Infidelity Therapists in Surrey, BC

Photo of Simone R Merkl - - Couples - Merkl Marriage Counselling - Simone -, RTC, Counsellor
- Couples - Merkl Marriage Counselling - Simone -
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3Z
I specialize in your unique relationship challenges. Whether you're experiencing feelings of loneliness, anger, disconnection, betrayal, or hopelessness, or just looking to enhance your intimacy, I am here to guide your journey to gaining the love and respect you deserve. Using the science & research behind proven relationship therapies can give you the best chance of success. I implement Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused, Relational Life, or Developmental Model Therapy depending on your needs as a couple or individual. I offer pre-marriage counselling to start your foundation for a lifetime of love.
I specialize in your unique relationship challenges. Whether you're experiencing feelings of loneliness, anger, disconnection, betrayal, or hopelessness, or just looking to enhance your intimacy, I am here to guide your journey to gaining the love and respect you deserve. Using the science & research behind proven relationship therapies can give you the best chance of success. I implement Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused, Relational Life, or Developmental Model Therapy depending on your needs as a couple or individual. I offer pre-marriage counselling to start your foundation for a lifetime of love.
(647) 951-9702 View (647) 951-9702
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Kim Watt
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3S  (Online Only)
Everybody needs some extra support at times to work through the problems, hurdles, challenges, and chaos that we find ourselves experiencing. I have a strong interest in working with adults who are experiencing relationship breakdown of all sorts, including issues related to addiction, the effects of addiction, infidelity, relationships, difficult childhoods, dysfunctional families of origin, and the impact of past hurts and coping patterns. I also welcome the opportunity to work with individuals who are struggling with mental health concerns, including symptoms of depression, anxiety, stress, and burnout.
Everybody needs some extra support at times to work through the problems, hurdles, challenges, and chaos that we find ourselves experiencing. I have a strong interest in working with adults who are experiencing relationship breakdown of all sorts, including issues related to addiction, the effects of addiction, infidelity, relationships, difficult childhoods, dysfunctional families of origin, and the impact of past hurts and coping patterns. I also welcome the opportunity to work with individuals who are struggling with mental health concerns, including symptoms of depression, anxiety, stress, and burnout.
(604) 245-0363 View (604) 245-0363
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Rhea Jacobs
Counsellor, EMDR, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V4A
Hello, have you experienced trauma, abuse and betrayal in your life which are impacting your work, health, happiness, relationship and connection with others. Are you feeling helpless due to getting stuck in anger, resentment, anxiety, or sadness. You might be knowing what to do but are unable to follow through. You feel frustrated due to self sabotage behaviors and repetitive negative patterns in life. I understand where you are. I can help you in overcoming all of these mental blocks.
Hello, have you experienced trauma, abuse and betrayal in your life which are impacting your work, health, happiness, relationship and connection with others. Are you feeling helpless due to getting stuck in anger, resentment, anxiety, or sadness. You might be knowing what to do but are unable to follow through. You feel frustrated due to self sabotage behaviors and repetitive negative patterns in life. I understand where you are. I can help you in overcoming all of these mental blocks.
(249) 503-3881 View (249) 503-3881
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Paul Bains
Counsellor, BSc, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3W
I have skills & training in helping couples with infidelity and cultural issues.
Practical and meaningful results. If you want results then I can help. Free 30 minute initial consult. I specialize in marriage & family counselling, anger management, trauma & abuse, grief/loss counselling, spiritual issues and parenting. I will work collaboratively with you to determine the best way to help you in achieving the goals and hopes you have for your marriage, family or individual needs. I believe that you have the answers within you to achieve the change you want. I can help you get to those answers and assist you in building a better marriage, or peaceful family or gaining more insight into your issues.
I have skills & training in helping couples with infidelity and cultural issues.
