Codependency Counselling in Metropolitan Adelaide, SA
Codependency: what exactly is it? It is the need to look outside of ourselves for validation. It manifests as putting others’ feelings, needs, and perceptions before our own. Often, it is unconscious and we don't even realise we do it. It can be extreme or subtle. We are co-dependent when we are pulled by the outside world rather than being in alignment with our true desires and soul path. Co-dependency may look like: a romantic relationship or friendship where you merge into the other, become consumed by their world, lose yourself, do activities that they enjoy, or show an interest in their interests.
Codependency: what exactly is it? It is the need to look outside of ourselves for validation. It manifests as putting others’ feelings, needs, and perceptions before our own. Often, it is unconscious and we don't even realise we do it. It can be extreme or subtle. We are co-dependent when we are pulled by the outside world rather than being in alignment with our true desires and soul path. Co-dependency may look like: a romantic relationship or friendship where you merge into the other, become consumed by their world, lose yourself, do activities that they enjoy, or show an interest in their interests.
As a Sexologist and Registered Counsellor, I support individuals and couples facing challenges in sex, communication, dating, libido, FIFO relationships, neurodiversity (ADHD/autism), family stresses, sexual difficulties/pain, codependency, healing from betrayal, ENM/polyamory, and more. I work with LGBTQ+ people and anyone feeling constrained or exhausted by the pressures to have a certain kind of marriage/relationship, income, family, career, appearance, to behave in a certain way, and be a certain person.
As a Sexologist and Registered Counsellor, I support individuals and couples facing challenges in sex, communication, dating, libido, FIFO relationships, neurodiversity (ADHD/autism), family stresses, sexual difficulties/pain, codependency, healing from betrayal, ENM/polyamory, and more. I work with LGBTQ+ people and anyone feeling constrained or exhausted by the pressures to have a certain kind of marriage/relationship, income, family, career, appearance, to behave in a certain way, and be a certain person.
Jesse Muller - Counselling and Psychotherapy
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
North Adelaide, SA 5006
Are you recovering from trauma, oppression or psychological abuse? Do you need support to heal and take charge of your life, creating wellbeing and freedom. If you are living with distress, anxiety, co-dependency or something is in the way of you enjoying and living your life, reach out and we can work together to support you to regain connection with yourself to start/continue towards creating the life you want. I also work with parents and the impacts of trauma on their experience as a parent and healing parent child dynamics. Trans and gender diverse people are welcome along with all people from LGBTIQA+ communities.
Are you recovering from trauma, oppression or psychological abuse? Do you need support to heal and take charge of your life, creating wellbeing and freedom. If you are living with distress, anxiety, co-dependency or something is in the way of you enjoying and living your life, reach out and we can work together to support you to regain connection with yourself to start/continue towards creating the life you want. I also work with parents and the impacts of trauma on their experience as a parent and healing parent child dynamics. Trans and gender diverse people are welcome along with all people from LGBTIQA+ communities.
Hi, I'm Susan, a Holistic Counsellor and Life Coach. If you're stuck in repetitive patterns, feeling unfulfilled, or wanting passion and purpose, I'm here to help. Together, we'll uncover hidden traumas, break through blocks, and support your journey towards your most authentic self. Let's clear the path to your true potential and transform your life with confidence and clarity. Ready to step into the best version of YOU? Let's begin this empowering journey together.
Hi, I'm Susan, a Holistic Counsellor and Life Coach. If you're stuck in repetitive patterns, feeling unfulfilled, or wanting passion and purpose, I'm here to help. Together, we'll uncover hidden traumas, break through blocks, and support your journey towards your most authentic self. Let's clear the path to your true potential and transform your life with confidence and clarity. Ready to step into the best version of YOU? Let's begin this empowering journey together.
At the heart of Spiral of Life’s philosophy is that, although many things in life can challenge us, we are capable of creating positive change in our lives through learning, healing and growing. Central to our practice are conversations that ultimately lead to self-empowerment, whatever pathway that takes. Improve your connection within yourself and with others - reach out and make a time to connect with us!
At the heart of Spiral of Life’s philosophy is that, although many things in life can challenge us, we are capable of creating positive change in our lives through learning, healing and growing. Central to our practice are conversations that ultimately lead to self-empowerment, whatever pathway that takes. Improve your connection within yourself and with others - reach out and make a time to connect with us!
Do you feel stuck in patterns of self-doubt, anxiety, or overwhelm, and can’t quite figure out why? Are certain challenges or emotions resurfacing in your life, no matter what you do? My approach is rooted in helping you navigate these difficult emotions, reconnect with your inner self, heal deeply, and create lasting change.
Do you feel stuck in patterns of self-doubt, anxiety, or overwhelm, and can’t quite figure out why? Are certain challenges or emotions resurfacing in your life, no matter what you do? My approach is rooted in helping you navigate these difficult emotions, reconnect with your inner self, heal deeply, and create lasting change.
I enjoy working with clients of all ages and cultural backgrounds. I have special interests in the assessment and treatment of anxiety and depression disorders, trauma, personality disorders, health and fitness, aggression, sexual health, work-related stress, work/life balance, interpersonal conflict and relational issues.
I enjoy working with clients of all ages and cultural backgrounds. I have special interests in the assessment and treatment of anxiety and depression disorders, trauma, personality disorders, health and fitness, aggression, sexual health, work-related stress, work/life balance, interpersonal conflict and relational issues.
