Relationship Issues Therapists in Chemainus, BC

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Franya Jedwab
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Chemainus, BC V0R
I specialize in: trauma and domestic violence; parenting; childhood anxiety and attachment; separation and divorce; co-parenting; child and teen counselling; LGBTQ+; relationship and Gottman therapy; response-based approaches, anti-violence work; anxiety and depression; mental health; grief and loss; suicidal ideation and self-harm.
I am a warmhearted and respectful professional with over 18 years of counselling experience. I offer individual, child, teen, parent & family counselling with a safe, therapeutic, and non-judgmental lens. I use a variety of counselling approaches, such as CBT, Trauma-informed and Psychodynamic Therapy to suit your circumstances, experiences, and preferences to create a respectful and empowering approach to the work together. I hold a Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University. I am a Registered Counsellor Provider with the BC Crime Victim Assistance Program, First Nations Health Authority and Humanacare EAP.
I specialize in: trauma and domestic violence; parenting; childhood anxiety and attachment; separation and divorce; co-parenting; child and teen counselling; LGBTQ+; relationship and Gottman therapy; response-based approaches, anti-violence work; anxiety and depression; mental health; grief and loss; suicidal ideation and self-harm.
I am a warmhearted and respectful professional with over 18 years of counselling experience. I offer individual, child, teen, parent & family counselling with a safe, therapeutic, and non-judgmental lens. I use a variety of counselling approaches, such as CBT, Trauma-informed and Psychodynamic Therapy to suit your circumstances, experiences, and preferences to create a respectful and empowering approach to the work together. I hold a Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University. I am a Registered Counsellor Provider with the BC Crime Victim Assistance Program, First Nations Health Authority and Humanacare EAP.
(778) 760-4302 View (778) 760-4302
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Monique Hendricks
Counsellor, MA, RCC, she/her
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chemainus, BC V0R
If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, suicidal thoughts, self-harming, relationship or family issues, or other life challenges, I am here to listen and walk with you through this time.
Hello, my name is Monique Hendricks, and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor in B.C. I help people of all ages who are dealing with anxiety, depression, overthinking, self-confidence, grief and loss, and relationship/family challenges. My practice is guided through a trauma-focused lens, and I integrate a variety of counselling approaches depending on your therapy needs. With your consent, I will incorporate aspects of mindfulness and somatic-sensory (physical) awareness into the space of wellness that we create together.
If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, suicidal thoughts, self-harming, relationship or family issues, or other life challenges, I am here to listen and walk with you through this time.
Hello, my name is Monique Hendricks, and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor in B.C. I help people of all ages who are dealing with anxiety, depression, overthinking, self-confidence, grief and loss, and relationship/family challenges. My practice is guided through a trauma-focused lens, and I integrate a variety of counselling approaches depending on your therapy needs. With your consent, I will incorporate aspects of mindfulness and somatic-sensory (physical) awareness into the space of wellness that we create together.
(450) 235-2369 View (450) 235-2369
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Elizabeth Morelle
Counsellor, MACP, RCC, BCACC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Chemainus, BC V0R
Do stuck patterns hold you up in life? Do you struggle with depression, anxiety or trauma? Do you contend with unrealistic fears or worry? Maybe you suffered childhood trauma, emotional neglect, or other more recent trauma? Using EMDR and IFS with a somatic approach, I can help you to make positive change, transform and heal, and move forward into a more fulfilling and satisfying, embodied experience of life. If you find yourself repeating the same old unhealthy beliefs, If you'd like more peace and contentment in your life, please give me a call. I have over 10 years of experience. I offer a free phone consult of up to 15 mins.
Do stuck patterns hold you up in life? Do you struggle with depression, anxiety or trauma? Do you contend with unrealistic fears or worry? Maybe you suffered childhood trauma, emotional neglect, or other more recent trauma? Using EMDR and IFS with a somatic approach, I can help you to make positive change, transform and heal, and move forward into a more fulfilling and satisfying, embodied experience of life. If you find yourself repeating the same old unhealthy beliefs, If you'd like more peace and contentment in your life, please give me a call. I have over 10 years of experience. I offer a free phone consult of up to 15 mins.
(250) 800-3836 View (250) 800-3836
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Brett Mason
Registered Social Worker, RSW, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chemainus, BC V0R
I support people in finding the sparkle, hope, and joy in life again. The weight of the world, trauma, and our personal experiences can sometimes be very heavy, which can lead to depression, anxiety, grief, loneliness, feeling numb or feeling burnt out. Counselling with me will strengthen the ways you cope, help you re-story what is going on for you (you are already the main character in your life!), and support you in changing negative or self-deprecating thought patterns.
