Gottman Method Counselling in Erskineville, NSW

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inner haven therapy
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Erskineville, NSW 2043  (Online Only)
As an empathetic and inclusive counsellor, I am committed to supporting individuals from diverse backgrounds on their unique journeys. With a focus on the queer/gay, BIPOC, Asian, and male communities, I offer a safe space where clients can explore the full spectrum of the human experience. My holistic approach addresses mental health, well-being, relationships, sexuality, identity, and confidence. Together, we'll navigate the complexities of life, fostering self-discovery and empowering personal growth. Let's embark on a transformative path towards healing, authenticity, and empowerment.
As an empathetic and inclusive counsellor, I am committed to supporting individuals from diverse backgrounds on their unique journeys. With a focus on the queer/gay, BIPOC, Asian, and male communities, I offer a safe space where clients can explore the full spectrum of the human experience. My holistic approach addresses mental health, well-being, relationships, sexuality, identity, and confidence. Together, we'll navigate the complexities of life, fostering self-discovery and empowering personal growth. Let's embark on a transformative path towards healing, authenticity, and empowerment.
(02) 9100 0511 View (02) 9100 0511
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Anthea Cottee
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Erskineville, NSW 2043
“I’d love to help you develop a supportive, kind and caring relationship with yourself, and secure and fulfilling relationships with others. Working with you to understand why you respond to the world like you do, what really matters to you, and supporting behaviour that back up your ambitions is my jam. We all face challenges in how we relate to ourselves and the world. I believe developing a sense of psychological safety and flexibility, and nurturing emotional intelligence and agility are key to recovering, striving and thriving in all parts of your life”
“I’d love to help you develop a supportive, kind and caring relationship with yourself, and secure and fulfilling relationships with others. Working with you to understand why you respond to the world like you do, what really matters to you, and supporting behaviour that back up your ambitions is my jam. We all face challenges in how we relate to ourselves and the world. I believe developing a sense of psychological safety and flexibility, and nurturing emotional intelligence and agility are key to recovering, striving and thriving in all parts of your life”
(02) 9100 0198 View (02) 9100 0198
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Couples Counselling Inner West Sydney
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Erskineville, NSW 2043
Hi, I'm Tamara Pallos and my area of expertise is relationship therapy. I work both with couples, wanting to resolve relationship difficulties, and with individuals looking to overcome blocks to having more fulfilling relationships. I can help with the full range of couple relationship problems, including conflict and communication issues, affairs or other breaches of trust, distance in the relationship, sexual difficulties, issues with in-laws, and parenting issues. I also support individuals to build thriving relationships through developing healthier patterns of relating.
Hi, I'm Tamara Pallos and my area of expertise is relationship therapy. I work both with couples, wanting to resolve relationship difficulties, and with individuals looking to overcome blocks to having more fulfilling relationships. I can help with the full range of couple relationship problems, including conflict and communication issues, affairs or other breaches of trust, distance in the relationship, sexual difficulties, issues with in-laws, and parenting issues. I also support individuals to build thriving relationships through developing healthier patterns of relating.
(02) 9100 0964 View (02) 9100 0964
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Saskia Kalwinek
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Erskineville, NSW 2043
I am a Sydney-based Psychosexual Therapist who is passionate about empowering people to explore, enjoy, and improve their sexual life, health, self-esteem, communication, and knowledge. I also, provide online sessions. I specialise in couples therapy, treating sexual dysfunctions but I also do general counselling, Art Therapy, IFS, and CBT. My clients have issues such as libido, orgasm issues; premature ejaculation; erectile dysfunction; painful sex; sex, porn, and masturbation addiction; issues with post-cancer intimacy. I'm also a Kundalini Awakening guide and do Past Life Regression Hypnosis, a type of energetic healing.
I am a Sydney-based Psychosexual Therapist who is passionate about empowering people to explore, enjoy, and improve their sexual life, health, self-esteem, communication, and knowledge. I also, provide online sessions. I specialise in couples therapy, treating sexual dysfunctions but I also do general counselling, Art Therapy, IFS, and CBT. My clients have issues such as libido, orgasm issues; premature ejaculation; erectile dysfunction; painful sex; sex, porn, and masturbation addiction; issues with post-cancer intimacy. I'm also a Kundalini Awakening guide and do Past Life Regression Hypnosis, a type of energetic healing.
