Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Aldergrove, BC

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Lorraine Schembri
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aldergrove, BC V4W
Grounded in the values of transparency, humility, empathy and empowerment, my practice acknowledges that mental health injuries and difficulties are normal responses to certain situations and circumstances. Counselling experience in a university wellness centre, and in health authorities in Northern BC and Nova Scotia, has given me a strong background in working with depression, anxiety, panic, people-pleasing, various types of trauma, borderline personality and concerns common to post-secondary students including life transitions, academic demands and pressure to succeed.
Grounded in the values of transparency, humility, empathy and empowerment, my practice acknowledges that mental health injuries and difficulties are normal responses to certain situations and circumstances. Counselling experience in a university wellness centre, and in health authorities in Northern BC and Nova Scotia, has given me a strong background in working with depression, anxiety, panic, people-pleasing, various types of trauma, borderline personality and concerns common to post-secondary students including life transitions, academic demands and pressure to succeed.
(249) 492-0957 View (249) 492-0957
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Colleen Vantol
Counsellor, MACP, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aldergrove, BC V4W
At times, we all wonder if our present day realities are aligned with our intended paths. Was it the right time? The right job? The right relationship? Is this as good as it gets? Am I happy? Am I fulfilled? If you experience anxiety, depression, confusion or simply feel alone, counselling can offer opportunities for a deeper sense of connection to yourself, your relationships and your life. I am here to walk alongside of you, to listen to your goals, desires and needs. Whether it is sharing long kept secrets, traumas or personal revelations I am here to connect with you.
At times, we all wonder if our present day realities are aligned with our intended paths. Was it the right time? The right job? The right relationship? Is this as good as it gets? Am I happy? Am I fulfilled? If you experience anxiety, depression, confusion or simply feel alone, counselling can offer opportunities for a deeper sense of connection to yourself, your relationships and your life. I am here to walk alongside of you, to listen to your goals, desires and needs. Whether it is sharing long kept secrets, traumas or personal revelations I am here to connect with you.
(587) 809-2820 View (587) 809-2820
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Hao Yen Lim
Counsellor, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aldergrove, BC V4W  (Online Only)
Hurting people hurt people, but they also tend to hurt themselves in the long run. The need for an unbiased and non-judgemental person to talk to can serve to provide a sense of relief from the stress you may be facing in the moment. I believe that is what we may need in our lives, and I am able to serve you in this area. For whatever your needs may be, I will tailor the treatment plan accordingly and strive to find the best approach to meet them.
Hurting people hurt people, but they also tend to hurt themselves in the long run. The need for an unbiased and non-judgemental person to talk to can serve to provide a sense of relief from the stress you may be facing in the moment. I believe that is what we may need in our lives, and I am able to serve you in this area. For whatever your needs may be, I will tailor the treatment plan accordingly and strive to find the best approach to meet them.
(778) 717-2344 View (778) 717-2344
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Anxiety Counselling Services- Clo Nickel, MPCC
Counsellor, RPC, MPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aldergrove, BC V4W
Struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, panic attacks, OCD, grief & loss, life transitions or other life challenges? Take the first step towards healing through evidence-based strategies, and the deep work of core emotional processing. My therapeutic approach is person-centered, warm, compassionate, and uniquely understanding. During my career, I have been profoundly honoured to witness and help guide my clients to not only heal, but thrive and grow into their authentic selves.
Struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, panic attacks, OCD, grief & loss, life transitions or other life challenges? Take the first step towards healing through evidence-based strategies, and the deep work of core emotional processing. My therapeutic approach is person-centered, warm, compassionate, and uniquely understanding. During my career, I have been profoundly honoured to witness and help guide my clients to not only heal, but thrive and grow into their authentic selves.
