Couples Counselling Therapists in Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC

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Rev. Sheri R Heller
Registered Social Worker, LCSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3J  (Online Only)
With a corrective therapeutic relationship characterized by deep humanity and compassion difficult challenges can be traversed and growth and creativity can be encouraged.
I was a complex trauma therapist in NYC and am now a trauma-informed wellness coach in Montreal with licensure in Ontario and membership with the Canadian Counseling & Psychotherapy Association. I offer traditional, spiritual and holistic methods and resources that assist with healing from complex trauma, narcissistic abuse and addictions. Together we can attain regulation and identify and reclaim the parts of the self that were abandoned for the sake of survival, so that cohesion can be restored. With steadfast effort a life in which thriving replaces mere survival can result so that goals can be reached and growth can prevail.
With a corrective therapeutic relationship characterized by deep humanity and compassion difficult challenges can be traversed and growth and creativity can be encouraged.
I was a complex trauma therapist in NYC and am now a trauma-informed wellness coach in Montreal with licensure in Ontario and membership with the Canadian Counseling & Psychotherapy Association. I offer traditional, spiritual and holistic methods and resources that assist with healing from complex trauma, narcissistic abuse and addictions. Together we can attain regulation and identify and reclaim the parts of the self that were abandoned for the sake of survival, so that cohesion can be restored. With steadfast effort a life in which thriving replaces mere survival can result so that goals can be reached and growth can prevail.
(438) 500-1067 View (438) 500-1067
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Allison Cordner
Licensed Professional Counsellor, MACP, RCC, RTC, SEP, TRA
Verified Verified
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3J  (Online Only)
Our therapists are dedicated to creating a warm, engaging, and sometimes even playful environment, because we know that the relationship between therapist and client is key to meaningful progress.
At Allison Cordner & Associates, we understand that university life is a time of immense change, growth, and sometimes overwhelming challenges. We’re here to support students as they navigate academic pressures, relationship dynamics, identity exploration, and the stress that comes with transitioning into adulthood. With our 100% online practice, we are accessible to students across North America and parts of the UK. No matter where you are, we’re here to help you build a foundation for a balanced and fulfilling future.
Our therapists are dedicated to creating a warm, engaging, and sometimes even playful environment, because we know that the relationship between therapist and client is key to meaningful progress.
At Allison Cordner & Associates, we understand that university life is a time of immense change, growth, and sometimes overwhelming challenges. We’re here to support students as they navigate academic pressures, relationship dynamics, identity exploration, and the stress that comes with transitioning into adulthood. With our 100% online practice, we are accessible to students across North America and parts of the UK. No matter where you are, we’re here to help you build a foundation for a balanced and fulfilling future.
(450) 499-2776 View (450) 499-2776
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Emma O'Connell
Registered Social Worker, BSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3J  (Online Only)
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the demands of daily life, struggling to maintain focus and manage relationships? Are you exhausted trying to constantly fit into a world that feels like it wasn’t built for you? You’re not alone. Many adults with ADHD, as well as their loved ones, face similar hurdles. Therapy can be a transformative space for growth, understanding, and connection. I specialize in supporting adults with ADHD, couples, and parents of children with ADHD, helping you find strategies that resonate with your experiences.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the demands of daily life, struggling to maintain focus and manage relationships? Are you exhausted trying to constantly fit into a world that feels like it wasn’t built for you? You’re not alone. Many adults with ADHD, as well as their loved ones, face similar hurdles. Therapy can be a transformative space for growth, understanding, and connection. I specialize in supporting adults with ADHD, couples, and parents of children with ADHD, helping you find strategies that resonate with your experiences.
(438) 256-7476 View (438) 256-7476
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Natasha Sniatowsky
Registered Psychotherapist, MScA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H4C
Waitlist for new clients
I am a licensed psychotherapist and couple & family therapist, offering psychotherapy services to individuals, couples & families. My practice is attachment-based and trauma informed. It integrates different therapeutic approaches as I tailor the therapy methods to the client's individual needs. I work with clients struggling with all types of life cycle transitions. The key objective of our work will be to encourage you to take a closer look at yourself and to guide you in discovering strategies on how you can make necessary changes in line with how you want to live your life.
I am a licensed psychotherapist and couple & family therapist, offering psychotherapy services to individuals, couples & families. My practice is attachment-based and trauma informed. It integrates different therapeutic approaches as I tailor the therapy methods to the client's individual needs. I work with clients struggling with all types of life cycle transitions. The key objective of our work will be to encourage you to take a closer look at yourself and to guide you in discovering strategies on how you can make necessary changes in line with how you want to live your life.
