Marriage Counselling Therapists in Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB
Gio Dolcecore
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RCSW, RMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T3H
Let's explore fertility, change, intimacy, marriage, divorce, co-parenting, fighting, monogamy, polyamory, and anything else together.
Hi, I’m Gio (they/them), and if you're reading this I'm assuming you're looking for a therapist. I hate to break it to you, but the "perfect" therapist doesn't exist. However, we could build a therapeutic relationship together that is the perfect solution to the reasons you're looking for a therapist. You might be feeling anxious, depressed, or scared - but you're also feeling ready for change. Try a free consultation with me and let's see if we'd make a good team to tackle some of those worries together.
Let's explore fertility, change, intimacy, marriage, divorce, co-parenting, fighting, monogamy, polyamory, and anything else together.
Hi, I’m Gio (they/them), and if you're reading this I'm assuming you're looking for a therapist. I hate to break it to you, but the "perfect" therapist doesn't exist. However, we could build a therapeutic relationship together that is the perfect solution to the reasons you're looking for a therapist. You might be feeling anxious, depressed, or scared - but you're also feeling ready for change. Try a free consultation with me and let's see if we'd make a good team to tackle some of those worries together.
Lauren K Birks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSW/RSW, MHA, RMFT
Verified Verified
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T3H
I work with individuals, couples and families who are struggling with everyday coping, relational issues, parenting concerns, psychological wellness and relationship/family functioning. I specialize in depression, anxiety, grief & loss, infertility, existential questioning, couple and marital relationship issues, parenting concerns & strategies, and systemic therapeutic approaches. I work with people to move towards change-oriented solutions by reducing distress, improving coping and mental health skills & understanding relational patterns. I offer a safe, culturally-sensitive space for neurodivergence, LGBTQIA+ & BIPOC communities.
I work with individuals, couples and families who are struggling with everyday coping, relational issues, parenting concerns, psychological wellness and relationship/family functioning. I specialize in depression, anxiety, grief & loss, infertility, existential questioning, couple and marital relationship issues, parenting concerns & strategies, and systemic therapeutic approaches. I work with people to move towards change-oriented solutions by reducing distress, improving coping and mental health skills & understanding relational patterns. I offer a safe, culturally-sensitive space for neurodivergence, LGBTQIA+ & BIPOC communities.
Katharine Heimbigner-Tenor
Registered Provisional Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T2W
With 30 years of marriage, adult children and aging parents I understand the challenges and rewards that we inherit from the past, bring to the present and will transmit to the future unless we take steps to break the cycle.
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression. PTSD, C-PTSD, dissociation or have been diagnosed with a personality disorder (eg., Borderline Personality Disorder) due to past trauma? To add to this complexity are you neurodiverse (eg., ADHD, autism, gifted) or suspect you are? Are you looking for symptom relief AND longer term deeper work? I may be able to help. I offer individual and couples counselling that is customized to your unique needs. Additionally, the formal psychoeducational, neurodiversity, personality and trauma assessments that I conduct can enhance self-awareness and may assist with accommodation or benefit requests.
With 30 years of marriage, adult children and aging parents I understand the challenges and rewards that we inherit from the past, bring to the present and will transmit to the future unless we take steps to break the cycle.
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression. PTSD, C-PTSD, dissociation or have been diagnosed with a personality disorder (eg., Borderline Personality Disorder) due to past trauma? To add to this complexity are you neurodiverse (eg., ADHD, autism, gifted) or suspect you are? Are you looking for symptom relief AND longer term deeper work? I may be able to help. I offer individual and couples counselling that is customized to your unique needs. Additionally, the formal psychoeducational, neurodiversity, personality and trauma assessments that I conduct can enhance self-awareness and may assist with accommodation or benefit requests.
Henze & Associates: Counseling & Care
Psychologist, MA, RCC, CPC, RPsych
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T2V
Marriage in knots? Need healing? Wondering if your commitment to marriage and faith will be respected? We offer a unique values focused, skills based strategy of marital intervention that takes marriages and families from the very brink of divorce all the way into high functioning excellence. If you are looking to address addictions, restore the love you once had, reawaken passion and do it all in a context where your faith and values are respected, then come to a place where we take the time to teach YOU how to fix your marriage so it won't be broken again.
