Experiential Therapy in Kelowna, BC

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Tyne Buchy
Counsellor, MACP, BHK
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1P
My therapeutic style is influenced by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Experiential Therapy, EMDR, Ego-States, Emotion Focused Therapy, Mindfulness-Based strategies, ACT, and Gottman's approach to couples therapy.
Currently Accepting New Clients. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor offering counselling services to adult clients who are struggling with mental health issues (e.g. depression, anxiety, etc.) as well as clients who have experienced trauma. I have extensive experience working with client's diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and survivors of narcissistic abuse. I work with client's in individual, group, family/couple's sessions. My approach to counselling is client-centered and eclectic, where the client and I work together collaboratively in choosing which therapeutic approach is best suited for their needs.
My therapeutic style is influenced by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Experiential Therapy, EMDR, Ego-States, Emotion Focused Therapy, Mindfulness-Based strategies, ACT, and Gottman's approach to couples therapy.
Currently Accepting New Clients. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor offering counselling services to adult clients who are struggling with mental health issues (e.g. depression, anxiety, etc.) as well as clients who have experienced trauma. I have extensive experience working with client's diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and survivors of narcissistic abuse. I work with client's in individual, group, family/couple's sessions. My approach to counselling is client-centered and eclectic, where the client and I work together collaboratively in choosing which therapeutic approach is best suited for their needs.
(778) 906-8633 View (778) 906-8633
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Lea Ivanitz
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, BEd
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1X
Hello, my name is Lea and I am a new counsellor in the Kelowna area. I believe that we are all on a journey of growth and healing and there are times in life when we need some extra support! Whether you are experiencing difficulties with relationships, anxiety, parenting, trauma, loss, self-esteem, or other life stressors, my role is to help you address and let go of dysfunctional beliefs and patterns that are holding you back from living your best life. I feel passionately about working alongside others on the path to wellness and self-fulfillment.
Hello, my name is Lea and I am a new counsellor in the Kelowna area. I believe that we are all on a journey of growth and healing and there are times in life when we need some extra support! Whether you are experiencing difficulties with relationships, anxiety, parenting, trauma, loss, self-esteem, or other life stressors, my role is to help you address and let go of dysfunctional beliefs and patterns that are holding you back from living your best life. I feel passionately about working alongside others on the path to wellness and self-fulfillment.
(639) 390-5967 View (639) 390-5967
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Lisa Webster
Counsellor, BEd, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1W
What makes Lisa stand out is her warm personality and her straight forward approach. With gentleness and humour, she guides clients to find their own insights, while providing tools and teaching techniques clients can use on their own. In a non-judgemental setting, Lisa helps clients to quickly achieve their goals. Lisa Webster's style is perfect for motivated individuals who are ready to make rapid change. Lisa focuses on achieving results. What used to take months or even years can often be resolved in sessions, saving time and money.
What makes Lisa stand out is her warm personality and her straight forward approach. With gentleness and humour, she guides clients to find their own insights, while providing tools and teaching techniques clients can use on their own. In a non-judgemental setting, Lisa helps clients to quickly achieve their goals. Lisa Webster's style is perfect for motivated individuals who are ready to make rapid change. Lisa focuses on achieving results. What used to take months or even years can often be resolved in sessions, saving time and money.
(778) 764-1592 View (778) 764-1592
Rising Tide Wellness
Counsellor, MSc, MFT, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Are you looking for greater life satisfaction? Something needs to change but you just can't make it happen on your own? Or perhaps you want to check in with someone objective, for another perspective? Let's talk! Counselling doesn't have to increase your anxiety levels. It can be about two or more people sitting in a safe place, having coffee and a good chat about life. Face to face, online, or on the telephone. I'm a registered psychotherapist and I can help. Maybe for the first time in a long time, it's all about you!
Are you looking for greater life satisfaction? Something needs to change but you just can't make it happen on your own? Or perhaps you want to check in with someone objective, for another perspective? Let's talk! Counselling doesn't have to increase your anxiety levels. It can be about two or more people sitting in a safe place, having coffee and a good chat about life. Face to face, online, or on the telephone. I'm a registered psychotherapist and I can help. Maybe for the first time in a long time, it's all about you!
