Parenting Therapists in Burnaby, BC

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Robyn Kozak
Counsellor, MEd, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5C
Whether it is struggles with pregnancy, postpartum, parenting, relationships, anxiety, mood, or past trauma, I support individuals with identifying what they want to be different in their life and co-creating a plan for our work together. As a counsellor, it is a privilege to support clients in their journeys to find more joy, feel less overwhelmed by difficult emotions, improve relationships, and feel more compassion for themselves. I work collaboratively with clients to explore their values and how to foster these into a meaningful life.
Whether it is struggles with pregnancy, postpartum, parenting, relationships, anxiety, mood, or past trauma, I support individuals with identifying what they want to be different in their life and co-creating a plan for our work together. As a counsellor, it is a privilege to support clients in their journeys to find more joy, feel less overwhelmed by difficult emotions, improve relationships, and feel more compassion for themselves. I work collaboratively with clients to explore their values and how to foster these into a meaningful life.
(506) 496-0803 View (506) 496-0803
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Michelle Ann Coulombe
MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5C
I can support your assertiveness, healthy boundaries, communication skills, self care and parenting.
My ideal client is struggling with stress, anxiety, panic attacks, phobias or depression. They may have someone in their life who creates a lot of drama for everyone. They want to find more peace, satisfaction and happiness in their lives. Their goal is to learn how to deal with lives that are too busy and overwhelming, to stop worrying, to be less perfectionistic and irritable, to be more assertive, to find joy in life, or to decide on a career or a move. They want tools for managing anxiety and depression so that they don't have to stay stuck. They want relationship tools.
I can support your assertiveness, healthy boundaries, communication skills, self care and parenting.
My ideal client is struggling with stress, anxiety, panic attacks, phobias or depression. They may have someone in their life who creates a lot of drama for everyone. They want to find more peace, satisfaction and happiness in their lives. Their goal is to learn how to deal with lives that are too busy and overwhelming, to stop worrying, to be less perfectionistic and irritable, to be more assertive, to find joy in life, or to decide on a career or a move. They want tools for managing anxiety and depression so that they don't have to stay stuck. They want relationship tools.
(778) 653-5373 View (778) 653-5373
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Joel Todd
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5C
Whether you are an adult, parent or family I will provide you with an accepting, deeply empathetic space.
Are you like many people, struggling with anxiety, overwhelm, feeling down and not sure how to turn things around? It’s very common to feel all of these things. Life can be incredibly difficult between work, relationships, all our responsibilities and finding and living a purposeful life that feels fulfilling. Can things change for you? Can you turn it around? Absolutely you can. While the way that I work with my families and my adult clients differs in ways, the core of it is the same, I remind you that you are loved, I teach you to love yourself, help you balance self-love and love for others in healthy and empowering ways.
Whether you are an adult, parent or family I will provide you with an accepting, deeply empathetic space.
Are you like many people, struggling with anxiety, overwhelm, feeling down and not sure how to turn things around? It’s very common to feel all of these things. Life can be incredibly difficult between work, relationships, all our responsibilities and finding and living a purposeful life that feels fulfilling. Can things change for you? Can you turn it around? Absolutely you can. While the way that I work with my families and my adult clients differs in ways, the core of it is the same, I remind you that you are loved, I teach you to love yourself, help you balance self-love and love for others in healthy and empowering ways.
(236) 326-8846 View (236) 326-8846
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Awakening Counselling
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5H
Are you going through adjustments in life transitions, relationship issues, parenting challenges? Are you grieving a loved one, a relationship, a job? Are you adjusting to a new country? Contact me.
I am a registered clinical counselor with a Master of Counselling from Trinity Western University, Langley, British Columbia and over 12 years of experience I have developed my interest in people through my own life experience and travels. I love people and it is my desire to meet clients where they are at and walk along side them to places of emotional, spiritual and relational peace and growth. I am fascinated by neuroplasticity and the repair that happens during therapy.
Are you going through adjustments in life transitions, relationship issues, parenting challenges? Are you grieving a loved one, a relationship, a job? Are you adjusting to a new country? Contact me.
I am a registered clinical counselor with a Master of Counselling from Trinity Western University, Langley, British Columbia and over 12 years of experience I have developed my interest in people through my own life experience and travels. I love people and it is my desire to meet clients where they are at and walk along side them to places of emotional, spiritual and relational peace and growth. I am fascinated by neuroplasticity and the repair that happens during therapy.
(604) 330-9540 View (604) 330-9540
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David Tong
Counsellor, MEd, RCC, CPF
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5H
Among other areas, I specialize in trauma, anxiety and parenting.
Do you feel that life gets you going in circles, leaving you distressed, stuck, or barely holding on? You may be asking yourself: How can I deal with my constant worrying, fears or need for perfection? What can I do to better manage my kids, relate to them, or give them the guidance they need? Or how can I stop my negative thoughts, feelings, nightmares or flashbacks? If you're finding yourself grasping for answers, I'm here to say there's hope! I believe our mental health is an ongoing journey, with its ebbs and flows along life's path. As a fellow companion walking alongside you, we can work together to navigate a way forward.
Among other areas, I specialize in trauma, anxiety and parenting.
Do you feel that life gets you going in circles, leaving you distressed, stuck, or barely holding on? You may be asking yourself: How can I deal with my constant worrying, fears or need for perfection? What can I do to better manage my kids, relate to them, or give them the guidance they need? Or how can I stop my negative thoughts, feelings, nightmares or flashbacks? If you're finding yourself grasping for answers, I'm here to say there's hope! I believe our mental health is an ongoing journey, with its ebbs and flows along life's path. As a fellow companion walking alongside you, we can work together to navigate a way forward.
