Gottman Method Counselling in Henley Beach, SA

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Neurospa Psychology
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Henley Beach, SA 5022
We work with children, adolescents and adults utilising evidence based therapies. Our practice focuses on the therapeutic relationship between the psychologist and the client to ensure the client grows beyond any life changes such as: Managing everyday anxieties and stressors, Life adjustments and transition, Grief and loss, Self-esteem issues, Isolation and loneliness, Lack of confidence & Emotional regulation. Monika strongly believes in providing a warm, comfortable and empathetic environment to support clients to create a meaningful and fulfilling life.
We work with children, adolescents and adults utilising evidence based therapies. Our practice focuses on the therapeutic relationship between the psychologist and the client to ensure the client grows beyond any life changes such as: Managing everyday anxieties and stressors, Life adjustments and transition, Grief and loss, Self-esteem issues, Isolation and loneliness, Lack of confidence & Emotional regulation. Monika strongly believes in providing a warm, comfortable and empathetic environment to support clients to create a meaningful and fulfilling life.
(08) 7008 9456 View (08) 7008 9456
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Diana Marcella
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Henley Beach, SA 5022
Hi! I'm Diana. I'm a registered Psychotherapist with over 20 years experience working in Private Practice. The reality of life is that it's filled with ups and downs. At times we can feel lost, stuck or overwhelmed. Relationships can be difficult to navigate. Marriages can go through periods of distress and disconnection. Or sometimes we cannot find a way out of our grief and loss. Trying to cope alone we often end up going around in circles. I'm passionate about providing a safe, non-judgemental and caring space for you to talk, work through, or resolve, whatever life situation you are experiencing.
Hi! I'm Diana. I'm a registered Psychotherapist with over 20 years experience working in Private Practice. The reality of life is that it's filled with ups and downs. At times we can feel lost, stuck or overwhelmed. Relationships can be difficult to navigate. Marriages can go through periods of distress and disconnection. Or sometimes we cannot find a way out of our grief and loss. Trying to cope alone we often end up going around in circles. I'm passionate about providing a safe, non-judgemental and caring space for you to talk, work through, or resolve, whatever life situation you are experiencing.
(08) 7078 8070 View (08) 7078 8070
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Laidley Poulton
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Henley Beach, SA 5022
Amalgamating my relevant professional and life experiences allows me to maintain therapeutic relationships with clients in a professional manner, particularly with regards to confidentiality. My counselling experience has allowed me the privilege of working with clients of all walks of life, from children to mature age. I have a great understanding of individuals who have experienced emotional and psychological hardships in their lives, my practice provides opportunities for clients to tell their stories without fear of judgement.
Amalgamating my relevant professional and life experiences allows me to maintain therapeutic relationships with clients in a professional manner, particularly with regards to confidentiality. My counselling experience has allowed me the privilege of working with clients of all walks of life, from children to mature age. I have a great understanding of individuals who have experienced emotional and psychological hardships in their lives, my practice provides opportunities for clients to tell their stories without fear of judgement.
(08) 7078 0897 View (08) 7078 0897
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Shelley Murphy
Psychotherapist, MA, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Henley Beach, SA 5022
I work with clients from all walks of life who have a burning desire for change. They want to release the past and step into the life which is no longer limited by the unhealed in their past. They might walk through my door with a range of issues ranging from anxiety , self esteem, relationship issues etc but their needs and wants are not much different. They are seeking a life which is of their choosing. They want a life which is of their making. They want a sense of control and connectedness with self and others. My clients are tired of repeating the same behavioural patterns and expecting a different outcome.
I work with clients from all walks of life who have a burning desire for change. They want to release the past and step into the life which is no longer limited by the unhealed in their past. They might walk through my door with a range of issues ranging from anxiety , self esteem, relationship issues etc but their needs and wants are not much different. They are seeking a life which is of their choosing. They want a life which is of their making. They want a sense of control and connectedness with self and others. My clients are tired of repeating the same behavioural patterns and expecting a different outcome.
