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Joelene Heathcote Registered Counsellor
Counsellor, BA, MFA, RTC
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8R
It's important to me that I help clients identify the power within themselves to overcome loss, family of origins trauma and neglect, and negative thought and behavior patterns so they can begin the process of healing.
I support clients managing emotional challenges, BPD traits, depression, OCD, perfectionism, negative internal dialogue, addiction, grief, trauma, and difficult family dynamics. Together we explore a client's history, experience, emotions, and develop better skills for managing challenges. Often old coping strategies are no longer serving the client. Developing relational intimacy with others, and more compassionate communication with self is integral to my work with individuals and families. Together we find solutions for healing and moving forward in healthy ways so clients can align more authenticly with themselves.
It's important to me that I help clients identify the power within themselves to overcome loss, family of origins trauma and neglect, and negative thought and behavior patterns so they can begin the process of healing.
I support clients managing emotional challenges, BPD traits, depression, OCD, perfectionism, negative internal dialogue, addiction, grief, trauma, and difficult family dynamics. Together we explore a client's history, experience, emotions, and develop better skills for managing challenges. Often old coping strategies are no longer serving the client. Developing relational intimacy with others, and more compassionate communication with self is integral to my work with individuals and families. Together we find solutions for healing and moving forward in healthy ways so clients can align more authenticly with themselves.
(672) 202-3647 View (672) 202-3647
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Erin Dass
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Langley, BC V3A
In her free time, she enjoys food, dogs, physical activity, and spending time with her friends & family.
Erin is a clinical counsellor with a Masters in Counselling Psychology. She has worked with children, youth, and adults through individual, family, and group counselling. Her background is in trauma therapy. Erin grew up as a third-culture kid and from a young age, she observed that no matter the ethnicity, culture, religion, etc., humans were not created to be alone. She believes that healing takes place within relationships (with self, others, animals, etc.). In her therapeutic relationships, she meets people where they are at and walks with them where they want to go.
In her free time, she enjoys food, dogs, physical activity, and spending time with her friends & family.
Erin is a clinical counsellor with a Masters in Counselling Psychology. She has worked with children, youth, and adults through individual, family, and group counselling. Her background is in trauma therapy. Erin grew up as a third-culture kid and from a young age, she observed that no matter the ethnicity, culture, religion, etc., humans were not created to be alone. She believes that healing takes place within relationships (with self, others, animals, etc.). In her therapeutic relationships, she meets people where they are at and walks with them where they want to go.
(226) 640-5398 View (226) 640-5398
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Lisa Moore Clinical Counselor & Play Therapy Supvr
Counsellor, MA, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
Langley, BC V3A
Lisa's mission is to help people heal and grow through periods of transitions in their lives. Many of us struggle with alcohol / addictions, experience loss, grief, unhappiness or a sense of loss when we transition from one role to another in our daily lives. Some of us lose people we love, dreams we can no longer achieve, changes in careers, the diagnosis of a child with special needs, a loved one entering care, or who is ailing in health, Divorce from a spouse, the beginning of a new marriage, perhaps with a blended family. We accept private insurance plans, Victim Services(CVAP), ICBC Claims and Autism
Lisa's mission is to help people heal and grow through periods of transitions in their lives. Many of us struggle with alcohol / addictions, experience loss, grief, unhappiness or a sense of loss when we transition from one role to another in our daily lives. Some of us lose people we love, dreams we can no longer achieve, changes in careers, the diagnosis of a child with special needs, a loved one entering care, or who is ailing in health, Divorce from a spouse, the beginning of a new marriage, perhaps with a blended family. We accept private insurance plans, Victim Services(CVAP), ICBC Claims and Autism
(604) 532-5340 View (604) 532-5340
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Blue Bird Counselling
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, RCC
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V4A
My approach with each person (adult, child, couple & family) is as unique as the individual. I work collaboratively with you in order to achieve the most positive and maximum results. My hope is to provide you with the education, skills, and tools in order to empower you to live your life to the fullest. I believe in a holistic treatment approach: emotional, cognitive, physical & spiritual. I offer art and talk therapy in office, online, and via telephone, to people of all ages, struggling with emotional difficulties, life challenges, and mental health concerns.
My approach with each person (adult, child, couple & family) is as unique as the individual. I work collaboratively with you in order to achieve the most positive and maximum results. My hope is to provide you with the education, skills, and tools in order to empower you to live your life to the fullest. I believe in a holistic treatment approach: emotional, cognitive, physical & spiritual. I offer art and talk therapy in office, online, and via telephone, to people of all ages, struggling with emotional difficulties, life challenges, and mental health concerns.