(226) 210-0270 View (226) 210-0270
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Anxiety Counselling Services - Clo Nickel, MPCC
Counsellor, RPC, MPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aldergrove, BC V4W
Struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, panic attacks, OCD, grief & loss, life transitions or other life challenges? Take the first step towards healing through evidence-based strategies, and the deep work of core emotional processing. My therapeutic approach is person-centered, warm, compassionate, and uniquely understanding. During my career, I have been profoundly honoured to witness and help guide my clients to not only heal, but thrive and grow into their authentic selves.
Struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, panic attacks, OCD, grief & loss, life transitions or other life challenges? Take the first step towards healing through evidence-based strategies, and the deep work of core emotional processing. My therapeutic approach is person-centered, warm, compassionate, and uniquely understanding. During my career, I have been profoundly honoured to witness and help guide my clients to not only heal, but thrive and grow into their authentic selves.
(778) 655-8600 View (778) 655-8600

More Therapists Nearby

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Jessica Wilder
Counsellor
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Langley, BC V2Y  (Online Only)
My specialties include DBT, CBT, and ADHD coaching to help with symptoms of impulsivity, inattention, distractibility, disorganization, poor executive function, and other challenges associated with ADHD as well as emotion regulation, boundaries and unclear sense of identity associated with BPD.
Making changes can be hard! Come explore and discover what motivates you and gain self-awareness. My approach is client-centred, strengths-based, and goal-oriented. I've been told I'm relatable, bring warmth, humour, and authenticity to my sessions and I provide a safe space where people can be open about anything (I believe secrets cause sickness). I've also been told I am good at helping with accountability as well. I'd love to work with you to create goals to improve your life, and then build a roadmap to achieve them. "Empathy and unconditional positive regard" (no judgement) is my motto.
My specialties include DBT, CBT, and ADHD coaching to help with symptoms of impulsivity, inattention, distractibility, disorganization, poor executive function, and other challenges associated with ADHD as well as emotion regulation, boundaries and unclear sense of identity associated with BPD.
Making changes can be hard! Come explore and discover what motivates you and gain self-awareness. My approach is client-centred, strengths-based, and goal-oriented. I've been told I'm relatable, bring warmth, humour, and authenticity to my sessions and I provide a safe space where people can be open about anything (I believe secrets cause sickness). I've also been told I am good at helping with accountability as well. I'd love to work with you to create goals to improve your life, and then build a roadmap to achieve them. "Empathy and unconditional positive regard" (no judgement) is my motto.
(587) 210-8302 View (587) 210-8302
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Josette Marie Steel
MA, DVATI, CertA&D, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Langley, BC V3A  (Online Only)
I'm really glad you're here. Over the past 30 years I've supported a wide variety of people on their healing journey. Together, we have worked through issues around trauma (current, historic & generational) PTSD, addiction & recovery (including alcohol, drugs, food, sex, gaming, porn, shopping, relationships & gambling), sexuality & sexual orientation, anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, and bipolar disorder. I have also supported people who live differently-abled lives, including those living on the autism spectrum and with Downs Syndrome. Please check out my website &/or call/text/email, to get to know me better.
I'm really glad you're here. Over the past 30 years I've supported a wide variety of people on their healing journey. Together, we have worked through issues around trauma (current, historic & generational) PTSD, addiction & recovery (including alcohol, drugs, food, sex, gaming, porn, shopping, relationships & gambling), sexuality & sexual orientation, anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, and bipolar disorder. I have also supported people who live differently-abled lives, including those living on the autism spectrum and with Downs Syndrome. Please check out my website &/or call/text/email, to get to know me better.
(778) 960-1899 View (778) 960-1899
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Shauntal Padda | Soulitude Wellness Counselling
Counsellor, BA, MCP, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Langley, BC V2Y
Feeling overwhelmed, and unsure where to begin? Lets book an initial free 15 minute phone consultation to connect. My areas of specialization include: emotional regulation, anger, substance use, borderline personality disorder, cross-cultural issues, relationship issues, self-esteem, depression, anxiety, PTSD, and couples counselling.
Feeling overwhelmed, and unsure where to begin? Lets book an initial free 15 minute phone consultation to connect. My areas of specialization include: emotional regulation, anger, substance use, borderline personality disorder, cross-cultural issues, relationship issues, self-esteem, depression, anxiety, PTSD, and couples counselling.