(02) 8105 6142 View (02) 8105 6142
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Rhiannon Derrig
Psychotherapist, MSc, PACFA
Verified Verified
Erskineville, NSW 2043
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psychosexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psychosexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
(02) 9100 0199 View (02) 9100 0199
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Regine Yuen-Williams Counselling
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Erskineville, NSW 2043
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by negative emotions, reacted by losing your temper with a loved-one and then felt sorry, lost, & helpless? Unresolved problems or traumatic experiences can result in a wide range of physical, emotional & behavioural issues such as appetite, insomnia, stress, anxiety, depression, reaching for the booze or even domestic violence. Inevitably, these situations take a toll on you personally & on all your close relationships, leading to further negativity & additional problems, you just know that something is wrong & changes must be made. Behavioral/Emotional/Conflicts/issues don't occur overnight!
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by negative emotions, reacted by losing your temper with a loved-one and then felt sorry, lost, & helpless? Unresolved problems or traumatic experiences can result in a wide range of physical, emotional & behavioural issues such as appetite, insomnia, stress, anxiety, depression, reaching for the booze or even domestic violence. Inevitably, these situations take a toll on you personally & on all your close relationships, leading to further negativity & additional problems, you just know that something is wrong & changes must be made. Behavioral/Emotional/Conflicts/issues don't occur overnight!
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Safari Lee - Counsellor and Sex Therapist
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Erskineville, NSW 2043
Hello and welcome. Change, uncertainty and loss of control can affect us in many ways, and talking about it can help you understand what's happening in your life. I'm an experienced counsellor and sex therapist and offer online and in-person sessions. Some of the many issues I support people with include anxiety and loss of direction, managing sexual urges and addictions including online porn and substance use, changes in erections, understanding fetishes and kinks, and pain and fear of sex and intimacy. Together, we can identify the life you want, find ways to remove the obstacles, and plan a fulfilling way forward.
Hello and welcome. Change, uncertainty and loss of control can affect us in many ways, and talking about it can help you understand what's happening in your life. I'm an experienced counsellor and sex therapist and offer online and in-person sessions. Some of the many issues I support people with include anxiety and loss of direction, managing sexual urges and addictions including online porn and substance use, changes in erections, understanding fetishes and kinks, and pain and fear of sex and intimacy. Together, we can identify the life you want, find ways to remove the obstacles, and plan a fulfilling way forward.
(02) 9100 0930 View (02) 9100 0930

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Karen Gould
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Pyrmont, NSW 2009
Waitlist for new clients
Sessions may be based on CBT, Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy or Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
With a special interest in neurodiversity, I enjoy working with clients who see the world differently and would like to open up to new and authentic ways of thinking, feeling and acting. I work with adults, older adolescents and couples, and respect all sexualities, genders and relationship styles. I can help with self exploration, opening up to new perspectives, managing difficult emotions, broadening your comfort zone and connecting with what matters to you.
Sessions may be based on CBT, Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy or Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
With a special interest in neurodiversity, I enjoy working with clients who see the world differently and would like to open up to new and authentic ways of thinking, feeling and acting. I work with adults, older adolescents and couples, and respect all sexualities, genders and relationship styles. I can help with self exploration, opening up to new perspectives, managing difficult emotions, broadening your comfort zone and connecting with what matters to you.
(02) 9100 0727 View (02) 9100 0727
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Larissa Kirpichnikov
Psychologist, PsyBA - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
(02) 9100 0410 View (02) 9100 0410
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Margot Robinson
Psychotherapist, MA
Verified Verified
Alexandria, NSW 2015
I utilize an integrative approach incorporating elements of including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Person Centred Therapy, and Solution Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Relationship Therapy, Schema therapy, Emotionally focused therapy with an Interpersonal and Existential focus.
Hi there! I’m passionate about helping individuals build and sustain functional, healthy relationships – with themselves, partners, family and the world at large - while investigating meaning and identity in their lives. I work with a variety of clients including those navigating anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, life transitions and interpersonal struggles. Let's look to find opportunities for personal growth as we find our way through these challenges. There is a power in having a fellow traveller beside you on your way to getting to know yourself, and I would be honoured to accompany you for this journey.
I utilize an integrative approach incorporating elements of including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Person Centred Therapy, and Solution Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Relationship Therapy, Schema therapy, Emotionally focused therapy with an Interpersonal and Existential focus.
Hi there! I’m passionate about helping individuals build and sustain functional, healthy relationships – with themselves, partners, family and the world at large - while investigating meaning and identity in their lives. I work with a variety of clients including those navigating anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, life transitions and interpersonal struggles. Let's look to find opportunities for personal growth as we find our way through these challenges. There is a power in having a fellow traveller beside you on your way to getting to know yourself, and I would be honoured to accompany you for this journey.