(604) 265-7752 View (604) 265-7752
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Jennifer Green
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V4A  (Online Only)
I practice CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, Family Therapy, Psychoanalytical Therapy and Interpersonal Therapy.
Do you find yourself contemplating therapy? Late at night you think "OK, tomorrow I will find a therapist", only to never make that move? Well now is the time to heal yourself. My sessions have zero judgement and I will bring new perspectives to you through my own experience and education with abusive relationships, eating disorder, anger issues, anxiety, depression and lack of self esteem. My humour and authentic approach differentiate me from many other therapists and I am also very open and easy to talk to. If you are need help in any of these areas, please feel free to give me a call. Take a chance for change.
I practice CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, Family Therapy, Psychoanalytical Therapy and Interpersonal Therapy.
Do you find yourself contemplating therapy? Late at night you think "OK, tomorrow I will find a therapist", only to never make that move? Well now is the time to heal yourself. My sessions have zero judgement and I will bring new perspectives to you through my own experience and education with abusive relationships, eating disorder, anger issues, anxiety, depression and lack of self esteem. My humour and authentic approach differentiate me from many other therapists and I am also very open and easy to talk to. If you are need help in any of these areas, please feel free to give me a call. Take a chance for change.
(778) 765-0513 View (778) 765-0513
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Franya Jedwab
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Duncan, BC V9L
I am a warmhearted and respectful professional with over 18 years of counselling experience. I offer individual, child, teen, parent & family counselling with a safe, therapeutic, and non-judgmental lens. I use a variety of counselling approaches, such as CBT, Trauma-informed and Psychodynamic Therapy to suit your circumstances, experiences, and preferences to create a respectful and empowering approach to the work together. I hold a Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University. I am a Registered Counsellor Provider with the BC Crime Victim Assistance Program, First Nations Health Authority and Humanacare EAP.
I am a warmhearted and respectful professional with over 18 years of counselling experience. I offer individual, child, teen, parent & family counselling with a safe, therapeutic, and non-judgmental lens. I use a variety of counselling approaches, such as CBT, Trauma-informed and Psychodynamic Therapy to suit your circumstances, experiences, and preferences to create a respectful and empowering approach to the work together. I hold a Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University. I am a Registered Counsellor Provider with the BC Crime Victim Assistance Program, First Nations Health Authority and Humanacare EAP.
(778) 760-4302 View (778) 760-4302
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Gerry Fleming
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
Langley, BC V3A
My ideal client is someone who wants change. Your goals would include improving relationships in your life; most importantly your relationship with yourself. Bringing more happiness and peace into your life. I lived a large part of my life rearranging chairs on the titanic until I realized I needed help. Whether it's relationship, family, friends, career or general unhappiness; if you are tired and realize you need help. I'm Here.
My ideal client is someone who wants change. Your goals would include improving relationships in your life; most importantly your relationship with yourself. Bringing more happiness and peace into your life. I lived a large part of my life rearranging chairs on the titanic until I realized I needed help. Whether it's relationship, family, friends, career or general unhappiness; if you are tired and realize you need help. I'm Here.
(778) 654-4764 View (778) 654-4764
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Daisy Song
Counsellor, MA, RCC, RCH
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8R
I work with people on a variety of issues including relationships, PTSD, phobias, anxieties, sleep issues, eating disorders and grief and loss etc through hypnotherapy and counseling work. I also do past life regressions and use family constellation philosophy for people who are ready and open to that. I am formally trained by Dr Brain.Weiss in PLRT and also have on going training in Family constellation with Hellinger school based in Germany. I translated Bert. Hellinger's books from English into Chinese (the developer of family constellation) "looking into the souls of children" and the book "an education for our time".
I work with people on a variety of issues including relationships, PTSD, phobias, anxieties, sleep issues, eating disorders and grief and loss etc through hypnotherapy and counseling work. I also do past life regressions and use family constellation philosophy for people who are ready and open to that. I am formally trained by Dr Brain.Weiss in PLRT and also have on going training in Family constellation with Hellinger school based in Germany. I translated Bert. Hellinger's books from English into Chinese (the developer of family constellation) "looking into the souls of children" and the book "an education for our time".
(877) 958-8771 View (877) 958-8771
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Wing Sum (Sharon) Kwok
Counsellor, MC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, BC V6J
Within the spectrum of health, family issues, generation conflicts, mental health, addiction, work place struggles, and spiritual growth.
You are not your circumstances. Lets talk.