I support people in finding the sparkle, hope, and joy in life again. The weight of the world, trauma, and our personal experiences can sometimes be very heavy, which can lead to depression, anxiety, grief, loneliness, feeling numb or feeling burnt out. Counselling with me will strengthen the ways you cope, help you re-story what is going on for you (you are already the main character in your life!), and support you in changing negative or self-deprecating thought patterns.
(250) 606-1240 View (250) 606-1240

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Rachel Falconer
Counsellor, RCT-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cowichan Bay, BC V0R  (Online Only)
Building a collaborative relationship on the path we take together is my priority.
My focus is strongly influenced by a person-centered therapy approach to wellness through different methods such as Eco-therapy or expressive art therapy techniques and using the natural elements available to us should the sessions call for such an approach. Reducing stress and anxiety to create a more peaceful person inside who can claim their meaning and be more joyful in life is a difficult path to walk alone. I am here to help and be part of the healing journey. I have completed my diploma in April of 2023 and plan to continue my education and training to better serve the clients I take on as I evolve as a counsellor.
Building a collaborative relationship on the path we take together is my priority.
My focus is strongly influenced by a person-centered therapy approach to wellness through different methods such as Eco-therapy or expressive art therapy techniques and using the natural elements available to us should the sessions call for such an approach. Reducing stress and anxiety to create a more peaceful person inside who can claim their meaning and be more joyful in life is a difficult path to walk alone. I am here to help and be part of the healing journey. I have completed my diploma in April of 2023 and plan to continue my education and training to better serve the clients I take on as I evolve as a counsellor.
(548) 457-0379 View (548) 457-0379
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Sarah Welsby
Counsellor, RTCc
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Gabriola, BC V0R
Whether you're navigating relationship issues, transitioning through life changes, or grappling with anxiety, you do not have to do it alone. Counselling helps us to understand our own desires, past experiences, and vulnerabilities, this is what lays the groundwork for meaningful connection with others. Counselling is a courageous journey with a companion who holds the flashlight.
Whether you're navigating relationship issues, transitioning through life changes, or grappling with anxiety, you do not have to do it alone. Counselling helps us to understand our own desires, past experiences, and vulnerabilities, this is what lays the groundwork for meaningful connection with others. Counselling is a courageous journey with a companion who holds the flashlight.
(236) 233-9869 View (236) 233-9869
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Stephanie Bogue Kerr
Registered Social Worker, PhD, MA, MSW
Verified Verified
Ucluelet, BC V0R
My recently completed doctoral research explored the relationship between mental health and exercise.
Welcome! Reaching out to find support when we're struggling can bring up a lot of feelings. I meet you where you are and join with you in figuring out how to make life's challenges a little lighter. If you are living with anxiety, depression, or navigating a life transition, I would be honoured to support you in working through it. The body is a central focus in my work, and I specialize in experiences of illness and of addiction. I worked in the healthcare and education systems. I have an eclectic professional and academic path that feeds my practice, and I offer talk therapy as well as drama therapy sessions.
My recently completed doctoral research explored the relationship between mental health and exercise.
Welcome! Reaching out to find support when we're struggling can bring up a lot of feelings. I meet you where you are and join with you in figuring out how to make life's challenges a little lighter. If you are living with anxiety, depression, or navigating a life transition, I would be honoured to support you in working through it. The body is a central focus in my work, and I specialize in experiences of illness and of addiction. I worked in the healthcare and education systems. I have an eclectic professional and academic path that feeds my practice, and I offer talk therapy as well as drama therapy sessions.
(438) 801-0098 View (438) 801-0098
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Heather Thrasher
Counsellor, BSW, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Shawnigan Lake, BC V0R
I have extensive experience working with children & families, as well as experience with trauma, crisis, relationship, and addiction.
Relationships are built at the speed of trust and I believe the relationship created between therapist and client is the foundational component in the therapeutic process. I bring 15 years of experience working with families and individuals in various capacities and create a treatment plan specific to your individual needs. I identify as a female from a mixed ancestry- European/French/Indigenous, and honour the ability to work and play on the traditional lands and territory of the ɬaʔamɩn Peoples. I'm grateful to be able to walk alongside you and support you on your journey.
I have extensive experience working with children & families, as well as experience with trauma, crisis, relationship, and addiction.
