit your individual goals, needs, and beliefs.
I provide services to individuals (including children 7+), couples, and families.
My approach to therapy is deeply rooted in the core belief that the therapeutic relationship is essential for facilitating change, healing, and growth towards successful treatment outcomes. I believe in a holistic integrated approach, utilizing a client-centered approach combining a variety of therapeutic interventions such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Somatic experiencing, and Mindfulness to fit your individual goals, needs, and beliefs.
(888) 340-4325 View (888) 340-4325
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Andra Escobar
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alliston, ON L9R
I invite you to start your journey with me and let me support you on your path to self-love and healing, whether by yourself or with your partner.
Are you seeking to embark on a journey of healing from narcissistic abuse and the scars it leaves behind? Do life's challenges often leave you feeling isolated and misunderstood? Are you yearning to address issues of infidelity and intimacy within your relationship? Rest assured, drawing from personal experience, I understand that the path to self-love, healing, and self-discovery is a continuous one. Because of this, I aspire to help individuals overcome their challenges regarding self-worth, internal strength, and resilience and heal and grow.
I invite you to start your journey with me and let me support you on your path to self-love and healing, whether by yourself or with your partner.
Are you seeking to embark on a journey of healing from narcissistic abuse and the scars it leaves behind? Do life's challenges often leave you feeling isolated and misunderstood? Are you yearning to address issues of infidelity and intimacy within your relationship? Rest assured, drawing from personal experience, I understand that the path to self-love, healing, and self-discovery is a continuous one. Because of this, I aspire to help individuals overcome their challenges regarding self-worth, internal strength, and resilience and heal and grow.
(249) 201-9620 View (249) 201-9620
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Jordan Whitton
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MACP
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R
I specialize in anxiety/stress, depression, ADHD, anger/emotion regulations, men's issues, childhood trauma & relationships/ couples.
ADHD, Men's Issues, Couples, Stress/Anxiety/Depression- You feel stuck, hopeless, and unsure about where to turn but just know that you want to start feeling better. Perhaps you are struggling with anxiety, overwhelm, ADHD or motivation issues and this is complicating seeking help. Or as a man, you've been feeling bad for quite a while but society tells you to "toughen up" and get through it on your own. Your self-worth has taken a hit and feel lost. Whatever it is you're struggling with, I'd be honoured to help you navigate this tough time and work towards creating a more fulfilling, empowered life.
I specialize in anxiety/stress, depression, ADHD, anger/emotion regulations, men's issues, childhood trauma & relationships/ couples.
ADHD, Men's Issues, Couples, Stress/Anxiety/Depression- You feel stuck, hopeless, and unsure about where to turn but just know that you want to start feeling better. Perhaps you are struggling with anxiety, overwhelm, ADHD or motivation issues and this is complicating seeking help. Or as a man, you've been feeling bad for quite a while but society tells you to "toughen up" and get through it on your own. Your self-worth has taken a hit and feel lost. Whatever it is you're struggling with, I'd be honoured to help you navigate this tough time and work towards creating a more fulfilling, empowered life.
(249) 486-5727 View (249) 486-5727
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Victoria Pacitti
Registered Psychotherapist, RSW, RP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Alliston, ON L9R
Waitlist for new clients
Effective therapy occurs when a safe therapeutic relationship is present, allowing you to feel comfortable in processing difficult emotions/memories.
Are you feeling anxious, having excessive worries, fearing judgement, or even feeling uncomfortable in your body? You’ve been trying to cope alone with how you’re feeling, but things just don’t seem to be getting any easier. It feels like your mood is quick to change and as though you don’t have control over your emotions or thoughts. Feeling stuck in these issues and in your own head might be leading you to feel hopeless about yourself and the future. I specialize in helping individuals better understand, manage and address social anxiety, stress, sadness, anxiety, feeling disconnected, relationship difficulties and more.
Effective therapy occurs when a safe therapeutic relationship is present, allowing you to feel comfortable in processing difficult emotions/memories.
Are you feeling anxious, having excessive worries, fearing judgement, or even feeling uncomfortable in your body? You’ve been trying to cope alone with how you’re feeling, but things just don’t seem to be getting any easier. It feels like your mood is quick to change and as though you don’t have control over your emotions or thoughts. Feeling stuck in these issues and in your own head might be leading you to feel hopeless about yourself and the future. I specialize in helping individuals better understand, manage and address social anxiety, stress, sadness, anxiety, feeling disconnected, relationship difficulties and more.
(289) 512-2378 View (289) 512-2378
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Judi Siklos
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, HonsBA, CCC
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R
Waitlist for new clients
Feeling overwhelmed by all that’s happening around you can lead to burnout as you try to take care of everything and everyone. You may be a queer recent grad stepping into a new job or exploring a new relationship and as much as you’re excited about these changes, there's a disconnect between your wants and needs. Or you may be a mom who feels guilty or ashamed for not doing or being enough, which is starting to show up in ways that are hurting you and those you care most about. If you are someone feeling stuck in patterns of resentment or disappointment, I am here to support you in bringing more balance and joy back into your life.
Feeling overwhelmed by all that’s happening around you can lead to burnout as you try to take care of everything and everyone. You may be a queer recent grad stepping into a new job or exploring a new relationship and as much as you’re excited about these changes, there's a disconnect between your wants and needs. Or you may be a mom who feels guilty or ashamed for not doing or being enough, which is starting to show up in ways that are hurting you and those you care most about. If you are someone feeling stuck in patterns of resentment or disappointment, I am here to support you in bringing more balance and joy back into your life.
(289) 302-6702 View (289) 302-6702
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Holly Gibbons
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Alliston, ON L9R
I have experience working with a wide range of issues, including but not limited to, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting, trauma, self-esteem, relationship issues and more.
I believe that each person’s story and reason for accessing therapy is unique to them, and so my approach is to meet you where you are. I work with children, youth, and adults and have 10 years of experience supporting people to achieve their goals. I have worked extensively with children, and adults. I believe that successful therapy starts with a strong therapeutic relationship between myself and my client and I am honoured that you would consider inviting me to support you. I will provide a non-judgemental experience, focusing on the goals you wish to attain.
I have experience working with a wide range of issues, including but not limited to, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting, trauma, self-esteem, relationship issues and more.
I believe that each person’s story and reason for accessing therapy is unique to them, and so my approach is to meet you where you are. I work with children, youth, and adults and have 10 years of experience supporting people to achieve their goals. I have worked extensively with children, and adults. I believe that successful therapy starts with a strong therapeutic relationship between myself and my client and I am honoured that you would consider inviting me to support you. I will provide a non-judgemental experience, focusing on the goals you wish to attain.
(888) 340-4325 View (888) 340-4325
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Agnes Kaufman
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alliston, ON L9R
Welcome! I have substantial experience working with clients experiencing anger management concerns, substance abuse, anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress disorder, cultural and boundary disputes and domestic violence as well as couple counselling and those with relationship challenges I have worked with clients of all ages, starting as young as 10 years of age. I also provide clinical consultation/supervision for other therapists.
Welcome! I have substantial experience working with clients experiencing anger management concerns, substance abuse, anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress disorder, cultural and boundary disputes and domestic violence as well as couple counselling and those with relationship challenges I have worked with clients of all ages, starting as young as 10 years of age. I also provide clinical consultation/supervision for other therapists.
(888) 340-4325 View (888) 340-4325
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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.