Divorce Counselling in Caulfield South, VIC

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Dr Shalya Hirschson
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Caulfield South, VIC 3162
I also work with relationship difficulties, divorce, life adjustment and medical conditions.
As a psychologist, I feel privileged, to observe & work with the difficult life experiences, which lead individuals to engage in therapy. I believe that therapy is a form of self-exploration & learning. In sessions, I use safe, containing ways to help clients process their thoughts and feelings, gaining insight and understanding, so that they can navigate the world around them, with a sense of confidence, purpose and hope. I help clients develop skills to manage their discomfort, pain, uncertainty and fear, to facilitate change in their lives and improve their overall sense of well-being.
I also work with relationship difficulties, divorce, life adjustment and medical conditions.
As a psychologist, I feel privileged, to observe & work with the difficult life experiences, which lead individuals to engage in therapy. I believe that therapy is a form of self-exploration & learning. In sessions, I use safe, containing ways to help clients process their thoughts and feelings, gaining insight and understanding, so that they can navigate the world around them, with a sense of confidence, purpose and hope. I help clients develop skills to manage their discomfort, pain, uncertainty and fear, to facilitate change in their lives and improve their overall sense of well-being.
(03) 9988 1271 View (03) 9988 1271
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Melissa Jane Moss
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Caulfield South, VIC 3162
The Bodhi Tree Psychology was founded by Melissa Moss. Mel is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), a registered counsellor (ACA) and a certified clinical trauma practitioner in sensorimotor psychotherapy (CCTP-II). Mel uses compassionate inquiry whilst integrating a variety of evidenced-based and trauma informed humanistic, somatic and mindfulness approaches. This approach works to inspire self-awareness, develop self-acceptance, encourage deep healing and sustain Wellness.
The Bodhi Tree Psychology was founded by Melissa Moss. Mel is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), a registered counsellor (ACA) and a certified clinical trauma practitioner in sensorimotor psychotherapy (CCTP-II). Mel uses compassionate inquiry whilst integrating a variety of evidenced-based and trauma informed humanistic, somatic and mindfulness approaches. This approach works to inspire self-awareness, develop self-acceptance, encourage deep healing and sustain Wellness.
(03) 7003 2037 View (03) 7003 2037
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Marc Moskowitz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, AMHSW
Verified Verified
Caulfield South, VIC 3162
I am a Mental Health Social Worker, Counsellor and Psychotherapist working in private practice with adults. I have over 15 years of experience and training in mental health and qualifications in Psychology, Social Work, Counselling, and Gestalt Psychotherapy. I offer a supportive, empathetic and non-judgemental space. I work collaboratively with you to find ways through what is troubling you and to help you better understand yourself. ​
I am a Mental Health Social Worker, Counsellor and Psychotherapist working in private practice with adults. I have over 15 years of experience and training in mental health and qualifications in Psychology, Social Work, Counselling, and Gestalt Psychotherapy. I offer a supportive, empathetic and non-judgemental space. I work collaboratively with you to find ways through what is troubling you and to help you better understand yourself. ​
(03) 7003 2079 View (03) 7003 2079
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Louisa Gibson
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Caulfield South, VIC 3162
Hi, I'm Louisa and I'm a registered counsellor and psychotherapist with years of experience working in the community and with those experiencing vulnerability. I know firsthand that navigating the complexities in life can be difficult and at times its hard to find a way forward. With the right support the journey towards a rich and meaningful life becomes clearer. I believe the key to effective therapy is truly understanding your unique perspective and experiences. I want to learn about you l – listening to your story, exploring how you navigate life’s challenges, and tailoring our work to your specific needs.
Hi, I'm Louisa and I'm a registered counsellor and psychotherapist with years of experience working in the community and with those experiencing vulnerability. I know firsthand that navigating the complexities in life can be difficult and at times its hard to find a way forward. With the right support the journey towards a rich and meaningful life becomes clearer. I believe the key to effective therapy is truly understanding your unique perspective and experiences. I want to learn about you l – listening to your story, exploring how you navigate life’s challenges, and tailoring our work to your specific needs.