Relationships are built at the speed of trust and I believe the relationship created between therapist and client is the foundational component in the therapeutic process. I bring 15 years of experience working with families and individuals in various capacities and create a treatment plan specific to your individual needs. I identify as a female from a mixed ancestry- European/French/Indigenous, and honour the ability to work and play on the traditional lands and territory of the ɬaʔamɩn Peoples. I'm grateful to be able to walk alongside you and support you on your journey.
(778) 488-9402 View (778) 488-9402
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Cate Nash | Steady And Wild Counselling
Counsellor, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tofino, BC V0R
I work as a Registered Counsellor & Social Worker with over 10 years experience. I offer virtual, outdoor & surf therapy to individuals aged 12+ in Ontario and BC. I'm a settler, originally from Scarborough, and I'm currently living on Vancouver Island (Coast Salish and Nuu-chah-nulth territories). I often work with people experiencing: depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, life transitions, work stress, grief, trauma, & more! I'm particularly passionate about helping people reconnect with nature, and manage trauma. More info: www.steadyandwildcounselling.ca
I work as a Registered Counsellor & Social Worker with over 10 years experience. I offer virtual, outdoor & surf therapy to individuals aged 12+ in Ontario and BC. I'm a settler, originally from Scarborough, and I'm currently living on Vancouver Island (Coast Salish and Nuu-chah-nulth territories). I often work with people experiencing: depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, life transitions, work stress, grief, trauma, & more! I'm particularly passionate about helping people reconnect with nature, and manage trauma. More info: www.steadyandwildcounselling.ca
(587) 741-1922 View (587) 741-1922
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Kristina Campbell
Counsellor, MACP, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cumberland, BC V0R
Relationship and communication skills are essential tools for navigating the complexities of life, and are a particular focus of my practise.
Do you find yourself wishing that the world would just slow down for a few moments, let you catch your breath and get your feet back underneath you? Are you wondering how things got so overwhelming and out of control? In times of transition, whether by choice or demand, we often find ourselves needing new skills to cope with our changing circumstances. Our relationships are deeply impacted by our ability to communicate our needs, desires, and boundaries, and yet we are taught so few of these skills.
Relationship and communication skills are essential tools for navigating the complexities of life, and are a particular focus of my practise.
Do you find yourself wishing that the world would just slow down for a few moments, let you catch your breath and get your feet back underneath you? Are you wondering how things got so overwhelming and out of control? In times of transition, whether by choice or demand, we often find ourselves needing new skills to cope with our changing circumstances. Our relationships are deeply impacted by our ability to communicate our needs, desires, and boundaries, and yet we are taught so few of these skills.
(506) 308-1517 View (506) 308-1517
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Carla Mae Leuschen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MPA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shawnigan Lake, BC V0R
I work with clients whom wish to push the boundaries of “normal” to uncover & deconstruct the root causes of their suffering. Many of the people that I work with are dealing with major depression, anxiety, grief, relationship issues, and overall frustration with the current state of society and the environment. The clients that I see often present to me with symptoms such as feeling blocked, overwhelmed, anxious, depressed, alone, and powerless in their life. I support clients to transform their pain into strength so that they can live a more fulfilled life.
I work with clients whom wish to push the boundaries of “normal” to uncover & deconstruct the root causes of their suffering. Many of the people that I work with are dealing with major depression, anxiety, grief, relationship issues, and overall frustration with the current state of society and the environment. The clients that I see often present to me with symptoms such as feeling blocked, overwhelmed, anxious, depressed, alone, and powerless in their life. I support clients to transform their pain into strength so that they can live a more fulfilled life.
(778) 743-5005 View (778) 743-5005
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Feminine Fortress Counselling
Counsellor, RCC, RN, MN
Verified Verified
Coombs, BC V0R
Understanding your sense of self and core beliefs can be a powerful catalyst for change, allowing you to get unstuck from limiting patterns and cultivate a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
Hi, I’m Kirstin! As a Registered Nurse & Clinical Counsellor. I’m dedicated to supporting women in discovering their strengths, cultivating self-acceptance, and unlocking their capacity for lasting change. I support women in breaking free from stress, calming anxiety, and improving their overall sense of emotional, mental and physical wellbeing. In a compassionate space, we’ll develop personalized strategies to nurture your mind, body and soul. Whether you’re living with stress, anxiety, trauma, depression, or a chronic health condition, or simply seeking a more balanced lifestyle, I will help you discover your path to wellness.
