Transgender Therapists in Surrey, BC
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Nat Keeling
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3S (Online Only)
As a trans and queer person myself, I support other queer and trans folks in exploring your gender identity and navigating transitioning, address gender dysphoria struggles, work with managing coming out dynamics, and help process the impact of transphobia and queerphobia.
Are you an adult who struggles with social situations and often feels overwhelmed? Have you been labelled as “too difficult” or “too sensitive” by others? I’ve been there. I work with late-diagnosed and undiagnosed autistic and AuDHD (Autism and ADHD) folks to help you feel seen and understood. As a neurodivergent person myself, I understand the challenges of forming and keeping relationships, managing PDA, dealing with RSD, and being prone to meltdowns/shutdowns. My neurodiversity-centered, compassion-focused approach meets you where you are, supporting your self-discovery journey.
As a trans and queer person myself, I support other queer and trans folks in exploring your gender identity and navigating transitioning, address gender dysphoria struggles, work with managing coming out dynamics, and help process the impact of transphobia and queerphobia.
Are you an adult who struggles with social situations and often feels overwhelmed? Have you been labelled as “too difficult” or “too sensitive” by others? I’ve been there. I work with late-diagnosed and undiagnosed autistic and AuDHD (Autism and ADHD) folks to help you feel seen and understood. As a neurodivergent person myself, I understand the challenges of forming and keeping relationships, managing PDA, dealing with RSD, and being prone to meltdowns/shutdowns. My neurodiversity-centered, compassion-focused approach meets you where you are, supporting your self-discovery journey.
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Tricia Antoniuk
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3V
Waitlist for new clients
If you have Relationship Problems, if you want Counselling for Coming Out and Sexual Identity Questions as a Lesbian, Gay, or Transgender person, if you have experienced Childhood Abuse, Relationship Abuse or Trauma, or if you are looking for Counselling for Stress, Depression and Anxiety, I can help.
Imagine finding Hope & Passion in your Life... If you feel stuck or frustrated, in emotional pain or a struggling relationship, counselling can help. With respect and patience we will discover how you can meet your deep longings and be free to be your truest self. You deserve to feel good about you. I work with gay, lesbian, transgender, queer, and straight youth and adults. I want you to have the inner freedom to be who you were meant to be. I want you to feel better about yourself, your relationships, and your life.
If you have Relationship Problems, if you want Counselling for Coming Out and Sexual Identity Questions as a Lesbian, Gay, or Transgender person, if you have experienced Childhood Abuse, Relationship Abuse or Trauma, or if you are looking for Counselling for Stress, Depression and Anxiety, I can help.
Imagine finding Hope & Passion in your Life... If you feel stuck or frustrated, in emotional pain or a struggling relationship, counselling can help. With respect and patience we will discover how you can meet your deep longings and be free to be your truest self. You deserve to feel good about you. I work with gay, lesbian, transgender, queer, and straight youth and adults. I want you to have the inner freedom to be who you were meant to be. I want you to feel better about yourself, your relationships, and your life.
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Beckham Ronaghan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW , RSW , BAH
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3R (Online Only)
I am currently only accepting new clients for my DBT weekly virtual skills group. Everyone has the ability to change. Traumatic experiences often leave us stuck in patterns that hold us back from enjoying life. With my clinical knowledge and personable approach, we will work together to figure out a plan forward. I am a Registered Social Worker with expertise in trauma treatment, concurrent disorders, and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy. I am an advocate for and a member of the LGBTQ+ community and am passionate about working with individuals and families to strengthen relationships.
I am currently only accepting new clients for my DBT weekly virtual skills group. Everyone has the ability to change. Traumatic experiences often leave us stuck in patterns that hold us back from enjoying life. With my clinical knowledge and personable approach, we will work together to figure out a plan forward. I am a Registered Social Worker with expertise in trauma treatment, concurrent disorders, and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy. I am an advocate for and a member of the LGBTQ+ community and am passionate about working with individuals and families to strengthen relationships.