Marriage in knots? Need healing? Wondering if your commitment to marriage and faith will be respected? We offer a unique values focused, skills based strategy of marital intervention that takes marriages and families from the very brink of divorce all the way into high functioning excellence. If you are looking to address addictions, restore the love you once had, reawaken passion and do it all in a context where your faith and values are respected, then come to a place where we take the time to teach YOU how to fix your marriage so it won't be broken again.
I am a physician (MD) and a Canadian Certified Counselor, who is passionate about mind body integration, and supporting people in their wholistic journey of recovery and well-being. I help individuals and families with grief, family dynamics, marital strife, work and life transitions, ADHD, and any mental health a social adoption challenge they may be facing. I have over 10 years experience in working in human resources, with various Canadian organizations, with a deep understanding of disability and duty to accommodate. I work with Canadian born, or newcomers, and am fully fluent in both English and Mandarin.
I am a physician (MD) and a Canadian Certified Counselor, who is passionate about mind body integration, and supporting people in their wholistic journey of recovery and well-being. I help individuals and families with grief, family dynamics, marital strife, work and life transitions, ADHD, and any mental health a social adoption challenge they may be facing. I have over 10 years experience in working in human resources, with various Canadian organizations, with a deep understanding of disability and duty to accommodate. I work with Canadian born, or newcomers, and am fully fluent in both English and Mandarin.
Dr. Courtney Dookie
Psychologist, PsyD, RPsych
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T3H
I am a Registered clinical Psychologist providing neuropsychological assessments, psychoeducational assessments, psychological assessments and psychotherapy. I conduct assessments for ADHD, Learning disabilities, Giftedness, Autism, TBI, Dementia, and Mental illness. Working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, developmental trauma disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, substance use, borderline personality disorder, ADHD, and marital challenges. I am trained in the following areas, CBT, motivational interviewing, cognitive processing, dialectical behavioural therapy, solution focus therapy, and family therapy.
I am a Registered clinical Psychologist providing neuropsychological assessments, psychoeducational assessments, psychological assessments and psychotherapy. I conduct assessments for ADHD, Learning disabilities, Giftedness, Autism, TBI, Dementia, and Mental illness. Working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, developmental trauma disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, substance use, borderline personality disorder, ADHD, and marital challenges. I am trained in the following areas, CBT, motivational interviewing, cognitive processing, dialectical behavioural therapy, solution focus therapy, and family therapy.
Salima Jamal Shariff
Psychologist, MSc, RPsych, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T2T
At some point in our lives we find ourselves feeling overwhelmed with a problem and unable to find a way out. Reaching out for support can provide an opportunity to learn alternative, healthier ways to cope and discover one's true self. My training in Marriage and Family Therapy and my diverse clinical experience, have allowed me to assist clients to discover and break their existing patterns that are keeping them stuck. Therefore, allowing them to develop insight, awareness, and a new outlook on the challenges they are facing, enabling them to lead more fulfilled lives and build stronger relationships.
At some point in our lives we find ourselves feeling overwhelmed with a problem and unable to find a way out. Reaching out for support can provide an opportunity to learn alternative, healthier ways to cope and discover one's true self. My training in Marriage and Family Therapy and my diverse clinical experience, have allowed me to assist clients to discover and break their existing patterns that are keeping them stuck. Therefore, allowing them to develop insight, awareness, and a new outlook on the challenges they are facing, enabling them to lead more fulfilled lives and build stronger relationships.
Kassandra Heap
Psychologist, MC, RPsych
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T3E
If you have been struggling in your relationships, I am here to help. Maybe arguments are becoming more and more intense, there is less connection and intimacy, and you are both feeling at a loss as to what to do. Maybe you are struggling with facing the loss of a relationship, or in navigating the complicated process of uncoupling in your relationship. Maybe you are planning a wedding and want to ensure you also plan for the marriage. Whether you are meeting with me as a couple, or as an individual, I will work with you to build and maintain healthy relationships in your life.