Practical and meaningful results. If you want results then I can help. Free 30 minute initial consult. I specialize in marriage & family counselling, anger management, trauma & abuse, grief/loss counselling, spiritual issues and parenting. I will work collaboratively with you to determine the best way to help you in achieving the goals and hopes you have for your marriage, family or individual needs. I believe that you have the answers within you to achieve the change you want. I can help you get to those answers and assist you in building a better marriage, or peaceful family or gaining more insight into your issues.
(855) 338-2076 View (855) 338-2076
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Nate Torhjelm
Counsellor, MTC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3Z
I'm glad you are reaching out. It can be tough finding the right therapist. Relationships can be very tough. Stress, kids, affairs, grief and trauma can create a distance between us and the people we love. We can cause a lot of harm to those closest to us and end up wondering how we got to where we are. This is the focus of my work. There is hope, even when things feel like they are at the very end.
I'm glad you are reaching out. It can be tough finding the right therapist. Relationships can be very tough. Stress, kids, affairs, grief and trauma can create a distance between us and the people we love. We can cause a lot of harm to those closest to us and end up wondering how we got to where we are. This is the focus of my work. There is hope, even when things feel like they are at the very end.
(365) 536-0907 View (365) 536-0907
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Sonia Andhi Bilkhu
Registered Social Worker, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3V
Are you struggling with stress, anxiety, inability to focus or with sadness and low energy? I can help you feel better and show you how to manage your challenges. I have helped many clients in the past 25 years work with anger, family conflict, heal from break ups, infidelity, immigration and racism. You may be turning to unhealthy coping patterns like drinking, using drugs and emotional eating or withdrawing from others. I will help you become healthier and have a more fulfilled life. I also provide Student Care and ICBC counselling.
Are you struggling with stress, anxiety, inability to focus or with sadness and low energy? I can help you feel better and show you how to manage your challenges. I have helped many clients in the past 25 years work with anger, family conflict, heal from break ups, infidelity, immigration and racism. You may be turning to unhealthy coping patterns like drinking, using drugs and emotional eating or withdrawing from others. I will help you become healthier and have a more fulfilled life. I also provide Student Care and ICBC counselling.
(431) 341-1677 View (431) 341-1677
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Amy Kobelt
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3R  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with traumatic life events, and relational hurt and betrayal using both a collaborative approach and trauma-specific techniques to help you process and move forward from your past.
If you are feeling stuck in your past, old ways of coping, or are replaying painful memories I want you to know that there is hope for your future. I work with many people, who, like you, each have unique stories, and have done their best to push forward and to leave their hurts behind. You may be surrounded by people, and yet feel a longing in your life for deeper connection and relationships. You might even feel disconnected from yourself, your body, and others. Perhaps you have tried to cope with the distress by turning to substances, food, self-harm, shopping, work, or other ways of feeling in control.
I specialize in working with traumatic life events, and relational hurt and betrayal using both a collaborative approach and trauma-specific techniques to help you process and move forward from your past.
If you are feeling stuck in your past, old ways of coping, or are replaying painful memories I want you to know that there is hope for your future. I work with many people, who, like you, each have unique stories, and have done their best to push forward and to leave their hurts behind. You may be surrounded by people, and yet feel a longing in your life for deeper connection and relationships. You might even feel disconnected from yourself, your body, and others. Perhaps you have tried to cope with the distress by turning to substances, food, self-harm, shopping, work, or other ways of feeling in control.
(778) 949-8007 View (778) 949-8007
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Shereen Khan
Counsellor, PhD MA, RCC NCC, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3W
Are you struggling? Or have felt numb, on auto-pilot too long? I work with individuals, couples, and families to transform life challenges into opportunities for growth and connection. My experiences include working with a variety of age-groups and mental health concerns. Some of my areas of specialty include relationships, infidelity, sex, divorce and family difficulties. As well, overcoming symptoms of trauma and recovery from abuse (sexual, physical, spiritual) and grief. My aims are to help clients to feel empowered, heal from trauma, and have more understanding of themselves and others.