Do you remember a time when... life felt good, easy and familiar? When struggle, mistrust and that sense of feeling lost in it all weren’t the “norm”? Do those days feel like a distant memory? Hi, I'm Joanne Deaker and I help people like you break free of Good Girl Syndrome so they can unapologetically be themselves and enjoy life like they were meant too. I also specialize in divorce recovery. I use creative (arts therapy) and embodied (somatic) processes to help you get out of your head and into your body so we can go deep, get to the root of your challenges and move them.
Do you remember a time when... life felt good, easy and familiar? When struggle, mistrust and that sense of feeling lost in it all weren’t the “norm”? Do those days feel like a distant memory? Hi, I'm Joanne Deaker and I help people like you break free of Good Girl Syndrome so they can unapologetically be themselves and enjoy life like they were meant too. I also specialize in divorce recovery. I use creative (arts therapy) and embodied (somatic) processes to help you get out of your head and into your body so we can go deep, get to the root of your challenges and move them.
I strongly believe that psychological support should be a possibility for everyone, not just a luxury for the few. I am a trained Counselling professional with a passion for helping women like you fall in love with their minds and bodies, live their true emotions and find new ways to improve their well-being. I can support you while you learn more about your emotions and bodily resources, discover how to increase your self-esteem and become more resilient by overcoming your limiting beliefs about your beautiful self.
I strongly believe that psychological support should be a possibility for everyone, not just a luxury for the few. I am a trained Counselling professional with a passion for helping women like you fall in love with their minds and bodies, live their true emotions and find new ways to improve their well-being. I can support you while you learn more about your emotions and bodily resources, discover how to increase your self-esteem and become more resilient by overcoming your limiting beliefs about your beautiful self.
Hi! I'm Diana. I'm a registered Psychotherapist with over 20 years experience working in Private Practice. The reality of life is that it's filled with ups and downs. At times we can feel lost, stuck or overwhelmed. Relationships can be difficult to navigate. Marriages can go through periods of distress and disconnection. Or sometimes we cannot find a way out of our grief and loss. Trying to cope alone we often end up going around in circles. I'm passionate about providing a safe, non-judgemental and caring space for you to talk, work through, or resolve, whatever life situation you are experiencing.
Hi! I'm Diana. I'm a registered Psychotherapist with over 20 years experience working in Private Practice. The reality of life is that it's filled with ups and downs. At times we can feel lost, stuck or overwhelmed. Relationships can be difficult to navigate. Marriages can go through periods of distress and disconnection. Or sometimes we cannot find a way out of our grief and loss. Trying to cope alone we often end up going around in circles. I'm passionate about providing a safe, non-judgemental and caring space for you to talk, work through, or resolve, whatever life situation you are experiencing.
Experienced Individual and Couple Therapist. PACfA Accredited Clinical Supervisor. Individual or Group Supervision for counsellors, SW, Chaplains and Ministers. Coaching for managers and leaders.
Experienced Individual and Couple Therapist. PACfA Accredited Clinical Supervisor. Individual or Group Supervision for counsellors, SW, Chaplains and Ministers. Coaching for managers and leaders.
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'We don't get wounded alone and we don't heal alone' (Carl Jung). Psychological wounds regardless of how old there are can be very difficult to heal. They can manifest themselves as chronic pain, fatigue, anxiety and various mental health issues. They can make you feel stuck, disconnected, overwhelmed, or lost. If you are reading this, you are most likely looking for answers and you would like to make some changes. This is an important step in your journey and I would like to support you through it.
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Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Parkside, SA 5063 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Those times when someone says, "I have been everywhere", or "tried everything", and they feel worn down by their emotional pain or discomfort are times when the therapeutic space I offer can bring back hope, reduce pain (emotional, physical or spiritual pain) and enhance life flow for an individual. Leading people out of their suffering is what shapes and underpins my business, services and life. I work holistically, with a client centred approach and often work with those who have re-occurring or persistent emotional, spiritual or financial stress, or chronic health conditions, to bring relief and peace to their life and inner world.
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Verified Verified
North Adelaide, SA 5006
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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Klemzig, SA 5087 (Online Only)
I love supporting people from all walks of life through a holistic approach that emphasises trauma-informed care. As a relational therapist, I see each individual as a whole person, beyond their diagnosis, and work to create a safe therapeutic relationship. Together, we explore the areas you are struggling with as adaptive responses—the fight, flight, or freeze mechanisms developed in early life to cope with adversity. My focus on emotional well-being allows us to develop effective coping strategies tailored to your unique experiences.
I love supporting people from all walks of life through a holistic approach that emphasises trauma-informed care. As a relational therapist, I see each individual as a whole person, beyond their diagnosis, and work to create a safe therapeutic relationship. Together, we explore the areas you are struggling with as adaptive responses—the fight, flight, or freeze mechanisms developed in early life to cope with adversity. My focus on emotional well-being allows us to develop effective coping strategies tailored to your unique experiences.
Clients consult me due to experiencing a range of personal and interpersonal difficulties. Often clients contact me because they want to overcome anxiety, depression, and in particular, relationship issues. A group of clients also consult me about transexual challenges they are facing in day to day life.
Clients consult me due to experiencing a range of personal and interpersonal difficulties. Often clients contact me because they want to overcome anxiety, depression, and in particular, relationship issues. A group of clients also consult me about transexual challenges they are facing in day to day life.
Kushan Muhammad
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
Port Adelaide, SA 5015
Waitlist for new clients
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Codependency Counsellors
What therapy types help with codependency problems?
Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.
What happens in therapy for codependency?
Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.
How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?
Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.
What is the goal of therapy for codependency?
One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.