Reality Therapy in Victoria, BC

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Heather Thrasher
Counsellor, BSW, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8W
Relationships are built at the speed of trust and I believe the relationship created between therapist and client is the foundational component in the therapeutic process. I bring 15 years of experience working with families and individuals in various capacities and create a treatment plan specific to your individual needs. I identify as a female from a mixed ancestry- European/French/Indigenous, and honour the ability to work and play on the traditional lands and territory of the ɬaʔamɩn Peoples. I'm grateful to be able to walk alongside you and support you on your journey.
Relationships are built at the speed of trust and I believe the relationship created between therapist and client is the foundational component in the therapeutic process. I bring 15 years of experience working with families and individuals in various capacities and create a treatment plan specific to your individual needs. I identify as a female from a mixed ancestry- European/French/Indigenous, and honour the ability to work and play on the traditional lands and territory of the ɬaʔamɩn Peoples. I'm grateful to be able to walk alongside you and support you on your journey.
(778) 488-9402 View (778) 488-9402
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Leanne Toews
Counsellor, MA, RCC, QArb
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8W
Leanne was born and raised in the Lower Mainland, and has lived and worked in communities across Northern and Central British Columbia. She currently resides in Victoria, where she is active in the community supporting many initiatives, having run various programs and projects supporting youth and the community at large. Leanne holds a Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology, and a Bachelor of Arts in Child & Youth Care, with numerous diplomas and certificates acquired over years of experience in the field of mental wellness.
Leanne was born and raised in the Lower Mainland, and has lived and worked in communities across Northern and Central British Columbia. She currently resides in Victoria, where she is active in the community supporting many initiatives, having run various programs and projects supporting youth and the community at large. Leanne holds a Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology, and a Bachelor of Arts in Child & Youth Care, with numerous diplomas and certificates acquired over years of experience in the field of mental wellness.
(778) 588-9520 x2 View (778) 588-9520 x2
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Ginger Henderson
RTC, MTC, RCS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8Z
As a therapist, Registered Counselling Supervisor and owner of Ginger Henderson Counselling Services, my team of highly trained Counsellors are skilled, compassionate and resourceful and there to support you through whatever may be troubling you. If you are suffering through trauma, substance abuse, life changes, a loss of a loved one, parenting or relationship issues, depression, anxiety or simply wanting to change your life patterns, we are here. We work with clients from various backgrounds and strive to make every client feel comfortable and important.
As a therapist, Registered Counselling Supervisor and owner of Ginger Henderson Counselling Services, my team of highly trained Counsellors are skilled, compassionate and resourceful and there to support you through whatever may be troubling you. If you are suffering through trauma, substance abuse, life changes, a loss of a loved one, parenting or relationship issues, depression, anxiety or simply wanting to change your life patterns, we are here. We work with clients from various backgrounds and strive to make every client feel comfortable and important.
(877) 297-0493 View (877) 297-0493
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Wendy M Mackay
RN BSN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8R
In conjunction with colleagues at our office I intend to offer interpersonal group therapy providing an insight oriented group experience. There is also a codependency group option led by Valerie MacNeil, M.Ed.,RCC in which I will be involved.
In conjunction with colleagues at our office I intend to offer interpersonal group therapy providing an insight oriented group experience. There is also a codependency group option led by Valerie MacNeil, M.Ed.,RCC in which I will be involved.
(672) 800-1287 View (672) 800-1287
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Jennica Campbell
Counsellor
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8Z  (Online Only)
Offering Reduced Rate Sessions. Are you experiencing challenges related to self-esteem? Do you experience negative self-talk, challenges in your personal or professional relationships, or is anxiety affecting your daily life that prevents you from your hopes and dreams? I provide a warm, friendly and accepting space to help you develop more comfortable with your emotions, gain new tools to navigate anxiety, reduce self talk, improve relationship challenges and develop better self esteem.
Offering Reduced Rate Sessions. Are you experiencing challenges related to self-esteem? Do you experience negative self-talk, challenges in your personal or professional relationships, or is anxiety affecting your daily life that prevents you from your hopes and dreams? I provide a warm, friendly and accepting space to help you develop more comfortable with your emotions, gain new tools to navigate anxiety, reduce self talk, improve relationship challenges and develop better self esteem.
(581) 800-0259 View (581) 800-0259
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Jennifer Jollymore
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V9B