(604) 414-4219 View (604) 414-4219
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Strength Counselling Services
Counsellor, MEd, RCC, CCC, RSW, RP
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y  (Online Only)
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
(873) 363-1012 View (873) 363-1012
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Janna den Haan | Repose Counselling and Consulting
Counsellor, BMus, MCouns, RCC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Inhale... release tension in your shoulders and neck. Exhale... allow your body to relax. I'm so glad you're here! It can be exhausting to navigate life’s challenges alone. If you’re grappling with undesired behavioral patterns, overwhelming emotions, stress and anxiety in your daily life, or family of origin issues, I’m here to help. I offer safe and supportive space in which to explore feelings and emotions. Together, we can connect you with your innate drive to grow, and work on healing deep wounds so you can discover new ways to connect and thrive. You deserve to feel understood and whole again. Let’s take this journey together.
Inhale... release tension in your shoulders and neck. Exhale... allow your body to relax. I'm so glad you're here! It can be exhausting to navigate life’s challenges alone. If you’re grappling with undesired behavioral patterns, overwhelming emotions, stress and anxiety in your daily life, or family of origin issues, I’m here to help. I offer safe and supportive space in which to explore feelings and emotions. Together, we can connect you with your innate drive to grow, and work on healing deep wounds so you can discover new ways to connect and thrive. You deserve to feel understood and whole again. Let’s take this journey together.
(587) 874-5640 View (587) 874-5640
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Cherise Lowe Illuminate Clinical Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BSW, MSW, RSW, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Do you find yourself circling around the same issues, or struggling to overcome one particular problem, despite a lot of effort to change? I get how exhausting and sometimes hopeless that place can feel. I work with my clients to drill to the core of what is perpetuating current issues, so that together we create not just coping, but healing. By treating problems at this root level, clients often report having a sense of freedom beyond what they've experienced before. I utilize a combination of therapeutic techniques, however my specialization is in Accelerate Resolution Therapy (ART).
Do you find yourself circling around the same issues, or struggling to overcome one particular problem, despite a lot of effort to change? I get how exhausting and sometimes hopeless that place can feel. I work with my clients to drill to the core of what is perpetuating current issues, so that together we create not just coping, but healing. By treating problems at this root level, clients often report having a sense of freedom beyond what they've experienced before. I utilize a combination of therapeutic techniques, however my specialization is in Accelerate Resolution Therapy (ART).
(604) 239-8465 View (604) 239-8465
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Audree McIvor
Counsellor, RCC, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Do you struggle with depression or anxiety? Are you unsure of what to do from here? Let's untangle those moments to help you see your true self, which includes your strengths, struggles and life transitions. When we see ourselves through a different lens, we may recognize a more authentic self, creating self-acceptance and self-love. Let’s work together to create a relationship based on trust, genuineness and acceptance. I have daytime and evening availability.
Do you struggle with depression or anxiety? Are you unsure of what to do from here? Let's untangle those moments to help you see your true self, which includes your strengths, struggles and life transitions. When we see ourselves through a different lens, we may recognize a more authentic self, creating self-acceptance and self-love. Let’s work together to create a relationship based on trust, genuineness and acceptance. I have daytime and evening availability.
(431) 430-2007 View (431) 430-2007
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Dave Graewe
Counsellor, MA-MFT, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
By all appearances, perhaps you have a rather functional life, but on the inside you feel weighed down by past experiences or somehow blocked. You feel the lingering impact of past wounds on your present-day life - perhaps persistent anxiety, intrusive memories, or a sense of disconnection from yourself and others. Maybe it feels hard to let people in or to connect emotionally. Maybe emotions actually get so big they've become scary to feel. You're ready to start taking a look inside, with my support and guidance, and are deeply wanting to feel more whole and better able to operate from your best self.
By all appearances, perhaps you have a rather functional life, but on the inside you feel weighed down by past experiences or somehow blocked. You feel the lingering impact of past wounds on your present-day life - perhaps persistent anxiety, intrusive memories, or a sense of disconnection from yourself and others. Maybe it feels hard to let people in or to connect emotionally. Maybe emotions actually get so big they've become scary to feel. You're ready to start taking a look inside, with my support and guidance, and are deeply wanting to feel more whole and better able to operate from your best self.