(03) 7003 2384 View (03) 7003 2384
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Very Well Minded - Rebekah Armstrong
Psychotherapist, MC, PACFA
Verified Verified
Caulfield South, VIC 3162
NOW accepting new clients! Rebekah has a special interest in working with couples experiencing relationship issues using the Gottman Method. Rebekah also works adolescents and adults experiencing emotional and psychological issues such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem, social isolation, stress and more. Rebekah views the therapeutic process as a collaborative journey between therapist and client. She possesses an empathetic, warm, and compassionate style. Creating a strong connection to build trust and rapport, enabling the client to comfortably share and develop throughout the counselling journey is of significant focus.
NOW accepting new clients! Rebekah has a special interest in working with couples experiencing relationship issues using the Gottman Method. Rebekah also works adolescents and adults experiencing emotional and psychological issues such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem, social isolation, stress and more. Rebekah views the therapeutic process as a collaborative journey between therapist and client. She possesses an empathetic, warm, and compassionate style. Creating a strong connection to build trust and rapport, enabling the client to comfortably share and develop throughout the counselling journey is of significant focus.
(03) 7003 2396 View (03) 7003 2396
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Andrew Boxer (And Pawfessor Morty)
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA Endorsed
Verified Verified
Caulfield South, VIC 3162
Research shows that the therapeutic relationship (e.g., how well you get along with your psychologist) can be just as important as the work we do together. I think therapy should not be rigid and I try to emulate that. I have a very open and relaxed manner that I hope will allow you to feel comfortable in describing your situation. Pawfessor Morty (a Hungarian Vizsla) has now joined the therapy team, and he looks forward to helping you feel warm and welcomed too!
Research shows that the therapeutic relationship (e.g., how well you get along with your psychologist) can be just as important as the work we do together. I think therapy should not be rigid and I try to emulate that. I have a very open and relaxed manner that I hope will allow you to feel comfortable in describing your situation. Pawfessor Morty (a Hungarian Vizsla) has now joined the therapy team, and he looks forward to helping you feel warm and welcomed too!
(03) 7003 2271 View (03) 7003 2271
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Noah Noam Mankowitz
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Caulfield South, VIC 3162
Noah Mankowitz is a Clinical Psychologist who works both at Alfred Health as well as privately. Noah specialises in mental conditions from age 8 and above, with particular interests in Depression, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, OCD, Trauma, Self-Harm, Personality Disorders, Psychosis as well as Life Transition and Body Image. Noah Mankowitz earned his qualifications from Harvard University; Yale University as well as Deakin University in Melbourne, Australia. In addition, Noah Mankowitz has published articles with the American Psychological Association and strives to continue contributing to the Medical and Psychology field.
Noah Mankowitz is a Clinical Psychologist who works both at Alfred Health as well as privately. Noah specialises in mental conditions from age 8 and above, with particular interests in Depression, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, OCD, Trauma, Self-Harm, Personality Disorders, Psychosis as well as Life Transition and Body Image. Noah Mankowitz earned his qualifications from Harvard University; Yale University as well as Deakin University in Melbourne, Australia. In addition, Noah Mankowitz has published articles with the American Psychological Association and strives to continue contributing to the Medical and Psychology field.
(03) 7003 2140 View (03) 7003 2140
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Renee Kharsas
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Caulfield South, VIC 3162
It is my hope that when someone spends time in the therapy room with me that our relationship feels honest, authentic and safe. During a therapy session you’ll encounter a mix and variety of therapeutic approaches including couples and family therapy, cognitive behavioural therapy and emotion-focused therapy, to name a few. I have a special interest in relationships, life transitions, grief and parenting. I genuinely love my work and I’ve always, for as long as I can remember, been interested in people’s stories and how they think, feel, behave and relate.
It is my hope that when someone spends time in the therapy room with me that our relationship feels honest, authentic and safe. During a therapy session you’ll encounter a mix and variety of therapeutic approaches including couples and family therapy, cognitive behavioural therapy and emotion-focused therapy, to name a few. I have a special interest in relationships, life transitions, grief and parenting. I genuinely love my work and I’ve always, for as long as I can remember, been interested in people’s stories and how they think, feel, behave and relate.
