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Unlock Your Luck to Benefit Your Effectiveness as a Leader

A 30-second evening ritual to boost your leadership mindset.

Key points

  • Celebrating your luck is one way to flip the script that keeps you from unprecedented achievement.
  • Spending just 30 seconds each night acknowledging what you’re lucky for improves your mood and mindset.
  • Incorporating a nightly "luck" practice into your routine is a simple yet powerful tool for business leaders.

Integrating a simple yet profound practice into your nightly routine can yield remarkable benefits, not just for personal well-being but also for your effectiveness as a leader. The practice? Keeping a luck diary and spending just 30 seconds before bed jotting down something that went your way today.

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Source: Krakenimages / Adobe Stock

The Science Behind Luck

The concept of luck isn’t merely a feel-good notion; it’s grounded in substantial research. Studies have shown that regularly practicing gratefulness for things that you have (i.e., luck) can enhance emotional well-being, improve interpersonal relationships, and even increase overall job satisfaction. For leaders, these outcomes translate into a more positive work environment, better team cohesion, and improved decision-making capabilities.

When you take a moment each night to reflect on what you’re lucky for, you’re engaging in a mental exercise that can shift your focus from stress and challenges to positive aspects of your life. This shift isn’t just fleeting; it has tangible effects on your cognitive and emotional state. Positive reflections activate brain regions associated with pleasure and reward, thus reducing levels of stress hormones and fostering a more resilient mindset—and, recalling some luck before bed just might make you sleep better, too!

The Practice

Incorporating this practice into your nightly routine is both simple and effective. Here’s how to get started:

  1. Choose your medium: Whether you prefer a classic notebook or a digital journal app, select a format that feels most convenient and comfortable for you. The key is consistency, so choose something that you’ll be likely to use every night.
  2. Set aside time: Dedicate approximately 30 seconds each evening to this exercise. You can do this before bed, during your winding-down routine, or even as part of your end-of-day reflection.
  3. Identify what you’re lucky for: Focus on specific positive events or accomplishments from the workday, no matter how small they may seem.
  4. Reflect on the positives: As you jot down these points, take a moment to genuinely feel the luck associated with them. This emotional engagement helps deepen the impact of the practice.

The Benefits

  • Enhanced resilience: Leaders are often faced with high-pressure situations and complex challenges. A regular luck practice helps build mental resilience by fostering a more balanced perspective. When you acknowledge and appreciate the positive elements in your life, you’re better equipped to handle setbacks and maintain a forward-focused attitude.
  • Better relationships: Luck can significantly enhance interpersonal interactions. By recognizing and appreciating the contributions that your team had to making things go your way, you cultivate a more positive and collaborative work environment. This practice also strengthens personal relationships, leading to a more supportive and connected network of colleagues and peers.
  • Advanced leadership effectiveness: Leaders who regularly acknowledge the luck in their lives are likely to exhibit greater emotional intelligence. This practice helps in maintaining a positive outlook, which influences your leadership style and decision-making process. A lucky mindset enables you to approach challenges with a clearer, more constructive attitude, ultimately benefiting your leadership effectiveness.
  • Increased job satisfaction: Recognizing and appreciating the fortunate aspects of your work can lead to higher levels of job satisfaction. This sense of fulfillment contributes to a more engaged and motivated leadership approach, which is reflected in the overall morale and productivity of your team.

Making It a Habit

To make this luck journaling a sustainable habit, consider integrating it with an existing routine. Perhaps pair it with your current bedtime practice or as a concluding activity before you shut down your workday. The key is to make it a regular part of your life, so it becomes an automatic and natural practice.

Additionally, you might find it helpful to revisit your luck entries periodically—it's especially important after suffering a setback. Reflecting on past entries can reinforce positive memories and remind you of the progress and growth you’ve experienced, further enhancing your sense of well-being and motivation.

To Sum

Incorporating a nightly luck practice into your routine is a simple yet powerful tool for business leaders. By spending just 30 seconds each night acknowledging what you’re lucky for, you can enhance your resilience, improve relationships, boost leadership effectiveness, and increase job satisfaction. This small investment of time can yield significant returns in your personal and professional life, ultimately contributing to a more balanced, fulfilling, and effective leadership journey.

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