If you have been struggling in your relationships, I am here to help. Maybe arguments are becoming more and more intense, there is less connection and intimacy, and you are both feeling at a loss as to what to do. Maybe you are struggling with facing the loss of a relationship, or in navigating the complicated process of uncoupling in your relationship. Maybe you are planning a wedding and want to ensure you also plan for the marriage. Whether you are meeting with me as a couple, or as an individual, I will work with you to build and maintain healthy relationships in your life.
Dr. David Hersh - Hersh Ctr for Sexual Wellness
EdD, LMFT, CST, ABS, FAACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T2H
Do you want more/less sex than your partner? Do you have little or no sexual desire? Are you having trouble with sexually explicit media? Do you argue about what sexual activities are acceptable? Does sex feel like an addiction? Has there been a breach of trust with secretive, extra- marital sex? Are you having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection?.
My specialty is Human Sexuality. I'm a Certified Sex Therapist, Psychotherapist and am a mostly retired, formerly Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I have 50+ years experience. I was trained, mentored and supervised by Dr. Wardell Pomeroy of the Kinsey Institute. I help my patients achieve their greatest sexual and relationship potential, beyond diagnosis and treatment of their concerns, to reach the most exciting levels of an intimate relationship. I see many patients online. It is efficient and effective, and it permits the intimacy and immediacy of an in-office consultation, from the comfort of your home or office.
Do you want more/less sex than your partner? Do you have little or no sexual desire? Are you having trouble with sexually explicit media? Do you argue about what sexual activities are acceptable? Does sex feel like an addiction? Has there been a breach of trust with secretive, extra- marital sex? Are you having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection?.
My specialty is Human Sexuality. I'm a Certified Sex Therapist, Psychotherapist and am a mostly retired, formerly Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I have 50+ years experience. I was trained, mentored and supervised by Dr. Wardell Pomeroy of the Kinsey Institute. I help my patients achieve their greatest sexual and relationship potential, beyond diagnosis and treatment of their concerns, to reach the most exciting levels of an intimate relationship. I see many patients online. It is efficient and effective, and it permits the intimacy and immediacy of an in-office consultation, from the comfort of your home or office.
Cheryl D Nelson
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T2V
Treatment may include ADHD, anxiety, depression, autism and other stressor-related issues: stress and coping, relationship conflict, communication, marital, blended family and adjustment, work-related stress, workplace harassment and bullying, trauma, life decisions and transitions, family of origin issues, school-related worries, and sleep difficulties.
Accepting New Clients - I am experienced in relationships, as well as Child & Adolescent Mental Health. I worked for 20+ years with AHS. I am well-versed in assessment & therapy with children & teens who present with mental health concerns, so their families can live healthier, more productive & more fulfilling lives. Or, are you looking for someone who specializes in relationships - your partner, your children, your family? When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are. I greatly enjoy supporting couples, families, parents, and children alike, who present with much strength, although in distress.
Treatment may include ADHD, anxiety, depression, autism and other stressor-related issues: stress and coping, relationship conflict, communication, marital, blended family and adjustment, work-related stress, workplace harassment and bullying, trauma, life decisions and transitions, family of origin issues, school-related worries, and sleep difficulties.
Accepting New Clients - I am experienced in relationships, as well as Child & Adolescent Mental Health. I worked for 20+ years with AHS. I am well-versed in assessment & therapy with children & teens who present with mental health concerns, so their families can live healthier, more productive & more fulfilling lives. Or, are you looking for someone who specializes in relationships - your partner, your children, your family? When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are. I greatly enjoy supporting couples, families, parents, and children alike, who present with much strength, although in distress.
Jonathan Hutton
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T3C
My journey in becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist has evolved over the last 20 plus years in the Mental Health field from a belief that there is inter-connectedness in everything we do directly impacting our mental and physical well-being.
Relationships in our lives present us with an infinite number of experiences that bring successes, challenges and everything in between. The stories that we live everyday contain relationships that form the foundation of our mental and physical well-being. There are times when we want the current stories in our life to continue and at other times we hope and need for something to change so that we can live the life we desire as an individual and in relation to others. Regardless of the challenges you are experiencing there is a way to find a path forward towards a desired story that will bring fulfillment and joy in your life.
My journey in becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist has evolved over the last 20 plus years in the Mental Health field from a belief that there is inter-connectedness in everything we do directly impacting our mental and physical well-being.