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Sage One Wellness Counselling & Consulting
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3Z (Online Only)
My name is Parveen and I have over 20 years of experience in the counselling field. Many of my clients struggle with regulating their emotions and controlling their thoughts; impacting their relationships and goals when all they want to do is connect or be more effective. I support teens in the challenges they face navigating family, social situations, school, and mental health. I am also passionate about helping families reconnect, build stronger bonds, and set boundaries with each other.
My name is Parveen and I have over 20 years of experience in the counselling field. Many of my clients struggle with regulating their emotions and controlling their thoughts; impacting their relationships and goals when all they want to do is connect or be more effective. I support teens in the challenges they face navigating family, social situations, school, and mental health. I am also passionate about helping families reconnect, build stronger bonds, and set boundaries with each other.
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Elizabeth, an experienced and well-rounded therapist, operates from a trauma-informed practice. She creates a safe haven for her clients, allowing them to be heard and seen. Elizabeth specializes in addressing challenges related to anxiety, depression, and personal identity. Her mission is to guide clients toward their “lightbulb moments”—those transformative insights that illuminate their paths. One of Elizabeth’s core passions lies in empowering women. She helps them discover their unique voices, tap into their inner power, and navigate their paths to success. By fostering self-expression and encouraging women to use their voices
Elizabeth, an experienced and well-rounded therapist, operates from a trauma-informed practice. She creates a safe haven for her clients, allowing them to be heard and seen. Elizabeth specializes in addressing challenges related to anxiety, depression, and personal identity. Her mission is to guide clients toward their “lightbulb moments”—those transformative insights that illuminate their paths. One of Elizabeth’s core passions lies in empowering women. She helps them discover their unique voices, tap into their inner power, and navigate their paths to success. By fostering self-expression and encouraging women to use their voices
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My name is Jane Mai Ngo (she/her) and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Certified Child Life Specialist (CCLS). I work with people seeking a stronger sense of purpose, increased self-esteem, self-acceptance, and clarity in their lives. I create a healing space for individuals to recover from the relentless effects of intergenerational and childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, and social conditioning that leaves people feeling disconnected from their authentic selves. I will act as a companion on your healing journey, using a strength-based, person-centered, attachment-focused, and culture and trauma-informed lens.
My name is Jane Mai Ngo (she/her) and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Certified Child Life Specialist (CCLS). I work with people seeking a stronger sense of purpose, increased self-esteem, self-acceptance, and clarity in their lives. I create a healing space for individuals to recover from the relentless effects of intergenerational and childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, and social conditioning that leaves people feeling disconnected from their authentic selves. I will act as a companion on your healing journey, using a strength-based, person-centered, attachment-focused, and culture and trauma-informed lens.
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I work with clients who come from a variety of backgrounds and specialize in trauma recovery and neurodivergence, with a focus on deep level processing. My practice is neurobiologically informed and draws upon somatic techniques, parts work (such as IFS), as well as conventional talk therapy. It’s important for me to provide my clients with a safe space to explore their thoughts and feelings. The therapeutic relationship offers so much potential for deeper healing, especially when you have attachment wounds from your early relationships.
I work with clients who come from a variety of backgrounds and specialize in trauma recovery and neurodivergence, with a focus on deep level processing. My practice is neurobiologically informed and draws upon somatic techniques, parts work (such as IFS), as well as conventional talk therapy. It’s important for me to provide my clients with a safe space to explore their thoughts and feelings. The therapeutic relationship offers so much potential for deeper healing, especially when you have attachment wounds from your early relationships.
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Nikkol Adams
Counsellor, MA, RCC, EMDR, Somatic, 400-YTT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3S
Feeling disconnected from yourself? Struggling to break free from patterns? Constantly overwhelmed? Managing emotions feels like a challenge? Seeking support and allowing space for self-reflection can be daunting. For that, I recognize the courage it has taken for you to get here and the willingness to be open. I believe understanding your human experience is the path towards healing. Therefore, wonder, acceptance, and compassion are core values of my approach. As we become more self-reflective towards our physical, emotional, and spiritual selves, we gain the ability to create lasting change in our lives.