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Photo of Adrienne Helgerson, BBA, MACP, Pre-Licensed Professional
Adrienne Helgerson
Pre-Licensed Professional, BBA, MACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1V
I work with youth and adults in navigating life’s challenges, such as relationship and family dynamics, pregnancy and postpartum, parenting, working mothers, burnout, stress, grief, self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and managing health issues. My clients seek a holistic approach that addresses and integrates biopsychosocialspiritual factors. They are motivated to understand and overcome past experiences, enrich their lives, and move forward with knowledge and intention. They value a compassionate, knowledgeable partner to walk beside them on their journey toward healing, growth, and self-mastery.
I work with youth and adults in navigating life’s challenges, such as relationship and family dynamics, pregnancy and postpartum, parenting, working mothers, burnout, stress, grief, self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and managing health issues. My clients seek a holistic approach that addresses and integrates biopsychosocialspiritual factors. They are motivated to understand and overcome past experiences, enrich their lives, and move forward with knowledge and intention. They value a compassionate, knowledgeable partner to walk beside them on their journey toward healing, growth, and self-mastery.
(438) 256-8672 View (438) 256-8672
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Empowered Solutions Counselling
Counsellor, MTC, EMDR, RTC, RPC(c)
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
At Empowered Solutions Counselling we recognize that the primary source of suffering is our disconnection from the deepest parts of ourselves, often caused by childhood and intergenerational trauma. Therapy can allow us to find patterns that no longer serve us, with the right attention, this connection can be restored. Our team brings a wealth of experience and a compassionate approach to support you through life.
At Empowered Solutions Counselling we recognize that the primary source of suffering is our disconnection from the deepest parts of ourselves, often caused by childhood and intergenerational trauma. Therapy can allow us to find patterns that no longer serve us, with the right attention, this connection can be restored. Our team brings a wealth of experience and a compassionate approach to support you through life.
(778) 401-9773 View (778) 401-9773
Photo of Miriam Desjardins, RCC, MACP, MDY, BA, Counsellor
Miriam Desjardins
Counsellor, RCC, MACP, MDY, BA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1W
As an RCC, I work within a holistic framework that recognizes the inseparable connection between mental health, and emotional, physical and spiritual wellbeing. I use evidence-based approaches to support clients with symptoms of anxiety, avoidance, depression and emotional dysregulation; and specialize in working with traumatic stress, loss, interpersonal challenges, and spiritual/religious trauma. There is no one, ‘right’ way to approach wellbeing. Your personal story is your own - formed by your upbringing, physical and emotional conditions, the cultural and social contexts that shape you, and all that you value.
As an RCC, I work within a holistic framework that recognizes the inseparable connection between mental health, and emotional, physical and spiritual wellbeing. I use evidence-based approaches to support clients with symptoms of anxiety, avoidance, depression and emotional dysregulation; and specialize in working with traumatic stress, loss, interpersonal challenges, and spiritual/religious trauma. There is no one, ‘right’ way to approach wellbeing. Your personal story is your own - formed by your upbringing, physical and emotional conditions, the cultural and social contexts that shape you, and all that you value.
(365) 607-5749 View (365) 607-5749
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Clarity Okanagan Counselling and Consultation
Counsellor, RCC, CCC, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
NOW ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. Clarity Counsellors have a minimum of a Master’s degree in the counselling field. This comes with 7 years of formal education, plus multiple practicums where skills are developed to ensure clients are getting the services they need. Our educations are supported by our own journeys, too. We have been there; explored sexuality, experienced trauma, lived through relationship breakdowns/heartbreak, built self-esteem, grieved a loss, and worked through difficult parenting situations. We know what the work is like, and how it feels to come out the other side. We want to help you do the same.
NOW ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. Clarity Counsellors have a minimum of a Master’s degree in the counselling field. This comes with 7 years of formal education, plus multiple practicums where skills are developed to ensure clients are getting the services they need. Our educations are supported by our own journeys, too. We have been there; explored sexuality, experienced trauma, lived through relationship breakdowns/heartbreak, built self-esteem, grieved a loss, and worked through difficult parenting situations. We know what the work is like, and how it feels to come out the other side. We want to help you do the same.