(08) 7008 7179 View (08) 7008 7179
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Colleen Dibiamaka
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Henley Beach, SA 5022
I provide a relaxed, confidential space to explore what's creating distress, preventing you from feeling fulfilled or causing difficulties in life & relationships. We explore the impact of life experiences on you, your behaviours & perceptions, your community & your challenges. With this insight, you can then work out what you want in life & how you want to be, giving you choice. Using evidence-based neurobiological and emotion focused, experiential interventions we'll process what’s happening to you, explore your resources & strengths & develop further skills to manage your challenges.
I provide a relaxed, confidential space to explore what's creating distress, preventing you from feeling fulfilled or causing difficulties in life & relationships. We explore the impact of life experiences on you, your behaviours & perceptions, your community & your challenges. With this insight, you can then work out what you want in life & how you want to be, giving you choice. Using evidence-based neurobiological and emotion focused, experiential interventions we'll process what’s happening to you, explore your resources & strengths & develop further skills to manage your challenges.
(08) 7111 3938 View (08) 7111 3938

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Elizabeth Williamson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, AMHSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cheltenham, SA 5014
I am an experienced relationship therapist, trained in the Gottman Method, who understands the unique challenges of running a practice, small business or a family enterprise.
Successful relationships are the basis of our well-being and good mental health. When relationships are stressed and conflicts start to escalate, the pain can be overwhelming. You are so busy every day helping others that you may feel like you haven’t enough to give to anyone at the day’s end. When your focus at work is helping others, it can feel even more lonely and distressing to feel disconnected at home with your partner. If you're finding that the same problems, the same arguments, aches and disappointments are on repeat mode, it's time to reach out for help.
I am an experienced relationship therapist, trained in the Gottman Method, who understands the unique challenges of running a practice, small business or a family enterprise.
Successful relationships are the basis of our well-being and good mental health. When relationships are stressed and conflicts start to escalate, the pain can be overwhelming. You are so busy every day helping others that you may feel like you haven’t enough to give to anyone at the day’s end. When your focus at work is helping others, it can feel even more lonely and distressing to feel disconnected at home with your partner. If you're finding that the same problems, the same arguments, aches and disappointments are on repeat mode, it's time to reach out for help.
(08) 7079 4572 View (08) 7079 4572
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Kathryn Anne Fortuna
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Adelaide, SA 5000
Kathryn offers Relationship Support & is trained in the Gottman Method.
Working with The Anna Centre. Business Development Counsellor. EAP Specialist. Specialising in Relationship Counselling. Your relationship with yourself and others. This includes building strong communication, respect and intimacy. I also support Families, Individuals and Teens to explore their feelings, clear old patterns, ignite self-awareness, build resourcefulness and feel more purposeful. I offer support with relationship building, parenting, clarity of thoughts, addressing behaviours, thought patterns & issues like anxiety & stress.
Kathryn offers Relationship Support & is trained in the Gottman Method.
Working with The Anna Centre. Business Development Counsellor. EAP Specialist. Specialising in Relationship Counselling. Your relationship with yourself and others. This includes building strong communication, respect and intimacy. I also support Families, Individuals and Teens to explore their feelings, clear old patterns, ignite self-awareness, build resourcefulness and feel more purposeful. I offer support with relationship building, parenting, clarity of thoughts, addressing behaviours, thought patterns & issues like anxiety & stress.
(03) 4420 9660 View (03) 4420 9660
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True Counselling Relationship Counselling
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Hove, SA 5048
Thorough understanding of each couples’ particular circumstances is vital in successful couples therapy and I use Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Prepare/Enrich Marriage Counselling to ensure this occurs.
Kerry is an experienced and skilled counsellor who has been supporting couples of varied ages through general, more complex, and diverse issues. Kerry has worked in a range of sectors including not for profit organisations, schools and now in private practice and is registered with the Australian Counselling Association L2. Through her expertise she offers therapeutic services to guide and support couples to develop strategies and skills to build and understand your inner world as a couple. Working from a gentle, client-centred approach, she works collaboratively with each couple to ensure the best outcomes are reached.