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Dr. Shakib Nasrullah
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3J
As a licensed psychologist, I will be delighted to help you (individuals, couples, or families) with issues such as: anxiety, depression, stress, low self-esteem, sadness, difficulties in your couple or family relationships, hard memories or history of trauma. I have specialized training in couple and family therapy (systemic theories) with sensitivities around sex, gender, race, culture, religion, spirituality, immigration, and emotions. Sessions can be weekly or bi-weekly, online or in-person. I usually prioritize couples and families, although all are encouraged to contact.
As a licensed psychologist, I will be delighted to help you (individuals, couples, or families) with issues such as: anxiety, depression, stress, low self-esteem, sadness, difficulties in your couple or family relationships, hard memories or history of trauma. I have specialized training in couple and family therapy (systemic theories) with sensitivities around sex, gender, race, culture, religion, spirituality, immigration, and emotions. Sessions can be weekly or bi-weekly, online or in-person. I usually prioritize couples and families, although all are encouraged to contact.
(438) 601-3611 View (438) 601-3611
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Romeo Bidar
Registered Psychotherapist, BSW, MSc, CFT, PsychTh
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3K  (Online Only)
This can be better explained and in more details during an initial intake session that takes around 50min for individuals and 80min for couples/families.
I have been working with mood related conditions (anxiety, depression, bipolar, obsessive and compulsive thoughts and behaviours, impulsivity) since 2018. I specialize in identity related issues including but not exclusively gender and transitioning related difficulties. The context of my specializing studies have been family and couple related difficulties including cultural and religion related and romantic and intimate relationship dynamics including infidelity and attachment. Even though I am not an expert on trauma, traumatic experiences (immigration related, war, assault, bullying, ...) have often been part of my work.
This can be better explained and in more details during an initial intake session that takes around 50min for individuals and 80min for couples/families.
I have been working with mood related conditions (anxiety, depression, bipolar, obsessive and compulsive thoughts and behaviours, impulsivity) since 2018. I specialize in identity related issues including but not exclusively gender and transitioning related difficulties. The context of my specializing studies have been family and couple related difficulties including cultural and religion related and romantic and intimate relationship dynamics including infidelity and attachment. Even though I am not an expert on trauma, traumatic experiences (immigration related, war, assault, bullying, ...) have often been part of my work.
(438) 701-0429 View (438) 701-0429
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Rebecca Pollak
Registered Social Worker, MSW
Verified Verified
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3J  (Online Only)
I'm here to listen. I understand that talking about personal challenges can be difficult, and reaching out for support is not always easy. My ultimate goal is to increase your well-being and life satisfaction by helping you understand what is standing in the way of your happiness. I work with individuals who struggle with relationship issues, anxiety, low self esteem, post-traumatic stress and anger management issues.
I'm here to listen. I understand that talking about personal challenges can be difficult, and reaching out for support is not always easy. My ultimate goal is to increase your well-being and life satisfaction by helping you understand what is standing in the way of your happiness. I work with individuals who struggle with relationship issues, anxiety, low self esteem, post-traumatic stress and anger management issues.
(438) 817-4132 View (438) 817-4132
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Anchored Therapy Centre - Individual Counselling And Couples Therapy
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, CTP, MACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3B
partners, families, teens, and couples face, and we're here to guide you toward a healthier, happier partnership.
We strive to provide a safe and supportive environment for individuals, couples, families, teens and partners facing various challenges. In relationships, we know the struggle with communication, unresolved conflicts, intimacy, and trust issues. That makes you feel disconnected and not being heard or felt. You seek to rebuild intimacy and understanding to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. We know you crave to feel heard and valued and aspire to cultivate a deep emotional connection. At our Centre, we will support you in identifying and addressing these challenges, fostering a more supportive and engaging partnership.
partners, families, teens, and couples face, and we're here to guide you toward a healthier, happier partnership.
We strive to provide a safe and supportive environment for individuals, couples, families, teens and partners facing various challenges. In relationships, we know the struggle with communication, unresolved conflicts, intimacy, and trust issues. That makes you feel disconnected and not being heard or felt. You seek to rebuild intimacy and understanding to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. We know you crave to feel heard and valued and aspire to cultivate a deep emotional connection. At our Centre, we will support you in identifying and addressing these challenges, fostering a more supportive and engaging partnership.
