Reality Therapy in Surrey, BC
My approach with each person (adult, child, couple & family) is as unique as the individual. I work collaboratively with you in order to achieve the most positive and maximum results. My hope is to provide you with the education, skills, and tools in order to empower you to live your life to the fullest. I believe in a holistic treatment approach: emotional, cognitive, physical & spiritual. I offer art and talk therapy in office, online, and via telephone, to people of all ages, struggling with emotional difficulties, life challenges, and mental health concerns.
My approach with each person (adult, child, couple & family) is as unique as the individual. I work collaboratively with you in order to achieve the most positive and maximum results. My hope is to provide you with the education, skills, and tools in order to empower you to live your life to the fullest. I believe in a holistic treatment approach: emotional, cognitive, physical & spiritual. I offer art and talk therapy in office, online, and via telephone, to people of all ages, struggling with emotional difficulties, life challenges, and mental health concerns.
Our journeys are not a straight line. Bends and breaks can challenge us. But therapy can help you navigate these journeys in a healthy way. You deserve to be healthy in all aspects of life. You deserve the best life has to offer so you can live to your fullest potential. Holistic, culturally-appropriate, and growth-oriented counselling. No matter what your story or background is, counselling can help. I provide personal, couples, family, and group counselling, as well as counselling services through ICBC, Crime Victims Assistance Program, First Nations Health Authority, and Employee Assistance Programs (EAP).
Our journeys are not a straight line. Bends and breaks can challenge us. But therapy can help you navigate these journeys in a healthy way. You deserve to be healthy in all aspects of life. You deserve the best life has to offer so you can live to your fullest potential. Holistic, culturally-appropriate, and growth-oriented counselling. No matter what your story or background is, counselling can help. I provide personal, couples, family, and group counselling, as well as counselling services through ICBC, Crime Victims Assistance Program, First Nations Health Authority, and Employee Assistance Programs (EAP).
In my life I have travelled. I have been unbalanced and hurt. I have felt shame and had loss and I have been there longer than I wanted. That is to say, I have been stuck. And now I am not stuck. I have a life that is full of ups and downs, wins and losses. I still face challenge, injustice and loss however, what I have learned and applied along the way has changed how those things look and feel. So, I set out to learn how I could help others... (you), get unstuck. After 9 years in the field of addiction I took up official studies achieving my certification of registered professional counsellor (RPC-C) with the C.P.C.A.
In my life I have travelled. I have been unbalanced and hurt. I have felt shame and had loss and I have been there longer than I wanted. That is to say, I have been stuck. And now I am not stuck. I have a life that is full of ups and downs, wins and losses. I still face challenge, injustice and loss however, what I have learned and applied along the way has changed how those things look and feel. So, I set out to learn how I could help others... (you), get unstuck. After 9 years in the field of addiction I took up official studies achieving my certification of registered professional counsellor (RPC-C) with the C.P.C.A.
Yulande Oosthuyzen
Counsellor, DPC, BACM, BTh, MACS, RPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V4N
Are your relationships struggling because of anger outbursts and unhelpful behavioral patterns such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, conflict, challenges with child training, addiction, or overwhelming grief? You should know that there is hope for a better tomorrow.
Are your relationships struggling because of anger outbursts and unhelpful behavioral patterns such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, conflict, challenges with child training, addiction, or overwhelming grief? You should know that there is hope for a better tomorrow.
You work hard to make relationships work, work hard at your job, you try your best to ensure everyone else around you is happy but end up losing yourself amid this. Even though you feel isolated, unheard, unseen you keep going. You want to stand up for yourself but don’t know how to. At times you feel overwhelmed with emotions thus feeling lost, helpless and anxious. You wonder why you connect to people a certain way and wish you could have healthier/sustainable relationships, wish you could cope better in difficult situations/be in charge of the way you express your feelings.
You work hard to make relationships work, work hard at your job, you try your best to ensure everyone else around you is happy but end up losing yourself amid this. Even though you feel isolated, unheard, unseen you keep going. You want to stand up for yourself but don’t know how to. At times you feel overwhelmed with emotions thus feeling lost, helpless and anxious. You wonder why you connect to people a certain way and wish you could have healthier/sustainable relationships, wish you could cope better in difficult situations/be in charge of the way you express your feelings.