(02) 9100 0656 View (02) 9100 0656
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Relationship-Talk: Dr Cory Middleton
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
(02) 9100 0542 View (02) 9100 0542
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Danka Fiedor Psychology Emdr Emdr 2.0 And Emdr Intensive Extended Sessions
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Danka Fiedor Psychology is offering integrated and customised to client needs therapy such as EMDR & EMDR 2.0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD/cPTSD, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, OCD, Adult ADHD, phobias and performance anxiety, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
Danka Fiedor Psychology is offering integrated and customised to client needs therapy such as EMDR & EMDR 2.0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD/cPTSD, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, OCD, Adult ADHD, phobias and performance anxiety, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
(02) 9100 0959 View (02) 9100 0959
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Dr Daria Kouznetsova
PsychD
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
She has advanced training in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, and has carried out Postgraduate-level research in health, physical activity, medical illness/disease, and behaviour change.
Dr Daria is an empathic, vibrant, warm and down to earth Certified Executive & Leadership Coach, Peak Performance Coach, Couples Therapist and former Clinical Psychologist who is dedicated to supporting her clients in reaching their goals. Daria is passionate about training high performance people in the development of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, assertive communication skills and authenticity. Her robust understanding and experience with clinical and corporate clients contributes to her strong desire to support her clients in achieving meaningful change, growth and personal development in any area of their lives.
She has advanced training in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, and has carried out Postgraduate-level research in health, physical activity, medical illness/disease, and behaviour change.
Dr Daria is an empathic, vibrant, warm and down to earth Certified Executive & Leadership Coach, Peak Performance Coach, Couples Therapist and former Clinical Psychologist who is dedicated to supporting her clients in reaching their goals. Daria is passionate about training high performance people in the development of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, assertive communication skills and authenticity. Her robust understanding and experience with clinical and corporate clients contributes to her strong desire to support her clients in achieving meaningful change, growth and personal development in any area of their lives.
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Jessica Ryan-Zeman
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
As a couples therapist I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy which is a structured, goal orientated and scientifically based approach that is particularly suitable for high conflict couples.
I specialise in working with couples and individuals that are experiencing relationship issues. As a couple your issues may relate to frequent conflicts, communication breakdowns, infidelity or issues around intimacy. Whatever you are wanting to work on as a couple to improve your relationship I can provide the understanding and the tools to address and overcome your challenges. I also work with individuals so if your partner is unwilling to come to therapy or if your own personal issues are significantly impacting your relationship by focusing on your own behaviours you can positively influence your relationship dynamics.
As a couples therapist I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy which is a structured, goal orientated and scientifically based approach that is particularly suitable for high conflict couples.
I specialise in working with couples and individuals that are experiencing relationship issues. As a couple your issues may relate to frequent conflicts, communication breakdowns, infidelity or issues around intimacy. Whatever you are wanting to work on as a couple to improve your relationship I can provide the understanding and the tools to address and overcome your challenges. I also work with individuals so if your partner is unwilling to come to therapy or if your own personal issues are significantly impacting your relationship by focusing on your own behaviours you can positively influence your relationship dynamics.
(02) 9100 0811 View (02) 9100 0811
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Alinda Small
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I am a highly qualified Relationship Counsellor with specialised training in the Gottman Method, Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT), and other effective modalities.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
I am a highly qualified Relationship Counsellor with specialised training in the Gottman Method, Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT), and other effective modalities.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
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Kelly Luisa Bagshaw
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L3
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Modalities I draw from include shadow work/parts work, attachment theory, polyvagal theory, Gottman Method and more.
I am passionate about guiding people to develop conscious awareness through personal growth & self development, understanding patterns of behaviour, self discovery & identity, navigating relationships, separation & divorce, understanding and recognising trauma/Trauma and building self worth. I can guide you to find clarity on your values, wants and needs, recognise signs of an unhealthy or toxic relationships, build confidence, develop assertiveness, establish boundaries and develop effective communication. I am devoted to supporting you to peel back the layers and get to know yourself more fully.
Modalities I draw from include shadow work/parts work, attachment theory, polyvagal theory, Gottman Method and more.
