Gottman Method Counselling in Alexandria, NSW

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Margot Robinson
Psychotherapist, MA
Verified Verified
Alexandria, NSW 2015
I utilize an integrative approach incorporating elements of including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Person Centred Therapy, and Solution Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Relationship Therapy, Schema therapy, Emotionally focused therapy with an Interpersonal and Existential focus.
Hi there! I’m passionate about helping individuals build and sustain functional, healthy relationships – with themselves, partners, family and the world at large - while investigating meaning and identity in their lives. I work with a variety of clients including those navigating anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, life transitions and interpersonal struggles. Let's look to find opportunities for personal growth as we find our way through these challenges. There is a power in having a fellow traveller beside you on your way to getting to know yourself, and I would be honoured to accompany you for this journey.
I utilize an integrative approach incorporating elements of including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Person Centred Therapy, and Solution Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Relationship Therapy, Schema therapy, Emotionally focused therapy with an Interpersonal and Existential focus.
Hi there! I’m passionate about helping individuals build and sustain functional, healthy relationships – with themselves, partners, family and the world at large - while investigating meaning and identity in their lives. I work with a variety of clients including those navigating anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, life transitions and interpersonal struggles. Let's look to find opportunities for personal growth as we find our way through these challenges. There is a power in having a fellow traveller beside you on your way to getting to know yourself, and I would be honoured to accompany you for this journey.
(02) 9100 0656 View (02) 9100 0656
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Anthea Cottee
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alexandria, NSW 2015
“I’d love to help you develop a supportive, kind and caring relationship with yourself, and secure and fulfilling relationships with others. Working with you to understand why you respond to the world like you do, what really matters to you, and supporting behaviour that back up your ambitions is my jam. We all face challenges in how we relate to ourselves and the world. I believe developing a sense of psychological safety and flexibility, and nurturing emotional intelligence and agility are key to recovering, striving and thriving in all parts of your life”
“I’d love to help you develop a supportive, kind and caring relationship with yourself, and secure and fulfilling relationships with others. Working with you to understand why you respond to the world like you do, what really matters to you, and supporting behaviour that back up your ambitions is my jam. We all face challenges in how we relate to ourselves and the world. I believe developing a sense of psychological safety and flexibility, and nurturing emotional intelligence and agility are key to recovering, striving and thriving in all parts of your life”
(02) 9100 0198 View (02) 9100 0198
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Jaimee Krawitz
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Alexandria, NSW 2015
Jaimee is a passionate counsellor and certified eating disorder clinician with a high level of emotional intelligence that accelerates her connection with people. Jaimee has experience working with eating disorders and body image, anxiety and panic attacks, depression, adolescents mental health, personal issues, self esteem, self harm and suicide ideation, stress, procrastination and motivations, couples and family Counselling, trauma and post traumatic stress disorders, employment assistant programs (EAP).
Jaimee is a passionate counsellor and certified eating disorder clinician with a high level of emotional intelligence that accelerates her connection with people. Jaimee has experience working with eating disorders and body image, anxiety and panic attacks, depression, adolescents mental health, personal issues, self esteem, self harm and suicide ideation, stress, procrastination and motivations, couples and family Counselling, trauma and post traumatic stress disorders, employment assistant programs (EAP).
(02) 9100 0449 View (02) 9100 0449
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Aarthi Udayakumar
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Alexandria, NSW 2015
Aarthi is registered as a clinical counsellor with the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA). She brings over 10 years of experience working directly with clients from all walks of life. Aarthi has experience working with individuals and families experiencing concerns relating to couples, domestic and family violence, trauma, grief and loss, child welfare and wellbeing, as well as depression, anxiety and a variety of other mental health issues. She has experience using trauma informed, strengths-based and outcomes focussed practices. Aarthi is dedicated to providing a service that is person-centred.
Aarthi is registered as a clinical counsellor with the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA). She brings over 10 years of experience working directly with clients from all walks of life. Aarthi has experience working with individuals and families experiencing concerns relating to couples, domestic and family violence, trauma, grief and loss, child welfare and wellbeing, as well as depression, anxiety and a variety of other mental health issues. She has experience using trauma informed, strengths-based and outcomes focussed practices. Aarthi is dedicated to providing a service that is person-centred.
(02) 9100 0497 View (02) 9100 0497
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Regine Yuen-Williams Counselling
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Alexandria, NSW 2015
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by negative emotions, reacted by losing your temper with a loved-one and then felt sorry, lost, & helpless? Unresolved problems or traumatic experiences can result in a wide range of physical, emotional & behavioural issues such as appetite, insomnia, stress, anxiety, depression, reaching for the booze or even domestic violence. Inevitably, these situations take a toll on you personally & on all your close relationships, leading to further negativity & additional problems, you just know that something is wrong & changes must be made. Behavioral/Emotional/Conflicts/issues don't occur overnight!