(438) 794-8785 View (438) 794-8785
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Shawnda Johnston
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2S
I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and have experience working with: Depression, Anxiety, Burnout, Trauma, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Complex PTSD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Disorders of Extreme Stress, Dissociation, Grief, Addiction, Domestic Violence, Shame/Self Worth, Borderline Personality Disorder.
I have worked for 20 years in various non-profit settings with vulnerable children, youth, and adults of various backgrounds. In both my personal and professional life, I continue to be amazed by how we adapt and persevere through life's challenges and difficulties. I believe we are not meant to go through this journey alone, and in our difficult times it is important to find extra support. It is my hope, to encourage you in this journey and provide you with some extra tools for the road ahead.
I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and have experience working with: Depression, Anxiety, Burnout, Trauma, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Complex PTSD, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Disorders of Extreme Stress, Dissociation, Grief, Addiction, Domestic Violence, Shame/Self Worth, Borderline Personality Disorder.
I have worked for 20 years in various non-profit settings with vulnerable children, youth, and adults of various backgrounds. In both my personal and professional life, I continue to be amazed by how we adapt and persevere through life's challenges and difficulties. I believe we are not meant to go through this journey alone, and in our difficult times it is important to find extra support. It is my hope, to encourage you in this journey and provide you with some extra tools for the road ahead.
(249) 700-9572 View (249) 700-9572
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H Elise Reeh
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Mission, BC V2V
I am a Registered Psychologist (since 1995) with training and experience in clinical (& forensic) psychology. I provide caring & compassionate therapy using the most effective therapies that are matched to your needs. Psychotherapy involves developing a therapeutic relationship in which you feel at ease, set goals, and choose methods to achieve these goals. People tend to overcome or manage issues after they develop understanding of what is amiss, develop motivation (if needed), learn healthy expression of emotion, and learn to examine and confront thoughts and emotions while practicing new behaviours.
I am a Registered Psychologist (since 1995) with training and experience in clinical (& forensic) psychology. I provide caring & compassionate therapy using the most effective therapies that are matched to your needs. Psychotherapy involves developing a therapeutic relationship in which you feel at ease, set goals, and choose methods to achieve these goals. People tend to overcome or manage issues after they develop understanding of what is amiss, develop motivation (if needed), learn healthy expression of emotion, and learn to examine and confront thoughts and emotions while practicing new behaviours.
(604) 556-4700 View (604) 556-4700
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Raman Samra
Counsellor, MCP:AT, RCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Langley, BC V2Y
I am passionate in working with adolescents and adults through a variety of different issues, including: anxiety, depression, self-esteem, trauma, life transitions, addiction, and psychosis. I am grounded in a culturally-sensitive, trauma-informed perspective and believe in each individual's innate desire to heal and move towards their life goals. I acknowledge the unique experiences that each person brings to the counselling process, and find it a privilege to be included in your journey.
I am passionate in working with adolescents and adults through a variety of different issues, including: anxiety, depression, self-esteem, trauma, life transitions, addiction, and psychosis. I am grounded in a culturally-sensitive, trauma-informed perspective and believe in each individual's innate desire to heal and move towards their life goals. I acknowledge the unique experiences that each person brings to the counselling process, and find it a privilege to be included in your journey.
(587) 848-3748 View (587) 848-3748
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Ruby Dhaliwal
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MA, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2T
Are you struggling with overwhelming anxiety, depression, and difficulty coping with unpleasant thoughts and feelings? Are you finding that the things you once used to enjoy, such as sports/exercise, academics, art, or social interactions with others are no longer serving a purpose, like they used to? Sometimes, things may happen that are beyond our control or understanding, which may in turn affect the way we feel or behave. I believe in an integrative approach and meeting you where you are at. An overarching theme of my practice is based on you and your unique needs and strengths and helping you improve your quality of life.