Thorough understanding of each couples’ particular circumstances is vital in successful couples therapy and I use Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Prepare/Enrich Marriage Counselling to ensure this occurs.
Kerry is an experienced and skilled counsellor who has been supporting couples of varied ages through general, more complex, and diverse issues. Kerry has worked in a range of sectors including not for profit organisations, schools and now in private practice and is registered with the Australian Counselling Association L2. Through her expertise she offers therapeutic services to guide and support couples to develop strategies and skills to build and understand your inner world as a couple. Working from a gentle, client-centred approach, she works collaboratively with each couple to ensure the best outcomes are reached.
(08) 7228 0429 View (08) 7228 0429
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Areti Alexova
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Adelaide, SA 5000
If you and your partner are yearning for a deeper connection, understanding, and lasting harmony in your relationship, I can help. Skilled in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy and well versed in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples and individuals create fulfilling relationships with their primary partner as well as with family, friends and colleagues. Be equipped with tools to manage conflicts, resolve issues, and communicate with love and respect in your primary relations, and effectively with others in your life.
If you and your partner are yearning for a deeper connection, understanding, and lasting harmony in your relationship, I can help. Skilled in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy and well versed in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples and individuals create fulfilling relationships with their primary partner as well as with family, friends and colleagues. Be equipped with tools to manage conflicts, resolve issues, and communicate with love and respect in your primary relations, and effectively with others in your life.
(03) 5910 1113 View (03) 5910 1113
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Daniella Davidson
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Adelaide, SA 5000  (Online Only)
As a certified counsellor trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, I offer personalised coaching grounded in psychology and spirituality.
The ideal client for my services is someone who is seeking guidance and support in navigating various aspects of their personal relationships and love life. They may be experiencing challenges such as difficulty finding a compatible partner, struggling with communication or conflict resolution within their relationships, or feeling unsure about how to navigate family dynamics.
As a certified counsellor trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, I offer personalised coaching grounded in psychology and spirituality.
The ideal client for my services is someone who is seeking guidance and support in navigating various aspects of their personal relationships and love life. They may be experiencing challenges such as difficulty finding a compatible partner, struggling with communication or conflict resolution within their relationships, or feeling unsure about how to navigate family dynamics.
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Danka Fiedor Psychology Emdr Emdr 2.0 And Emdr Intensive Extended Sessions
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Adelaide, SA 5000
Danka Fiedor Psychology is offering integrated and customised to client needs therapy such as EMDR & EMDR 2.0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD/cPTSD, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, OCD, Adult ADHD, phobias and performance anxiety, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
Danka Fiedor Psychology is offering integrated and customised to client needs therapy such as EMDR & EMDR 2.0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD/cPTSD, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, OCD, Adult ADHD, phobias and performance anxiety, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
(02) 9100 0959 View (02) 9100 0959
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Michelle Ottey
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Adelaide, SA 5000  (Online Only)
I use a collaborative approach to treat a range of mental health conditions including depression, anxiety-related disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder, sleep disorders, trauma-related disorders, and many more. I am also here to support you through life’s challenges such grief and loss, relationship and marital problems, parenting challenges and living with the impact of chronic health conditions. With expertise in childhood trauma, I bring a strong attachment focus to therapy. I am committed to helping you better understand yourself and how you relate to others, to uncover the patterns that get in the way of your well-being.
I use a collaborative approach to treat a range of mental health conditions including depression, anxiety-related disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder, sleep disorders, trauma-related disorders, and many more. I am also here to support you through life’s challenges such grief and loss, relationship and marital problems, parenting challenges and living with the impact of chronic health conditions. With expertise in childhood trauma, I bring a strong attachment focus to therapy. I am committed to helping you better understand yourself and how you relate to others, to uncover the patterns that get in the way of your well-being.