(587) 816-2328 View (587) 816-2328
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Amelia Wu
Counsellor, MEd, CCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5H
I'm specialized in supporting adolescents, adults, couples, and families with various mental health and relational issues such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, trauma, borderline personality, family relationships, self-development, career-related issues, anger management, cross cultural and generational conflicts, marriage issues, parent/teen conflict, etc.
I'm specialized in supporting adolescents, adults, couples, and families with various mental health and relational issues such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, trauma, borderline personality, family relationships, self-development, career-related issues, anger management, cross cultural and generational conflicts, marriage issues, parent/teen conflict, etc.
(604) 243-3455 View (604) 243-3455
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Jane Li
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5H
I have about 20 years of counselling experience in play therapy, parenting, marital discord, low self-esteem, trauma, self harm, and children, youth and adult mental health issues.
I am passionate and dedicated to providing psychotherapy from a systemic, holistic (bio-psycho-social-spiritual) and client-centered approach. I believe that you are the expert in yourself and my role is to support you in finding your own pathway of health. I am here to help you and your loved ones to live your lives to the fullest! I am also dedicated to support parents with ADHD kids and teens as I have 2 sons with ADHD too. I made a wonderful online ADHD Parenting course in Chinese and English for those who needs to know how to help their kids and teens to thrive.
I have about 20 years of counselling experience in play therapy, parenting, marital discord, low self-esteem, trauma, self harm, and children, youth and adult mental health issues.
I am passionate and dedicated to providing psychotherapy from a systemic, holistic (bio-psycho-social-spiritual) and client-centered approach. I believe that you are the expert in yourself and my role is to support you in finding your own pathway of health. I am here to help you and your loved ones to live your lives to the fullest! I am also dedicated to support parents with ADHD kids and teens as I have 2 sons with ADHD too. I made a wonderful online ADHD Parenting course in Chinese and English for those who needs to know how to help their kids and teens to thrive.
(604) 245-8572 View (604) 245-8572
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Mary Kam
Counsellor, MSc, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5H
I adapt a cultural sensitive, client-centred and trauma-informed approach when serving children, youth and adults with emotional, behavioural, relational, parenting and trauma issues.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor since 2002 with BCACC. I understand that life is no perfect and challenges are along the way. With the belief that everyone has potential to thrive, my compassion, professional ethics, positive attitudes and over 25 years of counselling experiences have brought great commitment to my counselling career. I have worked with people from all walks of life, immigrants, refugees and international students for the past many years. And I am humble to have the privilege to be by their side during their challenging times.
I adapt a cultural sensitive, client-centred and trauma-informed approach when serving children, youth and adults with emotional, behavioural, relational, parenting and trauma issues.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor since 2002 with BCACC. I understand that life is no perfect and challenges are along the way. With the belief that everyone has potential to thrive, my compassion, professional ethics, positive attitudes and over 25 years of counselling experiences have brought great commitment to my counselling career. I have worked with people from all walks of life, immigrants, refugees and international students for the past many years. And I am humble to have the privilege to be by their side during their challenging times.
(778) 745-3066 View (778) 745-3066
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Ginny Wong
Counsellor, MC, RCC-ACS, BSW
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5B
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor and approved clinical supervisor with over 35 years of experience as a social worker and clinical counsellor serving clients from all cultural backgrounds. I am an approved service provider for the Crime Victim Assistance program and ICBC clients. For the past 30 years, I have been working as a settlement counsellor and parent educator helping immigrants, refugees, and international students who are adjusting to life in Canada. I worked at The Canadian Red Cross and managed a team of volunteers that provided emotional support to parents and caregivers dealing with critically ill children.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor and approved clinical supervisor with over 35 years of experience as a social worker and clinical counsellor serving clients from all cultural backgrounds. I am an approved service provider for the Crime Victim Assistance program and ICBC clients. For the past 30 years, I have been working as a settlement counsellor and parent educator helping immigrants, refugees, and international students who are adjusting to life in Canada. I worked at The Canadian Red Cross and managed a team of volunteers that provided emotional support to parents and caregivers dealing with critically ill children.
(604) 332-4406 View (604) 332-4406
Photo of Carol Alexander, MA, RCC, RP, Counsellor
Carol Alexander
Counsellor, MA, RCC, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5C
Are you struggling to maintain positive relationships at work, with your partner, within your family, and with your children? Are you a parent who is struggling with your child's behaviour while managing your expectations? I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor in BC and a Registered Psychotherapist in Ontario, providing therapeutic interventions for individuals, parents, adolescents and children. My areas of expertise include trauma, anxiety, self-regulation, and parenting.
Are you struggling to maintain positive relationships at work, with your partner, within your family, and with your children? Are you a parent who is struggling with your child's behaviour while managing your expectations? I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor in BC and a Registered Psychotherapist in Ontario, providing therapeutic interventions for individuals, parents, adolescents and children. My areas of expertise include trauma, anxiety, self-regulation, and parenting.
(236) 239-0628 View (236) 239-0628
