Gottman Method Counselling in Caulfield North, VIC

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Naomi Rubinstein
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Caulfield North, VIC 3161
With a strong professional background in counselling, Naomi Rubinstein specialises in couples therapy, particularly using the Gottman Method. Her approach emphasises the importance of friendship and effective communication as cornerstones of healthy relationships. ​Naomi’s expertise extends to addressing a wide range of issues, including stress, anxiety, communication difficulties, LGBTQI+ concerns, family dynamics, parenting challenges, grief, loss, and more. Naomi works with clients from all walks of life, regardless of age or background, and her adaptability and inclusivity are key aspects of her practice.
With a strong professional background in counselling, Naomi Rubinstein specialises in couples therapy, particularly using the Gottman Method. Her approach emphasises the importance of friendship and effective communication as cornerstones of healthy relationships. ​Naomi’s expertise extends to addressing a wide range of issues, including stress, anxiety, communication difficulties, LGBTQI+ concerns, family dynamics, parenting challenges, grief, loss, and more. Naomi works with clients from all walks of life, regardless of age or background, and her adaptability and inclusivity are key aspects of her practice.
(03) 7003 2543 View (03) 7003 2543
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Orly Miller
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Caulfield North, VIC 3161  (Online Only)
In a safe, supportive space, I use an integrative approach, blending CBT, Psychodynamic Therapy, and the Gottman Method with mindfulness techniques.
I am a psychologist in clinical practice dedicated to supporting healing and holistic wellbeing. I work with individuals and couples, providing support for a range of challenges and guiding you on your path to growth. My approach centres on creating a safe, nurturing environment where you can openly explore your concerns. I am committed to helping you navigate difficulties, cultivate resilience, and move toward a more fulfilling life.
In a safe, supportive space, I use an integrative approach, blending CBT, Psychodynamic Therapy, and the Gottman Method with mindfulness techniques.
I am a psychologist in clinical practice dedicated to supporting healing and holistic wellbeing. I work with individuals and couples, providing support for a range of challenges and guiding you on your path to growth. My approach centres on creating a safe, nurturing environment where you can openly explore your concerns. I am committed to helping you navigate difficulties, cultivate resilience, and move toward a more fulfilling life.
(03) 7003 2040 View (03) 7003 2040
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Sara Louise Harris
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Caulfield North, VIC 3161
Specialising in relationships, trauma and anxiety. I work collaboratively with you to reach your mental health & wellbeing goals, working with individuals, couples, families & teens. People often present with anxiety, depression, health issues/challenges, trauma, anger issues, lack of self-worth/confidence, parenting challenges, relationship issues, family challenges, difficulty managing stress, grief/loss & more. Specialising also in women's health issues impacting mental health, including fertility, perinatal anxiety, menopause, PMS, endometriosis, PCOS, cancers, etc. Here to support you to enrich your life & your relationships.
Specialising in relationships, trauma and anxiety. I work collaboratively with you to reach your mental health & wellbeing goals, working with individuals, couples, families & teens. People often present with anxiety, depression, health issues/challenges, trauma, anger issues, lack of self-worth/confidence, parenting challenges, relationship issues, family challenges, difficulty managing stress, grief/loss & more. Specialising also in women's health issues impacting mental health, including fertility, perinatal anxiety, menopause, PMS, endometriosis, PCOS, cancers, etc. Here to support you to enrich your life & your relationships.
(03) 7003 2963 View (03) 7003 2963
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Jane Patricia Peart
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Caulfield North, VIC 3161  (Online Only)
Anxiety, stress, persistent negative thoughts and feelings of not being enough, depression, wanting to enter into a relationship, wanting to change direction in your career, can all be areas we work through together. Through the therapeutic relationship, we work to understand and experience the blocks that prevent you from achieving goals. We also work together to recognize your unique qualities and gifts. Counselling and body psychotherapy compliment the overall experience of connecting mind and body. By becoming,"embodied ", life can be experienced more fully. All feelings can be tolerated and integrated in a grounded way
Anxiety, stress, persistent negative thoughts and feelings of not being enough, depression, wanting to enter into a relationship, wanting to change direction in your career, can all be areas we work through together. Through the therapeutic relationship, we work to understand and experience the blocks that prevent you from achieving goals. We also work together to recognize your unique qualities and gifts. Counselling and body psychotherapy compliment the overall experience of connecting mind and body. By becoming,"embodied ", life can be experienced more fully. All feelings can be tolerated and integrated in a grounded way
(03) 9068 5371 View (03) 9068 5371
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Your Psychologist
Psychologist, MPsych, MAPS
Verified Verified
Caulfield North, VIC 3161
Hi, I’m Franco the founder of Your Psychologist. Are you are feeling stuck in a negative cycle in your life, work or relationships? Are you have been suffering from depression and anxiety for a long time? I have an approach to to help you experience the change, relief and lightness you’re looking for. My practice is focused on schema therapy and coaching. It is designed to help you change negative life patterns. So you can tackle what's holding you back in life, career and relationships. In schema therapy and coaching, I work together with you to address and modify these deeper life patterns.