Working with people who have experienced trauma, neurodiversity, marriage challenges, raising children, have addictions, or who feel depressed and overwhelmed are areas of practice that I am both professionally skilled with and passionate about. I am dedicated to this work as it has helped me to understand, heal, and learn to live with my own trauma and life challenges, understand how neurodiversity affects my family and myself, and to learn to cope with the adventures of parenting. I am additionally committed to this work having seen the growth and changes in others throughout my career.
Working with people who have experienced trauma, neurodiversity, marriage challenges, raising children, have addictions, or who feel depressed and overwhelmed are areas of practice that I am both professionally skilled with and passionate about. I am dedicated to this work as it has helped me to understand, heal, and learn to live with my own trauma and life challenges, understand how neurodiversity affects my family and myself, and to learn to cope with the adventures of parenting. I am additionally committed to this work having seen the growth and changes in others throughout my career.
(587) 840-7751 View (587) 840-7751
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Natalie Smith
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V9A
If you have landed here, you or someone you know is in need of counselling and support. I am here to help, listen, and build a plan for change and moving forward with hope. I offer in-person, remote and nature-based, counselling services to assist clients, particularly children and teens, move towards improving their mental health, lifestyle and mindset. Our work together will hopefully develop a deeper understanding for how to develop the personal tools you need to build towards the life you want.
If you have landed here, you or someone you know is in need of counselling and support. I am here to help, listen, and build a plan for change and moving forward with hope. I offer in-person, remote and nature-based, counselling services to assist clients, particularly children and teens, move towards improving their mental health, lifestyle and mindset. Our work together will hopefully develop a deeper understanding for how to develop the personal tools you need to build towards the life you want.
(709) 800-2175 View (709) 800-2175
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Geoff Williams
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, MSW, RCSW, RCC
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8R
I offer virtual and in-person therapy for a specific range of individual and couple needs, including affair recovery, healthy boundaries, better communication, reconnection, break-up recovery, separation and divorce, addictions, ADHD, and anxiety. For couples, I incorporate the Gottman Method to help overcome marital blocks and restore intimacy. For individuals, I provide Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and a person-centered approach, offering new ways to handle painful feelings and thoughts for greater happiness and success. If needed, I can also provide DSM-5 diagnoses for mental health
I offer virtual and in-person therapy for a specific range of individual and couple needs, including affair recovery, healthy boundaries, better communication, reconnection, break-up recovery, separation and divorce, addictions, ADHD, and anxiety. For couples, I incorporate the Gottman Method to help overcome marital blocks and restore intimacy. For individuals, I provide Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and a person-centered approach, offering new ways to handle painful feelings and thoughts for greater happiness and success. If needed, I can also provide DSM-5 diagnoses for mental health
(778) 765-8912 View (778) 765-8912
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Darlene Mathews
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MA, RSW, RCC, ACS
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8Z  (Online Only)
Vulnerability can make us feel very uncomfortable, but if we view it as a transition, into higher self-esteem/confidence & therefore more life resilience then it is much healthier to forge ahead to find a therapist who can support us. Finding the best fit in seeking a therapist is the most important step in relieving your stress. Many of us struggle with unhappiness, anxiety, depression, suicide ideation, sleep deprivation, separation, divorce, conflict resolution, trauma, relationship, and parenting issues, emotion regulation, communication and assertiveness, boundaries, personal development, caregiver burden and so much more
Vulnerability can make us feel very uncomfortable, but if we view it as a transition, into higher self-esteem/confidence & therefore more life resilience then it is much healthier to forge ahead to find a therapist who can support us. Finding the best fit in seeking a therapist is the most important step in relieving your stress. Many of us struggle with unhappiness, anxiety, depression, suicide ideation, sleep deprivation, separation, divorce, conflict resolution, trauma, relationship, and parenting issues, emotion regulation, communication and assertiveness, boundaries, personal development, caregiver burden and so much more
(226) 916-5346 View (226) 916-5346
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Tanise Ambers
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8Z
The deepest desire of a human is to belong…to be heard…and to be accepted… Sometimes life presents us with difficulties that are tough to manage or resolve on our own. There are times when we need to ask for help in order to find ourselves and to move forward. As a person and a counsellor, I know that life’s challenges can happen at all stages of our lives at multiple levels and that every situation is unique to us alone. Circumstances that can challenge how we think, how we perceive, how we believe and how we respond.
The deepest desire of a human is to belong…to be heard…and to be accepted… Sometimes life presents us with difficulties that are tough to manage or resolve on our own. There are times when we need to ask for help in order to find ourselves and to move forward. As a person and a counsellor, I know that life’s challenges can happen at all stages of our lives at multiple levels and that every situation is unique to us alone. Circumstances that can challenge how we think, how we perceive, how we believe and how we respond.