(250) 300-6860 View (250) 300-6860
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Jennifer Broughton (Psychotherapy For You)
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1V  (Online Only)
I am a registered clinical social worker and have been in practice for twenty years. I have a busy young family and we enjoy all three seasons the BC interior has to offer. I have experience working with individuals and groups of all ages. My training includes EMDR, cognitive behaviour therapy, dialectical behaviour therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, motivational interviewing and more. I am passionate about supporting individuals and families as they journey through personal growth and self discovery.
I am a registered clinical social worker and have been in practice for twenty years. I have a busy young family and we enjoy all three seasons the BC interior has to offer. I have experience working with individuals and groups of all ages. My training includes EMDR, cognitive behaviour therapy, dialectical behaviour therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, motivational interviewing and more. I am passionate about supporting individuals and families as they journey through personal growth and self discovery.
(506) 909-0491 View (506) 909-0491
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Sarah Hunter
Counsellor, BA, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1W
Being a human is turbulent, unpredictable, and often a lot more than we were prepared for. Break ups, job transition, life transition, school stress, interpersonal conflict, emotion management, my ideal client is motivated to self-reflect through change. Through attention, care, and deep compassion, I work to thoroughly understand you, thoughtfully creating a safe space for your self-discovery. And together, we can locate your self-at-best, find resilience, improve emotional agility, and restore your adaptive functioning, where you are able to feel, deal, and heal in a way that honours who you are.
Being a human is turbulent, unpredictable, and often a lot more than we were prepared for. Break ups, job transition, life transition, school stress, interpersonal conflict, emotion management, my ideal client is motivated to self-reflect through change. Through attention, care, and deep compassion, I work to thoroughly understand you, thoughtfully creating a safe space for your self-discovery. And together, we can locate your self-at-best, find resilience, improve emotional agility, and restore your adaptive functioning, where you are able to feel, deal, and heal in a way that honours who you are.
(226) 782-0882 View (226) 782-0882
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Sheri Graham
Counsellor, BA, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
What if you could improve the quality of your life and your relationships by changing the way you think, feel and behave? I work with adults who struggle with anxiety, self esteem, stress, and anger issues, to do just that. I help individuals become aware of the thought patterns that keep them stuck and prevent them from living their life to the fullest. I show people how their thoughts, emotions and behaviours are linked and provide the necessary skills to change negative habits that have become normal over time.
What if you could improve the quality of your life and your relationships by changing the way you think, feel and behave? I work with adults who struggle with anxiety, self esteem, stress, and anger issues, to do just that. I help individuals become aware of the thought patterns that keep them stuck and prevent them from living their life to the fullest. I show people how their thoughts, emotions and behaviours are linked and provide the necessary skills to change negative habits that have become normal over time.
(825) 305-5006 x250878 View (825) 305-5006 x250878
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Laura Belland
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Hi there, my name is Laura Belland. I specialize in CBT, self-compassion therapy, and solution-focused therapy. I believe we can often be our own worst enemies and harshest critics, and I hope to help you grow and get past any negative thinking to become your most alive and thriving self; through CBT, compassionate self-care, and mindfulness amongst other strategies. I am passionate about working with clients experiencing anxiety, social anxiety, stress, perfectionism, and depression. I have experience helping those with limiting beliefs about themselves, negative body image, and disordered eating.
Hi there, my name is Laura Belland. I specialize in CBT, self-compassion therapy, and solution-focused therapy. I believe we can often be our own worst enemies and harshest critics, and I hope to help you grow and get past any negative thinking to become your most alive and thriving self; through CBT, compassionate self-care, and mindfulness amongst other strategies. I am passionate about working with clients experiencing anxiety, social anxiety, stress, perfectionism, and depression. I have experience helping those with limiting beliefs about themselves, negative body image, and disordered eating.
(226) 785-3042 View (226) 785-3042
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Robyn Springer
Counsellor, RCC, MACP, BScN
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I help teens, young adults and parents who are feeling limited by past experiences, shame, self criticism, unhealthy coping habits, anxiety and/or depression. Whether you are looking for short term counselling (emotional support and some help to get back on your feet), more in depth therapy (changing longer existing patterns of how you behave and relate to yourself and others), or emotional intelligence coaching (to improve yourself personally or professionally), I can help. My clients are from very varied backgrounds and ages, however I do specialize in working with health care professionals, young adults and teens.
