Gottman Method Counselling in Sydney, NSW

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Relationship-Talk: Dr Cory Middleton
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
(02) 9100 0542 View (02) 9100 0542
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Jessica Ryan-Zeman
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
As a couples therapist I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy which is a structured, goal orientated and scientifically based approach that is particularly suitable for high conflict couples.
I specialise in working with couples and individuals that are experiencing relationship issues. As a couple your issues may relate to frequent conflicts, communication breakdowns, infidelity or issues around intimacy. Whatever you are wanting to work on as a couple to improve your relationship I can provide the understanding and the tools to address and overcome your challenges. I also work with individuals so if your partner is unwilling to come to therapy or if your own personal issues are significantly impacting your relationship by focusing on your own behaviours you can positively influence your relationship dynamics.
As a couples therapist I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy which is a structured, goal orientated and scientifically based approach that is particularly suitable for high conflict couples.
I specialise in working with couples and individuals that are experiencing relationship issues. As a couple your issues may relate to frequent conflicts, communication breakdowns, infidelity or issues around intimacy. Whatever you are wanting to work on as a couple to improve your relationship I can provide the understanding and the tools to address and overcome your challenges. I also work with individuals so if your partner is unwilling to come to therapy or if your own personal issues are significantly impacting your relationship by focusing on your own behaviours you can positively influence your relationship dynamics.
(02) 9100 0811 View (02) 9100 0811
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Alinda Small
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I am a highly qualified Relationship Counsellor with specialised training in the Gottman Method, Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT), and other effective modalities.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
I am a highly qualified Relationship Counsellor with specialised training in the Gottman Method, Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT), and other effective modalities.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
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Dr Daria Kouznetsova
PsychD
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
She has advanced training in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, and has carried out Postgraduate-level research in health, physical activity, medical illness/disease, and behaviour change.
Dr Daria is an empathic, vibrant, warm and down to earth Certified Executive & Leadership Coach, Peak Performance Coach, Couples Therapist and former Clinical Psychologist who is dedicated to supporting her clients in reaching their goals. Daria is passionate about training high performance people in the development of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, assertive communication skills and authenticity. Her robust understanding and experience with clinical and corporate clients contributes to her strong desire to support her clients in achieving meaningful change, growth and personal development in any area of their lives.
She has advanced training in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, and has carried out Postgraduate-level research in health, physical activity, medical illness/disease, and behaviour change.
Dr Daria is an empathic, vibrant, warm and down to earth Certified Executive & Leadership Coach, Peak Performance Coach, Couples Therapist and former Clinical Psychologist who is dedicated to supporting her clients in reaching their goals. Daria is passionate about training high performance people in the development of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, assertive communication skills and authenticity. Her robust understanding and experience with clinical and corporate clients contributes to her strong desire to support her clients in achieving meaningful change, growth and personal development in any area of their lives.
(02) 8294 8509 View (02) 8294 8509
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Danka Fiedor Psychology Emdr Emdr 2.0 And Emdr Intensive Extended Sessions
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Danka Fiedor Psychology is offering integrated and customised to client needs therapy such as EMDR & EMDR 2.0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD/cPTSD, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, OCD, Adult ADHD, phobias and performance anxiety, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
Danka Fiedor Psychology is offering integrated and customised to client needs therapy such as EMDR & EMDR 2.0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD/cPTSD, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, OCD, Adult ADHD, phobias and performance anxiety, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
(02) 9100 0959 View (02) 9100 0959
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Staghorn Sexology
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy, EFT and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy, EFT and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
(02) 4063 1410 View (02) 4063 1410
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Areti Alexova
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I specialise in helping individuals and couples thrive, drawing from the Gottman Method, ACT, and person-centered therapy.
My ideal clients are those seeking meaningful personal growth and improved relationships. They may face challenges in their personal lives, relationships, or work but are motivated to make positive changes. Whether working individually or as a couple, they value a supportive space to explore their feelings, develop new skills, and build resilience. They want to foster deeper connections and personal fulfilment through evidence-based approaches and empathetic guidance.
I specialise in helping individuals and couples thrive, drawing from the Gottman Method, ACT, and person-centered therapy.
My ideal clients are those seeking meaningful personal growth and improved relationships. They may face challenges in their personal lives, relationships, or work but are motivated to make positive changes. Whether working individually or as a couple, they value a supportive space to explore their feelings, develop new skills, and build resilience. They want to foster deeper connections and personal fulfilment through evidence-based approaches and empathetic guidance.