Understanding your sense of self and core beliefs can be a powerful catalyst for change, allowing you to get unstuck from limiting patterns and cultivate a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
Hi, I’m Kirstin! As a Registered Nurse & Clinical Counsellor. I’m dedicated to supporting women in discovering their strengths, cultivating self-acceptance, and unlocking their capacity for lasting change. I support women in breaking free from stress, calming anxiety, and improving their overall sense of emotional, mental and physical wellbeing. In a compassionate space, we’ll develop personalized strategies to nurture your mind, body and soul. Whether you’re living with stress, anxiety, trauma, depression, or a chronic health condition, or simply seeking a more balanced lifestyle, I will help you discover your path to wellness.
(450) 235-8972 View (450) 235-8972
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Mackenzie Kuzyk
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, BSW, BA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cowichan Bay, BC V0R  (Online Only)
As a queer Indigenous person, I value relationality immensely and believe great healing can be done when in relationship.
Areas of Focus: Indigenous Counselling, Trauma (including intergenerational, racism, impacts of heteronormativity/cisnormativity), 2SLGBTQ+ Affirming/Identity Exploration, Cultural Identity Exploration. I am a Two Spirit and Indigiqueer human who resides in Moh’kins’tsis (Calgary, Alberta). I come from mixed ancestry and am French, Irish, and Mi’kmaq. My Nation is in the south of Newfoundland at the mouth of the Conne River and is called Miawpukek First Nation. I am a white-presenting Indigenous person which has allocated me privilege in my life and has shaped my experiences.
As a queer Indigenous person, I value relationality immensely and believe great healing can be done when in relationship.
Areas of Focus: Indigenous Counselling, Trauma (including intergenerational, racism, impacts of heteronormativity/cisnormativity), 2SLGBTQ+ Affirming/Identity Exploration, Cultural Identity Exploration. I am a Two Spirit and Indigiqueer human who resides in Moh’kins’tsis (Calgary, Alberta). I come from mixed ancestry and am French, Irish, and Mi’kmaq. My Nation is in the south of Newfoundland at the mouth of the Conne River and is called Miawpukek First Nation. I am a white-presenting Indigenous person which has allocated me privilege in my life and has shaped my experiences.
(587) 912-2153 View (587) 912-2153
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Leslie Stewart
Counsellor, MEd, MC, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Shawnigan Lake, BC V0R
You are feeling stuck. You may be navigating some form of life transition such as a recent move, job change, loss of an important relationship, new parenthood, or retirement. Perhaps you are noticing that with this change come feelings of overwhelm, anxiousness, depression and possibly grief. The feelings are real. And they are painful. You feel disconnected from the person you know you want to be. Yet the pain is getting in the way of moving forward. I am here to help you become unstuck.
You are feeling stuck. You may be navigating some form of life transition such as a recent move, job change, loss of an important relationship, new parenthood, or retirement. Perhaps you are noticing that with this change come feelings of overwhelm, anxiousness, depression and possibly grief. The feelings are real. And they are painful. You feel disconnected from the person you know you want to be. Yet the pain is getting in the way of moving forward. I am here to help you become unstuck.
(249) 523-5366 View (249) 523-5366
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Kathleen Roach
MA, (psy), RCC
Verified Verified
Lantzville, BC V0R
However much we may seek stability, life is a series of interconnected transitions. Sometimes we face complex changes that seem unworkable and challenges that appear impossible. Learning how to deal with the ongoing changes of our lives promotes personal growth and deepens our sense of pupose and fulfillment. With tools and support you can navigate these changes and establish a sense of safety and stability with a deeper, even more fulfilling sense of personal wholeness. Together, we can activate the internal resources that will help you to move forward with confidence. You will know when this therapy is successful.
However much we may seek stability, life is a series of interconnected transitions. Sometimes we face complex changes that seem unworkable and challenges that appear impossible. Learning how to deal with the ongoing changes of our lives promotes personal growth and deepens our sense of pupose and fulfillment. With tools and support you can navigate these changes and establish a sense of safety and stability with a deeper, even more fulfilling sense of personal wholeness. Together, we can activate the internal resources that will help you to move forward with confidence. You will know when this therapy is successful.
(778) 744-8017 View (778) 744-8017
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John Rushforth
Counsellor, BScN, MCouns
Verified Verified
Cumberland, BC V0R
My approach to counselling is based on respect for you the client. I do my very best to ensure that you feel safe, in control of the process, heard, and understood. My job is to get to know your values and how you think, feel, and act, in order to support you to either strengthen or change, aspects of yourself and your life. We will collaborate to establish meaningful and achievable goals focused on creating the life you want.