(778) 761-2481 View (778) 761-2481
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Heather Granger
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8Z
I believe in an individualized, caring and respectful approach when working with clients to become more resilient and effective in their lives. Many people believe that the skills and motivation needed to maneuver all of life’s obstacles are automatically within all of us. But many of us learn ineffective ways of communicating, develop unhealthy patterns or find ourselves stuck with no idea of how to move forward. Having a dedicated time to examine patterns, build skills and develop a deeper understanding of ones’ strengths can help build a greater sense of wellness and clarity in our lives.
I believe in an individualized, caring and respectful approach when working with clients to become more resilient and effective in their lives. Many people believe that the skills and motivation needed to maneuver all of life’s obstacles are automatically within all of us. But many of us learn ineffective ways of communicating, develop unhealthy patterns or find ourselves stuck with no idea of how to move forward. Having a dedicated time to examine patterns, build skills and develop a deeper understanding of ones’ strengths can help build a greater sense of wellness and clarity in our lives.
(778) 488-0357 View (778) 488-0357
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Laura Luz
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, CFM, RegCRPO, MTC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8T
Laura is a Therapist, Intuitive Guide, Spiritual Director, Hypnotist and Mediator. She uses various methods which assist anyone who is pursuing either personal healing or an awakened sense of their spiritual path. Trauma and emotional pain are a regular part of the human experience, and there are times when having an objective navigator may accelerate one's understanding, acceptance and personal expansion. Laura offers her services to all those who resonate with her words and energy. She is a perceptive observer, a wisdom teacher and a natural uplifter. A phone call can discern if working together will be a match.
Laura is a Therapist, Intuitive Guide, Spiritual Director, Hypnotist and Mediator. She uses various methods which assist anyone who is pursuing either personal healing or an awakened sense of their spiritual path. Trauma and emotional pain are a regular part of the human experience, and there are times when having an objective navigator may accelerate one's understanding, acceptance and personal expansion. Laura offers her services to all those who resonate with her words and energy. She is a perceptive observer, a wisdom teacher and a natural uplifter. A phone call can discern if working together will be a match.
(855) 640-2646 View (855) 640-2646
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Murray S C Anderson
Counsellor, PhD, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8R
I see clients of all ages and backgrounds, presenting with a wide array of issues and concerns. Some are seeking a long-term therapeutic relationship, and for others, a single session is adequate. I usually begin with 60-90 minute sessions, and then we can folIow-up with 30-60 minute sessions. Either way, I want to create a safe and productive therapeutic environment for clients to feel comfortable in talking about their lives. I want to collaborate with clients to help them glean a better understanding of their lives, and come up with ways to make it through their day feeling better and more confident in their actions.
I see clients of all ages and backgrounds, presenting with a wide array of issues and concerns. Some are seeking a long-term therapeutic relationship, and for others, a single session is adequate. I usually begin with 60-90 minute sessions, and then we can folIow-up with 30-60 minute sessions. Either way, I want to create a safe and productive therapeutic environment for clients to feel comfortable in talking about their lives. I want to collaborate with clients to help them glean a better understanding of their lives, and come up with ways to make it through their day feeling better and more confident in their actions.
(778) 949-7035 View (778) 949-7035
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Brenden Taylor
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8T
I work with couples, parents, and individuals wanting support with their relationships and personal development. Intimate relationships require an investment of time, care, commitment, and trust, as well as a willingness to be vulnerable. When difficulties do arise, experienced support and guidance can make a significant difference. As a relationship-focused counsellor, my goal is to provide the specific support you and your partner need to deeply understand - and begin shifting - your interpersonal dynamics in order to build a capacity for greater emotional freedom and connection.
I work with couples, parents, and individuals wanting support with their relationships and personal development. Intimate relationships require an investment of time, care, commitment, and trust, as well as a willingness to be vulnerable. When difficulties do arise, experienced support and guidance can make a significant difference. As a relationship-focused counsellor, my goal is to provide the specific support you and your partner need to deeply understand - and begin shifting - your interpersonal dynamics in order to build a capacity for greater emotional freedom and connection.
(250) 389-2819 View (250) 389-2819
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Becca Shears - There's Counselling For That!
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8X
Waitlist for new clients
I find hope in what seems to be hopeless situations and clients trust that I can help without judgment. Listening to my clients' personal stories is both an honour and a privilege; feeling heard and understood is often their first significant step towards change. Mostly what I've found is that in my 30 years in the field of psychology and mental health, most of us can work through most of life's little challenges. When you have a challenge that you can't quite get past on your own - There's Counselling for That!