I hope to hold a compassionate space where we can accept the purposes of our behaviours, while challenging ourselves to pursue new, more pleasant ways of being. We are not always shown the acceptance and compassion I believe is needed to grow into the best version of ourselves. My hope is that our therapy can help you feel accepted as you are so that you can grow into who you’d like to be. Our therapy space can be one in which we can slow down, feel compassion for ourselves, and make meaningful changes towards the goals you put forward.
I hope to hold a compassionate space where we can accept the purposes of our behaviours, while challenging ourselves to pursue new, more pleasant ways of being. We are not always shown the acceptance and compassion I believe is needed to grow into the best version of ourselves. My hope is that our therapy can help you feel accepted as you are so that you can grow into who you’d like to be. Our therapy space can be one in which we can slow down, feel compassion for ourselves, and make meaningful changes towards the goals you put forward.
Are you seeking comprehensive mental health support? Whether you’re dealing with depression, anxiety, stress, substance use, caregiver burnout, or everyday life challenges, a holistic approach that addresses both psychological and physical well-being can be highly beneficial. I offer solution-focused therapy designed to deliver effective and timely results.
Are you seeking comprehensive mental health support? Whether you’re dealing with depression, anxiety, stress, substance use, caregiver burnout, or everyday life challenges, a holistic approach that addresses both psychological and physical well-being can be highly beneficial. I offer solution-focused therapy designed to deliver effective and timely results.
Have you recently given birth? Have you suffered a loss? Are you feeling traumatized after your birth experience or feeling overwhelmed and scared navigating the fourth trimester. Are postpartum symptoms taking over? Feeling detached from your spouse, stressed, sleep deprived, self conscious or not like yourself is very unsettling. You feel as though you dont have anyone to talk to; friends and family don't truly understand what you are experiencing. You might be hiding your true thoughts and feelings about how everything you are living through is affecting you.
Have you recently given birth? Have you suffered a loss? Are you feeling traumatized after your birth experience or feeling overwhelmed and scared navigating the fourth trimester. Are postpartum symptoms taking over? Feeling detached from your spouse, stressed, sleep deprived, self conscious or not like yourself is very unsettling. You feel as though you dont have anyone to talk to; friends and family don't truly understand what you are experiencing. You might be hiding your true thoughts and feelings about how everything you are living through is affecting you.
Seeking help is not a weakness, it is a strength that will allow you to build the life you long for. Sometimes we can feel confused about which path to take as we're confronted by life's challenges. The healing process is unique to each person; and from time to time, we can sometimes neglect the relationship with ourselves. I have a deep understanding and appreciation for how complicated, messy, and challenging life can be. With a warm and compassionate presence, I provide a safe and confidential space where together, we can work to identify unhelpful patterns, thoughts or behaviours and to set achievable and realistic goals.
Seeking help is not a weakness, it is a strength that will allow you to build the life you long for. Sometimes we can feel confused about which path to take as we're confronted by life's challenges. The healing process is unique to each person; and from time to time, we can sometimes neglect the relationship with ourselves. I have a deep understanding and appreciation for how complicated, messy, and challenging life can be. With a warm and compassionate presence, I provide a safe and confidential space where together, we can work to identify unhelpful patterns, thoughts or behaviours and to set achievable and realistic goals.
Do you find yourself contemplating therapy? Late at night you think "OK, tomorrow I will find a therapist", only to never make that move? Well now is the time to heal yourself. My sessions have zero judgement and I will bring new perspectives to you through my own experience and education with abusive relationships, eating disorder, anger issues, anxiety, depression and lack of self esteem. My humour and authentic approach differentiate me from many other therapists and I am also very open and easy to talk to. If you are need help in any of these areas, please feel free to give me a call. Take a chance for change.
Do you find yourself contemplating therapy? Late at night you think "OK, tomorrow I will find a therapist", only to never make that move? Well now is the time to heal yourself. My sessions have zero judgement and I will bring new perspectives to you through my own experience and education with abusive relationships, eating disorder, anger issues, anxiety, depression and lack of self esteem. My humour and authentic approach differentiate me from many other therapists and I am also very open and easy to talk to. If you are need help in any of these areas, please feel free to give me a call. Take a chance for change.
Rebecca Hunting
Counsellor, BA, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3W (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
My focus is on Relationship Counselling. This encompasses all forms of relationships on an individual, couple or group counselling basis. Often when clients come in, clarification may be needed in order for clients to fully understand their part in a relationship. If this is the case, the first sessions will be on how to communicate from a grounded, rational viewpoint. Once this is achieved, clients will move into the next phase of deep relational emotion focused counselling to allow for a deeper understanding of self and each other.