I am passionate about guiding people to develop conscious awareness through personal growth & self development, understanding patterns of behaviour, self discovery & identity, navigating relationships, separation & divorce, understanding and recognising trauma/Trauma and building self worth. I can guide you to find clarity on your values, wants and needs, recognise signs of an unhealthy or toxic relationships, build confidence, develop assertiveness, establish boundaries and develop effective communication. I am devoted to supporting you to peel back the layers and get to know yourself more fully.
(07) 3608 1765 View (07) 3608 1765
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Staghorn Sexology
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy, EFT and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy, EFT and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
(02) 4063 1410 View (02) 4063 1410
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Psychology Couple Family Therapy Australia-Sandip
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Surry Hills, NSW 2010
I have been trained in a range of therapeutic modalities including CBT, EMDR, Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Gottman Method, Emotion Focused Couple Therapy, Systemic Couple and Family Therapy.
I am the Founder of Psychology Couple & Family Therapy Australia. As a Registered Psychologist, Couple and Family Therapist I can assist people to manage anxiety, depression, PTSD symptoms, couple and family relationship difficulties. I work with adults, adolescents, children and provide individual, couple and family therapy sessions to people experiencing a wide range of mental health issues. I have Post Graduate Diploma of Psychology, Graduate Diploma of Family Therapy and Master of Arts (Couple & Family Therapy). I have specific interest in treating Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Complex PTSD, Couple and Family Relationship problems.
I have been trained in a range of therapeutic modalities including CBT, EMDR, Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Gottman Method, Emotion Focused Couple Therapy, Systemic Couple and Family Therapy.
I am the Founder of Psychology Couple & Family Therapy Australia. As a Registered Psychologist, Couple and Family Therapist I can assist people to manage anxiety, depression, PTSD symptoms, couple and family relationship difficulties. I work with adults, adolescents, children and provide individual, couple and family therapy sessions to people experiencing a wide range of mental health issues. I have Post Graduate Diploma of Psychology, Graduate Diploma of Family Therapy and Master of Arts (Couple & Family Therapy). I have specific interest in treating Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Complex PTSD, Couple and Family Relationship problems.
0411 601 833 View 0411 601 833
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Emma Walters
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Balmain East, NSW 2041
As a Registered Psychologist, Emma integrates a depth of understanding of mental health with a warm, friendly approach to her couples and individual clients. Emma works within several therapeutic modalities including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy which allow her to achieve meaningful outcomes whilst making clients feel safe and comfortable in the therapy space. Emma is trained in the highly reputable Gottman Method Couples Therapy and often uses approaches from the Gottman method in her couples’ work, with a focus on communication, emotion regulation, conflict management and rebuilding connection.
As a Registered Psychologist, Emma integrates a depth of understanding of mental health with a warm, friendly approach to her couples and individual clients. Emma works within several therapeutic modalities including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy which allow her to achieve meaningful outcomes whilst making clients feel safe and comfortable in the therapy space. Emma is trained in the highly reputable Gottman Method Couples Therapy and often uses approaches from the Gottman method in her couples’ work, with a focus on communication, emotion regulation, conflict management and rebuilding connection.
(02) 9100 0907 View (02) 9100 0907
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Dr Sharon Gold
Psychologist, PhD, MAPS
Verified Verified
Paddington, NSW 2021
As an EMDR Therapist and Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy trained psychologist, I am able to provide you with comprehensive assessments and an integrative, tailored treatment approach within a biopsychosocial framework drawing from evidence-based psychological therapies.
I work with individuals, first responders and couples with the help of my Animal Assistant Therapy dog, Max. We would love to help you live better in your life. Are you tired of feeling misunderstood and having conflict? Are you depressed, anxious and stressed by trauma and/or substance issues? Possibly drinking a bit too much? Or perhaps you are not sleeping because of nightmares or overthinking? Or you've been in therapy for long standing issues (eg childhood trauma) and progress is still not being made? Perhaps you have recently suffered a loss or going through a major life transition or chronic illness?
As an EMDR Therapist and Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy trained psychologist, I am able to provide you with comprehensive assessments and an integrative, tailored treatment approach within a biopsychosocial framework drawing from evidence-based psychological therapies.
I work with individuals, first responders and couples with the help of my Animal Assistant Therapy dog, Max. We would love to help you live better in your life. Are you tired of feeling misunderstood and having conflict? Are you depressed, anxious and stressed by trauma and/or substance issues? Possibly drinking a bit too much? Or perhaps you are not sleeping because of nightmares or overthinking? Or you've been in therapy for long standing issues (eg childhood trauma) and progress is still not being made? Perhaps you have recently suffered a loss or going through a major life transition or chronic illness?
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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.