Are you struggling with overwhelming anxiety, depression, and difficulty coping with unpleasant thoughts and feelings? Are you finding that the things you once used to enjoy, such as sports/exercise, academics, art, or social interactions with others are no longer serving a purpose, like they used to? Sometimes, things may happen that are beyond our control or understanding, which may in turn affect the way we feel or behave. I believe in an integrative approach and meeting you where you are at. An overarching theme of my practice is based on you and your unique needs and strengths and helping you improve your quality of life.
(365) 363-2579 View (365) 363-2579
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Shelley Jensen
Counsellor, RPC, CCDP
Verified Verified
Maple Ridge, BC V2W
Not all Binges are a Choice. The exact cause of BED is unknown, but chemicals in the brain, family history and certain life experiences may play a role in Binge Eating Disorder. BED often begins in the late teens or early 20s. BED affects slightly more women than men. About 40% of those with BED are male. I believe we “know” when our eating behavior is off and that dieting will not resolve the underlying anxiety. There is help, I’ve been there.
Not all Binges are a Choice. The exact cause of BED is unknown, but chemicals in the brain, family history and certain life experiences may play a role in Binge Eating Disorder. BED often begins in the late teens or early 20s. BED affects slightly more women than men. About 40% of those with BED are male. I believe we “know” when our eating behavior is off and that dieting will not resolve the underlying anxiety. There is help, I’ve been there.
(604) 670-1721 View (604) 670-1721
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Thinking Couch Counselling
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V2S  (Online Only)
Adulting is hard! Thinking Couch is a place to sit, to take a breath, and to begin to create YOU the way YOU want to be. It takes time and it takes work, however, I will sit with you, collaborate with you, and help you create the fulfilling world you deserve.
Adulting is hard! Thinking Couch is a place to sit, to take a breath, and to begin to create YOU the way YOU want to be. It takes time and it takes work, however, I will sit with you, collaborate with you, and help you create the fulfilling world you deserve.
(249) 506-6038 View (249) 506-6038
Photo of Hannah English, RCC, MACP, BSc, Counsellor
Hannah English
Counsellor, RCC, MACP, BSc
Verified Verified
Langley, BC V3A
Hiya! Welcome! My approach to counselling is to create a meaningful connection and a safe space where you can engage in self exploration, free of judgement, through person centred, and trauma-informed approaches. In a world of information overload, I try to slow it down and explore inner thoughts and sensations that don't always have the opportunity to express themselves, while also looking for patterns along the way to help make sense of it all. I view you as the expert in your life, and my job is to ask you the right questions and help you reflect.
Hiya! Welcome! My approach to counselling is to create a meaningful connection and a safe space where you can engage in self exploration, free of judgement, through person centred, and trauma-informed approaches. In a world of information overload, I try to slow it down and explore inner thoughts and sensations that don't always have the opportunity to express themselves, while also looking for patterns along the way to help make sense of it all. I view you as the expert in your life, and my job is to ask you the right questions and help you reflect.
(819) 410-9404 View (819) 410-9404
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Ava Kottmeier
Pre-Licensed Professional, MCP
Verified Verified
Langley, BC V2Z
If you've been feeling overwhelmed and want to get back in touch with your values, feel safe in your body, and live a meaningful, empowering life, I would love to work with you. It is human to struggle - whether it be with powerful emotions, strained relationships, confusing thoughts, or anything else under the sun. I am a queer, neurodivergent therapist who supports adults of all ages, abilities, and identities. If you are looking for a safe relationship in which to explore and understand yourself and the world around you, I might be a good fit for your needs.
If you've been feeling overwhelmed and want to get back in touch with your values, feel safe in your body, and live a meaningful, empowering life, I would love to work with you. It is human to struggle - whether it be with powerful emotions, strained relationships, confusing thoughts, or anything else under the sun. I am a queer, neurodivergent therapist who supports adults of all ages, abilities, and identities. If you are looking for a safe relationship in which to explore and understand yourself and the world around you, I might be a good fit for your needs.