Are you struggling? Or have felt numb, on auto-pilot too long? I work with individuals, couples, and families to transform life challenges into opportunities for growth and connection. My experiences include working with a variety of age-groups and mental health concerns. Some of my areas of specialty include relationships, infidelity, sex, divorce and family difficulties. As well, overcoming symptoms of trauma and recovery from abuse (sexual, physical, spiritual) and grief. My aims are to help clients to feel empowered, heal from trauma, and have more understanding of themselves and others.
(249) 486-6809 View (249) 486-6809
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Glenda Lagasse
Counsellor, MA, RCC, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3R  (Online Only)
Glenda specializes in Sex Addiction, Porn Addiction, Love Addiction, and Betrayal Trauma as a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist.
Is your life filled with strife due to compulsive sexual behavior's (sex, porn, and/or love addiction)? Or are you the partner of someone who struggles with these compulsive sexual behavior's? If so, Glenda will support you one step at a time. Support will include processing any traumas, managing crises, learning about intimacy disorders, identifying and communicating your feelings, reclaiming your sexuality, and deciding next steps.
Glenda specializes in Sex Addiction, Porn Addiction, Love Addiction, and Betrayal Trauma as a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist.
Is your life filled with strife due to compulsive sexual behavior's (sex, porn, and/or love addiction)? Or are you the partner of someone who struggles with these compulsive sexual behavior's? If so, Glenda will support you one step at a time. Support will include processing any traumas, managing crises, learning about intimacy disorders, identifying and communicating your feelings, reclaiming your sexuality, and deciding next steps.
(672) 202-4454 View (672) 202-4454
Photo of Jeanne Nortje, RPC-C, Counsellor
Jeanne Nortje
Counsellor, RPC-C
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3Z
Working from a person-centred approach, I believe that you are your own best-expert. It is my aim to foster a safe environment where sharing and exploring can be done freely. I work with couples using a combination of different approaches creating tailored solutions to the obstacles they might face everyday. Focussing on individual and relationship strengths for resolution strategies. I also use Gottman method approaches to help deepen connection and improve communication.
Working from a person-centred approach, I believe that you are your own best-expert. It is my aim to foster a safe environment where sharing and exploring can be done freely. I work with couples using a combination of different approaches creating tailored solutions to the obstacles they might face everyday. Focussing on individual and relationship strengths for resolution strategies. I also use Gottman method approaches to help deepen connection and improve communication.
(289) 724-3109 View (289) 724-3109
Photo of Kristina Sohal, MA, RCC, Counsellor
Kristina Sohal
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3T
Do you feel that you are running in emotional circles and this turmoil is preventing you from living the life that you had envisioned? Break down those barriers and learn how to tackle your anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress and anger issues. Do you want your self-power back? Are you wondering how to restore your self-confidence? I create a customized treatment plan, that assists your counselling needs. I use a combination of modern treatment techniques: Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness Exercises, Solution-Focused Therapy and Person-entered therapy (PCT), EMDR, Exposure therapy and Empty Chair Techniques.
Do you feel that you are running in emotional circles and this turmoil is preventing you from living the life that you had envisioned? Break down those barriers and learn how to tackle your anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress and anger issues. Do you want your self-power back? Are you wondering how to restore your self-confidence? I create a customized treatment plan, that assists your counselling needs. I use a combination of modern treatment techniques: Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness Exercises, Solution-Focused Therapy and Person-entered therapy (PCT), EMDR, Exposure therapy and Empty Chair Techniques.