Feeling disconnected from yourself? Struggling to break free from patterns? Constantly overwhelmed? Managing emotions feels like a challenge? Seeking support and allowing space for self-reflection can be daunting. For that, I recognize the courage it has taken for you to get here and the willingness to be open. I believe understanding your human experience is the path towards healing. Therefore, wonder, acceptance, and compassion are core values of my approach. As we become more self-reflective towards our physical, emotional, and spiritual selves, we gain the ability to create lasting change in our lives.
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"Change is possible, and the right therapy will instill confidence, awaken insight, and nurture growth. Together we will help you discover and heal so that you can feel better and live the life and have the relationships you want." Are you dealing with Anxiety? Depression? Anger? Relationhsip Issues? Call me and discuss how I can help you find balance and happiness." 604 992-7220
"Change is possible, and the right therapy will instill confidence, awaken insight, and nurture growth. Together we will help you discover and heal so that you can feel better and live the life and have the relationships you want." Are you dealing with Anxiety? Depression? Anger? Relationhsip Issues? Call me and discuss how I can help you find balance and happiness." 604 992-7220
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I am dedicated to helping my clients deal with their difficult experiences and struggles in life. I compassionately support and guide my clients to discover their untapped strengths and resources so they can attain their greatest potential and find deeper meaning in life. I work with children, adolescents, adults and families to help bring about healing, growth and change. Building on a framework of warmth, empathy and compassion, my goal is to create an atmosphere in which you feel safe to explore even the most difficult areas of your life. My services are covered by most insurance companies and I direct bill to ICBC, CVAP & FNHA.
I am dedicated to helping my clients deal with their difficult experiences and struggles in life. I compassionately support and guide my clients to discover their untapped strengths and resources so they can attain their greatest potential and find deeper meaning in life. I work with children, adolescents, adults and families to help bring about healing, growth and change. Building on a framework of warmth, empathy and compassion, my goal is to create an atmosphere in which you feel safe to explore even the most difficult areas of your life. My services are covered by most insurance companies and I direct bill to ICBC, CVAP & FNHA.
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My purpose is to assist you in facing and processing traumatic / adverse life experiences that could have resulted in anxiety, depression, PTSD, addictions, anger issues, etc. Together, we will explore and unravel the nature and roots of what prevents you from living a happier life. Despite the possible challenges that may arise on this way, please know that you have a huge potential to live your life based on what is right with you. As a clinician, I am committed to do to the best of my abilities for facilitating this process and helping you reach your goals.
My purpose is to assist you in facing and processing traumatic / adverse life experiences that could have resulted in anxiety, depression, PTSD, addictions, anger issues, etc. Together, we will explore and unravel the nature and roots of what prevents you from living a happier life. Despite the possible challenges that may arise on this way, please know that you have a huge potential to live your life based on what is right with you. As a clinician, I am committed to do to the best of my abilities for facilitating this process and helping you reach your goals.
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When you notice there is something getting in the way of living your best life, remember that the “obstacle is the way”. This means that the way to the life you want is through this difficulty, which can become an entryway into more of what you want. I am here to help you move through obstacles until they become the way towards your best life. My goal as a therapist is to help people live a more balanced and connected life. I’m in my element as I create a safe, welcoming, and non-judgmental counseling environment, where people can explore the complexities of their lives. I work with clients from a holistic perspective.
When you notice there is something getting in the way of living your best life, remember that the “obstacle is the way”. This means that the way to the life you want is through this difficulty, which can become an entryway into more of what you want. I am here to help you move through obstacles until they become the way towards your best life. My goal as a therapist is to help people live a more balanced and connected life. I’m in my element as I create a safe, welcoming, and non-judgmental counseling environment, where people can explore the complexities of their lives. I work with clients from a holistic perspective.
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I offer trauma therapy to adult clients and older teens. I use my training in EMDR, emotion-focused therapy and nervous system functioning to help clients heal from their past, be better able to focus on the present, and gain motivation for the future. I have worked with adult clients dealing with both recent or prolonged trauma (including childhood trauma). As well, I enjoy working with clients learning to navigate their ADHD/neurodivergence and/or who are struggling with difficult emotions such as anger, sadness or hopelessness. (My services are covered by most insurances, under Clinical Counsellor(or RCC) in your policy).