(289) 815-0270 View (289) 815-0270
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Sofia Hidershaj
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3G  (Online Only)
Accepting new clients - Life can be overwhelming—trauma can leave you drained, anger can feel overwhelming, ADHD can feel paralyzing, relationship struggles can lead to loneliness, and anxiety can weigh heavily on you. I understand how exhausting these challenges can be. I work with individuals, couples, and families to navigate these difficulties and foster personal growth. My goal is to create a safe, collaborative environment where you can explore your concerns. Whether you need a space to talk, process your feelings, gain self-awareness, or acquire new coping skills, I’m here to support you.
Accepting new clients - Life can be overwhelming—trauma can leave you drained, anger can feel overwhelming, ADHD can feel paralyzing, relationship struggles can lead to loneliness, and anxiety can weigh heavily on you. I understand how exhausting these challenges can be. I work with individuals, couples, and families to navigate these difficulties and foster personal growth. My goal is to create a safe, collaborative environment where you can explore your concerns. Whether you need a space to talk, process your feelings, gain self-awareness, or acquire new coping skills, I’m here to support you.
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Dana Kinsley
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3G  (Online Only)
Now accepting new clients! If you're seeking help with stress, relationship issues, anxiety, depression, ADHD, depression, grief, or self-esteem, I’m here to support you. My goal is to empower you to develop the tools you need to navigate these challenges with confidence. I’m passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families discover their strengths and achieve personal growth. I believe that a supportive therapeutic relationship can cultivate resilience and enhance overall well-being.
Now accepting new clients! If you're seeking help with stress, relationship issues, anxiety, depression, ADHD, depression, grief, or self-esteem, I’m here to support you. My goal is to empower you to develop the tools you need to navigate these challenges with confidence. I’m passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families discover their strengths and achieve personal growth. I believe that a supportive therapeutic relationship can cultivate resilience and enhance overall well-being.
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Allison Cordner
Counsellor, MA, RCC, RTC, TRA
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3J  (Online Only)
In addition to personal healing, we also work with individuals and couples to improve communication and strengthen relationships.
Allison Cordner & Associates: Supporting You Through Healing and Growth At Allison Cordner & Associates, we are here to help individuals navigate the challenges of grief, loss, and difficult childhood experiences. We know that at the heart of effective therapy is a strong, trusting relationship between the client and therapist. That’s why we focus on creating a warm, engaging, and even at times playful atmosphere to make the healing journey feel safe and supportive. My practice is 100% online, allowing us to provide support across North America & parts of the UK. Wherever you are, we’re here to offer compassionate, accessible care.
In addition to personal healing, we also work with individuals and couples to improve communication and strengthen relationships.
Allison Cordner & Associates: Supporting You Through Healing and Growth At Allison Cordner & Associates, we are here to help individuals navigate the challenges of grief, loss, and difficult childhood experiences. We know that at the heart of effective therapy is a strong, trusting relationship between the client and therapist. That’s why we focus on creating a warm, engaging, and even at times playful atmosphere to make the healing journey feel safe and supportive. My practice is 100% online, allowing us to provide support across North America & parts of the UK. Wherever you are, we’re here to offer compassionate, accessible care.
(514) 496-8312 View (514) 496-8312
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Angela Cabral
Registered Psychotherapist, MSW, PSW
Verified Verified
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3J
I bring 30 years of experience to the process of making therapy work, addressing the needs of individuals, couples, families, adults and adolescents.
People come to me to resolve challenges that get in the way of living well. A trusting relationship is the essence of effective treatment. You need to feel understood and connected in order to share your inner world. My training and extensive years of experience enable me to earn trust and cooperation to help people identify and achieve their goals. My approach to treatment is interactive and collaborative and my style is warm and engaging. Respectfulness, clarity and directness tempered by humour characterize my work.
I bring 30 years of experience to the process of making therapy work, addressing the needs of individuals, couples, families, adults and adolescents.
People come to me to resolve challenges that get in the way of living well. A trusting relationship is the essence of effective treatment. You need to feel understood and connected in order to share your inner world. My training and extensive years of experience enable me to earn trust and cooperation to help people identify and achieve their goals. My approach to treatment is interactive and collaborative and my style is warm and engaging. Respectfulness, clarity and directness tempered by humour characterize my work.
(514) 400-2288 View (514) 400-2288
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Rick Parker
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H4C
With couples, I also use Emotion Focused Therapy.