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by negative emotions, reacted by losing your temper with a loved-one and then felt sorry, lost, & helpless? Unresolved problems or traumatic experiences can result in a wide range of physical, emotional & behavioural issues such as appetite, insomnia, stress, anxiety, depression, reaching for the booze or even domestic violence. Inevitably, these situations take a toll on you personally & on all your close relationships, leading to further negativity & additional problems, you just know that something is wrong & changes must be made. Behavioral/Emotional/Conflicts/issues don't occur overnight!
(02) 8806 0114 View (02) 8806 0114
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Elizabeth Chikako Crouch
Psychologist, MPsych, MAPS
Verified Verified
Alexandria, NSW 2015
Therapy can be a big step and decision and it is important that your therapist is someone you feel safe and supported by, that you are respected and so are your strengths and capacities. I work in a holistic and supportive way working with clients to heal, and achieve the outcomes that they choose. I have worked for a number of years with survivors of childhood sexual assault, adult sexual assault, intimate partner and other violence and also work with those who use violence.
Therapy can be a big step and decision and it is important that your therapist is someone you feel safe and supported by, that you are respected and so are your strengths and capacities. I work in a holistic and supportive way working with clients to heal, and achieve the outcomes that they choose. I have worked for a number of years with survivors of childhood sexual assault, adult sexual assault, intimate partner and other violence and also work with those who use violence.
(02) 8294 6092 View (02) 8294 6092
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Atia Burian Tani
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Alexandria, NSW 2015
I bring four decades of experience in mental health, art, design. I work with individuals, couples, and family members who seek to change their relationships with themselves and others. I aim to open possibilities to people who have little hope for change, struggle with depression, anxiety, and trauma symptoms, feeling overwhelmed and lost. This is often accompanied by counterproductive soothing behaviours such as substance use, addiction to gambling, gaming, sex, or screen use. Further, some clients may stay in relationships that deepen their belief that they cannot become the agents of their own lives.
I bring four decades of experience in mental health, art, design. I work with individuals, couples, and family members who seek to change their relationships with themselves and others. I aim to open possibilities to people who have little hope for change, struggle with depression, anxiety, and trauma symptoms, feeling overwhelmed and lost. This is often accompanied by counterproductive soothing behaviours such as substance use, addiction to gambling, gaming, sex, or screen use. Further, some clients may stay in relationships that deepen their belief that they cannot become the agents of their own lives.
(02) 6189 2979 View (02) 6189 2979
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Mind Connect Health
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Alexandria, NSW 2015
At Mind Connect Health, the aim is to holistically support individuals and their loved ones navigate through a range of complexities. A variety of factors lead us all to having a unique response to stress, and sometimes we need guidance managing our own responses to stress and to better resolve conflicts with others, or even to learn to better connect with those we care about.
At Mind Connect Health, the aim is to holistically support individuals and their loved ones navigate through a range of complexities. A variety of factors lead us all to having a unique response to stress, and sometimes we need guidance managing our own responses to stress and to better resolve conflicts with others, or even to learn to better connect with those we care about.
(02) 8000 1071 View (02) 8000 1071
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Alexandra Guhde
Psychologist, PsychD, PsyBA Endorsed
Verified Verified
Alexandria, NSW 2015  (Online Only)
Going to therapy takes guts. Often, it takes a person, or a couple, years to move from contemplating therapy to booking a first appointment. It’s not an easy process. But, what you get out of therapy is directly related to what you put into it. And I will match your dedication with mine. The process of healing and recovery is also one of becoming and realising. Therapy is self-development at its most satisfying. Yes, it takes courage, effort, and, often, a leap of faith. But, if you are ready to give yourself the gift of therapy, I am here to take that leap with you.
Going to therapy takes guts. Often, it takes a person, or a couple, years to move from contemplating therapy to booking a first appointment. It’s not an easy process. But, what you get out of therapy is directly related to what you put into it. And I will match your dedication with mine. The process of healing and recovery is also one of becoming and realising. Therapy is self-development at its most satisfying. Yes, it takes courage, effort, and, often, a leap of faith. But, if you are ready to give yourself the gift of therapy, I am here to take that leap with you.