Relationships in our lives present us with an infinite number of experiences that bring successes, challenges and everything in between. The stories that we live everyday contain relationships that form the foundation of our mental and physical well-being. There are times when we want the current stories in our life to continue and at other times we hope and need for something to change so that we can live the life we desire as an individual and in relation to others. Regardless of the challenges you are experiencing there is a way to find a path forward towards a desired story that will bring fulfillment and joy in your life.
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jacquelinemari Health | Wellness
Counsellor, MACP, ACTA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T2T
marriage) self-confidence, life transitions, or other health issues.
As a Registered Counsellor and Certified Functional Nutrition Coach (CFNC), I specialize in helping individuals achieve personal wellness goals and adapt to healthier lifestyle living. I am dedicated to helping you establish a balanced lifestyle that includes purpose-driven living, self-care practices, and building meaningful relationships. Let's do this! Give me a call
marriage) self-confidence, life transitions, or other health issues.
As a Registered Counsellor and Certified Functional Nutrition Coach (CFNC), I specialize in helping individuals achieve personal wellness goals and adapt to healthier lifestyle living. I am dedicated to helping you establish a balanced lifestyle that includes purpose-driven living, self-care practices, and building meaningful relationships. Let's do this! Give me a call
I work with individuals, couples and families and am currently accepting new clients to address a variety of concerns, including stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationships, chronic illness, marriage, work-life balance, children and parenting.
Life is hard for so many of us and talking through life's challenges is a critical step on the path to healing. My practice provides a warm and safe place for you to do just that. I am here to help you feel seen, heard, and supported when life feels overwhelming. Drawing upon a depth of life experience and genuine appreciation and respect for diverse cultures, I am well qualified to assist you through life’s challenging moments and transitions. I have advanced training in trauma, mindfulness and somatic healing. Prior to becoming a counsellor, I was a teacher for 25 years, working primarily with adolescents & post-secondary students
I work with individuals, couples and families and am currently accepting new clients to address a variety of concerns, including stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationships, chronic illness, marriage, work-life balance, children and parenting.
Life is hard for so many of us and talking through life's challenges is a critical step on the path to healing. My practice provides a warm and safe place for you to do just that. I am here to help you feel seen, heard, and supported when life feels overwhelming. Drawing upon a depth of life experience and genuine appreciation and respect for diverse cultures, I am well qualified to assist you through life’s challenging moments and transitions. I have advanced training in trauma, mindfulness and somatic healing. Prior to becoming a counsellor, I was a teacher for 25 years, working primarily with adolescents & post-secondary students
Dr. Elena Bouko - AB Counselling Psychology Centre
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, RSW, MA
Verified Verified
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T2R
Reasonable 99$ pricing. AB Psychotherapy, Counselling, & Mental Health Services specializes in family therapy/family-based counselling, individual counselling for children and youth, as well as play therapy for those young people and families affected by mental health difficulties, and related socio-emotional-learning difficulties. We also offer couple/ marital counselling and support for parents/caregivers. AB Counselling Clinic also offers clinical supervision, consultation and training.
Reasonable 99$ pricing. AB Psychotherapy, Counselling, & Mental Health Services specializes in family therapy/family-based counselling, individual counselling for children and youth, as well as play therapy for those young people and families affected by mental health difficulties, and related socio-emotional-learning difficulties. We also offer couple/ marital counselling and support for parents/caregivers. AB Counselling Clinic also offers clinical supervision, consultation and training.
I have unique personal experience that can help if you are feeling anxious, lonely, sad, or isolated while going through a transition in life or are in a marriage where your spouse is away a lot, such as in the military, oil patch, or a foreign-based business.
At Aligned Counselling, I have a particular interest in treating depression, anxiety, addictions, life transitions, and helping military spouses, and spouses of oil patch workers, who may be feeling isolated, lonely and sad. I believe that many mental health difficulties stem from a person's thoughts and behaviours not aligning with their needs and goals. This can come about for many reasons, including stress, recent or past trauma, substance abuse, anxiety, depression or other mental health challenges. Seeking help takes enormous courage and I understand it may feel overwhelming or frightening. I'm here to help!