(02) 4504 0162 View (02) 4504 0162

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Empowered with Raphael
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Saint Kilda East, VIC 3183
I work with clients across a range of ages over 16 years taking a full health and non-pathologising approach. I mostly work with clients; experiencing anxiety, late diagnosis neurodiversity, particularly ADHD and AuADHD female-assigned-at-birth, co-parenting arrangements, divorce, career changes, conflict resolution, task switching, organisation skills and communication. Most of the clients I work with are hoping to bring more balance and fulfilment to their lives through improving relationships with others, themselves and making the most of their time.
I work with clients across a range of ages over 16 years taking a full health and non-pathologising approach. I mostly work with clients; experiencing anxiety, late diagnosis neurodiversity, particularly ADHD and AuADHD female-assigned-at-birth, co-parenting arrangements, divorce, career changes, conflict resolution, task switching, organisation skills and communication. Most of the clients I work with are hoping to bring more balance and fulfilment to their lives through improving relationships with others, themselves and making the most of their time.
(03) 7003 2282 View (03) 7003 2282
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Charlotte Harvey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
Brighton, VIC 3186
Counselling work may include working through relationship issues, grief and loss, separation and divorce, anxiety and depression, work related issues, issues of burnout and career planning (coaching), family violence and other trauma, adjustment to becoming a new parent, parenting and carer related issues, adjusting to life transitions and case management.
I am a counsellor and family therapist and work with adults, children, youth, couples and families, on a range of issues stemming from past or present experiences, which are impacting on them living their best life. Some people see me for brief solution orientated support, that focusses on what is happening in the here and now, and strategies to move forward. Others, benefitting from longer term therapeutic treatment and support.
Counselling work may include working through relationship issues, grief and loss, separation and divorce, anxiety and depression, work related issues, issues of burnout and career planning (coaching), family violence and other trauma, adjustment to becoming a new parent, parenting and carer related issues, adjusting to life transitions and case management.
I am a counsellor and family therapist and work with adults, children, youth, couples and families, on a range of issues stemming from past or present experiences, which are impacting on them living their best life. Some people see me for brief solution orientated support, that focusses on what is happening in the here and now, and strategies to move forward. Others, benefitting from longer term therapeutic treatment and support.
(03) 5910 3722 View (03) 5910 3722
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Hannah Gordon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brighton, VIC 3186  (Online Only)
I have not been immune to some of life’s struggles, throw in divorce, caring for ageing parents and job losses and I feel equipped to listen to you, exactly as you are.
Hi there! I’m Hannah and I specialise in helping people feel safe in therapy. It can be daunting talking about things that bring us sadness and confusion but I am here to support you each step of the way . After 15 years in practice, I have seen the strength that comes from being seen and heard. I have worked with families and individuals facing all sorts of adversity, both in Australia and overseas. I specialise in anxiety and stress management, memory loss and chronic health care, grief and loss support as well as trauma recovery.
I have not been immune to some of life’s struggles, throw in divorce, caring for ageing parents and job losses and I feel equipped to listen to you, exactly as you are.
Hi there! I’m Hannah and I specialise in helping people feel safe in therapy. It can be daunting talking about things that bring us sadness and confusion but I am here to support you each step of the way . After 15 years in practice, I have seen the strength that comes from being seen and heard. I have worked with families and individuals facing all sorts of adversity, both in Australia and overseas. I specialise in anxiety and stress management, memory loss and chronic health care, grief and loss support as well as trauma recovery.
(03) 5907 3217 View (03) 5907 3217
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Jane Lumley - People Psychology
Psychologist, PsyBA - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Brighton, VIC 3186
Jane has experience counselling clients and can help you with: Emotional Dysregulation Counselling for Trauma Anxiety Depression Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) Divorce Domestic Abuse Domestic Violence Emotional Disturbance Parenting Peer Relationships Self-Esteem Self-Harming Sexual Abuse Sexual Assault Sleep or Insomnia Stress Trauma and PTSD (Post.
Jane is an AHPRA registered psychologist who provides psychological counselling and support for children (12 years or older), teenagers/adolescents and adults. Jane offers a warm, friendly, and respectful client- centred approach. She offers evidenced based treatment that is tailored to each client to assist with a wide range of presenting issues including depression, stress, anxiety, adjustment difficulties, trauma, grief and loss. Jane has experience in: Child Community Health settings Sexual Assault Counselling Psychiatric Inpatient care Counselling for general psychological problems Jane can provide psychologist reports.