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Shannon Paton
Counsellor, MCP, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5M
In our sessions, I strive to provide a non-judgmental and open space where you can express yourself and explore your inner world so that we can create change together. While it is true that counselling can be challenging, I also believe it can and should include humour, hope, and be a comfortable place for you to learn and grow. If you are in a place where you are ready to make a change, I will support you to address concerns such as anxiety, depression, ADHD/ADD, parenting, relationship challenges, grief & loss, trauma, psychedelic integration, & career.
In our sessions, I strive to provide a non-judgmental and open space where you can express yourself and explore your inner world so that we can create change together. While it is true that counselling can be challenging, I also believe it can and should include humour, hope, and be a comfortable place for you to learn and grow. If you are in a place where you are ready to make a change, I will support you to address concerns such as anxiety, depression, ADHD/ADD, parenting, relationship challenges, grief & loss, trauma, psychedelic integration, & career.
(581) 502-0506 View (581) 502-0506
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Mary Kwan
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V3J
Having practiced as a Clinical Psychologist overseas for 20 years, I am very familiar with all kinds of conditions. If you are having relationship with your spouse or others, I can help. You might be stressed out trying to parent your children, whatever age they maybe and esp for offsprings who have ADHD, Autism or learning problems, I love to help. Or you maybe depressed, anxious, wanting to work out your inner issues so that you can be a happy person, I am here to give you a hand. Or you might have a lot of pain/stress in your life, with various kinds of addictions not knowing where to do, I am here to help you find your way out.
Having practiced as a Clinical Psychologist overseas for 20 years, I am very familiar with all kinds of conditions. If you are having relationship with your spouse or others, I can help. You might be stressed out trying to parent your children, whatever age they maybe and esp for offsprings who have ADHD, Autism or learning problems, I love to help. Or you maybe depressed, anxious, wanting to work out your inner issues so that you can be a happy person, I am here to give you a hand. Or you might have a lot of pain/stress in your life, with various kinds of addictions not knowing where to do, I am here to help you find your way out.
(604) 330-4682 View (604) 330-4682
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Euphemia Redden
Counsellor, MEd, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5G
I am also passionate about parenting and relationship issues, as I have personal experience in navigating co-parenting dynamics and relationships.
Hello! My name is Euphemia and I’m a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with a Master’s in Counselling Psychology (MEd) from UBC. I also hold a Bachelor of Education (BEd) from UBC and a Bachelor of Fine Arts (BFA) from Emily Carr. I was born and raised in Vancouver, but spent many years in the Okanagan Valley and Vancouver Island. Before entering the counselling profession I spent a decade working as an art teacher. I consider myself a person-centered teacher and counsellor, viewing everyone I work with as a unique individual, holding them in unconditional positive regard.
I am also passionate about parenting and relationship issues, as I have personal experience in navigating co-parenting dynamics and relationships.
Hello! My name is Euphemia and I’m a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with a Master’s in Counselling Psychology (MEd) from UBC. I also hold a Bachelor of Education (BEd) from UBC and a Bachelor of Fine Arts (BFA) from Emily Carr. I was born and raised in Vancouver, but spent many years in the Okanagan Valley and Vancouver Island. Before entering the counselling profession I spent a decade working as an art teacher. I consider myself a person-centered teacher and counsellor, viewing everyone I work with as a unique individual, holding them in unconditional positive regard.
(431) 800-4128 View (431) 800-4128
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Shana Cherry
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V3J
I have supervised practicum students, ran parenting support groups, facilitated educational workshops and had extensive experience providing crisis intervention/support.
I believe that every client is innately aware where they need to go (in therapy) to heal themselves. My role is to use my skills to help them along in that process. I meet clients where they are at recognizing that may change from session to session. We start with their goal(s) for counselling and work from there. I don't "need" to know anything in particular before we start. I find that with a trusting relationship, a client will share all that is relevant in order to attain their goal(s).
I have supervised practicum students, ran parenting support groups, facilitated educational workshops and had extensive experience providing crisis intervention/support.
I believe that every client is innately aware where they need to go (in therapy) to heal themselves. My role is to use my skills to help them along in that process. I meet clients where they are at recognizing that may change from session to session. We start with their goal(s) for counselling and work from there. I don't "need" to know anything in particular before we start. I find that with a trusting relationship, a client will share all that is relevant in order to attain their goal(s).
(226) 782-4271 View (226) 782-4271
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Zinat Sajadi
Registered Social Worker, MA, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5H
I help clients work on relational, communication and parenting issues.
Going through separation and divorce is a rough process. The yelling, the tears or the fights that happen in the house is keeping you up at night and/or make you worry about your future. It is already difficult to discuss what belongs to who at this point, not to mention there are children involved. You want your children to be ok, but not sure how. Things that your partner said or did in the past seem to be stuck in your head and make you angry or sad. You want peace, you want no conflict and a way out of this emotional disaster. Talk to me, I am here to listen.
I help clients work on relational, communication and parenting issues.
Going through separation and divorce is a rough process. The yelling, the tears or the fights that happen in the house is keeping you up at night and/or make you worry about your future. It is already difficult to discuss what belongs to who at this point, not to mention there are children involved. You want your children to be ok, but not sure how. Things that your partner said or did in the past seem to be stuck in your head and make you angry or sad. You want peace, you want no conflict and a way out of this emotional disaster. Talk to me, I am here to listen.