(03) 5910 1113 View (03) 5910 1113
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Psychology Couple Family Therapy Australia-Sandip
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I have been trained in a range of therapeutic modalities including CBT, EMDR, Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Gottman Method, Emotion Focused Couple Therapy, Systemic Couple and Family Therapy.
I am the Founder of Psychology Couple & Family Therapy Australia. As a Registered Psychologist, Couple and Family Therapist I can assist people to manage anxiety, depression, PTSD symptoms, couple and family relationship difficulties. I work with adults, adolescents, children and provide individual, couple and family therapy sessions to people experiencing a wide range of mental health issues. I have Post Graduate Diploma of Psychology, Graduate Diploma of Family Therapy and Master of Arts (Couple & Family Therapy). I have specific interest in treating Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Complex PTSD, Couple and Family Relationship problems.
I have been trained in a range of therapeutic modalities including CBT, EMDR, Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Gottman Method, Emotion Focused Couple Therapy, Systemic Couple and Family Therapy.
I am the Founder of Psychology Couple & Family Therapy Australia. As a Registered Psychologist, Couple and Family Therapist I can assist people to manage anxiety, depression, PTSD symptoms, couple and family relationship difficulties. I work with adults, adolescents, children and provide individual, couple and family therapy sessions to people experiencing a wide range of mental health issues. I have Post Graduate Diploma of Psychology, Graduate Diploma of Family Therapy and Master of Arts (Couple & Family Therapy). I have specific interest in treating Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Complex PTSD, Couple and Family Relationship problems.
0411 601 833 View 0411 601 833
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Kathryn Anne Fortuna
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
Kathryn offers Relationship Support & is trained in the Gottman Method.
Working with The Anna Centre. Business Development Counsellor. EAP Specialist. Specialising in Relationship Counselling. Your relationship with yourself and others. This includes building strong communication, respect and intimacy. I also support Families, Individuals and Teens to explore their feelings, clear old patterns, ignite self-awareness, build resourcefulness and feel more purposeful. I offer support with relationship building, parenting, clarity of thoughts, addressing behaviours, thought patterns & issues like anxiety & stress.
Kathryn offers Relationship Support & is trained in the Gottman Method.
Working with The Anna Centre. Business Development Counsellor. EAP Specialist. Specialising in Relationship Counselling. Your relationship with yourself and others. This includes building strong communication, respect and intimacy. I also support Families, Individuals and Teens to explore their feelings, clear old patterns, ignite self-awareness, build resourcefulness and feel more purposeful. I offer support with relationship building, parenting, clarity of thoughts, addressing behaviours, thought patterns & issues like anxiety & stress.
(03) 4420 9660 View (03) 4420 9660
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Kelly Luisa Bagshaw
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L3
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Modalities I draw from include shadow work/parts work, attachment theory, polyvagal theory, Gottman Method and more.
I am passionate about guiding people to develop conscious awareness through personal growth & self development, understanding patterns of behaviour, self discovery & identity, navigating relationships, separation & divorce, understanding and recognising trauma/Trauma and building self worth. I can guide you to find clarity on your values, wants and needs, recognise signs of an unhealthy or toxic relationships, build confidence, develop assertiveness, establish boundaries and develop effective communication. I am devoted to supporting you to peel back the layers and get to know yourself more fully.
Modalities I draw from include shadow work/parts work, attachment theory, polyvagal theory, Gottman Method and more.
I am passionate about guiding people to develop conscious awareness through personal growth & self development, understanding patterns of behaviour, self discovery & identity, navigating relationships, separation & divorce, understanding and recognising trauma/Trauma and building self worth. I can guide you to find clarity on your values, wants and needs, recognise signs of an unhealthy or toxic relationships, build confidence, develop assertiveness, establish boundaries and develop effective communication. I am devoted to supporting you to peel back the layers and get to know yourself more fully.
(07) 3608 1765 View (07) 3608 1765
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Larissa Kirpichnikov
Psychologist, PsyBA - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
(02) 9100 0410 View (02) 9100 0410
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Dr Sharon Gold
Psychologist, PhD, MAPS
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
As an EMDR Therapist and Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy trained psychologist, I am able to provide you with comprehensive assessments and an integrative, tailored treatment approach within a biopsychosocial framework drawing from evidence-based psychological therapies.