Hi, I’m Franco the founder of Your Psychologist. Are you are feeling stuck in a negative cycle in your life, work or relationships? Are you have been suffering from depression and anxiety for a long time? I have an approach to to help you experience the change, relief and lightness you’re looking for. My practice is focused on schema therapy and coaching. It is designed to help you change negative life patterns. So you can tackle what's holding you back in life, career and relationships. In schema therapy and coaching, I work together with you to address and modify these deeper life patterns.
(03) 6144 9349 View (03) 6144 9349
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Nicky Jacobs
Psychologist, PhD, MAPS
Verified Verified
Caulfield North, VIC 3161
I am a Clinical and Counselling psychologist with over 30 years experience working extensively with Individuals, Couples and Adolescents. My areas of expertise include: Relationships and Interpersonal Issues; Anxiety/Depression management; Conflict resolution and Mediation; Self-esteem and Assertiveness Training; Stress Management; Bullying - School and Workplace; Gender/ Sexuality Concerns; Trauma/PTSD; Adjusting to Transitions and Life Change; Grief and Loss ; Anger Management; and Parenting Skills.
I am a Clinical and Counselling psychologist with over 30 years experience working extensively with Individuals, Couples and Adolescents. My areas of expertise include: Relationships and Interpersonal Issues; Anxiety/Depression management; Conflict resolution and Mediation; Self-esteem and Assertiveness Training; Stress Management; Bullying - School and Workplace; Gender/ Sexuality Concerns; Trauma/PTSD; Adjusting to Transitions and Life Change; Grief and Loss ; Anger Management; and Parenting Skills.
(03) 8737 9323 View (03) 8737 9323

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Agnieszka Mazus (Atenta)
Counsellor, MSc, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Prahran, VIC 3181
Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 2), Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy and Attachment and trauma-informed approach.
Empathetic and client-centric relationship counsellor registered with PACFA. I help couples and adult individuals, in person (East Melbourne / Richmond) and through telehealth. My goal is to make every client feel heard, understood, and professionally supported. I understand how the demands of modern life put pressure on relationships and I bring my heart and mind to the counselling room. I believe that change is possible, people can feel better with themselves and others, and build fulfilling, lasting relationships. I am sensitive to culture, individual experience and mental health diagnosis and honor client autonomy.
Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 2), Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy and Attachment and trauma-informed approach.
Empathetic and client-centric relationship counsellor registered with PACFA. I help couples and adult individuals, in person (East Melbourne / Richmond) and through telehealth. My goal is to make every client feel heard, understood, and professionally supported. I understand how the demands of modern life put pressure on relationships and I bring my heart and mind to the counselling room. I believe that change is possible, people can feel better with themselves and others, and build fulfilling, lasting relationships. I am sensitive to culture, individual experience and mental health diagnosis and honor client autonomy.
(03) 7003 2961 View (03) 7003 2961
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Louisa Gibson
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Caulfield South, VIC 3162
My toolbox incorporates various evidence-based methods, including Person-Centered Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Focusing Therapy, and the Gottman Method.
Hi, I'm Louisa and I'm a registered counsellor and psychotherapist with years of experience working in the community and with those experiencing vulnerability. I know firsthand that navigating the complexities in life can be difficult and at times its hard to find a way forward. With the right support the journey towards a rich and meaningful life becomes clearer. I believe the key to effective therapy is truly understanding your unique perspective and experiences. I want to learn about you l – listening to your story, exploring how you navigate life’s challenges, and tailoring our work to your specific needs.