I offer trauma therapy to adult clients and older teens. I use my training in EMDR, emotion-focused therapy and nervous system functioning to help clients heal from their past, be better able to focus on the present, and gain motivation for the future. I have worked with adult clients dealing with both recent or prolonged trauma (including childhood trauma). As well, I enjoy working with clients learning to navigate their ADHD/neurodivergence and/or who are struggling with difficult emotions such as anger, sadness or hopelessness. (My services are covered by most insurances, under Clinical Counsellor(or RCC) in your policy).
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Only within a non-judgemental, empathetic, and warm therapeutic space, can people feel safe to open up and be vulnerable; I hope to create just that for my clients. I am a person-centred counsellor that welcomes collaborative dialogue with my clients as they discover progress, determination, growth, and celebration. Whilst borrowing from various therapeutic modalities to guide my work, I am an avid believer in the power of self-compassion, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Inner Child work. I am also trained in providing Emotionally-Focused Therapy for couples and individuals.
Only within a non-judgemental, empathetic, and warm therapeutic space, can people feel safe to open up and be vulnerable; I hope to create just that for my clients. I am a person-centred counsellor that welcomes collaborative dialogue with my clients as they discover progress, determination, growth, and celebration. Whilst borrowing from various therapeutic modalities to guide my work, I am an avid believer in the power of self-compassion, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Inner Child work. I am also trained in providing Emotionally-Focused Therapy for couples and individuals.
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Andrew Simmons
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3S (Online Only)
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges, struggling with anxiety, or facing difficult transitions? Seeking help is a courageous step, and I am here to support you on your journey toward healing and personal growth. My approach is built on empathy, respect, and a deep commitment to understanding your unique experiences. What sets me apart is my unwavering dedication to your well-being. I create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can freely explore your thoughts and emotions. My goal is to empower you with the tools and insights needed to navigate life's complexities, fostering lasting positive change.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges, struggling with anxiety, or facing difficult transitions? Seeking help is a courageous step, and I am here to support you on your journey toward healing and personal growth. My approach is built on empathy, respect, and a deep commitment to understanding your unique experiences. What sets me apart is my unwavering dedication to your well-being. I create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can freely explore your thoughts and emotions. My goal is to empower you with the tools and insights needed to navigate life's complexities, fostering lasting positive change.
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Josette Marie Steel
MA, DVATI, CertA&D, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V4A (Online Only)
I'm really glad you're here. Over the past 30 years I've supported a wide variety of people on their healing journey. Together, we have worked through issues around trauma (current, historic & generational) PTSD, addiction & recovery (including alcohol, drugs, food, sex, gaming, porn, shopping, relationships & gambling), sexuality & sexual orientation, anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, and bipolar disorder. I have also supported people who live differently-abled lives, including those living on the autism spectrum and with Downs Syndrome. Please check out my website &/or call/text/email, to get to know me better.
I'm really glad you're here. Over the past 30 years I've supported a wide variety of people on their healing journey. Together, we have worked through issues around trauma (current, historic & generational) PTSD, addiction & recovery (including alcohol, drugs, food, sex, gaming, porn, shopping, relationships & gambling), sexuality & sexual orientation, anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, and bipolar disorder. I have also supported people who live differently-abled lives, including those living on the autism spectrum and with Downs Syndrome. Please check out my website &/or call/text/email, to get to know me better.
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My office is an all inclusive and safe space for my clients and I care for the well being of all my clients using a collaborative and strength based approach. I often use a variety of approaches including ACT, CBT, DBT, EMDR, Mindfulness, and Play Therapy. In addition to working with children and youth, I also work vastly along with LGBTQ+, young adults, and adults whom present concerns of anxiety, depression, trauma, amid others.
My office is an all inclusive and safe space for my clients and I care for the well being of all my clients using a collaborative and strength based approach. I often use a variety of approaches including ACT, CBT, DBT, EMDR, Mindfulness, and Play Therapy. In addition to working with children and youth, I also work vastly along with LGBTQ+, young adults, and adults whom present concerns of anxiety, depression, trauma, amid others.