I have unique personal experience that can help if you are feeling anxious, lonely, sad, or isolated while going through a transition in life or are in a marriage where your spouse is away a lot, such as in the military, oil patch, or a foreign-based business.
At Aligned Counselling, I have a particular interest in treating depression, anxiety, addictions, life transitions, and helping military spouses, and spouses of oil patch workers, who may be feeling isolated, lonely and sad. I believe that many mental health difficulties stem from a person's thoughts and behaviours not aligning with their needs and goals. This can come about for many reasons, including stress, recent or past trauma, substance abuse, anxiety, depression or other mental health challenges. Seeking help takes enormous courage and I understand it may feel overwhelming or frightening. I'm here to help!
Michelle Yvonne Buk
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T2T
My practice specializes in relationship therapy and is based in attachment theory. I have over 30 years experience in family and couple/ marital therapy and advanced skills in pediatric mental health, child development and best practices in parenting theory. I have worked in hospital based in patient and out patient programs, community mental health and social services as well as university teaching and administration. Currently I am employed with Alberta Children’s Hospital as well as my own private practice.
My practice specializes in relationship therapy and is based in attachment theory. I have over 30 years experience in family and couple/ marital therapy and advanced skills in pediatric mental health, child development and best practices in parenting theory. I have worked in hospital based in patient and out patient programs, community mental health and social services as well as university teaching and administration. Currently I am employed with Alberta Children’s Hospital as well as my own private practice.
Jeannine Crofton
Psychologist, MA, FMC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southwest Calgary, Calgary, AB T3G
I also offer Marital Mediation which is a short term mediation experience for couples who have a specific issue to resolve.
I am a Registered Psychologist in Alberta and Ontario. I offer online and in-person sessions. I am also a Divorce Mediator and provide Marital Mediation services. I teach in the Psychology department at Mount Royal University (MRU). I work with people who need guidance to redesign their relationship, work through a crisis or are transitioning into a co-parenting relationship with their spouse.
I also offer Marital Mediation which is a short term mediation experience for couples who have a specific issue to resolve.
I am a Registered Psychologist in Alberta and Ontario. I offer online and in-person sessions. I am also a Divorce Mediator and provide Marital Mediation services. I teach in the Psychology department at Mount Royal University (MRU). I work with people who need guidance to redesign their relationship, work through a crisis or are transitioning into a co-parenting relationship with their spouse.
Through strong alliances with my clients I believe that helping them recognize their strengths and develop options is key to resuming personal competency and wellbeing in their lives and relationships. My skill in brief focused therapy enables resolution of most concerns within 3-7 sessions. I have developed expertise in organizing highly distressed individuals in crisis situations and in treating trauma. I have experience in successfully resolving symptoms by helping clients develop a positive connection to their emotional world. I have specialized training in the area of marriage and family therapy. I bring to my work passion, commitment, focused skill and professionalism.
Through strong alliances with my clients I believe that helping them recognize their strengths and develop options is key to resuming personal competency and wellbeing in their lives and relationships. My skill in brief focused therapy enables resolution of most concerns within 3-7 sessions. I have developed expertise in organizing highly distressed individuals in crisis situations and in treating trauma. I have experience in successfully resolving symptoms by helping clients develop a positive connection to their emotional world. I have specialized training in the area of marriage and family therapy. I bring to my work passion, commitment, focused skill and professionalism.
I want to help you tap into your innate capacity to heal - help you become open to experience, learn to trust yourself, develop an internal evaluation of yourself and have a willingness to continue growing. In private practice, I provide individual, family, marital/relationship, and group counselling. I treat people across the lifespan including children, adolescents (e.g. navigating identity), adults (e.g. working through relationships, parenting, and career issues), and the elderly (grief and life transitions).
I want to help you tap into your innate capacity to heal - help you become open to experience, learn to trust yourself, develop an internal evaluation of yourself and have a willingness to continue growing. In private practice, I provide individual, family, marital/relationship, and group counselling. I treat people across the lifespan including children, adolescents (e.g. navigating identity), adults (e.g. working through relationships, parenting, and career issues), and the elderly (grief and life transitions).
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Marriage Counselling
How does marriage counseling work?
Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.
How long does marriage counseling typically last?
Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.
Is marriage counseling effective?
Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.
Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?
Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.