My toolbox incorporates various evidence-based methods, including Person-Centered Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Focusing Therapy, and the Gottman Method.
Hi, I'm Louisa and I'm a registered counsellor and psychotherapist with years of experience working in the community and with those experiencing vulnerability. I know firsthand that navigating the complexities in life can be difficult and at times its hard to find a way forward. With the right support the journey towards a rich and meaningful life becomes clearer. I believe the key to effective therapy is truly understanding your unique perspective and experiences. I want to learn about you l – listening to your story, exploring how you navigate life’s challenges, and tailoring our work to your specific needs.
(03) 7003 2384 View (03) 7003 2384
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Very Well Minded - Rebekah Armstrong
Psychotherapist, MC, PACFA
Verified Verified
Malvern East, VIC 3145
Rebekah predominantly utilises Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and incorporates other evidence-based therapies including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Applied Behavioural Analysis (ABA), Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) encompassing Attachment Theory, Mindfulness and the Gottman Method working with couples.
NOW accepting new clients! Rebekah has a special interest in working with couples experiencing relationship issues using the Gottman Method. Rebekah also works adolescents and adults experiencing emotional and psychological issues such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem, social isolation, stress and more. Rebekah views the therapeutic process as a collaborative journey between therapist and client. She possesses an empathetic, warm, and compassionate style. Creating a strong connection to build trust and rapport, enabling the client to comfortably share and develop throughout the counselling journey is of significant focus.
Rebekah predominantly utilises Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and incorporates other evidence-based therapies including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Applied Behavioural Analysis (ABA), Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) encompassing Attachment Theory, Mindfulness and the Gottman Method working with couples.
NOW accepting new clients! Rebekah has a special interest in working with couples experiencing relationship issues using the Gottman Method. Rebekah also works adolescents and adults experiencing emotional and psychological issues such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem, social isolation, stress and more. Rebekah views the therapeutic process as a collaborative journey between therapist and client. She possesses an empathetic, warm, and compassionate style. Creating a strong connection to build trust and rapport, enabling the client to comfortably share and develop throughout the counselling journey is of significant focus.
(03) 7003 2396 View (03) 7003 2396
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Jessica Spigler
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Murrumbeena, VIC 3163
I am further training in the Gottman Method (Level 1) of couples therapy and I utilise Gottman interventions with couples.
Hi, I'm Jess and I approach therapy in a compassionate way where we will work together to find happiness, meaning and your authentic true self. I believe therapy can be a safe space to process and work through emotional distress and trauma whilst feeling heard, seen and understood. I have extensive experience and interest working in areas of attachment, crisis intervention, trauma, grief and emotional dysregulation as well as relationships with peers, colleagues, spouses and family members.
I am further training in the Gottman Method (Level 1) of couples therapy and I utilise Gottman interventions with couples.
Hi, I'm Jess and I approach therapy in a compassionate way where we will work together to find happiness, meaning and your authentic true self. I believe therapy can be a safe space to process and work through emotional distress and trauma whilst feeling heard, seen and understood. I have extensive experience and interest working in areas of attachment, crisis intervention, trauma, grief and emotional dysregulation as well as relationships with peers, colleagues, spouses and family members.
(03) 7500 5350 View (03) 7500 5350
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Judith Thomas
Psychologist, PsychD, MAPS
Verified Verified
Brighton, VIC 3186
When working withe couples Judith uses a combination of Gottman Method and Emotionally Focussed Therapy.
Judith has worked in Brighton for more than 25 years. She works with teenagers, adults and couples. She has a broad range of expertise in different therapies and has worked with clients requiring assistance for anxiety, depression, phobias, panic attacks, low self esteem, PTSD, relationship difficulties, parenting issues, and grief.
When working withe couples Judith uses a combination of Gottman Method and Emotionally Focussed Therapy.
Judith has worked in Brighton for more than 25 years. She works with teenagers, adults and couples. She has a broad range of expertise in different therapies and has worked with clients requiring assistance for anxiety, depression, phobias, panic attacks, low self esteem, PTSD, relationship difficulties, parenting issues, and grief.
(03) 7003 2741 View (03) 7003 2741
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Priscilla Louise Jones
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Kilda, VIC 3182
I help individuals and couples connect to themselves and each other by using Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method.