I work with individuals, first responders and couples with the help of my Animal Assistant Therapy dog, Max. We would love to help you live better in your life. Are you tired of feeling misunderstood and having conflict? Are you depressed, anxious and stressed by trauma and/or substance issues? Possibly drinking a bit too much? Or perhaps you are not sleeping because of nightmares or overthinking? Or you've been in therapy for long standing issues (eg childhood trauma) and progress is still not being made? Perhaps you have recently suffered a loss or going through a major life transition or chronic illness?
As an EMDR Therapist and Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy trained psychologist, I am able to provide you with comprehensive assessments and an integrative, tailored treatment approach within a biopsychosocial framework drawing from evidence-based psychological therapies.
I work with individuals, first responders and couples with the help of my Animal Assistant Therapy dog, Max. We would love to help you live better in your life. Are you tired of feeling misunderstood and having conflict? Are you depressed, anxious and stressed by trauma and/or substance issues? Possibly drinking a bit too much? Or perhaps you are not sleeping because of nightmares or overthinking? Or you've been in therapy for long standing issues (eg childhood trauma) and progress is still not being made? Perhaps you have recently suffered a loss or going through a major life transition or chronic illness?
(02) 4062 8754 View (02) 4062 8754
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Helen Qin Counselling (English, Mandarin)
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
My clinical counselling strategies include CBT, ACT, Solution-focused, Mindfulness, Strength-based, Interpersonal psychotherapy, Trauma-informed approach as well as Gottman Method for couple counselling/therapy and systemic family approach.
Hello, I am an registered Medicare provider, highly professional and compassionate bilingual psychotherapist/counsellor (English, Mandarin) and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with more than 10 years of clinical experience. I am also a professionally trained and qualified relationship/marriage counsellor (Dr. John Gottman method of couple counselling level 3 trained).
My clinical counselling strategies include CBT, ACT, Solution-focused, Mindfulness, Strength-based, Interpersonal psychotherapy, Trauma-informed approach as well as Gottman Method for couple counselling/therapy and systemic family approach.
Hello, I am an registered Medicare provider, highly professional and compassionate bilingual psychotherapist/counsellor (English, Mandarin) and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with more than 10 years of clinical experience. I am also a professionally trained and qualified relationship/marriage counsellor (Dr. John Gottman method of couple counselling level 3 trained).
(02) 9098 5155 View (02) 9098 5155
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David Roberts
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Hi, for the last 20 years I have been working with people who are experiencing challenges in their relationships. Conflict and communication problems often at the heart of these challenges. For many years I saw this when mediating with couples or parents who had decided to separate. Now through counselling I prefer to focus on the source of the problems before its too late. My particular motivation is to prevent conflict having a negative impact on children when they are involved.
Hi, for the last 20 years I have been working with people who are experiencing challenges in their relationships. Conflict and communication problems often at the heart of these challenges. For many years I saw this when mediating with couples or parents who had decided to separate. Now through counselling I prefer to focus on the source of the problems before its too late. My particular motivation is to prevent conflict having a negative impact on children when they are involved.
(02) 9100 0812 View (02) 9100 0812
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Dipak Jilka
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
There are times in our lives when we get that sinking feeling that something is not right. Such moments often follow major life events, such as grieving for a loved one, the break-up of a relationship, moving countries, facing health issues or even children leaving home and retirement. Other times, they appear from nowhere. Resulting feelings can be so pervasive that they impact our mental, emotional and physical well-being, creating conflict in relationships and impact our ability to function. They may also start manifesting in one’s seeking isolation, inability to see joy in life and can lead to depressive conditions.
There are times in our lives when we get that sinking feeling that something is not right. Such moments often follow major life events, such as grieving for a loved one, the break-up of a relationship, moving countries, facing health issues or even children leaving home and retirement. Other times, they appear from nowhere. Resulting feelings can be so pervasive that they impact our mental, emotional and physical well-being, creating conflict in relationships and impact our ability to function. They may also start manifesting in one’s seeking isolation, inability to see joy in life and can lead to depressive conditions.