(03) 8104 9534 View (03) 8104 9534
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Counselling and Wellbeing
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Adelaide, SA 5000  (Online Only)
Outwardly thriving but inwardly overwhelmed? As a successful woman, you've achieved much, yet anxiety, relationship challenges, and work stress are taking their toll. Add perimenopause or menopause, and it's a perfect storm. I'm Rebecca, a counsellor helping women find balance. Together, we'll tackle: • Anxiety and stress • Relationship issues • Career challenges • Life transitions, including hormonal changes Using proven methods, I'll help you reconnect with your confidence and joy. Let's align your inner world with your outer success. Ready to reclaim balance? Let's chat about your path forward.
Outwardly thriving but inwardly overwhelmed? As a successful woman, you've achieved much, yet anxiety, relationship challenges, and work stress are taking their toll. Add perimenopause or menopause, and it's a perfect storm. I'm Rebecca, a counsellor helping women find balance. Together, we'll tackle: • Anxiety and stress • Relationship issues • Career challenges • Life transitions, including hormonal changes Using proven methods, I'll help you reconnect with your confidence and joy. Let's align your inner world with your outer success. Ready to reclaim balance? Let's chat about your path forward.
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Clinton Power
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Adelaide, SA 5000
Can you relate to either of these statements? “I’m so over hurtful relationships. I’m starting to think I’ll be single forever” "We can’t keep fighting like this. If something doesn’t change we’re headed for a breakup” If you can relate to the pain of struggling in a relationship, you’re not alone. If you’re an individual in relationship pain, I can help you overcome your past relationship hurts, understand your blocks to intimacy, and help you create a successful long-term relationship. If you’re a couple, I can help you resolve long-standing issues and rebuild the loving, intimate and harmonious relationship you once had.
Can you relate to either of these statements? “I’m so over hurtful relationships. I’m starting to think I’ll be single forever” "We can’t keep fighting like this. If something doesn’t change we’re headed for a breakup” If you can relate to the pain of struggling in a relationship, you’re not alone. If you’re an individual in relationship pain, I can help you overcome your past relationship hurts, understand your blocks to intimacy, and help you create a successful long-term relationship. If you’re a couple, I can help you resolve long-standing issues and rebuild the loving, intimate and harmonious relationship you once had.
(02) 8188 3842 View (02) 8188 3842
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Sue Thomson
Counsellor, MC
Verified Verified
Brighton, SA 5048
I love listening to people of all ages with an empathetic ear, helping them to work through issues that life brings to us. My approach is non-judgemental, working collaboratively to navigate a path towards change, built on individual strengths and values, to develop a better future, one step at a time. I provide a safe space for you to work through your issues, encouraging you to explore your world, finding ways to move forward at your own pace, exploring a variety of modalities for strategies that may suit your situation, until you find the key you need. My counselling incorporates a holistic approach to counselling.
I love listening to people of all ages with an empathetic ear, helping them to work through issues that life brings to us. My approach is non-judgemental, working collaboratively to navigate a path towards change, built on individual strengths and values, to develop a better future, one step at a time. I provide a safe space for you to work through your issues, encouraging you to explore your world, finding ways to move forward at your own pace, exploring a variety of modalities for strategies that may suit your situation, until you find the key you need. My counselling incorporates a holistic approach to counselling.
(08) 7110 0205 View (08) 7110 0205
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Kathy Donaldson
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Adelaide, SA 5000
At times, we all feel lost, lack motivation and direction and feel stuck. Our minds sometimes feel foggy and can't seem to gain clarity about the future which is causing stress and overwhelm. While this is normal for us occasionally, it can steer us out of control the longer it is left untreated. We need to become self-aware of our thoughts, emotions and behaviours so that we can manage and control what is happening and take responsibility for wanting more...more control to manage our thoughts and fears...more strength and courage to be the person we want to be...happy and resilient. I have proven strategies and guidance for you.
At times, we all feel lost, lack motivation and direction and feel stuck. Our minds sometimes feel foggy and can't seem to gain clarity about the future which is causing stress and overwhelm. While this is normal for us occasionally, it can steer us out of control the longer it is left untreated. We need to become self-aware of our thoughts, emotions and behaviours so that we can manage and control what is happening and take responsibility for wanting more...more control to manage our thoughts and fears...more strength and courage to be the person we want to be...happy and resilient. I have proven strategies and guidance for you.
