We Can Work It Out

Einstein said that energy can't be destroyed. When we "die" our soul energy lives on. Therefore, our relationships are not meant to end with bodily death.

Grief

Beyond Traditional Grief Therapy

Jamie Turndorf Ph.D. on April 11, 2016

It wasn't until I lost my beloved husband of 27 years that I realized that traditional Western grief therapy leaves the bereaved at an even greater loss.

It wasn't until I lost my beloved husband of 27 years that I realized that traditional Western grief therapy leaves the bereaved at an even greater loss.

Did you know that we never completely lose those we love?

When we use guilt trips to get our way we are ultimately getting in our own way!

Guilt

How to Stop Getting Taken on Guilt Trips

Jamie Turndorf Ph.D. on April 8, 2014

We all know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of a guilt trip. In this article, I show how to not get taken for a ride.

We all know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of a guilt trip. In this article, I show how to not get taken for a ride.

When couples find themselves locked in Sex Wars, non-sexual issues may actually be fueling the bedroom battles. My Reading Between the Sheets technique can help you determine whether nonsexual issues are stoking your sexual fire--but not in a good way!

The truth about honesty is that honesty is not always the best policy.

Paula Deen’s racist gaffe is symptomatic of the worldwide epidemic of what I call Foot IN Mouth Disease. Speaking in a kinder, gentler way is a skill that can be learned. In this article, Dr. Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) shares her 5-step method for controlling your temper and your tongue.

Find out what YOU can do to put a stop to bullying in your world.

Bullying has reached epidemic proportions in our society. In this article, I share what causes it and in part two I discuss what you can do to stamp out bullying in yourself, your immediate family and in the world around you.

Anger

Was Adam Lanza an Undiagnosed Schizophrenic?

Jamie Turndorf Ph.D. on December 20, 2012

Many psychiatrists are unaware of research linking autism and schizophrenia. Current diagnostic hierarchy treats these two conditions as distinct, and the majority of professionals are unaware they can co-exist. Since schizophrenia can be linked to violent behavior, mental health professionals need to be informed. Early detection is vital to averting a similar tragedy.

Many psychiatrists are unaware of research linking autism and schizophrenia. Current diagnostic hierarchy treats these two conditions as distinct, and the majority of professionals are unaware they can co-exist. Since schizophrenia can be linked to violent behavior, mental health professionals need to be informed. Early detection is vital to averting a similar tragedy.

Stress, overwork, financial worries, relationship distress and emotional and physical ailments all conspire to extinguish the human sex drive. Here's an overview of the major causes of inhibited sexual desire and other sexual dysfunctions and explanations on how to overcome the sexual "anemia" that is epidemic in our modern society.

Are you ready to get the Fighting Junkie Monkey off your back?

Discover how listening with your heart can resolve your conflicts.

If you've followed my previous blogs, you know that heated fighting creates a biochemical imbalance in men—called ANS arousal, or the Fight-Flight response.

How relationship fighting is caused by unhealed childhood wounds

How you can use "Relationship Climate Control" to head off fights.

Find out how properly handled anger can transform your relationships and the world.