(02) 9159 6091 View (02) 9159 6091
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Treat Your Psyche - Maria Bui
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
Life can be hard as it is, then it can feel like the universe throws you a curveball. Whether it be dealing with relationships, conflicts, life transitions, or figuring out who you want to be; therapy can be the first step to getting you in the right direction. I believe that there is no issue too small, they are all worth exploring. Taking the person-centered approach means I tap into where you're at and finding the right support for you. I work with you to highlight your strengths, build confidence and the autonomy to jump into the driver's seat, to make decisions about your life.
Life can be hard as it is, then it can feel like the universe throws you a curveball. Whether it be dealing with relationships, conflicts, life transitions, or figuring out who you want to be; therapy can be the first step to getting you in the right direction. I believe that there is no issue too small, they are all worth exploring. Taking the person-centered approach means I tap into where you're at and finding the right support for you. I work with you to highlight your strengths, build confidence and the autonomy to jump into the driver's seat, to make decisions about your life.
(02) 9100 0074 View (02) 9100 0074
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Amelie Nguyen
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
Concessions available now. Amelie is a qualified and highly accomplished Clinical Psychologist & Board Approved Supervisor, dedicated to helping you BE the change you wish to see in your life. Amelie works collaboratively with you to achieve your therapeutic goals and overcome the barriers that get in your way. Learn to improve your functioning and quality of life through emotion regulation skills, mindfulness, being more effective in your relationships with others, resolving conflict, using clear communication, problem solving, decision making, and better managing life stressors.
Concessions available now. Amelie is a qualified and highly accomplished Clinical Psychologist & Board Approved Supervisor, dedicated to helping you BE the change you wish to see in your life. Amelie works collaboratively with you to achieve your therapeutic goals and overcome the barriers that get in your way. Learn to improve your functioning and quality of life through emotion regulation skills, mindfulness, being more effective in your relationships with others, resolving conflict, using clear communication, problem solving, decision making, and better managing life stressors.
(02) 9100 0673 View (02) 9100 0673
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Russell Drinkwater
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Are you feeling unhappy about your relationship? Are you arguing about the same issues and unable to reach a solution? On average people wait 6 years before seeking help with a relationship problem. The longer a problem persists, the greater the resentment builds towards your partner. •Individual and/or couples counselling to help people manage conflict. •Training in communication skills. •Helping to re-build trust after an affair. •Helping individuals to cope with separation/divorce. •Helping clients who have anxiety, depression or stress. •Helping men who are struggling. •Bereavement counselling• Grief and loss counselling.
Are you feeling unhappy about your relationship? Are you arguing about the same issues and unable to reach a solution? On average people wait 6 years before seeking help with a relationship problem. The longer a problem persists, the greater the resentment builds towards your partner. •Individual and/or couples counselling to help people manage conflict. •Training in communication skills. •Helping to re-build trust after an affair. •Helping individuals to cope with separation/divorce. •Helping clients who have anxiety, depression or stress. •Helping men who are struggling. •Bereavement counselling• Grief and loss counselling.
(02) 9159 6027 View (02) 9159 6027
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Thinking Feeling Moving
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Email or WhatsApp for an appointment +447543800297 lisa(at)thinkingfeelingmoving.com I work remotely online. . I am a Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Counsellor, Yoga Teacher, Yoga Therapist, and Educator. Bespoke retreats available globally as your personal therapist.
Email or WhatsApp for an appointment +447543800297 lisa(at)thinkingfeelingmoving.com I work remotely online. . I am a Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Counsellor, Yoga Teacher, Yoga Therapist, and Educator. Bespoke retreats available globally as your personal therapist.
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Venn Health
Psychologist, MA, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Lisa is the principal psychologist at Venn Health, whose goal is to support clients through their individual challenges. Lisa aims to provide a warm, comfortable, and non-judgemental environment to foster a therapeutic partnership that works for you. Lisa is interested in working with a diverse range of clients, including adults and couples. She has an interest in working with people experiencing stress, anxiety, interpersonal and self-esteem difficulties, adjustment, workplace issues, depressed or low mood, adjustment, couples and relationship counselling.
Lisa is the principal psychologist at Venn Health, whose goal is to support clients through their individual challenges. Lisa aims to provide a warm, comfortable, and non-judgemental environment to foster a therapeutic partnership that works for you. Lisa is interested in working with a diverse range of clients, including adults and couples. She has an interest in working with people experiencing stress, anxiety, interpersonal and self-esteem difficulties, adjustment, workplace issues, depressed or low mood, adjustment, couples and relationship counselling.
(02) 9100 0885 View (02) 9100 0885

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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.