Within the spectrum of health, family issues, generation conflicts, mental health, addiction, work place struggles, and spiritual growth.
You are not your circumstances. Lets talk.
(778) 860-7237 View (778) 860-7237
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Bach Counselling Group
Counsellor, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
North Vancouver, BC V7N
Bach Counselling Group uses evidence-based methods including CBT, eye movement desensitization reprocessing (EMDR), emotionally focused therapy (EFT), dialetical behavioural therapy (DBT), psychodynamic, family systems, solution-focused therapy & mindfulness.
For over 20 years, Bach Counselling Group brings an expertise to working with those who wish to make a positive change in relationships, intimacy, depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, ADHD, parenting and eating disorders. We work with individuals and couples who are dealing with issues that may adversely affect their relationships. We strive to bring you to achieving your goals. Therapy is short term, cost effective and change oriented. Bach Counselling Group adheres to the ethics and standards set out by the Canadian Psychological Association.
Bach Counselling Group uses evidence-based methods including CBT, eye movement desensitization reprocessing (EMDR), emotionally focused therapy (EFT), dialetical behavioural therapy (DBT), psychodynamic, family systems, solution-focused therapy & mindfulness.
For over 20 years, Bach Counselling Group brings an expertise to working with those who wish to make a positive change in relationships, intimacy, depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, ADHD, parenting and eating disorders. We work with individuals and couples who are dealing with issues that may adversely affect their relationships. We strive to bring you to achieving your goals. Therapy is short term, cost effective and change oriented. Bach Counselling Group adheres to the ethics and standards set out by the Canadian Psychological Association.
(604) 670-4906 View (604) 670-4906
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Barb Gottfried
Counsellor, MSc, RPC, MPCC
Verified Verified
Parksville, BC V9P
I have specialized training in a number of counselling modalities designed to treat anxiety & depression, bipolar, relationship issues, family conflict, trauma and PTSD, abuse (all forms), parenting/co-parenting issues, personal & work stress/injury, addictions (all types), grief and loss, life transitions, self esteem, anger mgmt and chronic pain/illness.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with over 30 years of experience providing counselling services to individuals (all ages), couples, families and first responders. I offer respectful, collaborative, holistic, compassionate and goal focused counselling in a safe and supportive environment. I offer a broad spectrum of services ranging from brief solution focused support to intensive psychotherapeutic support, including CBT & EMDR. I believe in the value of working collaboratively with my clients, and I have a deep respect and appreciation for diversity.
I have specialized training in a number of counselling modalities designed to treat anxiety & depression, bipolar, relationship issues, family conflict, trauma and PTSD, abuse (all forms), parenting/co-parenting issues, personal & work stress/injury, addictions (all types), grief and loss, life transitions, self esteem, anger mgmt and chronic pain/illness.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with over 30 years of experience providing counselling services to individuals (all ages), couples, families and first responders. I offer respectful, collaborative, holistic, compassionate and goal focused counselling in a safe and supportive environment. I offer a broad spectrum of services ranging from brief solution focused support to intensive psychotherapeutic support, including CBT & EMDR. I believe in the value of working collaboratively with my clients, and I have a deep respect and appreciation for diversity.
(778) 655-8538 View (778) 655-8538
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Ryan Bathgate
Counsellor, MA, MTC
Verified Verified
Langley, BC V3A
Certified in counselling, with a master’s in leadership, Ryan’s therapeutic methodologies involve Existentialism, Person-Centered, Narrative Therapy, Phenomenology, Internal Family Systems, CBT, REBT, Jungian, and Emotional Intelligence.
Your needs come first, and given Ryan’s vast experience in the counselling arena, the emphasis on the values which come with your cultural diversity is respected and celebrated. Ryan’s commitment to your mental health and well-being is congruent with the requirements for facilitating your healing journey.
Certified in counselling, with a master’s in leadership, Ryan’s therapeutic methodologies involve Existentialism, Person-Centered, Narrative Therapy, Phenomenology, Internal Family Systems, CBT, REBT, Jungian, and Emotional Intelligence.
Your needs come first, and given Ryan’s vast experience in the counselling arena, the emphasis on the values which come with your cultural diversity is respected and celebrated. Ryan’s commitment to your mental health and well-being is congruent with the requirements for facilitating your healing journey.
(902) 813-2558 View (902) 813-2558
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Jennifer McKinnon
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Moody, BC V3H
I will work with you to make sense of difficult feelings you may be experiencing and problem solve to develop more effective parenting skills, strategies, individual coping, and overall family functioning.