Jane has experience counselling clients and can help you with: Emotional Dysregulation Counselling for Trauma Anxiety Depression Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) Divorce Domestic Abuse Domestic Violence Emotional Disturbance Parenting Peer Relationships Self-Esteem Self-Harming Sexual Abuse Sexual Assault Sleep or Insomnia Stress Trauma and PTSD (Post.
Jane is an AHPRA registered psychologist who provides psychological counselling and support for children (12 years or older), teenagers/adolescents and adults. Jane offers a warm, friendly, and respectful client- centred approach. She offers evidenced based treatment that is tailored to each client to assist with a wide range of presenting issues including depression, stress, anxiety, adjustment difficulties, trauma, grief and loss. Jane has experience in: Child Community Health settings Sexual Assault Counselling Psychiatric Inpatient care Counselling for general psychological problems Jane can provide psychologist reports.
(03) 7003 2782 View (03) 7003 2782
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Daniella Winik - People Psychology
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Brighton, VIC 3186
Take the first step and book with Daniella today! Anxiety, Stress Management, Depression, School Issues & Counselling, Peer Relationships, Parenting Support, Issues & Guidance, Family Support, ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder), ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) & ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder), Building Resilience, Social Difficulties, Adjustment Disorders, Grief and Loss / Bereavement, Coping Skills, Divorce Counselling, Life Transitions, Life Coaching, Self-Esteem, Self-Confidence, Self-Development, Suicidal Ideation and Relationships.
Take the first step and book with Daniella today! Anxiety, Stress Management, Depression, School Issues & Counselling, Peer Relationships, Parenting Support, Issues & Guidance, Family Support, ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder), ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) & ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder), Building Resilience, Social Difficulties, Adjustment Disorders, Grief and Loss / Bereavement, Coping Skills, Divorce Counselling, Life Transitions, Life Coaching, Self-Esteem, Self-Confidence, Self-Development, Suicidal Ideation and Relationships.
(03) 7003 2718 View (03) 7003 2718
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Elizabeth Anile
Psychotherapist, MA, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Elsternwick, VIC 3185
I work with clients with a broad range of mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, personality disorders, addiction, self-harm and emotional/nervous system regulation and interpersonal challenges such as separation, divorce and co-parenting. A special interest of mine is working with people who don’t necessarily have a mental health condition but are experiencing feeling disconnected from their desires, needs and vitality.
I work with clients with a broad range of mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, personality disorders, addiction, self-harm and emotional/nervous system regulation and interpersonal challenges such as separation, divorce and co-parenting. A special interest of mine is working with people who don’t necessarily have a mental health condition but are experiencing feeling disconnected from their desires, needs and vitality.
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Sex And Relationship Therapist- Devika Dey
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Elsternwick, VIC 3185
Moving towards a relationship, being in a relationship and leaving a relationship is challenging. This beautiful dance towards connection, belonging and intimacy often leaves individuals and couples feeling; anxious, fearful, frustrated, angry, disconnected, numb, overwhelmed, disorientated, stressed, depleted, and lost. If any of this is landing, let me just say firstly, you’re not alone. Secondly, there is a way to find the understanding, empathy, collaborative and creative space you desire to master your relationships. Therapy is a space for brave souls, who are concerned and conflicted.
Moving towards a relationship, being in a relationship and leaving a relationship is challenging. This beautiful dance towards connection, belonging and intimacy often leaves individuals and couples feeling; anxious, fearful, frustrated, angry, disconnected, numb, overwhelmed, disorientated, stressed, depleted, and lost. If any of this is landing, let me just say firstly, you’re not alone. Secondly, there is a way to find the understanding, empathy, collaborative and creative space you desire to master your relationships. Therapy is a space for brave souls, who are concerned and conflicted.
(03) 8203 5362 View (03) 8203 5362
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Dr Isla Carboon
Psychotherapist, PhD, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Prahran, VIC 3181
If you are a couple or individual struggling with relationship issues such as conflict, disconnection or betrayal I can help you. If you're experiencing separation, we can work together to help you process your grief and loss and explore opportunities for learning and growth. I have a special interest in working with people in their 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s. I also love work with younger folks, especially couples who are ready to make a commitment. I have an evidence-backed program to build the relationship skills that start you on the right track.