Are you experiencing uncomfortable emotions that you don't know how to process? Or experiencing challenges in your relationship? I support and guide you through stress, anxiety, low mood/motivation, relationship matters and life changes. I aim to provide a non judgemental space, as well as tools and techniques to help you better manage emotions, overcome anxiety and feel better within yourself. Enrich your social interactions by understanding your needs, communicating your boundaries, and regulating your emotions so that you can be fully present and available to the people who matter to you and have more meaningful connections.
I help individuals and couples connect to themselves and each other by using Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method.
Are you experiencing uncomfortable emotions that you don't know how to process? Or experiencing challenges in your relationship? I support and guide you through stress, anxiety, low mood/motivation, relationship matters and life changes. I aim to provide a non judgemental space, as well as tools and techniques to help you better manage emotions, overcome anxiety and feel better within yourself. Enrich your social interactions by understanding your needs, communicating your boundaries, and regulating your emotions so that you can be fully present and available to the people who matter to you and have more meaningful connections.
(03) 8771 5632 View (03) 8771 5632
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Xuan Tan
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Brighton, VIC 3186
Xuan (pronounced Shen) provides evidence-based and person-centred treatment with adolescents, adults, couples and families from diverse cultural, linguistic, and economic backgrounds. Xuan has multilingual skills and can deliver services in English or in Mandarin 说中文 She aims to provide a warm space where clients could form an in-depth understanding of themselves, to reflect on existing or past experiences, and to learn and grow at a pace that suits them.
Xuan (pronounced Shen) provides evidence-based and person-centred treatment with adolescents, adults, couples and families from diverse cultural, linguistic, and economic backgrounds. Xuan has multilingual skills and can deliver services in English or in Mandarin 说中文 She aims to provide a warm space where clients could form an in-depth understanding of themselves, to reflect on existing or past experiences, and to learn and grow at a pace that suits them.
(03) 7003 2350 View (03) 7003 2350
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Dawn Vincent
Counsellor, AMHSW
Verified Verified
Glen Iris, VIC 3146
Are you experiencing low mood, finding it hard to stop worrying and feeling dissatisfied with the quality of your relationships or unhappy with your personal or working life? With the busyness of our lives and the pressures and demands we all face daily, our emotional wellbeing is an area which can be neglected. However, there comes a time when we know that it is time to stop and take some action to turn our life around. Counselling with me can help you with the skills and strategies you need to make changes and choices which will allow you to find the satisfaction you seek in the key areas of your life.
Are you experiencing low mood, finding it hard to stop worrying and feeling dissatisfied with the quality of your relationships or unhappy with your personal or working life? With the busyness of our lives and the pressures and demands we all face daily, our emotional wellbeing is an area which can be neglected. However, there comes a time when we know that it is time to stop and take some action to turn our life around. Counselling with me can help you with the skills and strategies you need to make changes and choices which will allow you to find the satisfaction you seek in the key areas of your life.
(03) 9068 5948 View (03) 9068 5948
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Rocco Vincent Mammoliti
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Caulfield, VIC 3162
Rocco is an experienced psychologist with training working with adults, adolescents & children. He is sensitive to the issues young people face today, and how these issues uniquely present within heterosexual and LGBTQIA+ communities. Issues of identity, belonging, low self-worth, people-pleasing, perfectionism, anxiety, periods of depression; essentially, complex histories and how they impact the relationship to oneself and others. These problems can be the underlying cause of a lack of felt purpose or meaning in one’s life. Rocco’s goal is to help people befriend themselves & reconnect with that sense of purpose
Rocco is an experienced psychologist with training working with adults, adolescents & children. He is sensitive to the issues young people face today, and how these issues uniquely present within heterosexual and LGBTQIA+ communities. Issues of identity, belonging, low self-worth, people-pleasing, perfectionism, anxiety, periods of depression; essentially, complex histories and how they impact the relationship to oneself and others. These problems can be the underlying cause of a lack of felt purpose or meaning in one’s life. Rocco’s goal is to help people befriend themselves & reconnect with that sense of purpose
(03) 7037 6915 View (03) 7037 6915
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Michaela Klabanova
Psychologist, MPsych, Australian Association of Psychologists - Member
Verified Verified
Caulfield, VIC 3162
Michaela is an open-minded psychologist and psychotherapist whose approach is tailored to the needs of each particular client. She is passionate about helping people grow and achieve their full potential. Michaela predominately works with complex mental health issues including trauma, addiction and neurodiversity. Furthermore, she is passionate about men’s mental health and relationship difficulties. Her experience includes working with children, youth and adults.