My aim is to guide my clients towards understanding and acceptance of (being with) their emotional experience so that they feel complete, free and more connected to others. Engaging in therapy with me involves warmth and empathy, which allows my clients to freely express, and understand, their experience. I validate the experience of my clients so that they genuinely begin feel well with who they are. I use empirically supported treatments that treat difficult emotions such as sadness, anger, and fear (Emotion Focused Therapy) or problematic thinking patterns related to anxiety/depression (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy).
With couples, I also use Emotion Focused Therapy.
My aim is to guide my clients towards understanding and acceptance of (being with) their emotional experience so that they feel complete, free and more connected to others. Engaging in therapy with me involves warmth and empathy, which allows my clients to freely express, and understand, their experience. I validate the experience of my clients so that they genuinely begin feel well with who they are. I use empirically supported treatments that treat difficult emotions such as sadness, anger, and fear (Emotion Focused Therapy) or problematic thinking patterns related to anxiety/depression (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy).
(855) 996-3131 View (855) 996-3131
Steven Rosenbloom
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H4C
My areas of expertise include relationship issues, depression, personality disorders, anxiety and fears, loss or grief, trauma, PTSD and patients seeking psychoanalysis.
I am a registered Psychologist with 40 years experience and a Training and Supervising Analyst at the Canadian Institute of Psychoanalysis in Montreal. I see late adolescents and adults for Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis for personal problems ranging from anxiety and depression to personal identity and other emotional difficulties. I have taught and supervised psychiatric residents and psychology interns for 40 years. I teach supervise Candidates at the Canadian Institute of Psychoanalysis and have published in the areas of Psychoanalytic Identity and Countertransference.
My areas of expertise include relationship issues, depression, personality disorders, anxiety and fears, loss or grief, trauma, PTSD and patients seeking psychoanalysis.
I am a registered Psychologist with 40 years experience and a Training and Supervising Analyst at the Canadian Institute of Psychoanalysis in Montreal. I see late adolescents and adults for Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis for personal problems ranging from anxiety and depression to personal identity and other emotional difficulties. I have taught and supervised psychiatric residents and psychology interns for 40 years. I teach supervise Candidates at the Canadian Institute of Psychoanalysis and have published in the areas of Psychoanalytic Identity and Countertransference.
(514) 400-2522 View (514) 400-2522
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Frank Salerno
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3J
Dear clients, I am the President and co-founder of the Montreal Psychology Center. My specialties include Cognitive Behavior Therapy for Anxiety and Depression. In addition, I completed specialized training in couple therapy. While working as a therapist at Montreal’s Royal Victoria Hospital (2004-2007), I was the co-developer of a workshop for couples entitled “Make Love Better”. This 8-week seminar was designed to help couples improve their relationships by promoting effective communication and enhancing emotional and sexual intimacy. My expertise on couple problems has been sought after by the media (e.g., CJAD, Syd Miller Show).
Dear clients, I am the President and co-founder of the Montreal Psychology Center. My specialties include Cognitive Behavior Therapy for Anxiety and Depression. In addition, I completed specialized training in couple therapy. While working as a therapist at Montreal’s Royal Victoria Hospital (2004-2007), I was the co-developer of a workshop for couples entitled “Make Love Better”. This 8-week seminar was designed to help couples improve their relationships by promoting effective communication and enhancing emotional and sexual intimacy. My expertise on couple problems has been sought after by the media (e.g., CJAD, Syd Miller Show).
(514) 515-9350 View (514) 515-9350
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Branko Kajzer
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, OPQ
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3J
Yes , you can get better and live a happier and healthier life! In my work with my clients I am committed to helping and encouraging individuals and couples to find healthy and successful ways to become directors in their own lives.Clients are offered therapies that promote understanding, self expression, and self esteem which will ultimately lead you to being in charge of your own life. In a safe, supportive and non-judgmental environment we can build unique relationship that could transform your lives. Therapy is a journey of self- discovery and growth - let's embark on this journey together.
Yes , you can get better and live a happier and healthier life! In my work with my clients I am committed to helping and encouraging individuals and couples to find healthy and successful ways to become directors in their own lives.Clients are offered therapies that promote understanding, self expression, and self esteem which will ultimately lead you to being in charge of your own life. In a safe, supportive and non-judgmental environment we can build unique relationship that could transform your lives. Therapy is a journey of self- discovery and growth - let's embark on this journey together.