Take the first step today and start feeling better tomorrow! I have helped clients go from a feeling of hopelessness in there current situation to feeling empowered and capable of making change that moves them in a positive direction in life. My clients are of all ages, struggling with issues such as anxiety, depression, anger, loss, abuse, stress, communication issues, parent/child conflict and life transitions. I specialize in working with clients who have have experienced trauma and difficulties coping. it is important to find someone you can trust and who has the necessary skills and experience to help you thrive in life.
I will work with you to make sense of difficult feelings you may be experiencing and problem solve to develop more effective parenting skills, strategies, individual coping, and overall family functioning.
Take the first step today and start feeling better tomorrow! I have helped clients go from a feeling of hopelessness in there current situation to feeling empowered and capable of making change that moves them in a positive direction in life. My clients are of all ages, struggling with issues such as anxiety, depression, anger, loss, abuse, stress, communication issues, parent/child conflict and life transitions. I specialize in working with clients who have have experienced trauma and difficulties coping. it is important to find someone you can trust and who has the necessary skills and experience to help you thrive in life.
(604) 210-7315 View (604) 210-7315
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Charis Santiago
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8V
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome. How brave and courageous to explore newness for yourself. My name is Charis Santiago and I am a 2nd generation Filipina-Canadian therapist who provides relational analytic counselling services in Victoria, BC and telehealth. I am passionate about working with you surrounding a wide range of mental health issues. My specialties include working with issues of trauma and sexual abuse, racial/ethnic and identity development, issues with family, play therapy, addiction and mood disorders.
Welcome. How brave and courageous to explore newness for yourself. My name is Charis Santiago and I am a 2nd generation Filipina-Canadian therapist who provides relational analytic counselling services in Victoria, BC and telehealth. I am passionate about working with you surrounding a wide range of mental health issues. My specialties include working with issues of trauma and sexual abuse, racial/ethnic and identity development, issues with family, play therapy, addiction and mood disorders.
(705) 805-6019 View (705) 805-6019
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Maxine (Fisher) Saunders
Counsellor, MEd, RCC, MTA, Music, Therapy
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8X
Call to learn more about how online & phone can support you & your family.
Healthy change is possible and you do not have to face challenges alone. It can be very difficult to seek help and reach out during hard times. If you are reading this then you have already taken the first step towards well being. Finding a counsellor who you feel comfortable with is an essential part of the healing process. I would be happy to talk with you. Supporting individuals, families, youth and children for over 24 years. This is the time to take the best care of ourselves and our loved ones. Triggers arise now more than ever and support is available.
Call to learn more about how online & phone can support you & your family.
Healthy change is possible and you do not have to face challenges alone. It can be very difficult to seek help and reach out during hard times. If you are reading this then you have already taken the first step towards well being. Finding a counsellor who you feel comfortable with is an essential part of the healing process. I would be happy to talk with you. Supporting individuals, families, youth and children for over 24 years. This is the time to take the best care of ourselves and our loved ones. Triggers arise now more than ever and support is available.
(250) 800-2303 View (250) 800-2303
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Jennifer C Leon
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V2S
I've been in practice for clinical counselling since 2010. Over the course of time, I have adopted a practical and evidence-based approach to clinical counselling. Some of my areas of expertise are anxiety, depression, inter-personal relationships, family of origin challenges, career/work and trauma. I have years of additional training under my belt but I've found that it comes down to the relationship between the counsellor and the client. In this case, it's what you know AND who you want in your corner. I enjoy working with a variety of clients, and most especially those who are ready to do the work to get the life the want!
I've been in practice for clinical counselling since 2010. Over the course of time, I have adopted a practical and evidence-based approach to clinical counselling. Some of my areas of expertise are anxiety, depression, inter-personal relationships, family of origin challenges, career/work and trauma. I have years of additional training under my belt but I've found that it comes down to the relationship between the counsellor and the client. In this case, it's what you know AND who you want in your corner. I enjoy working with a variety of clients, and most especially those who are ready to do the work to get the life the want!
(778) 762-3564 View (778) 762-3564
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Future Ready Minds- The Dolphin Way
MD, FRCPC
Verified Verified
Vancouver, BC V5Z
At Future-ready Minds our team is passionate about preparing children for their future. We offer a wide range of clinical and counselling services for children, teens, and families at a number of offices located throughout Vancouver and the Fraser Valley. We also offer online (virtual) therapy services throughout BC – a convenient option that allows families to prioritize their mental health and wellness. All clinicians work under the treatment plan supervision and oversight of Psychiatrist Dr. Shimi Kang (MD, FRCPC).