I find hope in what seems to be hopeless situations and clients trust that I can help without judgment. Listening to my clients' personal stories is both an honour and a privilege; feeling heard and understood is often their first significant step towards change. Mostly what I've found is that in my 30 years in the field of psychology and mental health, most of us can work through most of life's little challenges. When you have a challenge that you can't quite get past on your own - There's Counselling for That!
(778) 763-1374 View (778) 763-1374
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Gosia Cicha
Counsellor, MA, BA, RPN
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8T
My name is Gosia and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (#18317) with a Master’s degree in Counselling Psychology offering adult individual therapy. I believe that our healing begins when we are truly heard, believed and seen. My counselling approach is holistic, strength based and client centered. I am committed to equality and social justice, and treat each person with dignity, complete acceptance and compassion. I believe that everyone has creativity, strength, wisdom, and a capacity to make their own decisions and changes. It is my greatest privilege to walk alongside you bearing witness to your transformation.
My name is Gosia and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (#18317) with a Master’s degree in Counselling Psychology offering adult individual therapy. I believe that our healing begins when we are truly heard, believed and seen. My counselling approach is holistic, strength based and client centered. I am committed to equality and social justice, and treat each person with dignity, complete acceptance and compassion. I believe that everyone has creativity, strength, wisdom, and a capacity to make their own decisions and changes. It is my greatest privilege to walk alongside you bearing witness to your transformation.
(204) 819-0182 View (204) 819-0182
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Michael Sorsdahl
Psychologist, PhD(Ed), MA, RPsyc, CCC, RCC
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8R
I am a Registered Psychologist based on my MA in Counselling Psychology in BC (2454) and in Alberta (4991). I have a PhD in Education with a counselling focus, that informs my practice, however not part of my registration as a psychologist. I am invested in providing you an experience designed uniquely for you and allowing us to create a complimentary plan to achieve your desired results. Highly experienced in PTSD/trauma therapy, couples/relationships, LGBTQ2+, military culture, career counselling and Men's Issues, I bring my integrated approach combining counselling with education to provide the greatest chance of success.
I am a Registered Psychologist based on my MA in Counselling Psychology in BC (2454) and in Alberta (4991). I have a PhD in Education with a counselling focus, that informs my practice, however not part of my registration as a psychologist. I am invested in providing you an experience designed uniquely for you and allowing us to create a complimentary plan to achieve your desired results. Highly experienced in PTSD/trauma therapy, couples/relationships, LGBTQ2+, military culture, career counselling and Men's Issues, I bring my integrated approach combining counselling with education to provide the greatest chance of success.
(888) 539-9961 View (888) 539-9961
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Counselling Support Centre Online
Counsellor, MEd
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8L
If you are seeking the opportunity for low-cost counselling and would like to meet with a dynamic and eager student professional then the Counselling Support Centre is the place for you. We offer clients the opportunity to receive evidence based counselling from a counselling learner and a team of supervisors! Lack of funds, little to no benefits, may have you looking for affordable counselling. If you have a desire to change and grow and need someone to work with you on that, look no further!
If you are seeking the opportunity for low-cost counselling and would like to meet with a dynamic and eager student professional then the Counselling Support Centre is the place for you. We offer clients the opportunity to receive evidence based counselling from a counselling learner and a team of supervisors! Lack of funds, little to no benefits, may have you looking for affordable counselling. If you have a desire to change and grow and need someone to work with you on that, look no further!
(587) 804-7089 View (587) 804-7089
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Dr. Jo-Ann Leavey TelePsychology Virtual Clinic
Psychologist, NP, EdD, C Psych, LLD hc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8V  (Online Only)
Focusing on the person, mental health, and wellness, Leavey TelePsychology Clinic provides psychological counselling services for preteens to seniors. Specialties include emerging mental health problems, adult ADHD assessments, general life challenges, stressful school, home, community, relationship, workplace, and traumatic circumstances; and behavioural problems interfering with life function. Services are provided through 1:1, couples, family, and group therapy. Patients are seen through the Ontario TeleMedicine Network (OTN), a virtual platform.
Focusing on the person, mental health, and wellness, Leavey TelePsychology Clinic provides psychological counselling services for preteens to seniors. Specialties include emerging mental health problems, adult ADHD assessments, general life challenges, stressful school, home, community, relationship, workplace, and traumatic circumstances; and behavioural problems interfering with life function. Services are provided through 1:1, couples, family, and group therapy. Patients are seen through the Ontario TeleMedicine Network (OTN), a virtual platform.
(226) 799-1417 View (226) 799-1417