My approach to counselling is based on respect for you the client. I do my very best to ensure that you feel safe, in control of the process, heard, and understood. My job is to get to know your values and how you think, feel, and act, in order to support you to either strengthen or change, aspects of yourself and your life. We will collaborate to establish meaningful and achievable goals focused on creating the life you want.
(705) 980-1041 View (705) 980-1041
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Courtney Wright | Qualicum Counselling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Bowser, BC V0R  (Online Only)
Registered Social Worker in private practice supporting individuals through online video and phone counselling sessions. I have 20 years experience in the social work field helping individuals through difficult times. I am a neurodivergent, trauma-informed, anti-oppressive Social Worker providing evidence based clinical social work practices. If you are struggling and would appreciate connecting with someone who is non-judgemental, empathetic, personable therapist with a sense of humour, I may be a good fit.
Registered Social Worker in private practice supporting individuals through online video and phone counselling sessions. I have 20 years experience in the social work field helping individuals through difficult times. I am a neurodivergent, trauma-informed, anti-oppressive Social Worker providing evidence based clinical social work practices. If you are struggling and would appreciate connecting with someone who is non-judgemental, empathetic, personable therapist with a sense of humour, I may be a good fit.
(226) 773-5125 View (226) 773-5125
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Janice Furevick
Counsellor, MA, RPN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mill Bay, BC V0R
Wanting to create a better life rather than settling for status quo, just getting by while filled with anxiety and feelings of hopeless; coping with excess food, drugs or alcohol. It takes courage and tremendous willingness to begin a path of change and it is an honour and a joy to walk with people on their journey toward wholeness. My work with people often leaves me in awe of the strength of the human spirit as I witness them overcome trauma and self-destructive behaviours and move toward their dreams while embracing their authentic self.
Wanting to create a better life rather than settling for status quo, just getting by while filled with anxiety and feelings of hopeless; coping with excess food, drugs or alcohol. It takes courage and tremendous willingness to begin a path of change and it is an honour and a joy to walk with people on their journey toward wholeness. My work with people often leaves me in awe of the strength of the human spirit as I witness them overcome trauma and self-destructive behaviours and move toward their dreams while embracing their authentic self.
(825) 251-9138 View (825) 251-9138
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Jade Honce
Counsellor, MA, CCC, RCC
Verified Verified
Tofino, BC V0R
My approach to therapy is collaborative and flexible to suit the needs of each individual client. My specialty is in working with women affected by stress, anxiety, depression and those struggling with past trauma and PTSD. I also offer personalized support to women struggling in their relationships. My primary orientations are strengths based, person-centred and psychodynamic. In addition to traditional talk therapy, I am fully trained and certified in Somatic Experiencing (SE), EMDR, TF-CBT, Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) and Creative Arts Therapy. I also offer interventions based in Internal Family Systems, MBSR, ACT and DBT.
My approach to therapy is collaborative and flexible to suit the needs of each individual client. My specialty is in working with women affected by stress, anxiety, depression and those struggling with past trauma and PTSD. I also offer personalized support to women struggling in their relationships. My primary orientations are strengths based, person-centred and psychodynamic. In addition to traditional talk therapy, I am fully trained and certified in Somatic Experiencing (SE), EMDR, TF-CBT, Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) and Creative Arts Therapy. I also offer interventions based in Internal Family Systems, MBSR, ACT and DBT.
(855) 512-1114 View (855) 512-1114
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Whole Heart Centre
Counsellor, MA, MFT, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cumberland, BC V0R
“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.” –Brené Brown. As your mentor or counsellor, I want to create a safe space for you to recognize and transform the life patterns of overwhelming anxiety or panic attacks, persistent stress from big life changes and events, distress from trauma, and pain from broken or disconnected relationships. Using both traditional and holistic healing methods, I'll show you how to nurture your emotional health, cultivate an inner strength and confidence, tap into love, and step into your power as a wise self-healer.
“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.” –Brené Brown. As your mentor or counsellor, I want to create a safe space for you to recognize and transform the life patterns of overwhelming anxiety or panic attacks, persistent stress from big life changes and events, distress from trauma, and pain from broken or disconnected relationships. Using both traditional and holistic healing methods, I'll show you how to nurture your emotional health, cultivate an inner strength and confidence, tap into love, and step into your power as a wise self-healer.
(548) 554-4121 View (548) 554-4121

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Relationship Issues Counsellors
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.