(02) 5300 2824 View (02) 5300 2824

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Relationship-Talk: Dr Cory Middleton
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
(02) 9100 0542 View (02) 9100 0542
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Emma Walters
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Balmain East, NSW 2041
As a Registered Psychologist, Emma integrates a depth of understanding of mental health with a warm, friendly approach to her couples and individual clients. Emma works within several therapeutic modalities including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy which allow her to achieve meaningful outcomes whilst making clients feel safe and comfortable in the therapy space. Emma is trained in the highly reputable Gottman Method Couples Therapy and often uses approaches from the Gottman method in her couples’ work, with a focus on communication, emotion regulation, conflict management and rebuilding connection.
As a Registered Psychologist, Emma integrates a depth of understanding of mental health with a warm, friendly approach to her couples and individual clients. Emma works within several therapeutic modalities including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy which allow her to achieve meaningful outcomes whilst making clients feel safe and comfortable in the therapy space. Emma is trained in the highly reputable Gottman Method Couples Therapy and often uses approaches from the Gottman method in her couples’ work, with a focus on communication, emotion regulation, conflict management and rebuilding connection.
(02) 9100 0907 View (02) 9100 0907
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Dr Sharon Gold
Psychologist, PhD, MAPS
Verified Verified
Paddington, NSW 2021
As an EMDR Therapist and Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy trained psychologist, I am able to provide you with comprehensive assessments and an integrative, tailored treatment approach within a biopsychosocial framework drawing from evidence-based psychological therapies.
I work with individuals, first responders and couples with the help of my Animal Assistant Therapy dog, Max. We would love to help you live better in your life. Are you tired of feeling misunderstood and having conflict? Are you depressed, anxious and stressed by trauma and/or substance issues? Possibly drinking a bit too much? Or perhaps you are not sleeping because of nightmares or overthinking? Or you've been in therapy for long standing issues (eg childhood trauma) and progress is still not being made? Perhaps you have recently suffered a loss or going through a major life transition or chronic illness?
As an EMDR Therapist and Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy trained psychologist, I am able to provide you with comprehensive assessments and an integrative, tailored treatment approach within a biopsychosocial framework drawing from evidence-based psychological therapies.
I work with individuals, first responders and couples with the help of my Animal Assistant Therapy dog, Max. We would love to help you live better in your life. Are you tired of feeling misunderstood and having conflict? Are you depressed, anxious and stressed by trauma and/or substance issues? Possibly drinking a bit too much? Or perhaps you are not sleeping because of nightmares or overthinking? Or you've been in therapy for long standing issues (eg childhood trauma) and progress is still not being made? Perhaps you have recently suffered a loss or going through a major life transition or chronic illness?
(02) 4062 8754 View (02) 4062 8754
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Kathryn Anne Fortuna
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
Kathryn offers Relationship Support & is trained in the Gottman Method.
Working with The Anna Centre. Business Development Counsellor. EAP Specialist. Specialising in Relationship Counselling. Your relationship with yourself and others. This includes building strong communication, respect and intimacy. I also support Families, Individuals and Teens to explore their feelings, clear old patterns, ignite self-awareness, build resourcefulness and feel more purposeful. I offer support with relationship building, parenting, clarity of thoughts, addressing behaviours, thought patterns & issues like anxiety & stress.
Kathryn offers Relationship Support & is trained in the Gottman Method.
Working with The Anna Centre. Business Development Counsellor. EAP Specialist. Specialising in Relationship Counselling. Your relationship with yourself and others. This includes building strong communication, respect and intimacy. I also support Families, Individuals and Teens to explore their feelings, clear old patterns, ignite self-awareness, build resourcefulness and feel more purposeful. I offer support with relationship building, parenting, clarity of thoughts, addressing behaviours, thought patterns & issues like anxiety & stress.
(03) 4420 9660 View (03) 4420 9660
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Kelly Luisa Bagshaw
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L3
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Modalities I draw from include shadow work/parts work, attachment theory, polyvagal theory, Gottman Method and more.
I am passionate about guiding people to develop conscious awareness through personal growth & self development, understanding patterns of behaviour, self discovery & identity, navigating relationships, separation & divorce, understanding and recognising trauma/Trauma and building self worth. I can guide you to find clarity on your values, wants and needs, recognise signs of an unhealthy or toxic relationships, build confidence, develop assertiveness, establish boundaries and develop effective communication. I am devoted to supporting you to peel back the layers and get to know yourself more fully.
Modalities I draw from include shadow work/parts work, attachment theory, polyvagal theory, Gottman Method and more.