I help teens, young adults and parents who are feeling limited by past experiences, shame, self criticism, unhealthy coping habits, anxiety and/or depression. Whether you are looking for short term counselling (emotional support and some help to get back on your feet), more in depth therapy (changing longer existing patterns of how you behave and relate to yourself and others), or emotional intelligence coaching (to improve yourself personally or professionally), I can help. My clients are from very varied backgrounds and ages, however I do specialize in working with health care professionals, young adults and teens.
(250) 258-2902 View (250) 258-2902
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Katharine Hansen
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Accepting New Clients - Have you lost hope and are feeling overwhelmed and not sure how to move forward? Finding that stress and anxiety are interfering with your day-to-day life? Grieving the loss of someone important to you, or the loss of a dream? Feeling frustrated, numb, or disconnected? We often need support but do not know where to look next. You deserve to be heard and understood. I will meet you wherever you are in your healing journey with an open mind and caring heart. Together, we will shine a light in those dark places and hold safe space for you there – to feel, heal, and navigate the way forward.
Accepting New Clients - Have you lost hope and are feeling overwhelmed and not sure how to move forward? Finding that stress and anxiety are interfering with your day-to-day life? Grieving the loss of someone important to you, or the loss of a dream? Feeling frustrated, numb, or disconnected? We often need support but do not know where to look next. You deserve to be heard and understood. I will meet you wherever you are in your healing journey with an open mind and caring heart. Together, we will shine a light in those dark places and hold safe space for you there – to feel, heal, and navigate the way forward.
(778) 601-3873 View (778) 601-3873
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Cameron Grunbaum
Counsellor, BHKIN, MA, CCC, RCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y  (Online Only)
I help men that: struggle to understand and communicate emotions so instead bottle them up; overwhelmed with anxiety and anger; feel helpless and passive and thereby suppress their feelings; get lost and stuck in depression; struggle with low self-esteem; tried counselling but never discovered the roots of their issues, their progress plateaued, or didn't gain anything from it; and who struggle to achieve deep, lasting changes in their feelings, thoughts, and behaviours. If you resonate with any of the above, you are ready to stop talking in circles about your issues and start tackling your problems head-on to make real progress.
I help men that: struggle to understand and communicate emotions so instead bottle them up; overwhelmed with anxiety and anger; feel helpless and passive and thereby suppress their feelings; get lost and stuck in depression; struggle with low self-esteem; tried counselling but never discovered the roots of their issues, their progress plateaued, or didn't gain anything from it; and who struggle to achieve deep, lasting changes in their feelings, thoughts, and behaviours. If you resonate with any of the above, you are ready to stop talking in circles about your issues and start tackling your problems head-on to make real progress.
(506) 497-6402 View (506) 497-6402
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How does experiential therapy work?

Experiential therapy works by allowing an individual to use their creativity to re-imagine themselves and their lives in an effort to process their emotions. Experiential therapy may take many forms, including engaging clients through art, re-enactments, role-playing, music, or forms of physical recreation. By focusing on these activities, experiential therapists help individuals identify the emotions they associate with previous experiences and work together to cope with negative reactions, like fear, anger, or shame.

Is experiential therapy evidence-based?

Experiential therapy incorporates many therapy modalities, some of which have been more closely researched than others. Music therapy, for example, has been shown to help with sleep problems. Some studies find that art therapy can be beneficial for those with eating disorders or personality disorders, while other research suggests that such approaches have little impact.

How long does experiential therapy last?

The duration of experiential therapy will depend on the type of therapy used as well as the severity of the challenges an individual faces. Play therapy sessions may last for 30 to 45 minutes, and usually occur weekly for about 20 sessions. Art therapy may comprise 10 to 15 weekly sessions. Music therapy sessions generally last between 30 and 50 minutes and can be scheduled weekly or on an as-needed basis. For each therapy type, clients should periodically discuss their goals with their therapist to make sure the two are aligned on process and progress.

Does experiential therapy help with trauma?

Trauma is one area where experiential therapy may be useful. Traumatic experiences such as combat or childhood abuse can be so painful that articulating them can be too scary or painful; creating visual art allows people to express themselves without words, and tell their story in a different way. Listening to music can be relaxing, while making music as part of a group provides plenty of opportunities to connect with other people. Play therapy is often of value to children who have experienced a loss or distressing family experience, or who have been physically or emotionally abused.