Online Therapists

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The Vancouver Centre for Loss & Bereavement
Counsellor, PhD, MA, RCC, CRT, BCOMM
Verified Verified
Vancouver, BC V6B  (Online Only)
In addition to my RCC, Certified in Reality Therapy/Choice Theory; Graduate education in Business & the Social Sciences, a Doctorate in Organizational Leadership.
Dr. Cheryl Bucar Having experienced personal and work related loss, I have learned that recovery from the trauma of loss and change is a process. In many situations such as a death or divorce the individual is able to label the loss and associated feelings as grief. Often in an organizational context, individuals do not think that the work related change as loss which can trigger profound feelings of grief. Understanding organizational loss in this context, normalizing the feelings that go with this type of change allows the integration of this knowing into my group and individual counselling work.
In addition to my RCC, Certified in Reality Therapy/Choice Theory; Graduate education in Business & the Social Sciences, a Doctorate in Organizational Leadership.
Dr. Cheryl Bucar Having experienced personal and work related loss, I have learned that recovery from the trauma of loss and change is a process. In many situations such as a death or divorce the individual is able to label the loss and associated feelings as grief. Often in an organizational context, individuals do not think that the work related change as loss which can trigger profound feelings of grief. Understanding organizational loss in this context, normalizing the feelings that go with this type of change allows the integration of this knowing into my group and individual counselling work.
(866) 206-7896 View (866) 206-7896

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Reality Therapy Counsellors

Is reality therapy evidence-based?

Reality therapy is not well-studied, and it may not be as effective in treating certain mental health conditions when compared with evidence-based treatments like cognitive behavioural or acceptance and commitment therapies. However, some research does indicate that reality therapy might be helpful for people with addiction, and may be effective in treating social anxiety in young people.

How long does reality therapy last?

Reality therapy is less structured when compared with psychoanalysis, for example. Reality therapy is more open-ended and may not be limited to a set number of sessions. It is common for clients to be in therapy for a year or longer and to see their therapist one to two times a week, though the exact schedule and timeline may vary depending on a client’s challenges and progress. Individuals can also practice the principles of reality therapy long after treatment has ended.

Does reality therapy work?

Reality therapy can help a person manage concerns such as eating disorders, addiction, substance use, anxiety, phobias, and relationship difficulties. This type of therapy encourages a person to be accountable for their behaviours. This therapy may offer benefits that are hard to measure. Reality therapy can be useful in one-on-one therapy or in group sessions. This method may be used with children, families, and adults.

What are the limitations of reality therapy?

This therapy is person-centered or client-centered, and the therapist focuses on choices made by the individual in the present day. The therapist privileges the individual’s perspective over others. This format may feel frustrating for individuals seeking a more structured approach; certainly, no one therapy type will work for every client.