If you are a couple or individual struggling with relationship issues such as conflict, disconnection or betrayal I can help you. If you're experiencing separation, we can work together to help you process your grief and loss and explore opportunities for learning and growth. I have a special interest in working with people in their 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s. I also love work with younger folks, especially couples who are ready to make a commitment. I have an evidence-backed program to build the relationship skills that start you on the right track.
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Lara Malobrodski
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Murrumbeena, VIC 3163
Hi, I'm Lara. my focus is collaborating with you to ensure that your journey is a joint effort tailored to your unique needs. By cultivating an open and supportive environment, I will empower you to actively engage in your own growth and emotional healing. My approach involves exploring processes that influence your thoughts and behaviours with the aim to uncover patterns that may be impacting on your wellbeing.
Hi, I'm Lara. my focus is collaborating with you to ensure that your journey is a joint effort tailored to your unique needs. By cultivating an open and supportive environment, I will empower you to actively engage in your own growth and emotional healing. My approach involves exploring processes that influence your thoughts and behaviours with the aim to uncover patterns that may be impacting on your wellbeing.
(03) 7500 5303 View (03) 7500 5303
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Romi Kupfer
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Elsternwick, VIC 3185
Romi is a counsellor and art therapist who specialises in supporting children, adolescents, young adults and parents. She aims to support clients in managing their emotions, transition periods and other challenges, to be able to live a meaningful and fulfilling life. Through consultations, clients will explore how to express themselves through artmaking, offering tools for navigating their mental wellbeing. Clients are not required to identify as an 'artist' or 'creative' person, rather she uses her expert skills in creativity to support her clients.
Romi is a counsellor and art therapist who specialises in supporting children, adolescents, young adults and parents. She aims to support clients in managing their emotions, transition periods and other challenges, to be able to live a meaningful and fulfilling life. Through consultations, clients will explore how to express themselves through artmaking, offering tools for navigating their mental wellbeing. Clients are not required to identify as an 'artist' or 'creative' person, rather she uses her expert skills in creativity to support her clients.
0421 172 330 View 0421 172 330
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Jessica Elberg
Counsellor, MA, AMHSW
Verified Verified
Brighton, VIC 3186
Feeling overwhelmed by life? I am a warm, skilled and experienced counsellor, who will support you through life's challenges, I can help you deal with a broad range of concerns, supporting you to examine your core beliefs and understanding of issues affecting you. Adjusting thoughts, feelings and behaviours through evidence-based counselling techniques creates opportunities for authentic growth and long-lasting change. I will support you in adopting and maintaining effective approaches to any difficulties that your'e experiencing, creating a renewed sense of optimism and well-being.
Feeling overwhelmed by life? I am a warm, skilled and experienced counsellor, who will support you through life's challenges, I can help you deal with a broad range of concerns, supporting you to examine your core beliefs and understanding of issues affecting you. Adjusting thoughts, feelings and behaviours through evidence-based counselling techniques creates opportunities for authentic growth and long-lasting change. I will support you in adopting and maintaining effective approaches to any difficulties that your'e experiencing, creating a renewed sense of optimism and well-being.
(03) 7003 2920 View (03) 7003 2920
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Anita Bonollo - People Psychology
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Brighton, VIC 3186
Anita works with clients of all ages and diverse backgrounds including individuals, couples and adolescents. She has extensive experience counselling clients and can help you with anxiety, stress, panic attacks, or depression; coping with pain, post-trauma (PTSD), OCD, or workplace issues; managing weight loss; couples therapy and sports psychology. How can Anita help you? Whether you need support, guidance, motivation, or counselling, she can assist you in your journey. Please feel free to book an initial consultation with her.
Anita works with clients of all ages and diverse backgrounds including individuals, couples and adolescents. She has extensive experience counselling clients and can help you with anxiety, stress, panic attacks, or depression; coping with pain, post-trauma (PTSD), OCD, or workplace issues; managing weight loss; couples therapy and sports psychology. How can Anita help you? Whether you need support, guidance, motivation, or counselling, she can assist you in your journey. Please feel free to book an initial consultation with her.
(03) 9068 5232 View (03) 9068 5232

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Divorce Counsellors

How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?

Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?

There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?

When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?

It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.