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Hello, I am Jessica Gill, the founder of Emerald Counselling and Consulting. As a Registered Clinical Counsellor with a Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology with Distinction and over a decade of diverse experience in mental health and substance use roles, I'm here to guide you on your path to well-being. My counselling journey began with a commitment to making a positive impact. With a solid foundation, including a practicum at Simon Fraser University Health and Counseling Services. Throughout my career, I have worked with both adults and youth dealing with substance use and affected clients and its effects.
Hello, I am Jessica Gill, the founder of Emerald Counselling and Consulting. As a Registered Clinical Counsellor with a Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology with Distinction and over a decade of diverse experience in mental health and substance use roles, I'm here to guide you on your path to well-being. My counselling journey began with a commitment to making a positive impact. With a solid foundation, including a practicum at Simon Fraser University Health and Counseling Services. Throughout my career, I have worked with both adults and youth dealing with substance use and affected clients and its effects.
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I am registered with both the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors (RCC) and the British Columbia College of Social Workers (RSW). My work has included helping couples and individuals who have experienced trauma, depression, anxiety, interpersonal/family issues, difficulties due to change of life and grief and loss. We can work together to cultivate deeper understanding, experience growth and ultimately form stronger connections to yourself and others through transformative healing.
I am registered with both the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors (RCC) and the British Columbia College of Social Workers (RSW). My work has included helping couples and individuals who have experienced trauma, depression, anxiety, interpersonal/family issues, difficulties due to change of life and grief and loss. We can work together to cultivate deeper understanding, experience growth and ultimately form stronger connections to yourself and others through transformative healing.
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If you are looking for an authentic, warm counsellor who can support you as you find your way through difficult times I would love to meet with you & see how we can work together to create the change you want. I know that it can be hard to reach out that first time. I know because I have been in your shoes - I've done the work too. Life is hard. Working to improve it can be made easier by finding someone who you feel truly cares & feels safe to explore the deeper questions. Weaving together education & life experiences I offer unique perspectives & insight that can often ignite new ideas and ways forward for my clients.
If you are looking for an authentic, warm counsellor who can support you as you find your way through difficult times I would love to meet with you & see how we can work together to create the change you want. I know that it can be hard to reach out that first time. I know because I have been in your shoes - I've done the work too. Life is hard. Working to improve it can be made easier by finding someone who you feel truly cares & feels safe to explore the deeper questions. Weaving together education & life experiences I offer unique perspectives & insight that can often ignite new ideas and ways forward for my clients.
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As a gender-diverse individual, why might I want to see a therapist who is also gender diverse?
A trans or gender-diverse client may want to see a therapist who is also trans or gender diverse because the client may feel safer sharing their experiences and more confident that the therapist will understand, validate, and support them. But trans or gender-diverse clients can also benefit from therapy with cisgender therapists; this is a personal decision based on the connection between the client and the therapist, and if that connection is strong, therapy will be successful.
What if I cannot find a therapist who shares my gender identity?
Therapy can still be effective if a therapist does not share a client’s gender identity; a large body of research indicates that the most important factor in successful therapy is the therapeutic alliance. A therapist can also be interviewed for sensitivity and competence on gender identity and expression to ensure they possess appropriate knowledge and skills. Many therapists have excellent training and extensive experience working with gender-diverse clients, and that expertise can be invaluable despite a therapist not sharing the same firsthand experiences.
How can I recognise a good therapist for working with gender-diverse clients?
An experienced therapist should be able to help clients explore their gender identity and expression, alleviate discomfort related to their gender identity, treat mental health challenges and trauma, address existing relationships and communication with family members and loved ones, and determine the next steps pertaining to nonmedical or medical gender-affirming interventions. To recognise a good therapist, clients can ask about these topics and explore their comfort and connection with the clinician.
How might I inquire about a therapist’s experience working with transgender clients?
Clients should feel comfortable asking therapists directly about their experience working with transgender or gender-diverse clientele. For example, clients may ask about the therapist’s training and education with regard to gender identity, how many trans clients they’ve worked with in the past, and what sorts of matters were discussed. You may wish to inquire how a therapist specifically supports the needs of transgender clients or clients questioning their gender identity. A good clinician who is nonetheless not the right fit for you is often happy to make referrals to others based on the concerns you articulate in a preliminary conversation.