(778) 743-2911 View (778) 743-2911
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Oceanside Psychology Group
Psychologist, PsyD, RPsych
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5A
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, relationships, or feel stuck in unresolved feelings from your past that affect your relationships, work, or how you feel about yourself? Are you a partner wanting to learn to communicate and connect more in your relationship or a parent who’s worried about their teen? You’re in the right place. Oceanside Psychology Group (OPG) is a specialized private practice that focuses on helping youth, adults, couples, and families change the way they feel about themselves and strengthen their relationships.
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, relationships, or feel stuck in unresolved feelings from your past that affect your relationships, work, or how you feel about yourself? Are you a partner wanting to learn to communicate and connect more in your relationship or a parent who’s worried about their teen? You’re in the right place. Oceanside Psychology Group (OPG) is a specialized private practice that focuses on helping youth, adults, couples, and families change the way they feel about themselves and strengthen their relationships.
(672) 906-1280 View (672) 906-1280
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Jessica Kalia
Counsellor, RCC, MC, BA
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V3N
Counselling offers an opportunity for insight, growth and change. It can be a source of support and hope in times of difficulty or crisis. I believe in having a client- centered and strength based approach as well. I work with families, children, individuals and couples. My specializations include: suicide prevention and assessment, depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship concerns, parenting, grief, and ADHD. As each client is different and unique, I use an approach that works best for you. In my practice, I integrates techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy, narrative therapy, emotion focused therapy and solution focused therapy.
Counselling offers an opportunity for insight, growth and change. It can be a source of support and hope in times of difficulty or crisis. I believe in having a client- centered and strength based approach as well. I work with families, children, individuals and couples. My specializations include: suicide prevention and assessment, depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship concerns, parenting, grief, and ADHD. As each client is different and unique, I use an approach that works best for you. In my practice, I integrates techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy, narrative therapy, emotion focused therapy and solution focused therapy.
(604) 265-9791 View (604) 265-9791
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Gabriel C. Fung
Counsellor, MA-MFT, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5H
I have a passion for working with youths, young adults, couples, and families on personal and relationship issues. My training is in Marriage and Family Therapy and I have experience working with youths and their families. I understand the difficulties of teenage development, but at the same time, I can appreciate how difficult it is to parent an adolescent. However, the "rebellious teen" is not inevitable and I would be happy to meet with you and your family to discuss your relationships and strategies for making parenting work.
I have a passion for working with youths, young adults, couples, and families on personal and relationship issues. My training is in Marriage and Family Therapy and I have experience working with youths and their families. I understand the difficulties of teenage development, but at the same time, I can appreciate how difficult it is to parent an adolescent. However, the "rebellious teen" is not inevitable and I would be happy to meet with you and your family to discuss your relationships and strategies for making parenting work.
(855) 534-4664 View (855) 534-4664
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Claudia Hui
Registered Social Worker, MSW, MA, RSW
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5C
I have training in EMDR, Dialectical behaviour therapy, Emotion-Focused therapy and Parenting coordination.
I'm Claudia, a Registered Masters level Social worker who has been supporting families, individuals and children to overcoming everything from daily stressors, complex family dynamics to traumatic life experiences since 2011. I believe in a client-centered and collaborative approach, and aim to work with clients and families to rediscover their inner strengths, resilience and healing. I also have working knowledge of Cantonese and Mandarin and have additional interest in providing service and increasing awareness of mental health issues and promoting wellness to the Chinese community.
I have training in EMDR, Dialectical behaviour therapy, Emotion-Focused therapy and Parenting coordination.
I'm Claudia, a Registered Masters level Social worker who has been supporting families, individuals and children to overcoming everything from daily stressors, complex family dynamics to traumatic life experiences since 2011. I believe in a client-centered and collaborative approach, and aim to work with clients and families to rediscover their inner strengths, resilience and healing. I also have working knowledge of Cantonese and Mandarin and have additional interest in providing service and increasing awareness of mental health issues and promoting wellness to the Chinese community.
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Zafreen Idoo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, RSW, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5H
Techniques I use include but are not limited to, DBT and CBT techniques, parenting support and education, family structures, domestic abuse support, emotional attachment, connecting and attuning, and role-play methods.
I am a registered social worker under BCCSW. I enjoy working with children, couples, parents, young adults, and families. I work with clients who are struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, PTSD, relationships, and family conflicts. I use skills and diverse modalities such as problem-solving, creating healthy boundaries, person/client-centred, offering emotional support and holistic therapy, etc.
Techniques I use include but are not limited to, DBT and CBT techniques, parenting support and education, family structures, domestic abuse support, emotional attachment, connecting and attuning, and role-play methods.
I am a registered social worker under BCCSW. I enjoy working with children, couples, parents, young adults, and families. I work with clients who are struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, PTSD, relationships, and family conflicts. I use skills and diverse modalities such as problem-solving, creating healthy boundaries, person/client-centred, offering emotional support and holistic therapy, etc.
(343) 321-1410 View (343) 321-1410