My focus is on Relationship Counselling. This encompasses all forms of relationships on an individual, couple or group counselling basis. Often when clients come in, clarification may be needed in order for clients to fully understand their part in a relationship. If this is the case, the first sessions will be on how to communicate from a grounded, rational viewpoint. Once this is achieved, clients will move into the next phase of deep relational emotion focused counselling to allow for a deeper understanding of self and each other.
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Counsellor, MEd , RCC, CCC, RSW, RP
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3T (Online Only)
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
I specialize in your unique relationship challenges. Whether you're experiencing feelings of loneliness, anger, disconnection, betrayal, or hopelessness, or just looking to enhance your intimacy, I am here to guide your journey to gaining the love and respect you deserve. Using the science & research behind proven relationship therapies can give you the best chance of success. I implement Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused, Relational Life, or Developmental Model Therapy depending on your needs as a couple or individual. I offer pre-marriage counselling to start your foundation for a lifetime of love.
I specialize in your unique relationship challenges. Whether you're experiencing feelings of loneliness, anger, disconnection, betrayal, or hopelessness, or just looking to enhance your intimacy, I am here to guide your journey to gaining the love and respect you deserve. Using the science & research behind proven relationship therapies can give you the best chance of success. I implement Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused, Relational Life, or Developmental Model Therapy depending on your needs as a couple or individual. I offer pre-marriage counselling to start your foundation for a lifetime of love.
Wayne De Connick - Verdant Health Inc.
Counsellor, BA Hons, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V4N
Do you feel alone and misunderstood by others? Do you feel anxious when interacting with people and try to avoid social engagements due to your anxiety? Are you carrying a sense of guilt or shame for no particular reason? Perhaps you have the sense that you must always perform at your best because others are judging you and that you must always prove your worth to others. My team of experienced Counsellors will help make sense of your experiences, uncover your innate strengths, and provide you with strategies to leverage your strengths so that you can experience a more fulfilling and meaningful connection with the world around you.
Do you feel alone and misunderstood by others? Do you feel anxious when interacting with people and try to avoid social engagements due to your anxiety? Are you carrying a sense of guilt or shame for no particular reason? Perhaps you have the sense that you must always perform at your best because others are judging you and that you must always prove your worth to others. My team of experienced Counsellors will help make sense of your experiences, uncover your innate strengths, and provide you with strategies to leverage your strengths so that you can experience a more fulfilling and meaningful connection with the world around you.
I am a good listener who will encourage you to reflect on what works for you, and which strategies you have tried in the past that have both worked well, or were unsuccessful. I will challenge you in good ways while delivering unconditional acceptance of your preferences and coping strategies. I will encourage you to grow, adapt, and face life’s challenges, losses, and life transitions and to move through losses while maintaining or learning healthy ways to grow. I have experience with a vast range of clients from ages 4-76 years and multicultural backgrounds. I am ethical, experienced, confidential, and trustworthy.
I am a good listener who will encourage you to reflect on what works for you, and which strategies you have tried in the past that have both worked well, or were unsuccessful. I will challenge you in good ways while delivering unconditional acceptance of your preferences and coping strategies. I will encourage you to grow, adapt, and face life’s challenges, losses, and life transitions and to move through losses while maintaining or learning healthy ways to grow. I have experience with a vast range of clients from ages 4-76 years and multicultural backgrounds. I am ethical, experienced, confidential, and trustworthy.
Throughout your life, it is normal to have ups and downs. Whether you are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, or struggling with relationships or life changes - there is always a path forward to grow and heal. Therapy can help you work through anything you are dealing with in life and help you build the tools to manage and heal from whatever you are going through. Having a safe space to express how you're feeling can help when you're feeling isolated and alone. I provide an inclusive and safe space for teens and adults to learn how to build better relationships with others and with yourself
Throughout your life, it is normal to have ups and downs. Whether you are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, or struggling with relationships or life changes - there is always a path forward to grow and heal. Therapy can help you work through anything you are dealing with in life and help you build the tools to manage and heal from whatever you are going through. Having a safe space to express how you're feeling can help when you're feeling isolated and alone. I provide an inclusive and safe space for teens and adults to learn how to build better relationships with others and with yourself
Peony Therapeutic Counselling
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3R (Online Only)
Hey, how are you? I am so honored to work together with you on your journey to building a life you want, what ever that may look like to you. Whether it be struggling with issues of anxiety and panic, depression and low moods or you are unsure why you have the feelings that you do, reach out. I am a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor who is passionate about the helping profession and to make my clients feel safe and to be heard. My only interest is to be here for you and help you create a plan to get the tools you need to move forward and challenge life in your own way.