(514) 613-4962 View (514) 613-4962
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Ron Thiessen
Psychologist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3B
I offer individual, couples or family counselling.
I can help you discover a different way of looking at your life to expose fresh opportunities and create new hope. I have facilitated the search for clarity in many clients by asking questions that expose the underlying obstacles to happiness and fulfillment, then suggesting strategies that provide opportunities for permanent change. With a listening, non-judgmental, easy-going approach to therapy along with a collaborative method that encourages a search for solutions on the part of both therapist and client, we will explore possibilities together. Effective communication enhances emotional and mental well-being, and that's the hallmark of the way we will engage.
I offer individual, couples or family counselling.
I can help you discover a different way of looking at your life to expose fresh opportunities and create new hope. I have facilitated the search for clarity in many clients by asking questions that expose the underlying obstacles to happiness and fulfillment, then suggesting strategies that provide opportunities for permanent change. With a listening, non-judgmental, easy-going approach to therapy along with a collaborative method that encourages a search for solutions on the part of both therapist and client, we will explore possibilities together. Effective communication enhances emotional and mental well-being, and that's the hallmark of the way we will engage.
(514) 400-2297 View (514) 400-2297
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Dr. Nicole Roberts
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3B  (Online Only)
Taking the step to seek therapy is a powerful move that demonstrates strength and resilience. I'm here to provide expert support as you navigate this journey. As a licensed psychologist specializing in adult and couples therapy, I utilize evidence-based techniques to address challenges such as depression, anxiety, tough relationships, life transitions, and sexual health.
Taking the step to seek therapy is a powerful move that demonstrates strength and resilience. I'm here to provide expert support as you navigate this journey. As a licensed psychologist specializing in adult and couples therapy, I utilize evidence-based techniques to address challenges such as depression, anxiety, tough relationships, life transitions, and sexual health.
(514) 613-4974 View (514) 613-4974
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Sexuality & ADhD Solutions
Registered Social Worker, RSSW, BEd, BA, AAC, EBC
Verified Verified
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3B  (Online Only)
Relationship empowerment for those willing and able to make changes individually and together.
Triumph for singles, couples, those with ADHD, and premarital couples. Do you have any of these Executive Function issues? Struggling with organizing, prioritizing, consistency, motivation, boundaries, processing information, problems in relationships, and in your sex life? Are your thoughts often filled with negativity, rumination, feelings of discouragement, anxiety, lack of confidence? Do you find yourself zoning out, distracted, overwhelmed, bored, unfocused, feeling misunderstood, and more? This is my area of expertise. I have proven methods to empower you to make the changes necessary for you to enjoy your life. Let's go!
Relationship empowerment for those willing and able to make changes individually and together.
Triumph for singles, couples, those with ADHD, and premarital couples. Do you have any of these Executive Function issues? Struggling with organizing, prioritizing, consistency, motivation, boundaries, processing information, problems in relationships, and in your sex life? Are your thoughts often filled with negativity, rumination, feelings of discouragement, anxiety, lack of confidence? Do you find yourself zoning out, distracted, overwhelmed, bored, unfocused, feeling misunderstood, and more? This is my area of expertise. I have proven methods to empower you to make the changes necessary for you to enjoy your life. Let's go!
(289) 272-8744 View (289) 272-8744
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Sophie Chappell
Counsellor, MA, CCC, ACNN
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Sud-Ouest, Montréal, QC H3C  (Online Only)
Welcome! I am excited to join you on your journey toward becoming your best self. As a counsellor, I provide a compassionate and collaborative space where clients can gain self-awareness and emotional balance. My work focuses on helping individuals navigate anxiety, self-esteem issues, parenting and relationship challenges by breaking free from unhelpful patterns. Through our work together, clients develop resilience, enhance emotional regulation, and build meaningful connections. I am dedicated to supporting personal growth, self-compassion, and a deeper sense of purpose, empowering clients to lead more fulfilling lives.
Welcome! I am excited to join you on your journey toward becoming your best self. As a counsellor, I provide a compassionate and collaborative space where clients can gain self-awareness and emotional balance. My work focuses on helping individuals navigate anxiety, self-esteem issues, parenting and relationship challenges by breaking free from unhelpful patterns. Through our work together, clients develop resilience, enhance emotional regulation, and build meaningful connections. I am dedicated to supporting personal growth, self-compassion, and a deeper sense of purpose, empowering clients to lead more fulfilling lives.
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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.