0416 280 401 View 0416 280 401
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White Lotus Counselling
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Adelaide, SA 5000  (Online Only)
My name is Aracely Duran and I work with clients that seek support for complex issues like trauma, anxiety, or family dynamics. They value a therapist who listens without judgment and offers practical strategies for coping and growth. Their goals include healing, improving relationships, and finding inner peace. They want to understand themselves better and navigate life's challenges with resilience. Ultimately, they seek a path to emotional well-being and a more fulfilling life, driven by a desire for personal growth and meaningful connections.
My name is Aracely Duran and I work with clients that seek support for complex issues like trauma, anxiety, or family dynamics. They value a therapist who listens without judgment and offers practical strategies for coping and growth. Their goals include healing, improving relationships, and finding inner peace. They want to understand themselves better and navigate life's challenges with resilience. Ultimately, they seek a path to emotional well-being and a more fulfilling life, driven by a desire for personal growth and meaningful connections.
(02) 9100 0440 View (02) 9100 0440
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Anne Sureyya Psychotherapist and Counsellor
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Beulah Park, SA 5067
To start, you can book an initial session where we'll discuss the changes you'd like to make in your life. As an individual, you may feel stuck or overwhelmed by life's challenges, but I'm here to support you. Together, we'll unravel the complexities and difficulties that come with life. My goal is to help you reconstruct your experiences and find meaning in them, allowing you to overcome any mental barriers and achieve a healthier and more fulfilling life.
To start, you can book an initial session where we'll discuss the changes you'd like to make in your life. As an individual, you may feel stuck or overwhelmed by life's challenges, but I'm here to support you. Together, we'll unravel the complexities and difficulties that come with life. My goal is to help you reconstruct your experiences and find meaning in them, allowing you to overcome any mental barriers and achieve a healthier and more fulfilling life.
(08) 7008 7605 View (08) 7008 7605
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Margot Trinder
Psychologist, MPsych, MAPS
Verified Verified
Adelaide, SA 5000  (Online Only)
I am a warm and experienced psychologist working with adults across the lifespan to address a broad range of issues. I bring deep respect and awareness to how each person's story, needs and circumstances are different. I draw from my decades of experience and professional training across a wide range of therapeutic modalities. My work is guided by a strong systemic approach: seeing all parts of a person, as well as the layers of relationships, family, work, culture and society that have and continue to influence and shape us. My approach ensures that each person I work with receives support tailored specifically for them.
I am a warm and experienced psychologist working with adults across the lifespan to address a broad range of issues. I bring deep respect and awareness to how each person's story, needs and circumstances are different. I draw from my decades of experience and professional training across a wide range of therapeutic modalities. My work is guided by a strong systemic approach: seeing all parts of a person, as well as the layers of relationships, family, work, culture and society that have and continue to influence and shape us. My approach ensures that each person I work with receives support tailored specifically for them.
(07) 5240 9828 View (07) 5240 9828
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Jack Tully
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Adelaide, SA 5000
Hi, I’m Jack. I am a psychotherapist, educator, father and long term partner and I came to this work through my own experiences with therapy. I have come to trust that both acceptance and change are possible in our lives. There are many reasons we may begin therapy; we may long for change or hope for opportunities for healing, growth and transformation. Whether there is a particular thing you are struggling with, a need for greater support, or an interest in deepening self-awareness, I can support you on your journey.
Hi, I’m Jack. I am a psychotherapist, educator, father and long term partner and I came to this work through my own experiences with therapy. I have come to trust that both acceptance and change are possible in our lives. There are many reasons we may begin therapy; we may long for change or hope for opportunities for healing, growth and transformation. Whether there is a particular thing you are struggling with, a need for greater support, or an interest in deepening self-awareness, I can support you on your journey.
(02) 5605 0976 View (02) 5605 0976
Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.