Michaela is an open-minded psychologist and psychotherapist whose approach is tailored to the needs of each particular client. She is passionate about helping people grow and achieve their full potential. Michaela predominately works with complex mental health issues including trauma, addiction and neurodiversity. Furthermore, she is passionate about men’s mental health and relationship difficulties. Her experience includes working with children, youth and adults.
(03) 8797 2629 View (03) 8797 2629
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Port Phillip Psychology
Psychologist, MPsych, MAPS
Verified Verified
Brighton, VIC 3186
Port Phillip Psychology is a friendly practice in Melbourne's Bayside suburbs of St Kilda, Brighton and Chelsea. We provide counselling for children, adults and couples and can match a psychologist to your needs. We can help most issues including: anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, infidelity, relationship issues and children's counselling. We have both male and female psychologists and use a variety of tools including Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness, and Solution Focussed Therapy.
Port Phillip Psychology is a friendly practice in Melbourne's Bayside suburbs of St Kilda, Brighton and Chelsea. We provide counselling for children, adults and couples and can match a psychologist to your needs. We can help most issues including: anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, infidelity, relationship issues and children's counselling. We have both male and female psychologists and use a variety of tools including Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness, and Solution Focussed Therapy.
(03) 8797 2849 View (03) 8797 2849
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Kyo Chung
Counsellor, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Caulfield, VIC 3162
Mental and emotional well-being is essential to achieving goals and being the best version of ourselves. Even negative emotions contain messages if unaddressed can lead to poor mental health and interpersonal difficulties. Medicating away or numbing out difficult emotions is not the only way. By being emotionally intelligent, we can achieve goals and have the relationship we want.
Mental and emotional well-being is essential to achieving goals and being the best version of ourselves. Even negative emotions contain messages if unaddressed can lead to poor mental health and interpersonal difficulties. Medicating away or numbing out difficult emotions is not the only way. By being emotionally intelligent, we can achieve goals and have the relationship we want.
(03) 9068 5740 View (03) 9068 5740
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Katrina Sheehan
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Glen Iris, VIC 3146
As a qualified and experienced counsellor, I understand that each person's challenges are unique, and within my relationship counseling, I use proven and integrative approaches in empowering couples to foster more collaborative and harmonious relationships. I help partners make sense of what they are experiencing by feeling heard and understood, and to feel genuinely motivated to make positive changes for themselves and their relationships. My goal for couples is to create and maintain strong and satisfying relationships, regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, cultural background or relationship status.
As a qualified and experienced counsellor, I understand that each person's challenges are unique, and within my relationship counseling, I use proven and integrative approaches in empowering couples to foster more collaborative and harmonious relationships. I help partners make sense of what they are experiencing by feeling heard and understood, and to feel genuinely motivated to make positive changes for themselves and their relationships. My goal for couples is to create and maintain strong and satisfying relationships, regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, cultural background or relationship status.
(03) 7037 8342 View (03) 7037 8342
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Dr Stephanie Shippen
Psychologist, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Saint Kilda, VIC 3182
Being human can be hard! From daily stressors to big events, life can feel overwhelming and difficult. You may feel alone in your struggles. It's important to have a place where you can let your guard down, acknowledge what you're facing, and begin healing. I love providing clients with this type of support. I help clients get to know themselves more deeply. I enjoy working with clients to identify and overcome barriers, prepare and cope with life transitions, heal from trauma, tend and befriend feelings, cultivate self-acceptance and self-compassion, build healthy relationships, and foster meaning and purpose in their life.
Being human can be hard! From daily stressors to big events, life can feel overwhelming and difficult. You may feel alone in your struggles. It's important to have a place where you can let your guard down, acknowledge what you're facing, and begin healing. I love providing clients with this type of support. I help clients get to know themselves more deeply. I enjoy working with clients to identify and overcome barriers, prepare and cope with life transitions, heal from trauma, tend and befriend feelings, cultivate self-acceptance and self-compassion, build healthy relationships, and foster meaning and purpose in their life.
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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.