I am passionate about guiding people to develop conscious awareness through personal growth & self development, understanding patterns of behaviour, self discovery & identity, navigating relationships, separation & divorce, understanding and recognising trauma/Trauma and building self worth. I can guide you to find clarity on your values, wants and needs, recognise signs of an unhealthy or toxic relationships, build confidence, develop assertiveness, establish boundaries and develop effective communication. I am devoted to supporting you to peel back the layers and get to know yourself more fully.
(07) 3608 1765 View (07) 3608 1765
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Jessica Ryan-Zeman
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
As a couples therapist I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy which is a structured, goal orientated and scientifically based approach that is particularly suitable for high conflict couples.
I specialise in working with couples and individuals that are experiencing relationship issues. As a couple your issues may relate to frequent conflicts, communication breakdowns, infidelity or issues around intimacy. Whatever you are wanting to work on as a couple to improve your relationship I can provide the understanding and the tools to address and overcome your challenges. I also work with individuals so if your partner is unwilling to come to therapy or if your own personal issues are significantly impacting your relationship by focusing on your own behaviours you can positively influence your relationship dynamics.
As a couples therapist I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy which is a structured, goal orientated and scientifically based approach that is particularly suitable for high conflict couples.
I specialise in working with couples and individuals that are experiencing relationship issues. As a couple your issues may relate to frequent conflicts, communication breakdowns, infidelity or issues around intimacy. Whatever you are wanting to work on as a couple to improve your relationship I can provide the understanding and the tools to address and overcome your challenges. I also work with individuals so if your partner is unwilling to come to therapy or if your own personal issues are significantly impacting your relationship by focusing on your own behaviours you can positively influence your relationship dynamics.
(02) 9100 0811 View (02) 9100 0811
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Helen Qin Counselling (English, Mandarin)
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Surry Hills, NSW 2010
My clinical counselling strategies include CBT, ACT, Solution-focused, Mindfulness, Strength-based, Interpersonal psychotherapy, Trauma-informed approach as well as Gottman Method for couple counselling/therapy and systemic family approach.
Hello, I am an registered Medicare provider, highly professional and compassionate bilingual psychotherapist/counsellor (English, Mandarin) and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with more than 10 years of clinical experience. I am also a professionally trained and qualified relationship/marriage counsellor (Dr. John Gottman method of couple counselling level 3 trained).
My clinical counselling strategies include CBT, ACT, Solution-focused, Mindfulness, Strength-based, Interpersonal psychotherapy, Trauma-informed approach as well as Gottman Method for couple counselling/therapy and systemic family approach.
Hello, I am an registered Medicare provider, highly professional and compassionate bilingual psychotherapist/counsellor (English, Mandarin) and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with more than 10 years of clinical experience. I am also a professionally trained and qualified relationship/marriage counsellor (Dr. John Gottman method of couple counselling level 3 trained).
(02) 9098 5155 View (02) 9098 5155
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Areti Alexova
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I specialise in helping individuals and couples thrive, drawing from the Gottman Method, ACT, and person-centered therapy.
My ideal clients are those seeking meaningful personal growth and improved relationships. They may face challenges in their personal lives, relationships, or work but are motivated to make positive changes. Whether working individually or as a couple, they value a supportive space to explore their feelings, develop new skills, and build resilience. They want to foster deeper connections and personal fulfilment through evidence-based approaches and empathetic guidance.
I specialise in helping individuals and couples thrive, drawing from the Gottman Method, ACT, and person-centered therapy.
My ideal clients are those seeking meaningful personal growth and improved relationships. They may face challenges in their personal lives, relationships, or work but are motivated to make positive changes. Whether working individually or as a couple, they value a supportive space to explore their feelings, develop new skills, and build resilience. They want to foster deeper connections and personal fulfilment through evidence-based approaches and empathetic guidance.
(03) 5910 1113 View (03) 5910 1113
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Staghorn Sexology
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy, EFT and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy, EFT and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
(02) 4063 1410 View (02) 4063 1410
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Danka Fiedor
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Not Verified Not Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Danka Fiedor Psychology is offering integrated and customised to client needs therapy such as EMDR & EMDR 2.0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD/cPTSD, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, OCD, Adult ADHD, phobias and performance anxiety, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
Danka Fiedor Psychology is offering integrated and customised to client needs therapy such as EMDR & EMDR 2.0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD/cPTSD, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, OCD, Adult ADHD, phobias and performance anxiety, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
(02) 9100 0959 View (02) 9100 0959
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Alinda Small
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I am a highly qualified Relationship Counsellor with specialised training in the Gottman Method, Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT), and other effective modalities.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
I am a highly qualified Relationship Counsellor with specialised training in the Gottman Method, Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT), and other effective modalities.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.