At Future-ready Minds our team is passionate about preparing children for their future. We offer a wide range of clinical and counselling services for children, teens, and families at a number of offices located throughout Vancouver and the Fraser Valley. We also offer online (virtual) therapy services throughout BC – a convenient option that allows families to prioritize their mental health and wellness. All clinicians work under the treatment plan supervision and oversight of Psychiatrist Dr. Shimi Kang (MD, FRCPC).
(705) 990-1406 View (705) 990-1406
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Dmitry Alexandrovich
Counsellor, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3S
My purpose is to assist you in facing and processing traumatic / adverse life experiences that could have resulted in anxiety, depression, PTSD, addictions, anger issues, etc. Together, we will explore and unravel the nature and roots of what prevents you from living a happier life. Despite the possible challenges that may arise on this way, please know that you have a huge potential to live your life based on what is right with you. As a clinician, I am committed to do to the best of my abilities for facilitating this process and helping you reach your goals.
My purpose is to assist you in facing and processing traumatic / adverse life experiences that could have resulted in anxiety, depression, PTSD, addictions, anger issues, etc. Together, we will explore and unravel the nature and roots of what prevents you from living a happier life. Despite the possible challenges that may arise on this way, please know that you have a huge potential to live your life based on what is right with you. As a clinician, I am committed to do to the best of my abilities for facilitating this process and helping you reach your goals.
(833) 634-0972 View (833) 634-0972
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Dan Bue
Counsellor, BA, MA, RCC, Rev
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2S
A registered counsellor since 1994, I have worked with a wide array of clients. I have done much work with marriages and relationships and have developed a system that generally makes a significant difference within 6 sessions. For six years, I worked as an elementary school counsellor, working with over 450 children for a wide variety of needs. For 20 years, I worked extensively with Level 3 foster children, mostly teens. I also served as a prison chaplain so am familiar with criminal justice issues and addictions. Because of the diversity of my experience, I can generally relate to most clients.
A registered counsellor since 1994, I have worked with a wide array of clients. I have done much work with marriages and relationships and have developed a system that generally makes a significant difference within 6 sessions. For six years, I worked as an elementary school counsellor, working with over 450 children for a wide variety of needs. For 20 years, I worked extensively with Level 3 foster children, mostly teens. I also served as a prison chaplain so am familiar with criminal justice issues and addictions. Because of the diversity of my experience, I can generally relate to most clients.
(855) 219-4397 View (855) 219-4397
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Brandi Heisterman
Counsellor, BEd, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Squamish, BC V0N
Life is difficult. I work with clients to relieve pain and stress in their lives through somatic therapy, narrative therapy, psychoanalytic theory, and personality theory while using strategies such as CBT, with the goal of living a more meaningful life. As clients discover more about their morals and values, they understand more about their behaviour and emotions. Psychotherapy can be an incredible experience; I encourage clients to explore what is meaningful and purposeful in their life.
Life is difficult. I work with clients to relieve pain and stress in their lives through somatic therapy, narrative therapy, psychoanalytic theory, and personality theory while using strategies such as CBT, with the goal of living a more meaningful life. As clients discover more about their morals and values, they understand more about their behaviour and emotions. Psychotherapy can be an incredible experience; I encourage clients to explore what is meaningful and purposeful in their life.
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Family Therapy Counsellors

What do family therapists do?

A family therapist facilitates the process of understanding and improving how a family functions. The therapist will help family members develop empathy for one another. They’ll seek to understand existing patterns, misunderstandings, and conflicts that arise, in order to help the family arrive at a realistic, unified understanding and develop the coping skills they need to build stronger relationships.

How long does therapy for families take to work?

Therapy manifests differently in every family; a common time frame is 12 weekly sessions, but some families may see improvement after just a few weeks. Families should discuss their goals with the therapist at the beginning of the process and periodically revisit those goals to assess their progress together.

How can you encourage a family member to attend family therapy?

You can encourage family members to attend therapy by expressing with both love and concern the challenges you see and explaining how a therapist could help the family navigate those challenges together. An outside perspective can help everyone feel heard, get on the same page, and develop new skills. If family members are still hesitant, it may be helpful to emphasize that family therapy is short-term—it won’t last forever.

Is therapy for families effective?

Family therapy can significantly improve family dynamics and relationships. Research suggests that family therapy can help individuals understand their role in the family, communicate and solve problems together, reduce conflict and draw boundaries when necessary, and develop coping skills for stressors, major life changes, and mental or physical illnesses within the family.