(778) 488-5619 View (778) 488-5619
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Jeff Morley
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3S
Waitlist for new clients
I am an experienced Registered Psychologist offering counselling and psychotherapy to individuals, couples, and families. I help people working through challenges in their relationships, careers, and personal lives. Often people come to me for help with depression, anxiety, trauma, or health concerns. I take a practical and mindful approach to counselling, grounded in a strong therapeutic relationship, to help you accomplish your counselling goals in a timely and effective manner. I work with many first responders. www.drjeffmorley.ca www.911resilience.ca www.guardianpsychedelics.ca
I am an experienced Registered Psychologist offering counselling and psychotherapy to individuals, couples, and families. I help people working through challenges in their relationships, careers, and personal lives. Often people come to me for help with depression, anxiety, trauma, or health concerns. I take a practical and mindful approach to counselling, grounded in a strong therapeutic relationship, to help you accomplish your counselling goals in a timely and effective manner. I work with many first responders. www.drjeffmorley.ca www.911resilience.ca www.guardianpsychedelics.ca
(866) 729-3803 View (866) 729-3803
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Mary Smyth
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSc, CCC
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3S
I work as an Integrative therapist using a wide range of approaches with client centred therapy as a base. I feel passionately that when you the client enter into a therapeutic relationship with me that you should feel safe and nurtured. I know how difficult it is to take that first step and I am here to help you to work through whatever issues are affecting your life and to enable you to regain your personal power. Most of us struggle with family of origin issues which if not dealt with can lead to depression, anxiety and other problems.
I work as an Integrative therapist using a wide range of approaches with client centred therapy as a base. I feel passionately that when you the client enter into a therapeutic relationship with me that you should feel safe and nurtured. I know how difficult it is to take that first step and I am here to help you to work through whatever issues are affecting your life and to enable you to regain your personal power. Most of us struggle with family of origin issues which if not dealt with can lead to depression, anxiety and other problems.
(866) 690-2389 View (866) 690-2389
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Dhaliwal Counselling and Psychotherapy LTD
Registered Social Worker, BA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3W
Wether your struggling with depression, anxiety, divorce, or with a toxic relationship I am here to listen and guide you on your healing journey. You do not need to go through difficult life experiences alone. I am a Masters level therapist: I have accumulated 7 years of counselling experience. I have also worked in the college school system as an instructor in BC and have helped develop curriculum for a counselling diploma program in BC. My experience blends together to give me the proper knowledge and experience to help you on the healing journey that you are on.
Wether your struggling with depression, anxiety, divorce, or with a toxic relationship I am here to listen and guide you on your healing journey. You do not need to go through difficult life experiences alone. I am a Masters level therapist: I have accumulated 7 years of counselling experience. I have also worked in the college school system as an instructor in BC and have helped develop curriculum for a counselling diploma program in BC. My experience blends together to give me the proper knowledge and experience to help you on the healing journey that you are on.
(778) 775-9090 View (778) 775-9090
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Dr. Jennifer Acheson
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3W
Feeling depressed, anxious, overwhelmed, or stuck? We all encounter moments when our usual coping strategies fall short, but you don't have to navigate these challenges alone. With over a decade of experience, I'm here to guide you through your journey of self-discovery and healing. Recognizing the challenges of change, I approach our work with skill, respect, and curiosity, valuing your commitment to transformation.
Feeling depressed, anxious, overwhelmed, or stuck? We all encounter moments when our usual coping strategies fall short, but you don't have to navigate these challenges alone. With over a decade of experience, I'm here to guide you through your journey of self-discovery and healing. Recognizing the challenges of change, I approach our work with skill, respect, and curiosity, valuing your commitment to transformation.
(249) 702-2974 View (249) 702-2974
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Dannette Hoenisch: Counsellor And Counsellors' Supervisor
Counsellor, MEd, RCC, ACS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3Z  (Online Only)
It can feel lonely when you argue with your partner. You're not happy with how your relationship is but when you try to talk to them, it ends in an argument. You feel like you've tried everything and nothing seems to work. You still love your partner and you don't want to give up, but you need more skills, you need them to hear you. When you are thinking to yourself, "Are you there for me?", you really want your partner to respond, "Yes, I'm here"
It can feel lonely when you argue with your partner. You're not happy with how your relationship is but when you try to talk to them, it ends in an argument. You feel like you've tried everything and nothing seems to work. You still love your partner and you don't want to give up, but you need more skills, you need them to hear you. When you are thinking to yourself, "Are you there for me?", you really want your partner to respond, "Yes, I'm here"
(778) 837-2131 View (778) 837-2131
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Mann Counselling & Consulting
Counsellor, BEd, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V4N
Our journeys are not a straight line. Bends and breaks can challenge us. But therapy can help you navigate these journeys in a healthy way. You deserve to be healthy in all aspects of life. You deserve the best life has to offer so you can live to your fullest potential. Holistic, culturally-appropriate, and growth-oriented counselling. No matter what your story or background is, counselling can help. I provide personal, couples, family, and group counselling, as well as counselling services through ICBC, Crime Victims Assistance Program, First Nations Health Authority, and Employee Assistance Programs (EAP).