Hey, how are you? I am so honored to work together with you on your journey to building a life you want, what ever that may look like to you. Whether it be struggling with issues of anxiety and panic, depression and low moods or you are unsure why you have the feelings that you do, reach out. I am a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor who is passionate about the helping profession and to make my clients feel safe and to be heard. My only interest is to be here for you and help you create a plan to get the tools you need to move forward and challenge life in your own way.
Two Hands Consulting
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, CD, LMSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3S (Online Only)
Are you feeling anxious or overwhelmed? Have feelings of depression got your down? Or are you just feeling "lost"? I have worked with a variety of clients, and as an anti-oppressive social worker, I have many 'tools' to help, including cognitive behavioural therapy, art therapy, mindfulness, narrative therapy and more. I firmly believe that the client is the expert and they know what they need to change; and my job is to help facilitate that.
Are you feeling anxious or overwhelmed? Have feelings of depression got your down? Or are you just feeling "lost"? I have worked with a variety of clients, and as an anti-oppressive social worker, I have many 'tools' to help, including cognitive behavioural therapy, art therapy, mindfulness, narrative therapy and more. I firmly believe that the client is the expert and they know what they need to change; and my job is to help facilitate that.
My mission is to inspire and empower individuals to successfully achieve their goals to ensure personal growth and better quality of life. My approach to counselling is to use evidence and strength-based modalities. I use these approaches to support and guide the clients towards bettering their quality of life and assist them in reducing and managing various stress related to behavior, thoughts, and emotions.
My mission is to inspire and empower individuals to successfully achieve their goals to ensure personal growth and better quality of life. My approach to counselling is to use evidence and strength-based modalities. I use these approaches to support and guide the clients towards bettering their quality of life and assist them in reducing and managing various stress related to behavior, thoughts, and emotions.
Life can be challenging and although we are often able to cope with the difficulties that come our way, there are times when we can become overwhelmed with our thoughts and emotions. An issue may arise that feels too difficult to manage on our own. I provide a safe, supportive, non-judgmental space for you to explore whatever issues have brought you to seek support. I will help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and self-acceptance. It is perfectly normal to reach out for help. We will work together to meet your goals and find solutions that work for you. As a trauma informed therapist, I offer EMDR therapy.
Life can be challenging and although we are often able to cope with the difficulties that come our way, there are times when we can become overwhelmed with our thoughts and emotions. An issue may arise that feels too difficult to manage on our own. I provide a safe, supportive, non-judgmental space for you to explore whatever issues have brought you to seek support. I will help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and self-acceptance. It is perfectly normal to reach out for help. We will work together to meet your goals and find solutions that work for you. As a trauma informed therapist, I offer EMDR therapy.
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Reality Therapy Counsellors
Is reality therapy evidence-based?
Reality therapy is not well-studied, and it may not be as effective in treating certain mental health conditions when compared with evidence-based treatments like cognitive behavioural or acceptance and commitment therapies. However, some research does indicate that reality therapy might be helpful for people with addiction, and may be effective in treating social anxiety in young people.
How long does reality therapy last?
Reality therapy is less structured when compared with psychoanalysis, for example. Reality therapy is more open-ended and may not be limited to a set number of sessions. It is common for clients to be in therapy for a year or longer and to see their therapist one to two times a week, though the exact schedule and timeline may vary depending on a client’s challenges and progress. Individuals can also practice the principles of reality therapy long after treatment has ended.
Does reality therapy work?
Reality therapy can help a person manage concerns such as eating disorders, addiction, substance use, anxiety, phobias, and relationship difficulties. This type of therapy encourages a person to be accountable for their behaviours. This therapy may offer benefits that are hard to measure. Reality therapy can be useful in one-on-one therapy or in group sessions. This method may be used with children, families, and adults.
What are the limitations of reality therapy?
This therapy is person-centered or client-centered, and the therapist focuses on choices made by the individual in the present day. The therapist privileges the individual’s perspective over others. This format may feel frustrating for individuals seeking a more structured approach; certainly, no one therapy type will work for every client.