(587) 741-7739 View (587) 741-7739
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Tejinder Sandhu
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Verified Verified
Langley, BC V3A
There are times where the challenges we face in our daily lives become too difficult to manage on our own. I can help navigate those who are looking to add meaning and purpose to their lives, generating motivation, and regaining control. The ability to achieve wellness and stability in our lives, exists somewhere inside of us. The disconnection we experience from the things that bring us happiness and joy may cause us to feel overwhelmed and paralyzed by stress. My aim is to provide a supportive, non-judgemental, and safe environment to help support you through life’s difficulties that may have you feeling stuck and under pressure.
There are times where the challenges we face in our daily lives become too difficult to manage on our own. I can help navigate those who are looking to add meaning and purpose to their lives, generating motivation, and regaining control. The ability to achieve wellness and stability in our lives, exists somewhere inside of us. The disconnection we experience from the things that bring us happiness and joy may cause us to feel overwhelmed and paralyzed by stress. My aim is to provide a supportive, non-judgemental, and safe environment to help support you through life’s difficulties that may have you feeling stuck and under pressure.
(604) 532-5340 View (604) 532-5340
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Anam Gill
Pre-Licensed Professional, BA, MACP
Verified Verified
Langley, BC V3A
Welcome to your path of healing. My passion for counselling is deeply influenced by my personal life experiences and the support I sought during seemingly hopeless circumstances. I believe that every individual has the capacity for healing and growth. Whether you are dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, low self-esteem or a desire for personal growth, it is my honour to support you in moving towards clarity, healing and resilience, while empowering you to embrace the life that you envision.
Welcome to your path of healing. My passion for counselling is deeply influenced by my personal life experiences and the support I sought during seemingly hopeless circumstances. I believe that every individual has the capacity for healing and growth. Whether you are dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, low self-esteem or a desire for personal growth, it is my honour to support you in moving towards clarity, healing and resilience, while empowering you to embrace the life that you envision.
(604) 532-5340 View (604) 532-5340
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Jeevan Chawla
Counsellor, RTCc
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2T  (Online Only)
Hello and Welcome! My name is Jeevan and I am a RPCc. Drawing on my personal experience, I am compassionate and use gentle approach while working with people struggling with low self-esteem, identity crisis, anxiety and depression, to support them and find coping strategies to deal with mental and physical challenges of daily living. Along with these, I also understand the importance of having a safe space to speak your mind and work on becoming our best selves.
Hello and Welcome! My name is Jeevan and I am a RPCc. Drawing on my personal experience, I am compassionate and use gentle approach while working with people struggling with low self-esteem, identity crisis, anxiety and depression, to support them and find coping strategies to deal with mental and physical challenges of daily living. Along with these, I also understand the importance of having a safe space to speak your mind and work on becoming our best selves.
(343) 801-3789 View (343) 801-3789
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Shannon Lawrence
Counsellor, RPC-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V4X
Are you feeling stuck at a crossroads, unsure of the right direction for yourself or your family? I’m here to support you in navigating life’s challenges, whether you’re seeking personal growth for yourself, guidance for your child, or both. For adults, particularly those dealing with trauma, PTSD, anxiety, or anger, I offer a compassionate approach to help you develop coping strategies, regain control, and move toward a more peaceful state of mind. Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but with the right support, you can build resilience and find calm amidst the chaos. Whether you're dealing with a recent separation, divorce,
Are you feeling stuck at a crossroads, unsure of the right direction for yourself or your family? I’m here to support you in navigating life’s challenges, whether you’re seeking personal growth for yourself, guidance for your child, or both. For adults, particularly those dealing with trauma, PTSD, anxiety, or anger, I offer a compassionate approach to help you develop coping strategies, regain control, and move toward a more peaceful state of mind. Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but with the right support, you can build resilience and find calm amidst the chaos. Whether you're dealing with a recent separation, divorce,
(778) 766-4548 View (778) 766-4548

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Borderline Personality (BPD) Counsellors

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.