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Parenting Counsellors

What does therapy for parenting look like?

Therapists may work with parents individually, together, or include the whole family to find solutions for the problems a parent faces. Many parent-based therapies work on a parent’s relationship with their children, problem-solving within the family, and analysis of family dynamics. Therapy conducted remotely by video may be helpful in allowing a therapist to observe how families interact in their own homes.

When should a parent seek therapy?

When behavioral problems begin to disrupt the healthy functioning of a family, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If parents find that children are acting out in school, have started using drugs or alcohol, have developed eating disorders, or other similar red flags, a therapist may be able to help.

How long does therapy take for parenting problems?

Depending on the severity of a family’s challenges and the type of treatment utilized, therapy for parenting can last from weeks to months. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a pragmatic therapy type that can be brief, most often ranging from between 5 and 20 sessions. Structural family therapy, which inspects family dynamics, often takes several months. Parent-child interaction therapy is typically shorter-term, lasting between 10 and 20 sessions. For any therapy, the duration will depend on the progress made and results realized.

Can therapy help parents dealing with burnout or stress?

Parenting is difficult. Parents may dismiss or conceal feelings of exhaustion, overwhelm, or escape ideation—imagining withdrawing from their parental obligations altogether. but left unattended, these feelings can have negative effects on the whole family. A therapist can help parents work on the skills they might need to better cope with the burdens of parenting and help them be the best parents they can be.