Our journeys are not a straight line. Bends and breaks can challenge us. But therapy can help you navigate these journeys in a healthy way. You deserve to be healthy in all aspects of life. You deserve the best life has to offer so you can live to your fullest potential. Holistic, culturally-appropriate, and growth-oriented counselling. No matter what your story or background is, counselling can help. I provide personal, couples, family, and group counselling, as well as counselling services through ICBC, Crime Victims Assistance Program, First Nations Health Authority, and Employee Assistance Programs (EAP).
(604) 670-2474 View (604) 670-2474
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Parminder K Rai
Counsellor, BA, MEd, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3X
Life could be challenging at times when we need a listening ear, emphatic listener to show us the alternative ways to view it. At that point it is important to seek professional help. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with 26 years of experience providing counselling to Individuals , Families and couples. I strive to provide client focused services in a very safe and confidential environment. I have extensive experience working with culturally diverse clients. I am fluent in English, Punjabi , Hindi and Urdu languages. I am approved provider with FNHA, CVAP, ICBC and EAP services.
Life could be challenging at times when we need a listening ear, emphatic listener to show us the alternative ways to view it. At that point it is important to seek professional help. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with 26 years of experience providing counselling to Individuals , Families and couples. I strive to provide client focused services in a very safe and confidential environment. I have extensive experience working with culturally diverse clients. I am fluent in English, Punjabi , Hindi and Urdu languages. I am approved provider with FNHA, CVAP, ICBC and EAP services.
(604) 670-7481 View (604) 670-7481
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Kuldip Counselling & Consulting Services
Counsellor, BA, MEd, RCC
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3S
There are many times in one person's life where one seeks support and information with resolving personal and psychological difficulties. Seeking counselling at this time will help break isolation and improve coping more effectively and quickly. Finding a good fit with someone is important to the success of the journey. I am trained in Feedback Informed Treatment (FIT) where a client directs the counselling relationship by the feedback they provide. I believe in the right FIT and relationship between client and counsellor to be of great importance in helping a client in counselling.
There are many times in one person's life where one seeks support and information with resolving personal and psychological difficulties. Seeking counselling at this time will help break isolation and improve coping more effectively and quickly. Finding a good fit with someone is important to the success of the journey. I am trained in Feedback Informed Treatment (FIT) where a client directs the counselling relationship by the feedback they provide. I believe in the right FIT and relationship between client and counsellor to be of great importance in helping a client in counselling.
(778) 488-0611 View (778) 488-0611
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Charlene Kostecki
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, RCC, STEP
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3W
"Change is possible, and the right therapy will instill confidence, awaken insight, and nurture growth. Together we will help you discover and heal so that you can feel better and live the life and have the relationships you want." Are you dealing with Anxiety? Depression? Anger? Relationhsip Issues? Call me and discuss how I can help you find balance and happiness." 604 992-7220
"Change is possible, and the right therapy will instill confidence, awaken insight, and nurture growth. Together we will help you discover and heal so that you can feel better and live the life and have the relationships you want." Are you dealing with Anxiety? Depression? Anger? Relationhsip Issues? Call me and discuss how I can help you find balance and happiness." 604 992-7220
(604) 992-7220 View (604) 992-7220

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.